Is Cruising dead in Tamilnadu?
Is Cruising dead in Tamilnadu??
Most of the old theatres playing B garde movies are renovated or either closed.Most of the free public toilets are converted to paid toilets no more dark spots or bushy areas.Is this the end of Cruising in Tamilnadu??
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Zain007 | Posted On Dec 5, 2023
Oh comeon. Not at all.
The information you gave regarding places being closed, is just for chennai and maybe other big cities, such as kovai, trichy or so.
You cannot say that there is no CRUISING in the ENTIRE STATE, just with this.
We are in a period where things are changing, and its upto us to bring out new places.
But you're point is kinda true wrt how people used to find fun.
Now there are lots of apps, so the new generation does not prefer cruising to find fun. Thats true. |
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Ohhnoo | Posted On Dec 5, 2023
@Zain007 What you said is correct.
Finding fun in dating apps is nothing compared to Cruising. The adrenaline rush what we find in cruising is amazing!! |
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30_well_mannerd | Posted On Dec 6, 2023
Ya.. In this last ten years.. Situations have turned upside down... These dating apps have totally ruined the adrenaline rush of cruising... I THINK EVERYTHING IS GONE FOREVER.
Now I will tell you the state of madurai maatuthaavani bus stand so will you will understand the scenario...
I am native of Trichy. I was studying my ug in Nagercoil. So those days (2008-2013) I used to travel a lot (after holidays so and so) in the route Trichy-Madurai-Kanyakumari. SO EVERY TIME I WILL CHANGE OVER TO KK buses at MADURAI MAATUTHAAVANI BUSSTAND ONLY. AND CERTAINLY EVERYTIME IT WILL HE MIDNIGHT ONLY.
You see.. Madurai maatuthaavani bus stand is a very major bus stand.. Buses from various regions of TN have to change over here to enter southern Tamilnadu. So literally it will be busy everytime even it is late midnight. So no problem that it will be less crowded.
Thing is.. It is a very large square shaped bus stand such that bus bays were in the middle and at every corner walls had FREE AND OPEN (NO PARTITION) LARGE URINE ROOMS FOR MEN... They will be distanced so long from bus bays where people get into buses.. And also they had very big walls such that none can get any idea what men do inside these ... Also all these rooms didn't have any latrine basins and neither ladies toilets so when really someone wants to use toilet they can't come here they had paid toilets near bus bays itself.
And these room used to be veryy dimmly lighted... Ppphhhhaaa no words to describe those days.. Those situations...
There used to be atleast 4 to 6 such free and open urinal spots in that bus stand..
At anytime in night (I have used somewhere between 11.30pm and midnight 1.30) u will see lot of, yes lot of men especially the young ones and very importantly those South Indian dark naatukattais waiting in those toilets with their tools hanging or standing erect outside their pant zips or folded dhotis... MOSTLY YOUNG DARK BULLS ONLY I REMEMBER... And since it is free and no one to monitor one can stand how long ever he wishes..
And in that dimmed or dark light where none other visit (those who genuinely wish to use wash rooms had toilets with basins close to bus bays itself) these young bulls used to enjoy like anything... Ppphhhhaaa those were the days ❤❤
Everytime I used to travel in midnight I used to get gratification by looking or holding those thick dark lengthy tools in my hand.. Thier dark musculine mustache used to be wow wow...
BUT WHAT HAPPENED AFTER SOME YEARS WAS HEARTBREAKING.. THESE TOILETS WERE ALSO CONVERTED INTO PAID... AND SOME MAN STARTED SITTING OUTSIDE THESE SPOTS TO GET MONEY.. THAT'S IT.. ONE HAS TO PAY 5 RUPEE AND COME OUT SOONER TO AVOID SUSPICION.. SO EVERYTHING WAS LOST GRADUALLY...
ONCE A WONDERFUL SPOT SOON WAS LOST TO THE WHOLE...
The other mode I remember was the cruising in last seats of midnight travel which I had from madurai to Nagercoil... Phhaa those were also very thrilling and wonderful.. Those thick lengthy dark s#@i with a red thick rubbery tip with hair around emanating that sweat + manly odour.. Thier mustaches and it's odour during lip lock (BUSES WILL BE VERY DARK AND NOTHING CAN BE SEEN WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENING IN THOSE LAST SEATS)...
I THINK WE HAVE LOST ALL OF THESE.......... I DON'T FIND RHE ACTUAL CRUISING FUN ANYWHERE...
Koyembedu toilet I saw some posts.. But that very odour is very disgusting.. And also those partitions (MADURAI MAATUTHAAVANI WASN'T THIS WAY.. IT WERE ONLY OPEN URINAL SPOTS... AND MOSTLY MEN DIDN'T ISE IT FOR UNLOADING THIER WASTES.. )
Local train posts here also not much matching to me..
And those sleeper bus journeys are literally waste waste waste...
Tambaram railway ground is hardly there but it is nothing compared to that madurai maatuthaavani cruising experience...
SO I THINK WE GRADUALLY LOST CRUISING SPOTS AND NONE WILL REVIVE IT ALSO |
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Softsmart22 | Posted On Dec 6, 2023
One thing this generation spend most of the time in smart phones and not even walking, somewhat laziness in going to cruising spots ? |
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hbkarthick | Posted On Dec 6, 2023
@30 well mannered : Appreciate the time you took to explain it..i have never visited any cruising spots when i started to do for the first time it was vijaya theatre 2 time,yet didnt see any actions then it was closed down.
Still being hesitant to visit other spots and im in trichy now heard lot of central bus stand yet still not ready to face that..Yet its really hot hearing about story simillar to these. |
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30_well_mannerd | Posted On Dec 6, 2023
@hbkarthick - thank you for the compliments..
Trichy central bus stand free public toilets are very poorly planned... Especially the one which is open now is worst.. Wall only upto level of neck + partition + heavily dirty...
But that one in the North corner which they are renovating.. I wish they renovate it properly with closed walls and no partition in between without any latrines.. Let it be free open urinal rooms only for men which earlier was so also.. Actually munadi light ah happenings irukum I guess... I didn't have guts to proceed there since it was also not completely walled and lights were bright (though entire area will be covered by empty buses)...
Waiting for the new renovated urinals to be opened soon...
No much idea about trichy spots... |
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lollipo_4u | Posted On Dec 7, 2023
I had an experience in Trichy Bus stand, one thing is not very clear to me.
I see lot of people trying to take a look at my tool during urniation, and many folks stand idle in the urniation, not sure all were Top/Bottom. Always wondered, if they can do it within themself while waiting long for someone new to come to urinal.
Any reason you guys know? |
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Inchennainow | Posted On Dec 12, 2023
I came to india after 6 years. Tried to go to all my regular cruising places (koyambedu bus stand, pondy bus stand, tirusulam railway station) and everything is dead now. So sad :(((( |
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