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Gays getting married to girls.


Submitted by Aarav_Pune Location: Pune (Maharashtra, India)

It is unfortunate seeing gay guys getting married to girls. Further they still continue to have *** with guys behind the wife. Isn't it cheating? So getting married just for the sake of society and can't give up gay life so continue to have sounds immoral. And they still want emotional relationship with guys too. Gays need to stand up for themselves, if everyone ends up getting married to girls , how is it gonna work? How does thier self conscience allow for them to have *** with guy and go home and cuddle ur kids without guilt? Please let me know your thoughts.

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rogerhover
Posted On Nov 29, 2022

There is nothing wrong in being gay and marrying a woman.
At least there is no cheating.
As long as he is not sleeping with other women

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mat40
Posted On Nov 29, 2022

I agree with Aarav, though everything is not one sided. I feel it's totally unfair for the girl. It's like society is being thought of without even considering what the girl must be going through. Communication & understanding is important. Either be vocal, brave about your life and spare the turmoil being faced by your soon-to-be who has no clue about your orientation. Nowadays there are families who are accepting of their kids' orientation ; however yes .... there are some who are finding it difficult to come to terms with it. This is actually a serious problem since both sides end up treading on broken glass.

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Ammygrammy
Posted On Dec 10, 2022

Totally disagree.. Thre is term in lgbtq... I think B means bisexual right?
Bisexual means havin interested in male and female both..
Thre is nothing wrong to getting married with girl and having *** with guy..
Bisexual are born due life.. And hugging your kid aftr hook up with guy is as wrong as having affair and doing *** with other woman..
So chill getting married with girl is his choice.. If you wanna marry guy go ahead will support you

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Aarav_Pune
Posted On Dec 19, 2022

Being bisexual why don't u then choose to marry with a girl and guy both?
You wanna marry a girl maintain a family but behind her information *** around with guys and roam shamelessly in society pretending to be straight.
Anyway you always be struggling between ur straight and gay life and u will never be sorted about what u actually want. But still you will give urself pseudo satisfaction that you have achieved everything and u r happy.

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mat40
Posted On Dec 19, 2022

@Aarav_Pune, exactly. People want to brush everything the carpet in fear of what society will think. There are bisexuals who are open about themselves ; they have an understanding about being in an open relationship. What is dreadfully wrong is being mum about it. There was one instance where the wife didn't know about her husband's whereabouts ( When in fact, he was hooking up with another guy ) He kept lying to her about being late at work and what not. So when she asked him about it, he slapped her. Now is that justified? Meaning you get married to a girl who doesn't have an inkling about your sexuality, you do whatever you feel to satisfy your impulses and abuse your wife just because she was genuinely concerned about your whereabouts. Imagine now, if the tables had turned, straight husband and wife who is bisexual. Imagine if he found out about her sexuality through someone else.

I had a conversation with a bi-guy, married, two kids. I asked him whether he ever got into trouble? Does he give time to his wife and kids? He said, it's tough... but he manages somehow. He doesn't allow his secret affairs to affect his married life. He doesn't want his wife and kids to suffer.

Also, there are "Throuples"
It is a relationship between three people who have totally agreed to be in a relationship together with the consent of all people involved. Now picture two guys and a girl. ( all bisexuals ) Even two girls and guy. If all of them have agree to work it out .. then who's stopping them? No one has the audacity to question their decision, their relationship, their lives....etc

Problem only arises when either one of the partners hasn't a clue about their secret love life. It'll be like .. why didn't you tell me about this in the first place? why get married .. make a fool of me and mistreat me as well.

Nowadays due to social media, dating apps, people do find a way around this debacle. Some people find a solution to it, some don't want to subject themselves to anything harsh or catastrophic.

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Aarav_Pune
Posted On Dec 19, 2022

Whats even funnier is such people posting pics on Instagram pre wedding photoshoot, wedding pics... 2 day to go 1 day to go
And pretending to be made for each other 😂😂😂.