Finding love - because it's not only about ***

Whenever we visit a gay dating site, basically whatever we can find, are mainly concentrated about having ***. I don't have anything against that as I exploited that for a long period of my life. But when I decided that I'll come out, one of the major thoughts that came to my mind, was, what about my life? Do I need to spend my life alone? Will I ever be able to find a soul mate? Though I finally came out to my friends and parents, I still don't have the answer to that question. So here I want to ask the fellow openly gay people in ohmojo - what's your experience about this? Have you been able to find a stable boyfriend for a romantic relationship? If yes, then please share your story. May be your story can inspire a lot to come out and can also help people like to find love.

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No Picture Bustyslit	Posted On Oct 12, 2019 Are we talking about love or commitment at the moment! If love then I am sorry, I have not yet been in love. But as far as commitment for partner goes, I am ready to be committed to a top fully. Try out all my kinks only with him as I have some fantasies associated with it.
No Picture radical123	Posted On Oct 12, 2019 Romantic love, in the full sense of the term, is an emotion possible only to the man of unbreached self-esteem: it is his response to his own highest values in the person of another—an integrated response of mind and body, of love and sexual desire. Such a man is incapable of experiencing a sexual desire divorced from spiritual values. Love, friendship, respect, admiration are the emotional response of one man to the virtues of another, the spiritual payment given in exchange for the personal, selfish pleasure which one man derives from the virtues of another man’s character.
No Picture matureee	Posted On Oct 13, 2019 Lekin jab hame kisi ko aadat ho jaye or phir apke partner me changes aane lage like woh pehle se na rahe to ye bahut hurt karta hai dil dimaag sab bechain rehta hai 24 ghante has usko sochna......
No Picture Sagarstrange000	Posted On May 25, 2025 Just refreshing thread.. I am Bottom 27.. and looking for life partner who is top Not for hookup and fnf but genuine one ... I have some expectations and he definitely might have If anybody looking for same can DM me I am From Pune... Not in to above 35
ThirstResponder	Posted On May 29, 2025 I genuinely believe that our ideas of love are deeply shaped—and in many ways regulated—by popular culture. It often creates unrealistic expectations that love must always be intense, magical, or dramatic, while overlooking the quiet, evolving, and sometimes difficult realities of real relationships. That said, I experienced a love that defied those surface-level expectations. I was in a relationship for about five years with a man who was four years older than me. We met through a mutual friend, and I can say without hesitation that he was the best thing that ever happened to me. He had been in relationships with a few women before, but I was the first man he dated. For me, it was my first serious relationship. What we shared was deeply loving and incredibly tender. No one knew about us—outwardly, we were just friends—but in private, our love quietly flourished. He was facing a lot of pressure from his family to get married and found it difficult to come out to them. Eventually, he did get married. Before that happened, we made the difficult, mutual decision to part ways. I even congratulated him on his marriage. We haven’t spoken since. Our relationship was never just about physical intimacy. In fact, I never felt the desire to be with anyone else during those years, and neither did he. I feel, when you find someone who truly understands and sees you, the physical fades into the background. What remains—and what matters—is love, care, and deep respect.
No Picture Rohan666	Posted On May 29, 2025 Any body wants voice call or chats for friendship and love
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