Getting old and getting fear more
Do you have any experience when we are getting old we are getting more fear to do something. When I was in 20's I can take decisions to meet strangers and all. Now I am more worried and scared to meet people who is having same fantasies. Reply/Post a comment
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kunal16 | Posted On Oct 12, 2021
same i also feel same what u r feeling |
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naanuneenu | Posted On Oct 12, 2021
Sociao-economical issues |
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rajeev198171 | Posted On Oct 13, 2021
May be you are right moreover due to media and latest smartphones there is no privacy and not comfortable at all |
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ToBeFreeinLyf | Posted On Oct 13, 2021
Definitely true. I'm exactly feeling that now. I can't meet people unless I trust them and it's very hard to get people talking from what I've experienced. So I rarely meet guys nowadays. |
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Dommaster24m | Posted On Oct 16, 2021
Ya I can understand the problem.it's the biggest obstacle for mature guys to go out and meet.
The fear of meeting strangers in strange places,the fear of getting recorded and blackmailed,or the disappointment of rejection due to the age etc
I have met many guys who have been through this horrible experience and have shut in their feelings .
But GUYS there r many good genuine guys who r looking for real meets,but you should be patient.
I know you guys are scared of being outed to ur family and society but some certain steps can be taken to avoid this.
BE PATIENT- this is much more important.don't rush into anything.take everything into consideration before meeting anyone.
MEET IN HOTELS- don't bring any guys u don't trust to ur home .always meet ur partners at some good reputed hotels to avoid any fake raids or other blackmailers
TRAVEL- if you r too scared,then expand ur location .take a vacation to urself OR take a business trip and meet GUYS from other cities,it's a better option which shields u from meeting people from same circles.
TALK WITH UR PARTNERS-always be honest and be completely open about your likes and fetishes.There's nothing wrong with being open about your likes ,it's makes it easier when u meet and avoids awkward things and things u don't like.
DON'T BE SCARED- never be scared in any situation.I know even though the law is on our side there's always the problem of exposure but sometimes being confident in those situations helps making those blackmailers back off.
SAFETY-always use safety not only condoms but also spend some on good hotels.Good hotel rooms r a plus always.
YOU R WORTH IT AND IT'S NOT WRONG-there's nothing wrong in following and exploring ur fem side.Many older mature guys have a fem side they wanna explore but they hesitate to move forward.Find guys that have the same likes and explore ur likes.Spend some money on urself ,there's nothing wrong in that.
YOUNG DOESN'T ALWAYS MEAN BETTER-- most of the mature guys need young hard *** or young tender *** but many r scammed through this like and idea.
These r the things I and my subs follow and they do work.
Remember always use safety and ENJOY
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wingedcupid | Posted On Oct 16, 2021
1. I was contacted by a hot sexy young guy and we swapped numbers, i was in hotel and asked him to meet up but he refused to come if it's hotel. His didn't understand English and only spoke in Kannada, however it was quite rough. I don't know what to make of him, perhaps he felt it's easier to blackmail in house than hotels?
2. I was messaged by a young guy telling upfront he charges money, from the pics he shared i kind of liked him even though he isn't that good looking. He turned out not so good, enjoyed *** with me and then got the money. I had shelled out as i commited it, he then asked me for his cab fare too, i did pay that. After that he called someone and started a verbal duel in Hindi and in the heat of the moment told him to come and face him in the hotel where he is with me now. I was horrified and then rushed him to leave. He was very hesitant but eventually left, i made sure he got into lift and went down. After that he messaged cpl of times asking for help and money. What a repulsive character he is, i wudnt even hate someone begging but this man is trying to milk money in the name of ***.
3. There was another breed of young guys - door step masseur! I booked one after he promised a lot and he seemed to know what he speaks, so i agreed. He had no clue of massage, he covered me with coconut oil and finished in a short time. I was spell bound but paid him and let him go, he then sent me his friends portfolio and trying to sell
4. Another one asked if i can regularly shell out money so he can enjoy girls or buy ***.
Do not for a moment think i am filthy rich, i toil hard day and night to earn but do not mind spending money to pamper me, but these greedy morons do no service but wants other money. Hope their karma catches them soon like how they want to make money!!! |
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Dommaster24m | Posted On Oct 16, 2021
@wingedcupid sorry to hear that.
But I'm glad to see u r continuing to explore even after these horrible experiences.
If there's any prob during a meet in hotel room then just leave,there's nothing u own there right?just pay upfront before and leave |
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decentbottom | Posted On Oct 16, 2021
It's not actually the fear, it's actually a feel like "do you really wanna pur your everything at the stake of just ***"....
To be honest, it's been quite few years I have stopped meeting people.
Reason being, although it's my opinion, I feel most of the guys now a days don't know what they are after.
Either they are just exploring, or just confused...
Men who don't have access to female, find it easy here to pick up a guy.
Where are we heading to?
And then the money mongers, fraudsters, cheaters... Godddd...
Now I feel being gay is just a disgrace...
I cherish those old days, when media was never so vibrant.
People had never lost senses. Atleast no nonsense 😂
Now with advances in technology, people seem to have lost Moral value. Few go out of they way, never worry even if they would be tagged criminals. All they want is just money...
Making money with out shedding sweat is what all are behind.
And the end.... definitely, you guessed it right.... disaster...
DISASTER.... |
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ToBeFreeinLyf | Posted On Oct 16, 2021
Quite right. I've been using Grindr, PR, even Tinder for years and it's next to impossible to find decent ones nowadays. It's as if the user base has changed and a certain new stream of users have descended on them. Most either want money or a hole (a pole in some cases). Very unsafe to meet people in such circumstances, I had been at the receiving end of some bad experiences in the past so I haven't met anyone in months too. |
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deepdesire69 | Posted On Oct 17, 2021
this is the best group where people are early warning others through messages of their experiences they had with these GAY domains. i too had too bitter experiences and would like to share with you all :
1. I met a guy after long chat in a hotel we booked and despite me a non-drinker, pure veggie and non-smokers he ordered many things and he had one round of drinks and food and we started to have romance and bed. just before he undressing me itself he discharged and feeling tired. i counseled him but he said he want to have smoke to refresh and went out of room...but he never ever came back and even his mobile was off.....lastly i paid the entire amount around 2,300.00 rupees and vacated the hotel
2. one guy from PR and me chatted for a long time again and we were supposed to meet at RT Nagar, near Shanthi Sagar hotel and he asked me to bring dresses of CD and i made ola and went and waited for him for more than 2 hours, but he never turned up...i returned home
3. one handsome guy from locanto whose photo was shown to me and me were supposed to meet at his home near banashankari and i went to his home for a meet and it was already in the night around 08.30 and i was damn alone. there in that house around 4-5 people [looks horrific] were drinking and dancing with drugs and drinks and the moment i went, they grabbed me and closed the door and all of them smooched me with their rotted ***.... but this guy in the photo was not there at all....there was no other go and i slowly asked them to leave me till i dress up as CD and will have group *** all together.....they were convinced and i went into their bedroom and sat for a while. then taking my belongings in other cover and keeping the bag i brought in their bedroom itself, telling them i have forgotten the lipstick and want to buy fresh flowers....i ran away from there....
yes as all of you are opined, it is truly very difficult to get genuine people as here all most all tops are homeless orphans, does not have place to romance, people are arrogant, selfish, photo-collectors, money-minded, time-wasters and just wanted to chat hot and on the other side they *** by our hot and sexy chat and photos and then retire !! please be cautious either u go to their home or u invite them to yours ! wish u all a happy hunting and have a sexy, intimate life. |
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Johnjack | Posted On Oct 17, 2021
All the stories are true, I had an experience where a guy from PR msged me as he wanted to *** me up and am a pure top and I like to get my *** and di ck *** and he came to my area and picked me up and then he had no place to take me through and went into some isolated place and he tried to *** my di ck and then lit a smoke and said he is more interested in ladies and so am I and then droped me off inbetween and gave 100 for auto to my house and I was so *** frustrated as I didn't habe money too but I just threw that money to him and cought an auto to my place n the meter was double as it was curfew time...just wanna let people know that if ur not really into dnt try and cheat ...even if u cheat it's fine but atleast respect your fellow people.. that's more important as everyone needs to be respected... |
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dingdong * | Posted On Oct 18, 2021
My view point is... that the fear is not due to age or getting older. Now a days too many fakes.. rather cheats around.
Few years back, never heard such worst and bad experience which people are undergoing .. As the technology grows, gives everyone a easy access of anything they want. And to be frank crowd in platforms like ohmojo, GR and PR got increased now. So it becomes easy for people who are into cheating. This is the main factor which is creating fear. Ofcourse, as age grows, responsibilities too grows... so with that when cheaters are playing their job.. it increases the fear.. |
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wingedcupid | Posted On Oct 18, 2021
When i was student, i had nothing much to lose. Now people see us as sugar mummy or daddy whateva that is |
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rajeev198171 | Posted On Oct 18, 2021
Thank you so much for all for sharing all your experiences. We have to be very careful. End of the day new technologies are killing our privacy and wishes. Its good sometime. But don't know meaningless life. Unable to explore the people who are having similar kind of thoughts. It is very difficult to believe others. |
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Dommastertop24m | Posted On Oct 19, 2021
Wow so many experience here...But sad to hear some bad experiences of some people. But I'm glad to see that you guys are still on search for genuine guys even after those experiences.
Just be open about your likes and try to open discussion forums about your likes here so we can meet like minded guys.
BE SAFE AND PLAY SAFE |
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Monsterck | Posted On Nov 16, 2021
I meet with a 50+ age a frnd he is very nice anf loving he give me very nice blowjob and drink my ***
That very nice expirnce with him now i miss that time bcz after corona we not meet again |
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versbott000 | Posted On Nov 21, 2021
Yes . In my 20s j used yo cruise around a lot and get many guys with the wink of an eye. This was in gulf.
After 26 i returned back to India & I think I matured more with age through all kinds of life experiences . I rarely met guys cos i lived wiyh family, & tbh I wasn't much turned on by most.
Now I live alone here..I'm way hotter now than I was in my 20s but I'm looking for more mature stuff than a wink & *** :)
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Dombot26 | Posted On Jan 22, 2022
A bit of fear is good in choosing a guy to meet ,but don't let that fear keep you from meeting anyone ever.
Take some precautionary steps and you'll be ok .
Just think with your brain while deciding .
I have met many older mature guys and yes most of them are a bit hesistant to meet becoz of anonymity but once you take a step in forward direction ,then it becomes easy. |
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