Straight world assumptions !

Have you had interesting experiences in a environment/culture designed for the hetero men ? Two of mine come to mind...

One of my G friends and I went to watch a movie in Bengaluru. Within minutes of us setting down in our allocated seats, a young hetero couple walked into our row. They walked past my friend and I and the girl turned around to checked the seat number. She realised their seats were the ones adjascent to mine. She was the one standing next to me and her boyfriend/friend was slightly away. Rather than taking the seat next to me, she asked her boyfriend to move closer to take the seat immediately next to me. She took the one after that. My friend would give me a smirk from time to time. When the couple took a break during the intermission, my friend started teasing me on how the naive girl had made a dangerous move by letting her handsome bf/friend sit next to me and how completely safe she would have been, had she been the one instead. We have a hearty laugh whenever we speak of this incident.. Any similar experiences ?

Let me tell you another incident. I once decided to get my reproductive heath checked whilst living Overseas. On the day of the appointment, I reached the hospital, completed the necessary paper work and a o nurse handed me a jar (similar to the one given for urine test) and pointed me in the direction of a room. I was asked to lock myself in the room and get a sample of my semen and leave it in the room for them to collect (and test). It was a small room with a reclining chair and a coffee table. I locked myself in and found half a dozen magazines on the coffee table. To my disappointment, all of them were straight ***.

I was laughing in my head. Even in the advanced western world, they assume men who come for reproductive tests are straight ! What if a gay man wants to get his reproductive health checks done ?

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No Picture explorer_here	Posted On Sep 16, 2026 When you are in a group of friends (both straight & gay), straights automatically assume that you want to sleep with every single male who passes by. Straight guys always assume that you want to sleep with them. Girls assume that you have a crush on their boyfriend.
No Picture Bottom_mohit	Posted On Sep 16, 2026 Straights assume n also many of tops... that all bottoms *** ***.. every top bottom vers straight all have their own likings or dislikes.. Im a bottom but i never *** or lick *** or ***.. but its assumed as im a bottom i will ***.. stereotype!
No Picture Justgetme	Posted On Sep 16, 2026 Everybody thinks bottom means female in the body of male....
No Picture Justgetme	Posted On Sep 16, 2026 And also straight guy thinks someone who is not straight are gay......I think they don't even know about word BI
No Picture Kanmani	Posted On Sep 16, 2026 Let me also tell you this. No one in this world are straight. Straight thinking people doesn’t get this world’s exposure and due to this society and stereotypes they themselves think they are attracted to ONLY WOMEN. but we know that even married men who have kids of our age are also coming onto us.
No Picture Newlywugarbaby	Posted On Sep 19, 2026 The straight things every gay guy is girly I don't say they are not some likes to be girly and some are not. A guy say to me you like to wear girl clothes I said no am not into that i like to be myself. If i am interested in same gender that does not mean that I feel like girl I like to be myself i like to wear my clothes even I have bad sens in fashion but I like to wear it I don't pretend like girl and all there will be some things in me of girl like I am sensitive I am emotional but that does not mean I am used to do all things in same *** relationship someone have to be passive and active in sexual way not in respect the straight guys things that active one has respect and superiority and passive one don't deserve respect and he is dull I don't like their this behaviour. I would prefer a person who respects dont act weird around me, and don't look at me that am something like trash
No Picture Bottm105	Posted On Sep 19, 2026 So this this also comes up once to mee so he was Muslim so everyone knows their mentality they'll have with you but won't consider them as bi or gay. So this happend when I went for a 3sum and one of them generally asked yeh tum logo ko bimari hoti hai na dimag m isliye tum ese ban jaate ho and I was like upfront abe lod"u tujhe girls psnd hai toh tere dimag m bimari hai iska mtlab fir uske frnd n smjhaya usse pgl ye bimari nhi hoti apni apni psnd hoti hai n mindset hota hai. Pta nhi uss gawar ke dimag m ghusa ya nhi.. but ye 3sum start hone se phle pucha toh m vha se nikal gya bina kuch kaare.. peace out hahahah. Sick mentality hai bhai logo ki.
UnalteredAbyss	Posted On Sep 23, 2026 @Bottm105 This is so true, and so damn annoying; I *** hate it when someone equates being gay with some sort of bimari. I literally saw another guy posting some *** comment on another similar thread, he said being gay is an illness, and affects people who were molested during childhood. Can you even imagine the sheer illiteracy among people of our community! some of us are trying so hard to advocate for ourselves and get us a better place in the society, and then there's people from our very own community trying to spread these stigmatized stereotypes...
No Picture MylifemyWish	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 its so very irretating that all men or women in gendral think all Gay or Tranz yes few are little femine side but not all Gay men are totally TRANZ with due respect to the Trans community but all are diffrent in there own way .. worse is when there are 2 Gay good frends but if by any chance one of them even meet there genral non gay frends also the other terms the frend as trying to hit on the frends for *** which is not fair and the cheap slurs they use is more demeaning and hurting like doesnt HUMAN THINK anything else than *** ok having kinks or flirts or some time non sextual frensship but not all will have 100% *** round the clock 365 days in life .. few just need little cuddle a shoulder or a person to listen there heart n mind out or max situations just to be a non judgmental frend. but sad not all live in such world but judging each n every one like ALL HERO MEN are RAPISTS all GAY MEN are *** MANIACs .. it does happen in mostly every were but few men are like they dont mind Man or women or child or adult or Animal they just *** n GET PLEASURE no matter how bad the opposite person is hurt or damaged mentally physically . and term being gay a MENTAL ILLNESS is very upsetting.. instance is when few so called PURE TOP just come to get *** . no emotions , no eye contact they remove bottoms and show *** they want us to *** like they are ALMIGHTY HIS HIGHNESS and they deep throat or *** *** n once cummed they dont care to even use condoms n act like there own *** is NASTY DIRTY and we are like TOILET CLEANING BRUSH .. which kind of mentality men i will keep them out of sight ..
No Picture Ya188	Posted On Sep 28, 2026 @MylifemyWish you got my point not every person looking for *** and all that weirdo things some just needs little cuddle or a shoulder a place to be open up.