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Hi All. Thanks for reading this message. I am trying to bring good topic here which helps everyone.

Please start sharing all your bad experiences to alert people. I am also one of them. Life is short. We have to keep everyone happy. Keep our self very safe. Please share your thoughts also.

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Cuti
Posted On Nov 26, 2022

I went to meet a guy, he had cam set up in room. When i tried to escaped and run, 3-4 guys came from adjacent room and tried to catching me. I started screaming for help and ran away from there's. This happened near hebbal.

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rajeev198171
Posted On Nov 26, 2022

Few months ago I was returned from my home town. I was walk-in near majestic and I got stopped by one transgender and started walking fast. She came to me asked money I said no. Finally she pulled my phone. Other tg came and they asked me to open phone pay I said no and shouted like anything and I got beaten by them heavily finally I opened it and they transferred around 25K and through the phone on my face and they left.

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29vers
Posted On Nov 26, 2022

Wen ever meeting anybody don't take atm and cash and valuabls

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rajeev198171
Posted On Nov 26, 2022

Yes. But our phone itself biggest problem. Sometimes technology makes life easy and also a problem right

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29vers
Posted On Nov 26, 2022

Yea. That's problem but we can use 2 phones. Wen u go to cruise spot go with normal phone with no phone pay google pay

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Matured_Bott *
Posted On Nov 27, 2022

@rajeev What time was it... Why did u enter ur pin... did u not retaliate...

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rajeev198171
Posted On Nov 28, 2022

It was around 11 pm and they are two of them and I am scared and not able to handle them. They hit me like anything

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Black_banger
Posted On Nov 30, 2022

I had to beat up a tg few years ago. It was before the covid. I used to cruise in my bike hunting bottoms and trannies that time. One day near hebbal i saw one tg standing near a hut i slowed my bike and she came to me. I asked her price she said 1k i said it's not gonna happen and started my bike but she pulled my key and said I'm not getting the key unless I pay . I was so angry i tried to get it forcefully so she starting to call others from other side of the road. So I had no other ways , punched her in the face with left hand then followed by a rib shot by right hand . Pulled the key and escaped before others came

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Its me da
Posted On Dec 5, 2022

one guy took me to remote area and demanded for money by showing knife. I thought he wont do anything and to scare me he is showing knife, but he cut my skin near my throt while i was fighting with him. by seeing my shirt full of blood and i scared and gave all money I had. but after begging he gave back my mobile . it was very bad experince. My god

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Black_banger
Posted On Dec 7, 2022

Guys be careful while cruising or going on a blind date . Its a dangerous place out there. What im suggesting is to carry a small poket knife with you might save your life. You can by key chain knives from flipkart and amazon. Never take your wallet with you. Put a few bucket in poket maybe 100, 150. Dont take atm cards . I prefer using a normal or secondary phone without net baking or upi. As a usual cuiser i have lot of experience. But since im a 6"2 , 100 kg well built man with a martial arts background i can clutch easily. Ive beaten road side thugs and criminals , obviously one on one. Escape before they team up .Or use anything as a weapon. Usually it was road side so i could escape with out any heavy *** action but all are not same. Some guys looks week especially bottoms or femboys could attacked easily so make a plan before ho out and carry something to save life and never carry valuables

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Asimas
Posted On Dec 7, 2022

I have met few times in Majestic had no problem I was also stopped I told I am not interested I am gay bottom took me to nearby places very dirty smelly but really enjoyed have met Same one few times no problem

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sunnybengalore
Posted On Dec 11, 2022

Becare full before Meeting through any application
First see face Through VC don't trust on pics ,same thing i happn to me last month i called one person through grinder whn he send the pic that time pic was good ,once he to my place i m not Abel to see him,he was trans ,he told me if u not give me 5k i will cme and sit ur place shout
Finely i given him 2K and send him that place

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Msgblrtdte
Posted On Dec 18, 2022

I was cheated in Ahmedabad, once I meet a random guy in road, he taken to a alone public place, his friend already hidden there, during our fun, suddenly his friend come and forcefully taken money from me.

Once in Bangalore near btm 1 St stage, 2 friend plotted same, one friend hidden and i met with other guy. In mean time his friend come. Any how i managed to escape.

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Abhijit Mehra
Posted On Dec 20, 2022

Recently had a bad experience. Chatted with a guy in Grindr...his pic showed his muscular hunky body and he was a muslim guy by name n said hes works in Canada and currently putup in ITC Gardenia, Bangalore..was tempted and we texted on whatsapp. He wanted me to meet him at his hotel post 8pm or he was ready to come my place, if i had...Next day when i said i can come his hotel...then suddenly he addressed me by my surname and said he knows about me and my work place...n said if i was not happy with didi... I was taken back and said *** off...n he replied...i show you what *** means...i blocked him on whatsapp, disabled by facebook and linked in...it was tense...happened last week on friday.

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diensh
Posted On Dec 25, 2022

Few days back when I search TG in majestic at 11.30 pm
One TG stopped me and I asked rate said 1.5k I asked 1000 she not accepted the u I said ok search some other I start the bike she said wait ok come with me give 1k I parked the bike and I followed she taken me to dark place and asked 1k I given then she open my zip and hold my *** then she suddenly calls other Tg 2 of them camed and I got scared already one tg holding my *** that three of them looking staring at me and and asking the money I said I am not having ok you have mobile right send it on gpay I said I am not having then one tg suddenly grabs my balls and started to squeeze it harder , now give the or else we will crush it like they said i am getting more pain and I said ok ok I will send then I sent 28k and begging to leave my balls after 2 mins only they leaves my balls....I am having pain till now

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Andyk23
Posted On Jan 2, 2023

Guys pls be very careful especially with TGs now days they have become violent. As mentioned earlier by other users pls do not carry valuables especially phones. Carry normal phone and do not over dress wen u go to meet them thats how thy trap u.

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Coolguy23 *
Posted On Jan 17, 2023

Totally agree, they are only going to steal or snatch cell phone or money...it happened twice with me and never tried to visit such places since last 3 years...total damage was more than 10k for me in two events without anything...

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White_Lotus
Posted On Jan 17, 2023

@AbhijeetMehra I had similar experience but I was able to handle the situation slightly better. What I realised is that stalkers take the mobile number and try to search it on Truecaller, Google and FB.

But with the advent of UPI, if you share your primary number on any platform anyone can just enter the number on PayTm or GPay or Phonepay kind of apps and immediately get your full name and then with the official name people can search you on LinkedIn and such.

As a result always keep a dual sim phone and never ever give your primary contact to anyone. Only give the secondary number so that no one can trace your official details from anywhere.

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Samkochi2023
Posted On Jan 25, 2023

The same happened with me good looking sexy shemale from Mg road took me to her hut like place in Indira nagar end , yaar she was talking so nice and all but after taking me inside there came another one and took me to a small place and asked me to strip as the other one was carrying a mobile I asked is she also joining and do I need to pay extra ! She took the bait and said yeah another 1000 I will also join I said ok let’s take the money and tried to go out to the car . One stopped me and the greedy one with mobile asked to escort me to the car . On reaching the car I unlocked with remote and on pretext of taking money from dash board I got inside through passenger dooor and closed the central lock . They came to me and blocked the way my I drive off from there crazily ! Bangalore shemales are very cunning ..

Mostly the ones who visit banglore from North Indian and Tamil Nadu

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Saikrishna
Posted On May 8, 2023

Not once but multiple times..
1. I was in my native place after lock down doing wfh.. in outskirts of my native, every evening I go to smoke with my Frnds and while returning back I observed one shemale on a evening. I said my friends have some work and after they left, I went to the shemale and asked.. she was soo *** hot and wearing camisole that I got tempted and agreed to pay 1k per shot. She said she wont accept huge cash hence asked me to do UPI & I did. Service went well but after a month, I received a call from one her friend who claimed that he is calling from police control room and a case has been booked on me for *** a shemale. The voice of that person was soo *** commanding that anyone in my place believes that he is real cop. I checked in Truecaller it mentioned KNL 2 town PS. My balls were shaking and I cut the call. Later after sometime around 9pm called back me again and abused very badly and said he is recording call to provide proofs in court and also threatened that I will be arrested tomorrow morning from my home. I went completely in the mode of committing suicide after listening that. I said I will give money or anything he wants but he rejected my offer so I believed that he is real cop as he is not accepting money. After playing with my life for an hour I reached the railway track to commit suicide and mentioned him that I am committing suicide now rather than being arrested from home. He said he wont give a *** mistake is mine so Ntg can be done. But he gave me a chance stating that since he wants proof, he asked me to go *** the shemale without a doubt and record and send it to him with me and shemale face visible fully. K somehow feeler fishy over here and I said him okay I will do it. I took courage and went straight to police station from where he is calling from around 11.30pm . I said everything to the inspector available..accepted the truth that I went to *** a shemale but I went to see how they look from inside and never going again. Initially he was angry but after seeing my situation and my eyes full of tears, he took the number and called the person and then he also realised that he is a fake person. They asked me to book a case, since 2days earlier one student committed suicide as this bastard called him in the similar way he did to me..but their parents written case as suicided due to study issues to save their pride.. I denied to file a case and asked him to punish those bastards seriously before anyone commits suicide. Till day, I only feel what if I went to the shemale thinking he was a real cop and sent him a *** video of me and shemale.. I would really had to suicide as he will definetely going to blackmail me with my video

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Saikrishna
Posted On May 8, 2023

2. Once I was driving from Hyderabad to Kurnool. Just before Kurnool there is toll plaza where I saw some shemales.. after my last experience I didn’t wanted to go but there was one which exactly looked like a girl.. I thought of paying them cash so that i wont leave any proof of me *** her.. again my assumption went wrong.. I parked my car long way in the service and came to them by walk. As I reached the place, there was one shemale who was very ugly and asked me 500rs. I denied as I didn’t liked her and I wanted to choose another.. man he said do I look like fool? Now that u asked me, you pay me even if you *** me or not.. I started running from the place but she followed me with a huge brick and said pay me 5k now or am gonna smash your car mirror.. I said I don’t have such money.. I can’t even run as she was standing just near bonnet having a brick in her hand aiming towards wind shield.. I said I only have cash of 500, gave her but while giving she opened the door fully and checked the entire car.. she got an envelope of car service receipt, she took it and asked me to pay her 5k by tomorrow or she gonna come to the location and do ruckus at my place.. since we shifted from the old home a long back and it was rented.. I didn’t felt any issue.. but I had to hide my car for some days in my friends apartment parking since they had my car number

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Saikrishna
Posted On May 8, 2023

3. Cheated in Bangalore.. went to the shemales after Hebbal towards YPR in ORR stretch.. this happened back in 2018 before Covid and those losers took hold of my phone and transferred 10k(my one month salary back then which was credited on the similar day). After all these incidents, I am never ever going to shemales… initially I used to give them 10bucks whenever I see them begging on roads.. but now, I feel irritated even if I see them from far away

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guysonline
Posted On May 26, 2023

If don't act sensefully, all cruising spots can turn out to be a bad experience.i had some at agara lake and one at silk board

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GuruAdarsh
Posted On Sep 22, 2023

I had a horrifying experience from a so called Rapido rider recently. He was fit guy. When I first took a ride, i felt his body. He didn’t object. Didn’t get more courage to do more. Eventually chatted in whatsapp a couple of times. Later one day he asked for some money as he was in urgent need. I didn’t respond. After few days, he texted asked to just meet once. I was in awe of his body. In temptation i met him. We went on a short ride. He wanted to park in a secluded spot. After a few mins of touching, he took out a spray can and *** sprayed on my face. It seemed like a pepper spray or something. Luckily, my stars were right that moment. It neither fell on my eyes nor on my nose. So i managed to *** escape without any damage. I can’t imagine what could have happened if it fell on my eyes or nose. Lesson learned that day. Never *** trust these people who take advantage of your lust. Those moments are still haunting me. Thank god!! Beware guys!!

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dehbtm38
Posted On Jan 6, 2024

One time i invited two guys in my hotel when i was travelling. They *** me nicely but after the *** they trying to blackmail me. One guy made video of me while i was getting ***. When he was using mobile while *** me i understood what he was doing so i hide my face all the time. Later when they showed me video like hey we got you on video. They didn't asked money directly but i understood what they meant. I knew video doesn't had my face clear so i asked him if they wants to share they can share video, if they want to make a scene in hotel they can make as no one knows me in hotel and video doesn't have my face clear. They were surprised that i didn't care anything. It was oyo hotel and i had seen couples entering so i don't think it would be big surprise for them if one of their customer was having fun with guys. I was far from my home so i didn't care if he would make some noises in hotel. They left surprised without making any scene. I didn't paid anything.

1. Better to take risk in areas far from home. 2. Better to do in hotels than in jungle or unknown areas. Cheaper hotels are better as creating scene over there would be not big deal. 3. Don't invite at hotel where you check in with friends or family. Keep your luggage and valuables in other hotel or locker and book 500-1000 rs cheap hotels who often cater to couples so customer having *** in the room will be not much big surprise. Every city i try to find hotels where transgenders stay and invite customers. This kind of hotels don't surprise when you go with strangers and have *** as they have seen it before. In delhi i found 1-2 cheap one and some other cities also i am always looking when i travel. 4. Have two phones as mentioned by many. One always without gpay etc. Don't carry any valuables / atm cards. Big cash or jewelry.

Remember all this cheaters wants money. If you don't have money they will have no choice to leave you. They also don't want to make *** etc drama all the time as they know what happens when police gets involved. They will be also questioned and you will have hotel staff etc that he entered at his own choice and showed id card. So most of the police will not believe in *** etc threats. Better to pay 5000-15000 to police than this cheaters.