I am constantly thinking about ***, and trying to watch new videos all the time. And when I do watch, I get the urge to jerk off. Nowadays I *** twice a day at the least. Has anyone faced a similar thing? How did you overcome it?
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Jeanebad | Posted On Jan 30, 2019
I was badly addicted to ***. I was a straight guy, used to watch lesbian ***, tribadism, BDSM and wrestling. It made me way sensual, so much so that once when one of my friends jokingly pressed my ***, it got hard. I used to have boners and *** blasts. I used stay awake till night 1am and even my parents used to doubt me. But I had to get rid of it, so I started another hobby, that was gaming. I started playing rgc DotA, online multiplayer games like StarCraft. Now I don't even miss ***, but usually do *** daily. |
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rajeev198171 | Posted On Jan 30, 2019
I do *** every single day. Reduced watching *** due to busy work life. |
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Maniruddha | Posted On Jan 30, 2019
Same here. I am bisexual. I don't like 3x ***. I watch 2x Hollywood movies straight & Gay both. Hell those movies are very erotic. Whenever I watch definitely I used to *** 2 times when after *** my wife also. |
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Longck4u | Posted On Jan 30, 2019
Also do daily *** may be some day 3-4 times and more when got mood then do that my *** mostly time in mood wt i do ? |
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Guy123_18 | Posted On Jan 30, 2019
I'm a crazy *** addict especially to *** BDSM hypnosis videos I *** 4 times a day |
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Ramon123 | Posted On Jan 30, 2019
Lol. I was actually looking for help when I posted this. It's actually disturbing my studies. I am constantly distracted by it. Anyway to overcome!? |
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wingedcupid | Posted On Jan 30, 2019
I am none the wiser on this but i feel best way to overcome is to yield to it. You will be to get on with rest of the stuff after its over
If u start saving the ***, even neighbours dog look beautiful to your eyes... |
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Binature | Posted On Jan 31, 2019
*** addict here |
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Nirmall | Posted On Jan 31, 2019
Addiction to *** is not a major issue.
But please don't *** watching ***.
If it becomes a habit (subconsciously), then you won't be able to *** (climax) without watching ***. This will lead to problem when you make love to your partners.
My suggestion: Watch ***, without jerking. After you're done watching, switch off your mobile or laptop and then jerk, thinking about the *** or your partner or your fantasy. Just don't jerk off while watching *** |
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Ramon123 | Posted On Jan 31, 2019
It started when I jerked to fall asleep. It has become this habit of jerking off before going to sleep. *** got involved for that. Should I see a psychiatrist or something? It's not much of a problem when I'm working or with people. It's a problem when I'm alone at home. |
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Nirmall | Posted On Jan 31, 2019
@Ramon123
Nothing wrong in jerking daily. It's actually healthy. Prevents prostrate cancer
But if you can't *** without watching ***, it'll cause problem in future when you're doing with your life partner. That's what I'm saying |
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navindiesel | Posted On Jan 31, 2019
Very bad addiction. It resulted in testicle pain for me and type of a hangover which looks like my brain is not working, and also premature ejaculation. |
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Pundairegan | Posted On Feb 1, 2019
Why over coming what is wrong with it I have been doing it for the last 40 yrs |
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Rehann13 | Posted On Feb 2, 2019
Don't stay alone.. it will lead you to do such things.. LOL.. my advise. |
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topguy93 | Posted On Feb 2, 2019
Guys. I have been masterbating 3- 4 times a day from the past 10 year. I have not had any problem. Now that I'm working u have to jerk off atleast 2 times in the night before sleeping. I jerk off to *** or just imagine one of my partners. I have been doing this to save myself. I can't have a boner at work. Because I'm in the service industry and my clients can easily notice the boner on my pants. (I'm 7.5inches long) so I have to do it. There is no other choice. I absolutely have no problem in getting it hard or anything. Perfectly fine. I just feel that some ppl are more sexually active than other. We just have to accept the fact and more on in life. And this hypersexuality is not going to stay for ever. So enjoy it when you have it.
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Samneil | Posted On Feb 2, 2019
I feel if we keep ourselves occupied with something else, we get the urge less frequently. However I must say i love watching ***. Have tried watching almost all sorts, still searching for something unusual to excite me. |
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Jeanebad | Posted On Feb 4, 2019
If you want to concentrate on study, avoiding ***, then it's better to stop watching ***, and do some outdoor stuff like roaming, going out, freshen up. Maybe a day or two, try to avoid lusty thoughts, keep your fetishes away. Then start studying or better do group studies with your collegemates. Keep your brain preoccupied with stuffs other than ***. Maybe music or any other thing. No can help you than yourself. |
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rajeev198171 | Posted On Feb 5, 2019
Start doing yoga or go for gym. Keep your body and body stable |
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jackscs2005 | Posted On Apr 9, 2019
@jagan every thing has a limit & time to rejuvenate. If u over use any body part then there will be fatigue. U should take break in your sessions. 3 times a day is not good for long term. Once a while is ok. If u over do things then u will also loose interest & that is due to fatigue & energy loss. U should take appropriate break to rejuvenate sperm and to maintain that excitement. |
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ricky3636 | Posted On Mar 11, 2020
I agree with topguy93...please do what you have to do and enjoy. The trouble is when you start feeling guilty for what you have been doing. I guess your brain will automatically tell you when it's getting out of control... |
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Hilove | Posted On May 14, 2020
My suggestion is eat healthy:)
Do more excercise and if possible go to gym and stop watching *** instead of that you can watch movies play games any many more thngs which will keep you busy :) I know if once you get addicted its very difficult to going back.
But above suggestions will work :) |
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C4LEB | Posted On Jun 13, 2020
@rajiv42, it's not about being 'normal'; it's about being 'prevalent'. Human sexuality has so many facets that nothing can be regarded as a norm. The variety of sexual expressions however result in some permutations being more more prevalent than others, such as vanilla heterosexual *** or similar-age homosexual attraction. Your sexual permutation is significantly less prevalent, but is equally valid. |
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disle23 | Posted On Nov 29, 2024
@topguy93: The worst advice that you can give to anybody in my opinion.
Constantly watching *** and masturbating is the worst thing that one can do to themselves. While watching ***, when you get an ***, the only thing left is to jerk and release the *** to feel satisfied. When you keep doing it this way, your brain/body gets accustomed to it. This means, the hardness of your *** fixes with your action of holding a phone in one hand while jerking with the other or you watching a *** on laptop and jerking. Doing this daily will have performance-related impacts when you actually perform with your partner where you might feel not hard enough or may start losing *** while in action or release soon. This is predominantly because your brain gets shaped this way which doesn’t understand the feeling when you are with a partner and only responds (or responds better) well when you are watching ***.
Let us try to see it differently, what is the final outcome of stroking to ***? The end result? The release of ***, right? Now try to remember, when you jerked watching *** for the first time, you might have taken 10-15-20-30 minutes to ***. But when you keep doing it constantly, the jerk time will reduce significantly which eventually would lead to premature ejaculation. When you do it constantly, you think that you are enjoying the *** when the fact is you are only waiting to *** because of which you will increase the speed of jerking. The body/brain by virtue of the *** knows no other way to feel satisfied but only when *** is being watched.
ED and PME are very common in gays who are still in the closet. Because this is the only way they know to get satisfaction. Same for people who are straight but not engaged in *** with others. In my opinion, if you get regular action with your partner, it is still ‘OKAY’ to watch *** and *** sometimes. I would rather recommend to watch *** with your partner around instead of doing it alone.
The brain is the most powerful machine in the world. It will only do what you teach it to do constantly.
For friends suffering from ED or PME, pls stop watching *** completely. Stop masturbation completely (maybe once a month max). Let night falls happen. Let your *** only happen when you are with someone, or when they are touching your body, or when you are getting a BJ or HJ(reduce HJ sessions too). This way, your brain, and your body would start the unlearning process that it learned via masturbation over ***. Now this may take months (depending upon body to body, exposure time, addiction level) for your brain to unlearn the entire process. There is no harm in trying this but if you are not convinced, pls get in touch with a sexologist or urologist at the earliest. They are there to help you
PS: This is the same thing faced by many straight guys who are going for their first intercourse and who *** a lot. If you read my profile, I get a lot of messages from people who want to know about bathhouses. Less but I also get messages from guys who are young to know what they can do if they have ED (which they think) or PME condition. So thought of posting it here too. |
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