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Submitted by hbkarthick Location: Chennai (Tamil Nadu, India)

Hey everyone.. some of you here may be looking to make new friends.. what type of friends are you looking for ??,

In my case I'm not here for hook-ups I'm looking for friends to meet and chat things that can't be shared with other friends around me, would like to catch up for short drives, sharing ones fantasy and if goes well between us we could step up the game...texting is not as good as having conversations face to face.

If you are also looking for that one friend, post here.

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Sk12345
Posted On Apr 24, 2021

@hbkarthick..nice thread.. i have been searching for such a person for quite some time but no luck. At first they say yes we can be friends and chat but when I meet them they straight away get to the *** part and once done they leave immediately. I even ask them to stay atleast to have coffee and then leave but they just want to leave once they get their pleasure

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Aravi46
Posted On Apr 24, 2021

wow this is a nice initiative..: im happy to have some chit chats first... will be happier to join u

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bananadreamz
Posted On Apr 25, 2021

Nice and lovely thread ya. My dream guy would be versatile, 40s, with a good taste . i can pick him in my car n go for a lazy drive. Would halt in any resort if we like each other. Friendship can happen after a good session too.

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TamaRai
Posted On May 5, 2021

You summed it up nicely, I am here for a friend - to repeat not a relationship not a hook-up but a Friend with whom I can be myself and not hide behind a mask that I wear to everyone else. I used to have a friend like that since my childhood with whom I shared everything about my feelings and of course physical pleasure but now that he moved out of the country we find it hard to keep in touch.

Virtually finding people like that is one thing but I look for a friend who will be that Man for me, to look beyond just fun and be understanding.

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LoveNFun31
Posted On May 5, 2021

i I am a 29 year old virgin from kerala. I visit chennai often. Looking for any genuine, educated clean and hygiene person who has similar feelings like me. Who wish to share some of the Man's feelings to another Man. I prefer matured people but even those younger also will do.

Lets meet over a coffee and discuss, only if you are convinced we will take up further. We can do Soft Fun and maybe if we both feel comfortable we can have deep and long liplocks, hugs, blowjobs... If i feel comfortable and you are clean i dont mind licking your ***. We can share and explore each others body.

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hbkarthick
Posted On May 5, 2021

I thought i was alone on this..great to see ppl with similar mindset

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sur0000
Posted On May 6, 2021

nice one. Yeah, me more into roleplays / fantasies. meeting together, discussing about the same, shagging together, nude bath. had a friend long back while working in bglr. then lost touch after I moved to chennai. People says, they luv same, and then while meeting, straight away ask for ***/***/etc... I always think, I am a one off case, coz its more about fantasies than physical ***. :-).

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Sidharth_chenai
Posted On May 6, 2021

Hii...am searching my partner... before a year I had a one person....but now he was not there...he just need money...so he left....but I can't...I need a good loveable person who calling me MAMA....I don't know what I will do....give a suggestion

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carolinecd9
Posted On May 13, 2021

guys come and go but hard to find such a good friend ,i like to love him as my life

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iloveeverything
Posted On May 17, 2021

I would love a friend as well.

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krishna_bottom
Posted On May 28, 2021

I meet a guy named Ravi few years back he was about 35yrs and me 25 yrs old...I liked him but was afraid of coming out as homosexual...he tried his best to have a good conversation when we met for the 1st time..but I was little hesitant...but later I used to chat to him....his words about me and his dreams with me made me hornier everytime and made me come out brave as faminine bottom...I started to imagine myself as his wife and I used to call him mama only...we had no chance of sharing bed till now...but a loveable feel with him...I used to tell him if I had boobs and *** or born as a girl I will marry him itself...so kind...but lost his number...searching for him in this pandemic situation...

Always love my mama Ravi...

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hbkarthick
Posted On Nov 17, 2023

GHOSTING : Everyone here is looking for something , i.e. consciously deep down we are searching for the right people for us. Those who fill the emptiness we crave for.
Everyone have different preferences. Even if we find someone through profile bio, comments in various threads and messaging that matches our vibe ,when its comes to meeting they ghosts us,
This happens to almost everybody , For some it will be successful yet not for all all the time.
Yet we cant blame them because a lot goes through our mind during this process , Almost all of us are here because we cant be our true self around the people we knew , friends and family without being judged and lot of things are at stake.
This is a safe space for us to hear and being heard.
but cant deny the feeling "what if ?" (something goes south/ terribly wrong) when it come to meet face to face,
And there is always more than one thing/s to be worried about.
How could we Stop being HESISTANT ??
We could try by having a detailed description about us ,things we like and things we expect from others.
Having Appearance , Sexuality & Preference details all filled in ' My Profile '
be patient and spend some time knowing each other well through text and other communications,
Meet in public spaces. Spend some quality time without s*x , bond well.
Its really hard to imagine having fun with a stranger right ?
It doesn't have to be long could take a day or two probably from text to bed if you are really interested.
See everybody wants to have fun and that's right but we could be gentle and matured about it.
Few wants nothing to do with this they just wanna f*ck somebody and be blunt when coming to ask others about it but i think that's a turn off.
We gotta do what we gotta do or else we are gonna be stuck being forever hesitant.
I think that this thread needs to GHOSTING : Everyone here is looking for something , i.e. consciously deep down we are searching for the right people for us. Those who fill the emptiness we crave for.
Everyone have different preferences. Even if we find someone through profile bio, comments in various threads and messaging that matches our vibe ,when its comes to meeting they ghosts us,
This happens to almost everybody , For some it will be successful yet not for all all the time.
Yet we cant blame them because a lot goes through our mind during this process , Almost all of us are here because we cant be our true self around the people we knew , friends and family without being judged and lot of things are at stake.
This is a safe space for us to hear and being heard.
but cant deny the feeling "what if ?" (something goes south/ terribly wrong) when it come to meet face to face,
And there is always more than one thing/s to be worried about.
How could we Stop being HESISTANT ??
We could try by having a detailed description about us ,things we like and things we expect from others.
Having Appearance , Sexuality & Preference details all filled in ' My Profile '
be patient and spend some time knowing each other well through text and other communications,
Meet in public spaces. Spend some quality time without s*x , bond well.
Its really hard to imagine having fun with a stranger right ?
It doesn't have to be long could take a day or two probably from text to bed if you are really interested.
See everybody wants to have fun and that's right but we could be gentle and matured about it.
Few wants nothing to do with this they just wanna f*ck somebody and be blunt when coming to ask others about it but i think that's a turn off.
We gotta do what we gotta do or else we are gonna be stuck being forever hesitant.


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siddhi91
Posted On Nov 18, 2023

@hbkarthick your comments are very deep reflecting the happenings. I think patience is more important. I found my guy here we planned to meet and we met on the same day. We never felt going physical but was bonded. All of a sudden our mind games proven wrong and parted us. Nearly after a year my buddy called me and from then on it started to bloom. The 1 year of pain and agony is unexplainable but now whenever he pings me I feel like flying, but so far we never went physical. As I said there are different stories but am fortunate that I got him back, but I don’t know about the things which aren’t in my control, if it breaks again I dono how and likewhat I would feel. But as of now am happy. Search and fix a guy be objective and patient I think it may work

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lovelaw
Posted On Feb 25, 2024

need one friend like that

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SK2024
Posted On Feb 26, 2024

I really need a friend with whom I can speak for hours in bed, watch movies, cook food, travel and sleep together.

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Ila
Posted On Feb 26, 2024

If anyone ever need a good friend to share your joy and sorry, to do short trips, to go out for a walk/run/cycling, hang out for movies/shopping/food you may ping me...I am just a normal next door person whom you me always reach out to...