Any experiences wherein the sexual act was with feelings. Not necessarily long term relationships. Even One night stand but enjoyed with feelings and not just a mechanical ***. Any experience which as a top or even as a bottom wherein the *** was statisfying not just physically but mentally as well.
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Rahulmehra79 | Posted On Sep 4, 2022
I feel *** has to be with feelings - if you do not feel for your partner how will you be intimate - Most long term relationships will be with feelings but one-night stands is pure lust - it is just to satisfy your hormonal requirements - needless to say *** with feelings for your partner is definitely more satisfying |
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Crossyneedlove | Posted On Sep 4, 2022
That's true |
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Lingerie | Posted On Sep 6, 2022
As a bottom, I don't have a feeling of any love for a partner, as long as he has a nice,large, clean tool.....
No feelings, but just the lust of the 'Thing' entering me from whichever end . |
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Roxy1105 | Posted On Sep 8, 2022
*** is also known as making love, that has to be with feelings. No strings attached for sure but atleast have erotical *** otherwise it will be just name sake |
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Billybobb69 | Posted On Sep 8, 2022
*** with feelings is only possible if you are looking for long term relationship with a stable partner. *** can be very intimate, deep and meaningful if there is mutual care and respect for your partner. But if we are looking to hookup as much as possible then having feelings other than erotica during *** is not possible. |
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nicebutt_fly * | Posted On Sep 8, 2022
In my opinion *** is meaningful when there is intimacy. *** is not just physical but it is emotional and mental as well. Passion submission will satisfy both the partners. I think whether it’s long term relationship or one night stand it does not make any difference |
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mastikhor | Posted On Sep 8, 2022
In my view all sexual Act will start from feeling. whether it's short term, NSA otherwise each love session must be with feeling and mutual respect.
this multiplies the pleasure.
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Teen18_ | Posted On Sep 12, 2022
No. There are no feelings in gay ***. Because men just love ***. See all so called "dating" Sites or apps. No talk except ***. Even if you meet someone casually, discussion about *** has to be there. Relationships? Most of them are open relationships, if there are any. I don't think you remain attached for long time if you are hooking up with many people aside. Also relationships become pain in the *** in long term due to constant thought of partner might be cheating,which he does, most of the time due to easy hookups anywhere we go.. So yes, the gay life is all about ***. Deal with it. For feelings, marry a woman, if interested.
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sceath | Posted On Sep 13, 2022
*** can never truly be without meaning because there is always purpose and drive behind it .
*** is a highly emotional subject and experience,the desire to have *** with may come from a desire to connect with sum one on a deeper level.
Did I had ***-without-feelings?
Sure.
I had *** just for fun. However the *** act does elicit some feelings while in the moment. Not love but intimacy. Others may feel domination, submission, etc.. *** releases hormones and those hormones will give you some kind of emotion.
Even before hookup I Listen/Speak a lot to know the person |
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Roxy1105 | Posted On Sep 13, 2022
I prefer partner who can talk, hug, cuddle, kiss and then be intimate because that's how even *** has to be. Firstly, it should be with consent and willingly. Lot of them want to dominate and enjoy rough *** without consent of the partner. Erotic intimacy is best which is filled with feelings and passionate love. Bottoms with such preference please ping. |
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Vijay338 | Posted On Sep 16, 2022
Mostly in India, Emotionless *** everywhere.
Just feeling of tool makes us hot. Not required emotions. |
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Daniel100 | Posted On Sep 16, 2022
Never ever have *** with feelings...
Trust me you will go through a miserable time and even depression if things don't work out well... |
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Fattyboy | Posted On Sep 16, 2022
Looking for correct partner who creates feelings and i can do for him |
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mastikhor | Posted On Sep 16, 2022
Well I can't really *** anyone without affection and connect. would be happy to connect with bottom missing *** with feelings.
it's heavey experience. |
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mastikhor | Posted On Sep 16, 2022
heavenly experience |
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rajawadi_randi | Posted On Sep 16, 2022
I have literally *** and got *** with/by people and there were no feelings involved whatsoever, at least not from my side. I genuinely think of *** as just a bodily need and nothing else, like eating or sleeping. I even make it clear to anyone I have *** with, that I am here only for *** and nothing else. The maximum extent I can go to is friendship.
Feelings, for me, leads to attachment, and attachment without a future is just meaningless. This may sound pessimistic to some, but the realists here would agree with me when I say this. |
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Sissy17 | Posted On Sep 18, 2022
If there is no connection or any kinds of talks before getting into bed, I don't feel you get the feeling of pleasure, satisfaction . Your body should feel good..
It's always two ways.. One just can't except and in return doesn't even bother to know his partner likings.. Hence I feel a regular partner is always good |
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Matureandyoung | Posted On Sep 19, 2022
i am agree - *** with intimacy is more joyfull |
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kingofdesire56 | Posted On Sep 24, 2022
Is that even possible. I mean this is India here. People are so desperately ***, they just want to hurriedly finish and leave. Ain't no one got time for foreplay as well. Much less intimate time. They want everything to be done like 2-minute maggi noodles. I don't know if this is even anywhere a feasible option to get some intimate love. |
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fifty | Posted On Sep 25, 2022
To each his own ,Raju1987.
I need to like a person before I can be intimate with him.
For some, *** is in the brain / heart and not between their thighs. For them *** goes with feelings
No disrespect to others, who don't find the need. |
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savy_bottom | Posted On Sep 28, 2022
Yes, *** with feelings is definitely better than mechanical ***. But most top guys just like to humiliate and just wanna get their load out. |
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Alaix | Posted On Oct 15, 2022
I don't like to go for *** directly. Firstly you have to know each other like feeling, emotions. When both are comfortable thn go for it. Believe me it's great experience to get attached with someone and understood hes feelings. ☺️
Every one has different opinion some want for direct *** others want make connection first.
I believe in *** with fillings it's good for both.
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Guy27bi * | Posted On Mar 1, 2023
*** with feelings is a big ask these days, with all those stuck up fake bi straight guys just looking for holes.
Feelings and respect are a rare find.It's so heart breaking to hear so many bottom guys being treated so cheaply .Many guys just bang,*** and rush off.No kiss,no hug or not even giving a minute to ask if the other guy is ok or is he even satisfied.
I hope this practice changes and everyone is respected for who they are.
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Vampyere | Posted On Mar 1, 2023
Yup it's a big ask because bottoms should open up as well before intercourse that' he is not into nsa, if there's mutual feelings than only we can go for *** , you make yourself clear than you are not hurt otherwise cheapos will come just for fun and will leave |
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Akki_0995 | Posted On May 11, 2023
I found mostly mature men better ..
They love passionately n treat like real partner on bed |
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Akshay_M | Posted On Feb 27, 2024
Yes! S€x with feelings is an absolute pleasure but I have phobia of getting emotionally attached to anyone.
Around 2015 I met a guy on Grindr, he charmed me with his communication. And after going through a failed relationship he was the 1st person to whom I agreed to meet in person as he never said that he was looking for any kind of relationship. One fine day he invited me to his place. We initiated with a small talk, he offered me a glass of water following with juice. I noticed there were toys in a corner so I figured out that he was married but we never talked about it. After few mins he approached me to his bedroom, as we were heading towards the bedroom I told him that I would be more comfortable with the lights off but he prefers the lights on, his night lamps were too bright so he asked me if I wouldn't mind he would keep the door slightly open so that the bedroom wouldn't be too dark, I agreed on this middle way. We proceeded with the action and to my surprise he was too good in bed. He was totally passionate yet caring about the partner's comfort as a romantic husband. He was a perfect top with the skills like body playing, r*imming, s**king, f**king. I was really impressed with his skills and majorly I enjoyed the romance between us. His romantic factor never let me deny his further invites so we met a few more times whenever he had his place vacant and all the times he had the same passion, romance and care. Every time he used to offer me a piece of chocolate after the action.
As the time was passing by I noticed that I started falling into him which I didn't want to, because I was avoiding the relationships plus he was a married guy. I never expressed him the feelings I had for him as I didn't wanted to add any spark between us. In my defence I started giving excuses to him whenever he used to invite me and I guess he noticed that I was avoiding him. So over the time communication between us diminished.
He still asks me out sometimes over the blue moon but I excuse him, as I'm afraid of developing an emotional bond from my side.
And he was the last person with whom I had action with feelings, because sometimes you couldn't stop yourself from falling in love. After that I always preferred NSA fun. |
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