Cheating, Frauds, Blackmail - How to be Safe

Hi All. Thanks for reading this message. I am trying to bring good topic here which helps everyone.

Please start sharing all your bad experiences to alert people. I am also one of them. Life is short. We have to keep everyone happy. Keep our self very safe. Please share your thoughts also.

Share details of any cheating experience in Bangalore.

Besides sharing happy and pleasant experience, let us share some experiences where one got cheated / looted. It will help others to be safe. Also share the details of the place where such cheating / theft / robbing things happen.

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No Picture ruggedreb	Posted On Nov 10, 2016 r you looking for spots to cheat people?
No Picture HeadsTailsAndHo	Posted On Nov 10, 2016 No, I am not looking for the cheating spots. It is like, like we all share good experiences, we can share our bad / cheating experiences also. And the places where one got cheated. So that others can be aware of the tricks and the places and hence can avoid those being safeguard of those.
No Picture ridrob	Posted On Nov 11, 2016 Mainly at massage ....ppl cheat, some times its scary , sometimes its anger
No Picture f_aholic	Posted On Nov 30, 2016 guys lets discuss what should we do incase if we are about to cheat or threatened.
No Picture Cuti	Posted On Nov 26, 2022 I went to meet a guy, he had cam set up in room. When i tried to escaped and run, 3-4 guys came from adjacent room and tried to catching me. I started screaming for help and ran away from there's. This happened near hebbal.
No Picture rajeev198171	Posted On Nov 26, 2022 Few months ago I was returned from my home town. I was walk-in near majestic and I got stopped by one transgender and started walking fast. She came to me asked money I said no. Finally she pulled my phone. Other tg came and they asked me to open phone pay I said no and shouted like anything and I got beaten by them heavily finally I opened it and they transferred around 25K and through the phone on my face and they left.
No Picture 29vers *	Posted On Nov 26, 2022 Wen ever meeting anybody don't take atm and cash and valuabls
No Picture rajeev198171	Posted On Nov 26, 2022 Yes. But our phone itself biggest problem. Sometimes technology makes life easy and also a problem right
No Picture 29vers *	Posted On Nov 26, 2022 Yea. That's problem but we can use 2 phones. Wen u go to cruise spot go with normal phone with no phone pay google pay
No Picture Matured_Bott	Posted On Nov 27, 2022 @rajeev What time was it... Why did u enter ur pin... did u not retaliate...
No Picture rajeev198171	Posted On Nov 28, 2022 It was around 11 pm and they are two of them and I am scared and not able to handle them. They hit me like anything
No Picture Black_banger	Posted On Nov 30, 2022 I had to beat up a tg few years ago. It was before the covid. I used to cruise in my bike hunting bottoms and trannies that time. One day near hebbal i saw one tg standing near a hut i slowed my bike and she came to me. I asked her price she said 1k i said it's not gonna happen and started my bike but she pulled my key and said I'm not getting the key unless I pay . I was so angry i tried to get it forcefully so she starting to call others from other side of the road. So I had no other ways , punched her in the face with left hand then followed by a rib shot by right hand . Pulled the key and escaped before others came
No Picture Its me da	Posted On Dec 5, 2022 one guy took me to remote area and demanded for money by showing knife. I thought he wont do anything and to scare me he is showing knife, but he cut my skin near my throt while i was fighting with him. by seeing my shirt full of blood and i scared and gave all money I had. but after begging he gave back my mobile . it was very bad experince. My god
No Picture Black_banger	Posted On Dec 7, 2022 Guys be careful while cruising or going on a blind date . Its a dangerous place out there. What im suggesting is to carry a small poket knife with you might save your life. You can by key chain knives from flipkart and amazon. Never take your wallet with you. Put a few bucket in poket maybe 100, 150. Dont take atm cards . I prefer using a normal or secondary phone without*** baking or upi. As a usual cuiser i have lot of experience. But since im a 6"2 , 100 kg well built man with a martial arts background i can clutch easily. Ive beaten road side thugs and criminals , obviously one on one. Escape before they team up .Or use anything as a weapon. Usually it was road side so i could escape with out any heavy *** action but all are not same. Some guys looks week especially bottoms or femboys could attacked easily so make a plan before ho out and carry something to save life and never carry valuables
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Dec 7, 2022 I have met few times in Majestic had no problem I was also stopped I told I am not interested I am gay bottom took me to nearby places very dirty smelly but really enjoyed have met Same one few times no problem
No Picture sunnybengalore	Posted On Dec 11, 2022 Becare full before Meeting through any application First see face Through VC don't trust on pics ,same thing i happn to me last month i called one person through grinder whn he send the pic that time pic was good ,once he to my place i m not Abel to see him,he was trans ,he told me if u not give me 5k i will cme and sit ur place shout Finely i given him 2K and send him that place
Msgblrtdte	Posted On Dec 18, 2022 I was cheated in Ahmedabad, once I meet a random guy in road, he taken to a alone public place, his friend already hidden there, during our fun, suddenly his friend come and forcefully taken money from me. Once in Bangalore near btm 1 St stage, 2 friend plotted same, one friend hidden and i met with other guy. In mean time his friend come. Any how i managed to escape.
No Picture Abhijit Mehra	Posted On Dec 20, 2022 Recently had a bad experience. Chatted with a guy in Grindr...his pic showed his muscular hunky body and he was a muslim guy by name n said hes works in Canada and currently putup in ITC Gardenia, Bangalore..was tempted and we texted on whatsapp. He wanted me to meet him at his hotel post 8pm or he was ready to come my place, if i had...Next day when i said i can come his hotel...then suddenly he addressed me by my surname and said he knows about me and my work place...n said if i was not happy with didi... I was taken back and said *** off...n he replied...i show you what *** means...i blocked him on whatsapp, disabled by facebook and linked in...it was tense...happened last week on friday.
No Picture diensh	Posted On Dec 25, 2022 Few days back when I search TG in majestic at 11.30 pm One TG stopped me and I asked rate said 1.5k I asked 1000 she not accepted the u I said ok search some other I start the bike she said wait ok come with me give 1k I parked the bike and I followed she taken me to dark place and asked 1k I given then she open my zip and hold my *** then she suddenly calls other Tg 2 of them camed and I got scared already one tg holding my *** that three of them looking staring at me and and asking the money I said I am not having ok you have mobile right send it on gpay I said I am not having then one tg suddenly grabs my balls and started to squeeze it harder , now give the or else we will crush it like they said i am getting more pain and I said ok ok I will send then I sent 28k and begging to leave my balls after 2 mins only they leaves my balls....I am having pain till now
No Picture Andyk23	Posted On Jan 2, 2023 Guys pls be very careful especially with TGs now days they have become violent. As mentioned earlier by other users pls do not carry valuables especially phones. Carry normal phone and do not over dress wen u go to meet them thats how thy trap u.
No Picture Coolguy23	Posted On Jan 17, 2023 Totally agree, they are only going to steal or snatch cell phone or money...it happened twice with me and never tried to visit such places since last 3 years...total damage was more than 10k for me in two events without anything...
No Picture White_Lotus	Posted On Jan 17, 2023 @AbhijeetMehra I had similar experience but I was able to handle the situation slightly better. What I realised is that stalkers take the mobile number and try to search it on Truecaller, Google and FB. But with the advent of UPI, if you share your primary number on any platform anyone can just enter the number on PayTm or GPay or Phonepay kind of apps and immediately get your full name and then with the official name people can search you on LinkedIn and such. As a result always keep a dual sim phone and never ever give your primary contact to anyone. Only give the secondary number so that no one can trace your official details from anywhere.
No Picture Samkochi2023	Posted On Jan 25, 2023 The same happened with me good looking sexy shemale from Mg road took me to her hut like place in Indira nagar end , yaar she was talking so nice and all but after taking me inside there came another one and took me to a small place and asked me to strip as the other one was carrying a mobile I asked is she also joining and do I need to pay extra ! She took the bait and said yeah another 1000 I will also join I said ok let’s take the money and tried to go out to the car . One stopped me and the greedy one with mobile asked to escort me to the car . On reaching the car I unlocked with remote and on pretext of taking money from dash board I got inside through passenger dooor and closed the central lock . They came to me and blocked the way my I drive off from there crazily ! Bangalore shemales are very cunning .. Mostly the ones who visit banglore from North Indian and Tamil Nadu
No Picture Saikrishna	Posted On May 8, 2023 Not once but multiple times.. 1. I was in my native place after lock down doing wfh.. in outskirts of my native, every evening I go to smoke with my Frnds and while returning back I observed one shemale on a evening. I said my friends have some work and after they left, I went to the shemale and asked.. she was soo *** hot and wearing camisole that I got tempted and agreed to pay 1k per shot. She said she wont accept huge cash hence asked me to do UPI & I did. Service went well but after a month, I received a call from one her friend who claimed that he is calling from police control room and a case has been booked on me for *** a shemale. The voice of that person was soo *** commanding that anyone in my place believes that he is real cop. I checked in Truecaller it mentioned KNL 2 town PS. My balls were shaking and I cut the call. Later after sometime around 9pm called back me again and abused very badly and said he is recording call to provide proofs in court and also threatened that I will be arrested tomorrow morning from my home. I went completely in the mode of committing suicide after listening that. I said I will give money or anything he wants but he rejected my offer so I believed that he is real cop as he is not accepting money. After playing with my life for an hour I reached the railway track to commit suicide and mentioned him that I am committing suicide now rather than being arrested from home. He said he wont give a *** mistake is mine so Ntg can be done. But he gave me a chance stating that since he wants proof, he asked me to go *** the shemale without a doubt and record and send it to him with me and shemale face visible fully. K somehow feeler fishy over here and I said him okay I will do it. I took courage and went straight to police station from where he is calling from around 11.30pm . I said everything to the inspector available..accepted the truth that I went to *** a shemale but I went to see how they look from inside and never going again. Initially he was angry but after seeing my situation and my eyes full of tears, he took the number and called the person and then he also realised that he is a fake person. They asked me to book a case, since 2days earlier one student committed suicide as this bastard called him in the similar way he did to me..but their parents written case as suicided due to study issues to save their pride.. I denied to file a case and asked him to punish those bastards seriously before anyone commits suicide. Till day, I only feel what if I went to the shemale thinking he was a real cop and sent him a *** video of me and shemale.. I would really had to suicide as he will definetely going to blackmail me with my video
No Picture Saikrishna	Posted On May 8, 2023 2. Once I was driving from Hyderabad to Kurnool. Just before Kurnool there is toll plaza where I saw some shemales.. after my last experience I didn’t wanted to go but there was one which exactly looked like a girl.. I thought of paying them cash so that i wont leave any proof of me *** her.. again my assumption went wrong.. I parked my car long way in the service and came to them by walk. As I reached the place, there was one shemale who was very ugly and asked me 500rs. I denied as I didn’t liked her and I wanted to choose another.. man he said do I look like fool? Now that u asked me, you pay me even if you *** me or not.. I started running from the place but she followed me with a huge brick and said pay me 5k now or am gonna smash your car mirror.. I said I don’t have such money.. I can’t even run as she was standing just near bonnet having a brick in her hand aiming towards wind shield.. I said I only have cash of 500, gave her but while giving she opened the door fully and checked the entire car.. she got an envelope of car service receipt, she took it and asked me to pay her 5k by tomorrow or she gonna come to the location and do ruckus at my place.. since we shifted from the old home a long back and it was rented.. I didn’t felt any issue.. but I had to hide my car for some days in my friends apartment parking since they had my car number
No Picture Saikrishna	Posted On May 8, 2023 3. Cheated in Bangalore.. went to the shemales after Hebbal towards YPR in ORR stretch.. this happened back in 2018 before Covid and those losers took hold of my phone and transferred 10k(my one month salary back then which was credited on the similar day). After all these incidents, I am never ever going to shemales… initially I used to give them 10bucks whenever I see them begging on roads.. but now, I feel irritated even if I see them from far away
No Picture guysonline	Posted On May 26, 2023 If don't act sensefully, all cruising spots can turn out to be a bad experience.i had some at agara lake and one at silk board
No Picture GuruAdarsh	Posted On Sep 22, 2023 I had a horrifying experience from a so called Rapido rider recently. He was fit guy. When I first took a ride, i felt his body. He didn’t object. Didn’t get more courage to do more. Eventually chatted in whatsapp a couple of times. Later one day he asked for some money as he was in urgent need. I didn’t respond. After few days, he texted asked to just meet once. I was in awe of his body. In temptation i met him. We went on a short ride. He wanted to park in a secluded spot. After a few mins of touching, he took out a spray can and *** sprayed on my face. It seemed like a pepper spray or something. Luckily, my stars were right that moment. It neither fell on my eyes nor on my nose. So i managed to *** escape without any damage. I can’t imagine what could have happened if it fell on my eyes or nose. Lesson learned that day. Never *** trust these people who take advantage of your lust. Those moments are still haunting me. Thank god!! Beware guys!!
No Picture dehbtm38	Posted On Jan 6, 2024 One time i invited two guys in my hotel when i was travelling. They *** me nicely but after the *** they trying to blackmail me. One guy made video of me while i was getting ***. When he was using mobile while *** me i understood what he was doing so i hide my face all the time. Later when they showed me video like hey we got you on video. They didn't asked money directly but i understood what they meant. I knew video doesn't had my face clear so i asked him if they wants to share they can share video, if they want to make a scene in hotel they can make as no one knows me in hotel and video doesn't have my face clear. They were surprised that i didn't care anything. It was oyo hotel and i had seen couples entering so i don't think it would be big surprise for them if one of their customer was having fun with guys. I was far from my home so i didn't care if he would make some noises in hotel. They left surprised without making any scene. I didn't paid anything. 1. Better to take risk in areas far from home. 2. Better to do in hotels than in jungle or unknown areas. Cheaper hotels are better as creating scene over there would be not big deal. 3. Don't invite at hotel where you check in with friends or family. Keep your luggage and valuables in other hotel or locker and book 500-1000 rs cheap hotels who often cater to couples so customer having *** in the room will be not much big surprise. Every city i try to find hotels where transgenders stay and invite customers. This kind of hotels don't surprise when you go with strangers and have *** as they have seen it before. In delhi i found 1-2 cheap one and some other cities also i am always looking when i travel. 4. Have two phones as mentioned by many. One always without gpay etc. Don't carry any valuables / atm cards. Big cash or jewelry. Remember all this cheaters wants money. If you don't have money they will have no choice to leave you. They also don't want to make *** etc drama all the time as they know what happens when police gets involved. They will be also questioned and you will have hotel staff etc that he entered at his own choice and showed id card. So most of the police will not believe in *** etc threats. Better to pay 5000-15000 to police than this cheaters.
No Picture wingedcupid	Posted On Sep 1, 2024 I think it is important not to be scared and seek out for help This happened today, I stayed in a 4 star hotel and invited a guy from grindr for massage. I escorted the guy into my room, he asked me undress, I wasn't completely naked and had worn my underwear when the massage was about to start. He asked to pay as he had fight with previous customer and didn't want to be cheated again. I paid the money in full via gpay. He did some dry stretches too hard, it was painful, I thought massage is going to start but that's when he said turn to front and he said similar pressing all over the body. Then he joined me along the bed and started licking my nipples. I told him that I didn't want to *** but he kept licking nipples hard and at one i cudnt control and came all over the sheets. That's when he stopped and went to clean up himself. I wrapped a towel around me and waited for him to leave. This is when things got nasty. He asked me to pay the balance, I said paid it in full, he said I got additional services and I had to pay 30,000. I was furious and started telling there is no way I will pay him that. He started raising his voice, i then said I will call the police. I called the hotel emergency number and told them there is a stranger in my room, I am in a emergency and asked them to help. This guy panicked and ran off. So many bouncers and hotel guys came rushing to my room ensuring my safety. I reassured them saying everything is fine. One of the whisky glass was broken in the room, I just told them I got hurt and hence asked for help. They may have thought I was drunk and left. This guy then whatsapped me to tell he took a video of me unbeknownst to me and he did share it, it was ten sec vid of me getting dressed after massage, i said I don't care, you do whatever you want to do with that video. He issued empty threat that he will see me when I get out of hotel.
No Picture wingedcupid	Posted On Sep 1, 2024 I can share the his name and location of you pvt message me to earn you, I also have his bank account details, so I m thinking of registering a complaint, if someone from gay NGOs here pls let me know, I tried seeking for help to no avail
No Picture VBot_31	Posted On Sep 1, 2024 bottoms in and around nagawara, veeranapalya and RT nagar area be careful of Muslim guys. I visited a friend today and he told me that he knows and friends with many bottoms from area who were called for date/hookup and were rapped, lotted and beaten up by Muslim guys. Also, I understand that sometimes when we are *** then we don't think much and look for a quick hookup. But please be careful. As there have been many incidents when the people were looted like this, even at their own place. So, always please go for trusted and known guys in terms of quickie and for others please take time to know person. If other person is able to give you their time and energy then that means he is little safer. Never go for immediate meet, rather spend time in knowing each other. Don't be blinded by your horniness, attraction or lust. Use judgement and guts to judge other person. Hope this helps out someone.
No Picture wingedcupid	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 Very TRUE, it was a Muslim guy who looted me, shame on him. He kept asking me personal details. I am worried so much about innocent guys who he is trying to loot, we got to do something to prevent this and make bangalore safe place. I want to say something, if you think with *** at times it's perfectly fine, I am not ashamed for being *** or thinking with ***, I will do so in future, how insensitive it is for anyone to say that?!!!! the cheaters and looters are the one to be stripped, exposed and in fact they shouldn't dare repeat such heinous crime. I thank providence for all right things I did, I could easily pay what he wanted but sternly refused. I see so many poor people working at 4 am in the markets in bangalore for peanuts, this piece of *** can't earn 30000 in ten min of rubbing!!! Think with *** or u think with grey cells, things can happen. Pls be aware of how to escape. There is NO SHAME in thinking with ***
No Picture Sahil01	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 That's not good dear all I think we need to be more carefully with strangers. . Genuine contacts from here we can form a good circle to meet-up in hotels . Dear all . Connect share to plan meet safe guys . I'm open for Oyo any one interested connect to meet
No Picture VBot_31	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 @wingedcupid I hope you read my comment properly. I didn't mention anywhere that you guys think from ***, I said We. So, it counts me as well in it. Moreover, i didn't shame anyone or intend to. Just the intention was to make every one cautious. No one tries to protect us. we have to protect each other. Hence, mentioned that. It's human to make misjudgement when we are ***. All of us have done it. Just reminding everyone to be cautious an keep this incident in mind as well. so, that next time they remember it before making decisions for quick hookup. Also, we all need to share such information more openly and make others aware. There are more chances of such rogue elements from younger crowd. Also, meanwhile we are discussing this, I also want to bring out one thing: There are many scams being run by younger guys on app now. They talk to you and want to go on a date. There they don't split the bill. Click the pics for their insta/stories and then ditch you. This has been running for long. So, request you to be careful with such people. If you have to take someone on a date, then take them to a normal place first. So, that you can know about other person. Unfortunately we all ahve to kiss our fair share of frogs. Just make sure that the frog you kiss isn't poisonous. Hope it makes sense.
No Picture wingedcupid	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 Hey VBot31, understood and thanks, my comment was generic , it's thru the guilt of shame the cheaters attack us, I wanted to let our guys know it's ok, someone vulnerable may find it helpful and reassuring! Bad apples are on the rise in the cosmo cities, we have to support one another, I am trying to see if I can create an offenders list with provision to add. These guys need to know they can be traced and we are watching them closely. That should deter the proliferation of such nasty parasites.
No Picture Guy27bi	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 @wingedcupid mentioned her own horrible experience, but there's a lot of cheating and blackmailing these days. Everyone will have these kind of experience in their journey but it's how you deal with it , that makes the difference. It's easier to say be confident and face those threats, but it's difficult when you are actually in that situation. Don't worry , you will be scared , but take a deep breath , muster all the confidence and courage you can , stand up to these guys . Call for help like @wingedcupid did, always meet in reputable hotels , never have fun in a public place , Don't bring strangers to your house. Take the police help if the situation becomes hard.You are doing nothing wrong if both are adults . I know OLDER men are the biggest targets to these guys, so please verify who you meet. Meet in public place first, talk , then go to your rooms.
No Picture MylifemyWish	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 Most folks in city are immigrants who are not with right job or even few with no job or place to live come over ...few greedy students with family or without stay here want to trap sugar dadies to live n enjoy luxury life ...few cry after frendship on family problems, mom.sick , no job , n fake around and trap if well to do sugar dadies can afford not many other middle class folks but sad many fake around them n loot in lakhs and due to which people loose trust in having new frends ...my sincere apology my comments are not to insult poor members but an alert to totally avoid money.give and take to avoid frauds to misuse us. Those cheaters will see consequences on there fate in future but trauma folks who get loss suffer is terrible as they suffer alone society, family or police no one help in crises
No Picture botwithplace	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 This was in the year 2016. I was going to Delhi for some official work. I saw a guy on Planet Romeo. Grindr wasn't a thing then. This guy put some three pictures on PR album. Looked like a Kashmiri guy. Very hot. A day before going to Delhi, I even talked to him on phone for confirmation. The guy on the other end spoke in good English. I told him the time and date on which he has to meet me at Hotel Radisson. The moment my flight landed at Delhi, I got a call from a guy speaking in Hindi saying that he has been waiting for me at the hotel for one hour. He seemed a little rude. I couldn't make out it was a different guy. On the way to the hotel, he has made another call to ensure that I was indeed on my way to the hotel. As soon as I entered the hotel reception area, a guy came and wished me saying that he was the guy. And this man was ugly, black and no way the one, whose pictures I saw on the PR profile. I told him that he is not the guy I saw on PR and wouldn't meet him. I went to the reception and collected my keys. Then this guy followed me and told me that he will create a scene and tell everyone about the thing if I don't give him the promised amount of Rs 5000. Further, he dialed up someone and asked me to speak. The guy on the other end showered choicest expletives on me, threatened me with dire consequences if I do not pay the amount. It was my first time and I got little panicky. I gave him the amount. Then this guy on the scene started following me to the room. He didn't go away despite my asking to do so. I didn't know how to handle that situation. He took advantage of my fear,
No Picture botwithplace	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 He took advantage of my fear, entered the room and demanded me to open my suitcase. Those were the days where we didn't have UPI based apps. Unfortunately, I had Rs 10,000 with me. I plainly told him that I will not give. He again dialed up another guy and gave the phone to me. That guy told me that a gang of 4-5 guys was ready to come and create a scene at the hotel if I do not give that money. So, I had to give that money as well. So, he fleeced around Rs 15000 from me and ran away. That was the first and last time I got cheated so badly. Those days, PR didn't have the concept of video call, the way Grindr has today. When I look back at that incident today, I feel I should not have been so terrified that day. I could have simply told him, "Do whatever you want, I'm not going to give you money". I was new to PR and gay world.
No Picture wingedcupid	Posted On Sep 2, 2024 It's a very hard read @botwithplace, so sorry you have gone through, you are right in the hindsight on resisting your fear and standing up. "Do whatever you want, I am calling emergency and police" is what I did, he also did similar dialing up crap but I was.possessed in anger and yelled a GET OUT. The guy said he is from Delhi and looked like one too. With prevalence of such incidents in Delhi, I am not surprised such criminals evolved a lot. This cancer needs to be stopped We need to stand together in exposing them, lot of afraid gay bros and sisters are sulking in fear. I have shared in detail to help them get courage. There r online options to report to cyber crime too. But do it depending on your situation n comfort.
No Picture Brockleanar *	Posted On Sep 3, 2024 Sorry to hear that out @botwithplace 😢😢 Please don’t leave that bastard, post his ID or number or any picture or go to hotel people, ask for CCTV recording of that idiot & post them through out the social media handles
No Picture nobodytobother0	Posted On Sep 3, 2024 One should be very careful, after chatting here n other platforms if u get the phone number first check that number on any UPI app , if that's a regular number u can see the real name n pic of the person If they are using a different phone n no details showing proceed with caution,try meeting in public place and if you are comfortable then only proceed otherwise leave that place immediately I have been lucky enough not to fall in wrong guy. But mostly here after nice chatting either the person will ghost out or never turn up for meeting Telegram google chat are options to chat or video call but nowadays with chatgpt the face n voice can be also changed Hence follow your instincts n proceed with caution