What is this called? Love/Affection/s** what?

Guys tell me what is this?

I have been in close, i can say very close bonding with one of my friend who is a superior in my work place.

1) I Share everything - u know what is everything mean? i will share how many times am doing s** with my wife etc. Even he does the same

2) We both speak each and every day once in morning and once in evening

3) We meet once in week

4) He is very responsible at his family and work and me as well. Work is work and our time is our time.

5) If no message in a day we both feel the same and start enquiring about each of us

6) We both are having children and we have our own responsbilities

But what is this coming in to my mind these days like am sleeping with him, no no dont confuse with S** i mean am lying on his chest and he is taking care of me like this.

Please tell me. what is this

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No Picture naanuneenu	Posted On Oct 22, 2021 Great.... Good company. I say it is Love ....... Don't spoil that
No Picture Ravi2103	Posted On Oct 22, 2021 From my opinion ur both are good friends sharing about ur feelings it's good may even as same feelings as u have about him it's just feelings if both or ok about ur feelings u both can move forward happily can live as long as ur good friends it's just feelings I don't think any other thoughts u both can take apart from this nothing is wrong. Even I hv got 1 good friend from this site only even we both chat about our wife's only taking na not moving forward na enjoy it .
No Picture naninaku	Posted On Oct 22, 2021 @Ravi2103, yes even i feel the same.But you know what iam in a position that if i dont speak for a single day i feel am lost. Even he has the same feeling but he never expressed. Ayway thanks guys for your time.
No Picture Jerene4u	Posted On Oct 22, 2021 Naninaku have you ever showed your *** to your friend?? Try it and maybe he will fall for you and then your relationship with him will be in another level.
No Picture naninaku	Posted On Oct 22, 2021 @jeree4u, no iam thinking this will spoil my relationship with him. You know sometimes, i even told him "love you" but he replies with a hug. Beyond that i never moved.
No Picture naninaku	Posted On Oct 22, 2021 @nanuneenu, yes. Its Love. Dont know where this goes. Am not sure if he is here. My love - If you are here and reading this, i dont even waste a second to come and wrap in ur hands and shoulder.
dragonon	Posted On Oct 22, 2021 let me finish my laugh first.....hahaha. lol take him as brother. else u r addicted him as ppl r addicted to smoke.
No Picture Ravi2103	Posted On Oct 23, 2021 Naninaku good morning thanks for your reply if u both or to close take him to cafe shop or if both have drinks habit then it will good for both you to talk openly I'm sure he will except you even he as same feelings but he can't express it u both go out n for cafe shop talk openly I'm sure it works all the best
No Picture Skyfall21	Posted On Oct 23, 2021 @naninaku, enjoy this special bond and take it forward respectfully, remember he is your office friend. Also sometimes it is good to keep things a bit grey, worst case if he does not like it so you will loose a very good friend ……not sure if you know Hindi but this goes well with your situation, “Humne dekhi hai un aankhon ki mehekti Khushboo, Haath se chooker ise rishton ka ilzaam na do, Sirf ehsas hai ye rooh se mahsoos karo, Pyaar ko pyaar hi rehne do koi naam na do”
Exploring	Posted On Oct 23, 2021 @naninaku, I have experienced the same with my colleague..we used to talk in office once during lunch time and again evening in sports room..used to go for walk..after going home everynight we used to speak in phone for around 30 min daily...if we don't speak for one night we used to feel like something is not right...This continued for 3 long years...After that he left to US for higher studies..i almost cried for month..its like I don't have anybody to talk.. he used to call daily from there but since the timing was different we were unable to talk for more time..slowly it changed from everyday to everyweek..then from week to monthly once or so on....we are good friends from 14 years almost..
No Picture ranju8899	Posted On Dec 19, 2021 Aprat from se*** He is treated as his Sol .. and why u have feelings like ,, it's an amezing bound between u both ... Congratulations have Sol like ur friend .. Continue .. the same ... Long life.
No Picture KumarOnBed4you	Posted On Aug 24, 2025 He loves me quietly, Always gazes at me, looks for me every single day at my window (every day and night before and after from work till late night!) Conveys messages through music or as if talking to someone on phone! Feels heavy when goes out of station, n couldn't control his emotions... Just staring/gazing at eachother! We never spoke! He is married... But still in love with me! Ironically, we both are men! We don't identify ourselves as gays, but we have that selfless, pure emotions connecting us every single day! We never spoke to eachother, don't even have eachothers number! Managed only to know his name! He is my neighbour... Just a wall parting us! I am badly deeply confused. But I still feel some pain in my heart the moment is see him too! Am I in love??? I am afraid. I can't afford to lose him, but again he is married n committed and I am single men. It's like hell if I don't hear his voice or see him atleast once in a day!
No Picture VersTopAndheri	Posted On Aug 31, 2025 It happen to me as well. Can't even guess what is his intentions. We were in same company, he liked my company, always teasing me and clicking my pics, don't even go for lunch without me, I started getting attracted to him but he was having 2-3 gfs also, he discusses with me everything that time even about girlfriends and breakups. He always wants me to check his status and stories on insta and whenever I don't see he comes and shows me. If I don't call then he calls asks what happened and all. Things got more when he started saying me that he has 6 inch *** and also his thickness too many times. Also once he said that one oldman once asked him about gifts to which he replied that I don't want anything.... He usually talks about gay stuffs with me like "me kal hukka pine gaya tha to waha andar gay party chalu thi" then he started asking me about my intrest as I am little effiminate... He gets jealous when I discuss about my other friends and my close ones. He always wants to know everything about me (whom I call, whom I talk, what I talk everything) We used to roam around hands in hands. He used to care about me and same I use to do. During lunch break whenever I used to take nap in 1st aid room he used to lay down beside me always. He always ticckle with middle finger whenever shakes hand. All of his actions exited me always and think that he is into me. He feels happy whenever I am around and smiles and also he always shows me middle finger playfully and brings his middle finger to my lips. He used to jockingly say that mume le to tera mu khulega ya fir nigro ka le to kachori bhi jayegi as my *** was not getting fully open due to vimal gutkha... I also noticed him seeing me whenever I am working and also clicks pictures of me without knowing me and talks about me(good) All the time with everyone. All in the company use to call us miya biwi jodi. He was not so handsome also compared to me (as per my gay friend whom I discussed) but for me he was the finest one also my friends say that tuje wo accha lagne laga he (gadhi pe dil aaya to pari kya cheez he). All was not ok as whenever he talks with his gfs I feel jealous and whenever he says that he is going for a date I feel like crying and sad. My mind never stops thinking of him and eyes always search him. One day I was over exited and that day me and he was only in office and I tried to kiss him on his lips but he started pushing me asking ki ye kya kar raha he, gud he kya tu, aisa mat kar yaar dosti kharaab hoo jayegi and all... I drag him to 1st aid room and went over him, he was opposing and also 2-3 times our lips were contacted but I noticed that he didn't wiped him lips as usually we do whenever we don't like someone... He started asking ki teko ladko me intrest he kya to bol mere friends he unko bolta hu... I was sad and those words was hurting me. I started ignoring him after that and once again after some months I tried to kiss him and stop him while he was going to date with his gf. But again he restricted and started ki tu gay he kya, pagal he kya, dosti kharab hoo jayegi, jagda hoo jayega and all... Later after few days I was not able to get him out from my mind and so I asked my manager and and went to another site. He used to eventually call me and ask what r u doing why not calling ... I then started avoiding his insta stories also but 1 day he suddenly sent me 1 pic (1 time see pic) on whats app to my surprise he went to date with his gf and clicked pic with only underwear on and cutting face he sent me pic... I don't know what could have his intentions. Also he came to meet me one day to my site and we went for a round and he started that mene ek or gf pata li and was asking about me and my life like what I am doing nowadays .... I later resigned that company and joined another company and started busy in my work and avoiding him completely and to some extent the attraction faded little like now I don't bother what he is doing and all ... He invited me to his wedding and I went also with my wife and kid.. he saw me and asked ki itna mota kaise hoo Gaya tu... He was so happy looking at my face... I was disappointed looking at him, I was feeling like I am loosing someone. Later 1 day he messaged me ki apna peth kam kar jockingly... Right now I am again in new company and I don't know what is destiny plan, to my surprise he is also working nearby me and we go to pray Friday prayer together and recall old good memories (not that kissing part and all).. he still enjoys my company but I really don't give him too much attention as earlier ... I am still in search for the truth that what was all that... What was his intentions?? Was he into men?? Then why didn't he did with me??? Why he played with my life?? Ek baar *** hoo jata to bhi accha lagta but muje to kuch nahi mila. And so I am sad always still I have feelings for him... Whenever I see him I feel like kissing smooching him and see him nude and play with his *** and *** him. Agar wo haa karta to wo jo bolta me uske liye tayyar tha.... Can anyone guess what could be his intentions or anyone with similar experience... What was the result??? Will I get him someday???