I am here to share my experience in this ***, lust, ***, masturbation, cruising addiction and how I got out of it. Like alcohol, marijuana, lust is a *** we use to get high.
Just like an alcoholic, I know many people who got into lust & *** addiction and spoiled their careers,lost money, reputation, got diseases, lost relationships and even life. I will share in parts, so that it's easier to read and follow up.
My name is Vijay and I am a grateful recovering sexaholic. I am powerless over lust and my life has become unmanageable because of lust. I joined the *** addiction fellowship 'Sexaholics Anonymous' in 2018 and since then I have learned a lot about my addiction, recovery and lot more things about how not to get deeper into my addiction.
SA is a fellowship formed based on Alocholics Anonymous(for alcoholics). It's for addicts to recover and by addicts in recovery.
Any queries, feel free to post it here. Good luck to you guys who are looking for recovery.
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Rahul00 | Posted On Jun 26, 2020
Awesome initiative..
Actually many are suffering from this but as this topic isnt discussed or given importance like cigarette or alchohol addiction in our society.. So the victim of this addiction spoils his life knowing or unknowingly. |
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Blrsissy | Posted On Jun 27, 2020
Great goin man . I have tried so many times but eventually come back to all deviant stuff.
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Effinaminato | Posted On Jun 27, 2020
Thanks for raising this issue in the forum. Do you have suggestions that helps us in getting rid of excessive addictions? |
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monu1391994 | Posted On Jun 28, 2020
*** addiction se niklna muskil h but naamumkin nahi kisi bhi vastu k liye hm kosis karte h to wo hum haasil kar lete h. addict hone k baad hmara mind insab se bhar niklne ki bolta h or body *** pleasure ki deemand karti h.
jab start me hum isse niklne ki kosis karte h us time bhut hi complicated hota h waha tumhe mind ya dil ki aawaz ko sunana psdta h.
jab tum dheere dheere iske baare me sochna band karoge apne aap ko free mat rakho ki tumhare mind me *** karne ka koi vichar na aaye. agar *** karne ki ichha ho to esepostpone friend se baat karo jo tumhe isse niklne me tumhri help kare. HMARI STRONG WILL POWER *** ADDICTION SE NIKLNE ME 100 % helpful rhti h |
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Manitham | Posted On Jun 29, 2020
I am from India...I'm too addicted...I need to come out from this....Will this helpful |
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manoblr | Posted On Jun 29, 2020
Natural *** errection not happening without watching ***. I don’t no how to come out of this |
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ketans | Posted On Jun 30, 2020
I have recently started Sudarshan Kriya for 30 days and now attraction for *** has reduced |
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Nolimits | Posted On Jul 1, 2020
Is it possible though? Leaving this addiction for *** and perverted stuff. I guess it's impossible |
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monu1391994 | Posted On Jul 2, 2020
nolimits yaar esa bol hi nahi sakte ki koi bhi person *** addiction se nikal nahi sakta. jab ek alcohol addict bnda alocohol chhod sakta h to *** addiction chhodna konsi badi baat
phle tum decide to karo ki tum *** addiction se niklna chahte ho.
tumhe *** bhi karte rhna or addiction se bhi niklna ye dono saath saath nahi chal sakte |
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Romeo401 | Posted On Jul 23, 2020
Nice thread.. we need to talk more on this. Getting in random *** just for some small fun may put us in shame situations. Life is
Much more beautiful than what it really is.
Guys be safe , get urself tested. Be loved and give love.
*** in love is far more better feeling than having a lustful *** |
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hotlund | Posted On Jul 26, 2020
My thing is I don't think about these things in normal but when I get *** all this come in my mind. |
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Monte carlo | Posted On Aug 2, 2020
Perfect topic for this page as same is hpng with me & I want to get rid of it. Pls help me to come out of this as I tried but was unsuccessful. |
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kolkata str8 | Posted On Aug 3, 2020
I have masturbation addiction since the last 10 years and its very difficult coming out of this..every single day I am doing and worried but not able to come out of it.. Dont know what will be the result in future |
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Rahul xv | Posted On Aug 3, 2020
Everything is on mind which is will power. Divert your attention to some good things like.. reading books, online learning, games, TV Or follow your passion in this way you can get attached to it. Avoid smart phone as much as you can.. It's the main source to sexual content. |
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honestStud | Posted On Aug 7, 2020
When I started masturbation when I was 8 years old and right now I am in 25 years of my life.
What I gained?
Nothing
What did I lose?
Everything
When I look back I found I am not having friends.
Always ***,
once tried to escape the trap and succeded for one year then again I meet someone and again the cycle started.
Now I am trying one more time.
Planning to start whatsapp group. If we are together then motivation will be high.
Please tell me about your suggestions. |
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Madhu2602 | Posted On Aug 7, 2020
Hi
I'm mastrubuting past 15 years and my *** size is right now 4.5 inches. And I have premature ejaculation my sperm out within a moment
Maybe my *** also in not very hard, and my testicles size also little big I need check my *** and testicles status it's in good condition or bad condition
Can someone guide me for my problem.
I need to go for my testicles scanning
And how should I checked my my *** report ( scan or how)?
I'm staying at vijay nagar Bangalore
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Rahul xv | Posted On Aug 7, 2020
Masturbation is good for health. It reduces mental sexual pressure but depends on body and diet you take. Masturbation reduces the chances of prostrate cancer.
Premature ejaculation can be controlled by stop n start method.
@Madhu2602.. Wats ur age |
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Avinas30 | Posted On Aug 7, 2020
I am *** Addict, i masterbate from last 20 years (i am 29). I am married but till want daily *** but my wife don't support so i search for gay. Who is always ready for *** and ***. Till i masterbate someday for 2-3 times. |
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Rahul xv | Posted On Aug 8, 2020
Testicles get loosen when body temp is high.. like in summer and shrinks in winter season. So it's normal.
Don't apply any medicine for increasing *** size.. It's natural it will still get increase as u r 26. Massage ur *** with oil once in two days for 15 mins, you may see some difference. |
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Ĺolypop01 | Posted On Aug 8, 2020
Guys
Having *** feeling is like avalanche. More u think about *** more u want it and vice versa .. so it's ok.
U can enjoy any *** orientation with consent of partner. U can think wild for ur *** drive, but just don't derail and go to path of *** and other things. Enjoy responsibly. |
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Sxyroma | Posted On Aug 21, 2020
I want everyone I see....
Any cure for my *** addicts?? |
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Verylusty2483 | Posted On Aug 21, 2020
I hv problem of thinking about *** every time. Any solution? |
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maverick108 | Posted On Aug 22, 2020
Verylusty2483: *** daily.
Its working for me.... |
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Srikant27cool | Posted On Sep 6, 2020
Please learn the technique of Sudarshan kriya a powerful breathing technique, to get rid of *** addiction.. ping me in Pvt to know more on how I got out of *** addiction |
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krishnan2020 | Posted On Sep 13, 2020
i used to watch *** videos from schooldays onwards
Even im married now i can't to stop watch *** videos especailly Gay *** videos
Sometimes i love maturbate while watching *** than having fun with my wife, i know its worng but i feel more confortable to *** than having *** ,
And i feel suspect about myself whether im a straingt r gay ....
Im watching daily , im masturbating daily i can't control myself to stop to watch ***
I don't have anyother habits but i became adict to watch
Any give councling for me to recover from this adiction Plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz |
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Nnudist28 | Posted On Sep 13, 2020
Just out of my personal experience- I was addicted to mastrubating like 8 times a day. Yep that's right, to the point where your *** just choughs and dust comes out. I just majorly realised that I have too much time on hands to think about *** and too free coz am all time home due to the WFH. When nobody is watching you just wing it. My suggesting that helped me was to get the *** out and keep myself busy. And use mastrubation as a means of please not just a stress buster. S you rub one out today, the same follows tomorrow, well not your associating your cumming your load ( be it *** or mastrubation) work strees. So screw it all, motivate yourself and be productively active all day and hopefully you can get off it like I did too |
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fun6969 | Posted On Sep 13, 2020
I think daily mastrubating is not good...
Two days one time is ok.
Two weeks one time is compulsory, if not there is some problem. It indicates health problem...if your *** is not working it indicates your heart will also going to get some problem ... |
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Longck4u | Posted On Sep 14, 2020
My *** ready for daily 2-3 time mastrubating
Daily i mastrbating to controlled it otherwise full day erected |
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Ash25 | Posted On Sep 14, 2020
i feel to have a partner to *** quite often. Playing with hot *** is my addiction. How to sort it out? |
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Srikant27cool | Posted On Sep 15, 2020
*** is good guys. But too much obsessed with it will drain your energy and eat your mind.. contact me for my counselling services.. |
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biman4u_2020 | Posted On Sep 15, 2020
masturbation as such is not bad . its good substitute if one doesnot have *** for long.. how many times a day realy depends on individuals body, but in general more then once a week is not recommended.. having complete *** and masturbation are two different things.. just coz in both cases , sperm gets released doesnot mean both r same... so the energy we release during frequent masturbation can be used else where in much better manner.
modern medical science and doctors will keep telling that masturbation is all okay, it is okay if done in less frequence, but check ayurveda and you will find that so many health benefits r guaranteed if one doesnot waste his sperms often. it ignites our energry and enhances our abilities in a atogether different manner.
having said above, whch i truely believe, but i am too struggling to control masturbation seeing ***, woman, actresses etc... and i exprinee *** issues.. but i am trying to follow.
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Verylusty2483 | Posted On Sep 15, 2020
I also thinking very much about *** all day.
Want to come out of this
Please help |
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Apb | Posted On Sep 18, 2020
@verylusty2483
Just keep engaged,, show interst in every thing,, add on new hobbies,, focus on health, yoga pranayam meditation, so on,
Postpone your *** urge,, by convincing that,, you have done enough,, schedule for weekend *** only, if possible or weekly twice,, . But enjoy it upto the core till you are satisfied,, 👍 Good luck, wish you positive result. |
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Rituj | Posted On Sep 20, 2020
i have some suggestions to get rid of *** addiction,lust addiction
first thing is this the lust takes you under its control mostly when you are alone . Lonelyness is the biggest reason for making one a *** addict .When you are alone you start feeling depressed and you start masturbation for overcoming from lonelyness .
if you want to overcome from lonelyness then open your windows, go out of your room, listen some high bass musics on headphones .
make a habit to keep yourself engaged in some kind of activities .
monitor your mental and physical health regularly , start doing some yoga and workout .
after some weeks of yoga switch to cardio exercise , you sweat and you will start feeling happy.
if you are a male ( not a crossdressor etc) then start taking some testoboosters, it will enhance your mood and u will feel confident.
start engaging yourself with new friends in real life because social media platforms give you number of friends but it also brings lonelyness at the same time .
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Sk4sun3 | Posted On Sep 20, 2020
I am big time addict.. My entire day goes by being busy with office work and remaining time helping family with household. have Gf with whom have healthy physical relationship and had bfs in past. Still whenever i get time i just love to have *** or like to jerk off. Its always in my mind. I may not always meeting anyone for *** but always curious to have pleasure. I love my *** and i love others peoples ***, ***, *** and *** too. I have been active in *** since I was a kid.. Started with neighbour bhaiaya and then couldnt stop and to be true I never thought of recovering from it as i love it.. But it might affect my life in future |
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Fatchubbyboobs | Posted On Sep 28, 2020
When ever im depressed or stressed the urge gets more to have *** ...i feel like sleeping with any one i get but i dont find any so i mastrubate but mastrubation too 3 or 4 times on that day ...some times i hurt my *** due to abrasions for stroking so many times...how do i cope up with it ...how do i get rid of the urge of having *** when i am very stressed or depressed |
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Fatchubbyboobs | Posted On Sep 28, 2020
I do durga pooja during navratri i dont eat nonveg during those days and i dont wear foot wear i do pooja at home visit temple every day abstain from *** but during that time i dont know why i have lot of sexual urge and only during that time many men stare at me in a lusty way ...i become so attractive during those days that all men give me lusty looks when i go out or go to temples...i cant have *** during that time ...but i get lot of sexual dreams and feelings ...i am unable to get the answer as why during that time my urge is more..normal days of the year its pretty normal...in few days navratri is approaching and i am getting nervous on how do i cope up with this urge . |
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Nisakt | Posted On Jan 26, 2021
This is natural only thing there should be a discipline to it.
We should always keep ourself busy in something fruitful and good. Let us cut off from anything that tempt to watch ***, masturbation or indulge in such act. Let us practice and determine and surely it is possible and will see the difference. Or else it is an abyss guys feel like enjoying but will kill mind, body, soul and spirit. And one's consience will be dead completely means you can't discreet what is good and bad. In short a dead or a slave to it.
But I know we can overcome. And we have already overcome. |
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