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I think everyone of us agree that being gay or bisexual is not just about lust or sexual pleasure. Everyone might have had memorable experience with someone spl in a non sexual way. It might be with your friend, gay friends, gay partners or anyone for that sake. If you don't made let's share those experience too

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 08:50 AM

during an industrial visit to mumbai from my college, we group of around 30 classmate have booked in train..during the journey at night it was too chill and my best friend can't able to manage without bedsheet..i had one bedsheet for me..so he just volunteerly came and slept inside my bedsheet .we were hugging each other in a single birth ..it was too cool it made shivering too..the breathe of both of us were too close enough ..his legs are almost tied up with my legs..no more gaps between us...bt didn't touch his *** ...that night was so romantic.... there was no *** no lust .. i felt it as heaven! i just need that night again in my life.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 10:11 AM

My experience was with a friend at University in UK. We were housemates he was at a foreign country for the first time. We met on chat looking for room to stay in Orkut. He was younger to me n desperately looking for a place to stay during the studies. We both found a beautiful individual house just 5 mins walkable distance to the University with a great view and a most happening pub a block away. We both planned to travel together from India n used the opportunity to talk all the way in flight and know about each other. By the time we landed up in London we became close. Our friendship started that way and we got comfortable in our house with our individual rooms. We loved hanging out with each other n cooking together, shopping and it was a great company. It was Christmas break n things were getting lonely n dull n extremely cold that year lowest temp in UK was -18°c. He was New to the weather n took sometime to adjust. So we use to sit around the fireplace n chat n had hot coffee n hot chocolates he would have some beer n talk all our school n college experience. As we were talking and talking we fell asleep on the couch and out of nowhere we were hugging each other in sleep n suddenly both of us were aware of our heat in this sleep, but just ignored n continued to cuddle in our heat n hugged each other n slept in front of the fire place with snow falling out in the window. That was the best nap I have ever had so far, nothing sexual happened but that moment of heat the touch n cozy feeling bought us closer. After this incident we became much closer without any inhibitions we walked in underwear in the house, cooked in undies or just boxers on. Worked out together n so many things. Once he even spoke to me anna that day sleep was the best. We never had anything sexual the entire time, but lived the raw energy between us.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 11:37 AM

I guess everyone has atleast one friend, a best friend probably, on whom we had crush , who seemed to have reciprocated sometimes but is a straight. I have such a friend. We met on the day one of first year of college. The day we moved to hostel, I found him standing outside his room which is next to mine. We shared some small talk. And then he walked into my room and then we talked for hours - on the first day itself. He is not from my department. So we had to go to different classrooms but as soon as we reach hostel its just us. We would keep on talking through the night. He would always be in my room. I had one more roommate who was very silent about all these - till the end. Later by second year he had to move to another hostel. Then he took a room outside along with his classmates. But he would always visit and stay with me in the room. Or talk over phone for hours. Even when I go home for weekend we would talk for hours over phone. We had shared same bed for years. Cuddled. Sometimes peck on the cheek, or eyes, or rubbing the lips etc happened but nothing more. He has had girlfriends. But everybody in col knew we had some special bond. Some assumed we were into some sexual relationship. He has some hint that I am a bi. He is straight. But has shared intimate moments and has even told me once that he had a dream where we both kissed. He is very complex to understand. Anyway he is and will be one of my best friends. Now he is working in Europe. I know someday would come when we will have to talk about 'it'.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 06:35 PM

Nice topic - So many of them .....but one common thing I sense is we all seem to make the most genuine and the most unconditional friendships either in school or college as we grow older and get into the big bad world of the corporate workforce Our friendships change with the company.

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Posted On Sep 26, 2018 - 06:15 PM

I have a collegue who is a bit senior to me. Since the time I moved into this location (which happens to be a very remote one), we two made an amazing bond. Mainly because our choices match in almost everything - be it books, music, movies or hobbies. We are really close and even the physical inhibition is also very less among us. Like we've both seen each other in only underwear numerous times while on trips.
After a lot of anxiety about losing the friendship, I finally came out to him a few days back. He was silent for the whole time and that made me worried. I was almost sobbing near the end and urged him not to break the bond between us. But to my surprise, he hugged me very tightly for a long time, then planted a kiss on my forehead and told that no matter what, he will airways be with me.
I was so relaxed after that incident. About 15-20 days have passed since then and he has kept his words. I just feel super lucky to get someone like him in my life.

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Posted On Sep 26, 2018 - 07:09 PM

Not fully non sexual, but I get butterflies when my partner just rests his head on my ***, or we sleep naked together n just talk. 😢 Miss that feeling

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Posted On Sep 27, 2018 - 02:40 AM


For me too, many of such moments have come to my life... When it was much above the sexual pleasure and lust...

And I am sharing the latest one... Yester night's...

Yesterday on a gay portal, I got to meet a very nice masculine rugged guy... And when I got his call on my phone, his number flashed as Police (Thanks to TruCaller). I could now related the tag with his looks seen on a short video call.
For me, cops, force guys, athletes are like dream guys.

Anyways, cutting long story short, he came to my place in the night to stay over (as he was in Pune for some official work from a nearby city). We chit chatted, we had tea, then we had more chit chat, then we had dinner at home, then besides sharing bed and intimacy, we shared a lot about each other...

For me, it was really the moment, which fits into the scape of this thread...

Overall, a huge dream come true... Not only to sleep with a cop, but also to meet a good person.

PS: I have tried to keep the details hidden as kuch as possible. Request you also to not to ask details of the person.

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Posted On Apr 15, 2019 - 01:41 AM

I've had quite a few of such experiences both in college and at work. I tend to get very close with guys to the point that I always hang out with that guy. Mostly they were straight and they assume I'm also straight. Bike rides hugging them from behind, playfully stripping each other and bathing in falls/beach have all been awesome moments. For some reason, I like such raw fun more than sexual encounters.

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Posted On Apr 15, 2019 - 08:11 PM

Last year my friend n me had gone to Goa, we did lot of fun there ( non sexual), both were straight,we returned back to room from beach, we took bath together, one of dem have a long *** around 6.5 or 7, he has awesome, we did dance while bathing, n while dancing his *** was Swinging in all directions,dat was awesome experience...

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Posted On Dec 2, 2020 - 02:37 AM

This was my time when I was doing diploma I was planning to do diploma on Pune and I was on mumbai but parents not allowed me so I and my friend was planning and was planning for graduation so we planned and at last parents allowed and we gone to pune
Our college was near where we taken a house my friend old house 1bhk so we both where studying together
That time no sexual scene but when we where sleeping we hugged a lot
And slept together bimistakely our lips also joined eachother at night but that much only that was done only on those days

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Posted On Dec 2, 2020 - 05:14 AM

Yes vinayms I am also like you
I also like to touch and feel more than sexual encounters.
I usually like to touch, feel and press outdoors.
It's so much fun to feel your partners *** and *** over his clothes while enjoying cool breeze

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Posted On Dec 2, 2020 - 05:41 AM

I didnt know touching other's *** and *** arent sexual.

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Posted On Dec 2, 2020 - 09:03 AM

@vinayms similar situation during my visit to Kerala ..it's like we had gone n no public shower or such facilities to change if swam in beach ...then upon.enquiry for 600 a nice tiny resort kind hotel allowed to shower n keep bags ...it was 2 men n 2 ladies .. nonsexual fun in beach all over now while bath time girls asked first men to complete freshening as girls take longer time to n.girls were still at beach me n my frend were 24years he was AWSUM physic n was casual with me ...in.room he offered that to.save time let's both bath at a time so that we can go to beach chill.having beer while girls take long bath n fresh time ...I agreed...in.a Gify he stared stripping his only worn Speedo...I had to follow ...single shower n a bucket we were so close he asked me to remove my shorts too as sand of sea will be stuck all over ...I was more than semi erect I removed but didn't face him ......we took turn to get wet he said"Dude you have sand behind" I tried to wash my back n behind thighs ...he without a word started rubbing my *** n hipps n I tookaback ...chilled he was casual I didn't want to.complicate ...left him.to.do n then he asked me to scrub his back ,I silently did ...he was like "ahhhh man ur hads r Wonder it's so soothing " I said that means u need a massage ....we both giggled but he had a huge limp *** which was about 5" dangling n I was getting erect to deviate I said we have to hurry up n he n me lathered ...he lavishly rubbed my *** n almost ran hand towards croch bud didn't touch ...we dried n all the while we wer stark naked n he was hairy so he was under fan a while to dry faster ....man It was totally nonsexual but was my 1st time to nude bath with a buddy ....hope it's worth reading... excuse me for lengthy discription.... Cheers 🖐️

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Posted On Dec 2, 2020 - 10:57 AM


You missed the signals. Happens to the best of us.

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Posted On Dec 2, 2020 - 08:20 PM

An old experience:
Today I'm 35+ years old, but this was when i was about 24 yrs old. I was then working in Mumbai, unmarried. Since staying in prime area in Mumbai is expensive, I was sharing a small apartment with a college going guy (Charu) who was 20 yrs old. Charu was a very good looking guy and was very good at heart. We stayed together for almost 2 years, and never fought or had an argument even once. He was the most lovable guy in this world. We shared anything and everything with each other. I really loved him as a friend. Because of just one bathroom and the hurry we both used to have at the same time, we used to take bath together. We've seen each other naked almost everyday, but never indulged in any sexual activity. Although we never saw each other from the ***/gay angle, we both loved each other. He had a girl friend who was staying in Pune, and I used to help them to progress in their relationship. His girlfriend sometimes used to sarcastically say that she feels jealous of us and our love for each other.
The best thing i used to like doing with Charu was to play a soft instrumental music in a dim light and give a very very long but not a tight hug to my friend. The hug used to go for even 10-15 mins and he used to just rest his head on my shoulder, and we used to talk in a soft voice. He used to love my fingers moving through his hair. It used to take away all the stress that we had.
Later after Charu completed his education he moved back to his home town Pune. Fortunately, since my home town is also Pune, I too switched my job and moved back to Pune. His house and my house were almost 12 kms apart, and we could not meet everyday as we both were busy in our jobs. We used to meet on the weekends. Later in 2-3 years after moving back to Pune, I got married, and Charu was deputed to Bangalore for 2 years. Our meeting reduced, and later after 2 yrs Charu got engaged and married. Although we are friends and still in touch with each other, I sometimes terribly miss Charu's hug and his soft but firm hands and his voice ♥️. I miss Charu's physical presence with me today and sometimes wish I could go back 12 yrs and enjoy my time with Charu

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Posted On Dec 3, 2020 - 02:11 AM


I feel for you. All we want is love and care. Damn! Miss that old days romance.

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Posted On Dec 3, 2020 - 04:41 AM

@Funtimefun .....this is the kind of content I look forward to reading....I guess we all have had these moments...but the way you have chornicled it is just beautiful....yes wish we could go back to those times....🤗.

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Posted On Dec 3, 2020 - 07:38 AM

@funtimefun - what an beautiful experience! It's all the more poignant for the way you have presented it - so clear and well-written. Thank you for sharing.

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Posted On Dec 3, 2020 - 07:42 PM

Thanks guys! These feelings were written from the bottom of my heart.... They are typed in their purest form. I miss having those moments with Charu. Your comments are encouraging, and I will call Charu and try to spend atleast a day together and re-live those old moments. He is still the most lovable guy even though he is married. We had met with our respective family earlier this year just before the lock down.

I would like to read from those who are sailing in the same boat with me.

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Posted On Dec 5, 2020 - 08:58 AM

This happened in 2009 winter in Sheffield UK, I was doing my Masters there n lived in a private accomodation with four guys. All of us had individual rooms n mine was in the attic. It was one of the coldest winters in UK. I had made lot of Indian friends in the university who came from different places. This guy Senthil especially caught my attention in our first meet itself. We became very close as if we had known each other for years now. We used to meet up at students Union almost everyday for either lunch or evening coffee etc. One day he visited my room and we all had lunch together n we both excused ourselves to my room in the attic, the view from my room is actually breathtaking from the hilly slopes n everything was white n snow clad. We both crashed on to bed turned the heater on n changed into comfortable shorts as we both were tired of heavy clothing. We were binge watching movies one after the other leaning over each others shoulders n it was quiet small bed to say. We were crammed for space as both of share 6ft easily. When we saw out it was snowing quiet heavily n I asked him why not stay behind for the night. He agreed immediately n we both shared a big mug of hot chocolate n went back to movies n small talks about our college lives, girls, families n love n lot more topics. Felt sleepy n we kept the laptop on side table n snuggled under the comforter n started to sleep. As the night passed we got closer to each other hugging n hibernating in the comfort of each others body heat. It wasn't sexual at all just the warmth of two buddies n lil bit of a bromance. That night's sleep was really awesome, we both cuddled n huddled up n slept together like bear cubs in the den. We didn't know how long we had slept n we were woken up by our other house mates next day at lunch only. That was the best nap we had together n both of us proudly agreed to do it more often (lol) .
Even after all these years when we meet back in India we talk about that night together n our chit chats movies hot chocolate n nap n much more

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Posted On Dec 5, 2020 - 07:49 PM

So here's an update. With all your motivation and encouragement, I finally could speak to Charu some time ago and expressed that i want to meet him, preferably alone. He seemed excited and probably he also wanted to meet alone.... not with family. Charu's wife is visiting her parents, so she would be away for 4-5 days.
Fortunately, Charu said he would take 2-3 days leave during Christmas - New year week, and just the both of us would travel to Mahabaleshwar for our old times sake. Both of us are excited to catch up. I am more than happy for all this whatever is planned.
Thanks @boobybear, @ricky, @raju, @Vanju and all those who messaged me and gave me good wishes.
I'm desperate to hug Charu for a lonnnng time and hear his soft voice, cuddle him, cherish every moment with him ❤️

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Posted On Dec 6, 2020 - 01:38 AM

@Funtimefun this is soo kool....iam so happy for you both. We are all living the special moments in our lives through you and Charu....make the most of it....hope you will both be able to tell each other how much you mean to each other. Have a great time. All the best!!

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Posted On Dec 6, 2020 - 03:10 PM

This is such a beautiful thread !!
I am nearly in tears reading the warmth some of these posts talk of.

I am 40 , have had my share of moments. Most of them were missed opportunities. But they do fill me up with joy when i think of those.

My last experience was with a junior office colleague... we had some moments or atleast i thought so. I wish i had shown courage to share my feelings with him when i had the chance.

unfortunately i got too possessive about him and eventually we had misunderstandings which lead to us no longer being in touch. I miss him terribly .. i love him a lot even today no matter how much i try to forget him.

K if you are here and reading this... pls know that i will always love you ! I miss you.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2020 - 05:34 PM

I.met mahender in 2011 in a company ...he was from a different module ....sunil from.my module introduced me to mahender...he was 5.6 with bulging biceps ...short guy but fit and muscular ..i have a thing for muscular gym toned men ... I instantly got attracted to himm...we slowly got along he used to hug me from behind like im a teddy bear...i thought he was interested in me... We used to hang out together ..go to movies have biryanis together ... I was the one who used to pay for the bills..he lived 50kms away from my place ...if he gave a call and ask to meet i used to go all the way to his place ..meet him for a pizza chat over or eat biryani and go back home 50plus 50 a 100 kms bike ride ... I usssed to lay down on bed after a tiring 100 km ride.... The company got shut...our friendship continued ...june 27th was his birthday i bought many gifts for him , as he ia a fitness freak and control diet got a cake just made of fruits 2012 it was 450 ..its high for a middle class guy like me.. I went 50kms to meet him on his birthday made him cut the cake gave him the gifts had lunch ...every time when we met after his purpose of meeting wass over he used to say go ..on my face ...u gave gifts ckae cutting ia over lunch is done u have to go a long way home so go... I uaed to feel bad whn he was so upfront .. I liked spedning time with himm...i never told him that i love him or i am emotionally attched to him ....though my actions made it clear that i love him...he once said why do u show me so.much love a nd care ..why dont u love a girl and show that love and care on a girl ...why me ???.................i guess u got bored reading this .....i will end it here for now

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Posted On Dec 8, 2020 - 05:28 AM

@Fatchubbyboobs. Be strong. I feel for you. But this has happened with many. From the stories I have read, it is obvious that these guys loved intimacy with another man but did not take it fruther because of social conditioning that two men cannot be together and the stigma associated with it. I have had such experiences many times but in my case, it was sexual, though nothing happened. I knew that we wanted it badly and we liked each other but were stopped because of the same old crappy reason.

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Posted On Jan 3, 2021 - 07:43 PM

Hello guys,
With reference to my earlier post, I am super excited to share my updates. As decided earlier me and Charu were to catch-up in Mahabaleshwar. But the venue got changed to Murud. It was easier for Charu to come to Pune and then travel to Murud. We were supposed to leave in my car. I picked up Charu from his relatives place in Pune. The moment Charu got into my car I was in tears of happiness. Before even saying a 'Hi' he understood everything and gave me a tight hug sitting next to me. After crossing the busy Chandni chowk patch.... he said he would drive. While we both got out of the car to change our seats, he again hugged me. He surely understood everything..... he gently told me "I was missing you yaar"... For the next few seconds we both were in tears. Then we got into the car and for the whole 4 hrs we just chatting about our lives and also the old times. For the old time sake we decided to live like we used to stay as roomies.
It was almost 2 pm by the time we checked in the hotel. We had our bath together, like we used to have..... in our old days.... We had our lunch and we were just relaxing on the sofa sitting next to each other. Charu rested his head on my shoulder, and I felt amazing. I took Charu's hand in my hand and told him i feel amazing when we are together. Charu said to me "I know.... you love me the most, and I too love you". I said.... I feel amazing now. Charu played a soft music on his mobile, gently hugged me, and rested his head on my shoulder, again took my hand his hand and asked me how I felt. I replied "heaven". He kissed my hand. I felt mmmm. I kissed him on his forehead and also on his cheek. He told me he always knew that i love him. This did not progress to the actual ***, but we having soft fun like caressing, kissing, laying in the arms of each other, bathing together etc.
We were going to the pool, playing on the beach and in the sea, and inside the room being close with each other, for all the 3 days that we stayed there. We both loved being with each other. This was one of our most memorable trip and time spent with each other. After we came back to Pune, Charu had come over to my place for a dinner.
The best part is Charu is taking transfer to their Mumbai office by March, which means that we can meet more often.
I must thank god for all the good things that have happened so far and things happening in the near future.

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Posted On Jan 9, 2021 - 08:44 PM

I met a friend from college through a gay app. We were not looking for anything, just wanted to be friends. In an unexpected turn of events, I fell for him, but the love was one sided only. I remember how each and every small gesture of his used to mean so nuch to me.

One day we had gone to eat outside. The AC was on full blow and the cold air was brushing over where I was sitting. I told him I was feeling cold, so he asked me to sit beside him. I was in a bliss that day, we had a dinner together sitting on the same side of the table.