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What's in the age ?

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ASL - people from yahoo chat days know this acronym. This thread is about the ''A" - age. Some like young ., some like old.. So post what is your preferred age and why do you prefer a particular age group ?

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Posted On Jun 15, 2018 - 06:27 AM

I prefer two to three years older than me. I love their maturity and attitude. The same I couldn't see from me and also can't expect from younge guys. Even liked a guy recently who is 10 years older than me and found him so interesting.

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Posted On Jun 15, 2018 - 07:13 AM

I am 23 years old.I like all kinds of people to have friendship.When comes to fun part,I only prefer 30+ guys till late 50's.

I have friends in early 20's but they are one or two in numbers and like minded guys.They know that I like only mature people so we don't even touch but we used to roam around as good friends

I like mature man since my first experience was with matured and married uncle.I feel psychologically I attracted towards them.I am bit mature of my age so I like to have matured friends.I like to have decent conversation, discussion on some social topics,personal sharing of feelings mutually.I personally feel, young guys of my age are not much into this (very rarely young people behaves as mature).All my mature friends I have are very comfortable for this.

For security purpose too.i am not trouble making guy.i will have my circle so I wish to make friends who will not give any troubles.Mature people will have family and they will not give any sort of trouble (maximum).

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Posted On Jun 15, 2018 - 11:39 AM

Age is just a number in my opinion. I would see how good the other person reciprocate towards me . In my opinion whoever you consider as friend should also show some interest towards you.Secondly I would tell about what I am and what I would expect. Mutually if we agree and feel it would work out then all good. If the expectations are unrealistic for me then I would say NO irrespective of the age. My preference is more of companion and friendship so age doesn't matter.

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Posted On Jun 17, 2018 - 11:45 AM

of course I agree age is a mere number. But I started the thread with another intention.

I think it's much to do with individual preference. In my view i think men in the age group between 25 to 35 are the most handsome. Cos i feel that's the age a boy is full grown up man and in his prime. Most guys from my high school and college (who were twinkish) are now quite manly in this age.

If about a comfortable partner I would always prefer my age group as grow older. But 25 to 35 aged men are best EYE CANDIES in my point of view.

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Posted On Jun 17, 2018 - 07:18 PM

Age is just a number, there are young guys with grey or no hair and older men with an enviable body. What matters is how the guy comes across in totality the grooming, the attitude behaviour and the chemistry. If it’s for a hook up then bedroom skills and compatibility becomes important.

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Posted On Jun 18, 2018 - 05:55 AM

I like younger guys between 20 to 30 years age. They are smart and handsome.

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Posted On Jun 18, 2018 - 06:04 AM

I like guys from 18 to 40+. But they have to be proper top. Just because they are teens I won't say no to a top. regarding body types... normal body is fine. If they are fit, that is well and good. Too much out of shape is difficult. I met a guy who was 52. but maintained the body very well for that age. But they are very few. very few.

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Posted On Jun 18, 2018 - 06:22 AM

I am 21 years old and I’m into all age groups. Not too old though. I’ve done with people my age. Never had a chance to be with anyone else.

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Posted On Jun 20, 2018 - 01:09 PM

@valentine - you are probably below 35 that’s why your benchmark for men looking the best is set at 25-35 😁
Trust me as you get older your benchmarks will change too and keep increasing until you are 60 after which you might not get anyone unless you resemble Kamal Hassan

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Posted On Jun 20, 2018 - 02:45 PM

@Exotic1234 - Read my post. I said as "for a comfortable partner i prefer my own age as I grow older" . So I would always prefer my age group in my then age. Yes i am currently less than 35. :)

but when it comes to eye candies I always find this group 25 -35 as men in their prime though there may be exceptions either ways ;)

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Posted On Jun 20, 2018 - 05:34 PM

This tread reminds me about the discussion which i had recently with one of my friends. He is very thin, dark and bald and above 50- all odds against him. He said "onnu vasasavathu errukarum; illa azlagavathu errukanum- errundum illati panmavathu errukanum" (either one should have age or beauty- if not both, atleast money- to get guys). Believe me eye candies would be eye candies at all age. People who was jollyfing on Ajith as a sexy twik in 90's, started joyyling him as a handsome hunk in 2000 and as sexy uncle after 2015. But he looks great in all ages. Problem is with respect to normal or poor looking guys. Atleast at young age their might be takers but increasing age even that might dwindle. Paruvathula panni kuttuda nalla errukum- this is another proverb which my friend often use which is very true for Gs.

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Posted On Jun 20, 2018 - 06:02 PM

@Sasmathu. "Eye candies will be eye candies at all age" - Sorry I had to disagree. Your example with actor Ajith is just a one off case. Very few age gracefully with age remain eye candies forever.

Even the guys whom I drooled over during my college days are now nowhere near their old 'charm'. Even by early thirties many guys are out of my shape. Like you quoted the Tamil saying "Even a piglet looks beautiful in its tender age", there' s only a certain age limit where most men look good .. And they tend to loose their charm over a period.. A very few are blessed as 'ageing gracefully'.. George Clooney is one such example.

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Posted On Jun 23, 2018 - 07:19 AM

IMO, age matters ... Usually guys look for a guy as of his same age. When I was young I looked for guys with my age.. dont why I chose ... May be if someone ask I can say that he is my friend .. and guys with same age get along well. When i no longer young, I started telling t that age is number. Everybody has to pass through this phase. Do not mix up maturity with age.

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Posted On Jul 13, 2018 - 10:04 AM

For me, age doesn't matter as long as he has that pure top manly mentality who can be dominant just not only in bed.
Few weeks back, I met a younger guy of 19. We met in a public place and he led on and treated me like a sub. I loved that. He was a dominant guy naturally. So age was not a factor.

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Posted On Jul 13, 2018 - 10:36 AM

Age isn't an issue for me as long the guy is slim, fit, hot or muscular. Just not into chubs. As the age increases so does body fat, but I've met a few hotties in their late 40s who still have an amazing fit body.

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Posted On Jul 13, 2018 - 11:38 AM

stamina and *** of young *** are usually high. So i perfer young boys..

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Posted On Jul 13, 2018 - 12:53 PM

I tried young gyu once as my top, i cross dressed for him, and he just come, take off my cloth, few kisses and then directly lubricant his *** and take my legs up, and few shots and finished, living me completely unsatisfied, where as mature man rub me for half an hour under him, passionate kisses and torture on my all body spots, made me almost drull for his *** first then *** me so nicely, with slow strokes and dirty/sexy words

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Posted On Jul 14, 2018 - 05:54 AM

For me iv always been with guys older than me..they were mainly hookups...i guess maybe jus about 4-5 guys my age or younger... I jus feel that i prefer maturity..n older guys talk n behave in a way that i find easier to connect... weirdly currently m seeing someone who is close to double my age.. haha..but that's never bothered us..he doesn't treat me as a kid nor do i want him to behave that way. So i guess each one has their own preferences..

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Posted On Jul 14, 2018 - 09:10 AM

I like guys of any age provided they are clean, well-mannered and are physically fit (this includes well-maintained physique). While on the subject of age, I have come across some nasty guys (mostly in the late 20s to 40s age group) on ohmojo who had the rudeness and temerity to ask me whether the pics on my profile were truly mine! No introduction, no hello how are you, nothing. Just a stiff "are the pics really yours?". Most of them are just lazy, fat-arsed slobs who don't even have the decency to fill out the details on their profiles - full of the default "rather not say". Why would they assume that once you're past 50 you cannot have a healthy physique? That is so ageist. I want these rude, lazy-arse, I'll-mannered slobs with bad attitude to know that with regular exercise, healthy eating habit and a good attitude one can have a good physique even in one's 70s.

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Posted On Jul 16, 2018 - 09:38 AM

prefer near my age only...

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Posted On Jul 20, 2018 - 05:48 AM

whats in age yes you are right. if you find the right person who really know the decency of a relationship then it hardly matter. but as far as im concerned im inclined towards older mature married men. i dont know why its just the thought of to be with them fill me with excitement. thoough i have never been with anyone like this but i really want to have a secrect relation with such person. men above 45 years fit, hunky just love them..

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Posted On Sep 24, 2018 - 03:05 PM

i like olders around 60 in age
they are very calm and experienced in ***
my all experienced is with older grandfathers
class doesnot matters
labours and all ppl is accepted

they love u very passionately

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Posted On Nov 1, 2018 - 05:49 AM

I like men of age group 45 to 60+ reason is that there sperm bank is still full n they need a good start. There wife's cannot give that start as they r also old. Rest age groin are expected one we know what we will get. Older men give surprises. And loads of ***

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Posted On Nov 1, 2018 - 06:09 AM

Though i like to meet guys me arount 25 30 still loved some oldies which i met in past.... One was 55 year old uncle who was not at all satisfied with his wife... Saw me naked and gone mad at me seeing my quite big boobs... He was playing *** them for almost an hour... Was willing to *** me to to which i said no... Rimmed me nicely gave me nice bath n i left... Felt like his wife for that time nice exp with matured onces

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Posted On Nov 1, 2018 - 06:35 AM

In bed really, age doesn't matter to me. But I've over a long period of time learnt that I kind of communicate better with guys over 27-28. So in general I am always sceptical to initiate a chat with the 18-25 year olds. In my experience they've always come across as guys who make very impulsive decisions and are over enthusiastic when they see a profile. They seem more interested in dirty chat and virtual *** for a quick gratification. Anyway, not all of them but that's my impression about many many of them.

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Posted On Nov 1, 2018 - 10:18 AM

I like only 33-52 aged men who knows how to handle bottoms wild n hard because they are experienced n know all...I love getting my boobs getting squeezed nipples *** bitten by them... getting my *** *** *** in *** get my *** spanked get *** *** ..

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Posted On Nov 1, 2018 - 11:48 AM

I like guys above 25 with strong and hard tools not old ones

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Posted On Nov 1, 2018 - 12:20 PM

I love older me.. 45+ .. I love their maturity, their skin tone. Grey or white hair is my weakness. I have met many old men. Some of them are around 70s but still fit and strong.. they have somekind of understanding about the relationship and they are caring too.

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Posted On Nov 3, 2018 - 12:53 PM

age is just merely a number.. i did have fun with all age groups.. but i always liked men older than 40. they have the experience and passion in satisfying their partner.

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Posted On Nov 3, 2018 - 04:20 PM

Heh. I never thought so many bottoms would too be not very interested in the 20 odd year olds. Hehe seems like I was wrong in thinking that they were the most sought after age group

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Posted On Aug 21, 2019 - 06:28 AM

Now a days I just love boys in 20s
I used to like men in laten30s when i was in 20s and now reverse.

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Posted On Jan 1, 2022 - 08:14 PM

I don't believe in age as long as guy is bottom and he like kissing smooching and *** hairy *** and balls

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Posted On Jan 2, 2022 - 03:53 AM

Old is gold.. Much love to oldies and their fantasies n passion to enjoy and explore many taboos at this age for them would be my pleasure to serve them...

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Posted On Jan 3, 2022 - 06:53 AM

I would prefer an old experienced man with a well built physique. Letting an younger man use your curvy feminine soft body feels degrading and humiliating. For me it's shameful to let a man who is younger than me play with my *** and boobs. But also so hot. I only want abs, muscles and a long hard shaft.

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Posted On Jan 3, 2022 - 06:33 PM

Sure age is just a number .
But my city is full filled with old uncles and daddy only.
Everytime when you go for cruising they follow you unnecessary. No Metter you like or not they will distrub you mostly all time.
So only for 1% people the age is only just a number
Nothing else
Don't compromise with yourself.

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Posted On Jan 4, 2022 - 03:09 AM

@Anurag222, may be you are sending pheromones to attract older males. Trust me that situation is there anywhere. So could have been desperate for *** from their matrimony or could be real gays or married gays ( read " bisexuals"). If you are not comfortable with that age group,you need to politely decline. I know that easier said than done, but let them enjoy you as much in appearance. Shows that you are eye candy for them😉.

Age is just a number, as along you are physically and mentally strong to manage. Either of the imbalances can make that statement wrong. So long you are able to handle both, trust you will look younger in your 40s or even 50s.

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Posted On Jan 4, 2022 - 05:35 AM

Age just a number it true.

Recently I have experience with a young guy.
I likes his passion and kissing but he was like just sit on my *** and give me oral.

With mature they do kiss and body play and if guy is fit then he can stay so long to bed.

I like both .

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Posted On May 14, 2022 - 03:05 AM

i get rejected due to my age 50+ many times
felt very sad

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Posted On May 17, 2022 - 02:27 AM

To me , I do imagine al kind of ages eyeing me for a fantasy.

But when it comes to reality, i happen to like older mature men when they handle me like their soft spoken son/daughter. That cozy feel is awesome.

It all started with a manly bear who i used to call as appa (dad in tamil). . even when he entered me with all care.

That was my story why i love all ages online but a special crush for 50 plus gentlemen.

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Posted On May 18, 2022 - 02:03 AM

What's in age.. age is just number. I am now 50 and yet to meet some one who has identified my age just looking at me. By maintaining yourself by workout and diet, one can easily cheat age. Having said so, ones thought process changes as you grow ( i won't say old), once you are with younger lot less than half of your age, interests and discussion topics are different and you don't find connect. Though it's good learning connecting with young generation to understand what they think however natural connection finds a miss. And last but not least, as i m growing I'm inclined towards more young guys. And apart from physical connection no other connection is being established

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Posted On May 18, 2022 - 10:34 AM

For me, age is not just a number. Older tops are my biggest fantasy and instantly turn me on. Whereas i don't feel the same way for younger tops. I would prefer younger guys as bottoms or versatiles.

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Posted On May 18, 2022 - 11:19 AM

Ditto. Old tops are a massive turn on for me, always have been. But not that I'm not turned on my younger tops. They turn me on too. Am not sure what point I'm making lol. Sorry for the ramble.

But yea if given the choice, I'd pick a 50ish top vs a 20 something top. The older ones seem manlier to me overall

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Posted On May 18, 2022 - 12:21 PM

When meeting a person one on one I love slim smooth tops so I tend to end up with young guys. I had a 19yo boyfriend for quite some time recently. But really any slim young top can have me. I especially enjoy seeing laborers of all ages on a construction site in the shower each day. I love all slim smooth laborers whatever their age.

I am not age specific at all and I also like the very elderly guys. I find it degrading to be dominated by someone so much less strong than me. I enjoy that degrading feeling.

However if I meet with a group of tops the dynamic is changed and I am excited by all body types, any top may be part of that group and I will greatly enjoy all.

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Posted On May 20, 2022 - 09:56 AM

Yes I agree too. I've found more fun and satisfaction in my relationships with older guys. I'm into lasting friendships too and welcome guys no matter their orientation !

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Posted On May 20, 2022 - 10:34 AM

It's so good to see that many agree that there's not much in age , There is no age bracket for older guys , anyone above 40+ is always welcome.
They are so caring and surprisingly active in bed . They are more kinky than young guys and some have lot more stamina .speaking from experience older guys are a bit slow to open up ,but patience is the key in bedroom,most of the older guys try to spoil their partners with gifts becoz they are thankful to meet their partners after so much rejections and the satisfaction they get with you.
But the disappointing thing is they are afraid of rejection and afraid to go out and explore .
I have personal experience with older tops like 40+ and 50+ and surprisingly a 65 yo guy too ,so yes they have a weakness for young guys.
To every older mature guy out there, don't be afraid to reach out to anyone, rejection is a part of the hunt ,but it's better to find like minded guys to meet , always spend some on safeties and good rooms

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Posted On May 20, 2022 - 11:06 AM

I like old and chubby. Age actually doesn't matter if both are willingly connecting. But compatibility does