Growing up.. Personality

As a growing kid/teenager, though I looked masculine, had manly manners/behavior, I was different from the boys of my age. I loved to sing, liked dance (though I never danced), never picked up smoking or drinking even in College, didn't go behind girls (even secretly), choose to hang out with aunts and female cousins, never played or watched any sport. It was not just sexuality, even in everyday life I guess I was different to other boys. How different were you guys from other boys ?

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No Picture Vayavya	Posted On Sep 3, 2026 I always been mocked for some of my feminine habits, the way I used to talk or laugh Classmates Gropped my moobs I had no intrest in sports too
UnalteredAbyss	Posted On Sep 3, 2026 I don't think liking to sing or dance makes you any less of a "man". And yeah, I do have the same indifference towards sports. Never could see of point in being excited by seeing a bunch of strangers kick a ball. About smoking and drinking, I haven't done any of those yet, and its a flex honestly. If not indulging in deliberate damage of my lungs makes me look "girly", then yes, I rather am. I actively turn down any offers to smoke, and when asked "why", because I am a boy, I simply point out to the picture on the cigarette pack, and say that I don't wanna end up like that. Its your life, and only you get to direct it. Conforming to this "stereotypical masculinity" only makes it percolate deeper into the society. Be upfront about your decisions, and steer away of people who make you feel inferior because of your choices.
No Picture Bottom_mohit *	Posted On Sep 4, 2026 Growing up i was avg built.. but had a bubbly *** from my early teenage.. boys use to smack it tap it touch it always.. i was a heterosexual guy, but the spanking and smacking my butt made me realize i loved it.. I more n more wanted to be done to me.. there were few elder boys who use to not just spank me, but use to squeeze it too.. n one of them after a while understood i liked it.. as i was a kid i use to wear shorts back then.. He once spanked my butt while we all wear playing hide n seek.. n we both were in hiding.. he spanked my butt so hard n squeezed it so roughly i moaned a little n shouted due to the pain. He kept hand on my *** n said dont shout or they will catch us.. as we were playing hide n seek i agreed to him.. then again he spanked my butt, n i felt pain n i saw at him, n he was signaling not to make noise.. i nodded.. n again n again n again he kept spanking me, i was in quite pain n my *** n thighs turned red as im fair n hairless back then.. he was smiling n kept signaling me.. then he asked is it paining.. i said yes.. He made me bend n told me he is checking my butt, so he put down my shorts n undies.. n touched my red sore butt.. i was like almost to cry.. he said sorry dear.. n told me he has one solution, he took leaves of the tree and bushes we were hiding in and made a little paste of them by rubbing in his hands, n said it will make me feel good, and started rubbing it on my bare butt.. i was facing the opposite side.. he asked me to keep an eye on the outside if anyone comes.. i said ok.. he kept applying it.. n slowly he held my small unerrect *** n balls while doing it.. i said wht ru doing, he said dont worry its the process, i was ok.. he kept applying it.. n i was now in less pain.. but as he was holding my ***, he was massaging it too.. n i felt weird but good weird n i started getting erect.. he kept doing it.. n told dont look back.. n i was moaning now.. He slowly put his index finger in my butt hole and i was again wht u doing.. he said shush.. keep looking.. i was ok.. as i was feeling good now.. n njoying it.. He kept going n fingered my *** with his finger.. made it wet by his saliva n now entered his thumb which was big .. i was like wow.. he kept massaging my *** n fingered my *** simultaneously... n now he took charge of me.. n inserted two fingeres and held my waist with his other hand n let go off my wet ***, n fingered me hard.. i started shaking n moaning a little loud, n he kept shushing and fingering me... n i kept moaning n shaking.. this went for a while, till i came.. n all my cumm was in the bushes.. and my *** was sweaty.. he kissed my ***, licked it.. n gave a nice spank again. I didnt care.. We both were exhausted.. n lied down there in the bushes.. he asked did i like it.. i said yes.. he said next time we will try something new to enter n winked at me.. n got up and said keep this in between us if i want to have more fun like this.. i was happy n said yes.. He and his friends use to spank me always, n fingered and even rimmed me for quite a while after that..
No Picture Kish1	Posted On Sep 5, 2026 UnalteredAbyss.. never once thought I was any inferior for what I and did I feel pressured to conform to the society's norms as it stood then; though it was a a lot more conservative than it is today. I just realised early on that I was different !
No Picture Kish1	Posted On Sep 5, 2026 *I did not feel pressured
No Picture S4meer	Posted On Sep 5, 2026 felt different in a similar way. I didn't care about sports at all, which made it hard to connect with most of the boys in my class. Instead, I spent most of my time in the music room or theater department. Hanging out with people who shared my creative interests—many of whom happened to be girls—felt much more natural and comfortable than trying to force myself into traditional masculine spaces.
No Picture ohhman_bj	Posted On Sep 7, 2026 I was in an iit coaching, and used to sit in the last vench. There was a biy who used to come close as class started and used to put hands on my hands. I used to remove my hand. Later, after 6 7 months, i thoight of keep going. He first put his hands on mine, and after 2 3 minutes, was touching my groin area. I saw him amd he smiled. After the class ended, since we had ur coaching in a buikfing away from main road, we took stairs and he popped my *** out and gave me a bj sooo hard, i cant forget. I came like hard within 1.5 minutes and came again in the next 2 minutes
No Picture Sanjuchubbybtm2	Posted On Sep 8, 2026 Currently i am 25 very girlly btm. When I was 19 i was chubby ( not fat😅 ) with puffy nipples. While I was in hostel I used hear a lot about gay Stories of my seniors and I used to be very excited, dreaming my self with them, and in bath I used to insert jet spray into butthole 🤤🫠. Cut to main part. We usually sleep with banyan (top) and just short (bottom). I was alone in room so warden ordered one of my senior to sleep in my room for a week. We introduced, all good, first day I caught him watching nudes of couples ( he doesn't know I saw), I exposed my nipples , expecting his touch at time of 3.00 am or something, I felt touch near pelvis, so I am half awake. Then after, my half open eye saw his tongue 👅 on my left nipple. Second day morning after bath I rubbed oil on my nipples for shine 😅, just to attract him and wore my old white banyan which was tight ( because of oil nipples were visible ).. We sat and discussing about 3 rd year, suddenly I ask - do u watch ***? He laughs and said everyone does. I smiled and said I never did and I want to know how it feels. He said let me show u and open nudes of redit couple, I acted innocent, and kept my hand around his shoulder - my nipple was touching his hand. In nudes there were gay pics also - I asked are u gay ? ( With funny tone ). He said no no no. I laughed and said okok chill, Share me few I want to watch more sir, We watched together that night. I slept while watching. When I woke up for washing during night. My nipples was in his *** and hand on my ***. I woke him up at that compromised position, he was nervous and said sorry very sorry ( inside I was 😁 happy). Then I went to my bed, after few time I saw his hand in his underwear and he faced to wall. I went and hugged him and said it was good. We turned off light, I asked him to treat me like I am his wife and take my virginity 😁😅 He used me, squeezed me, we did 69, dogy, Nd many many more for 3 hrs At 10am we had bath together, we were nude whole day watching *** touching eachother. It was my first heavenly experience 💓
No Picture SandipRaina	Posted On Sep 8, 2026 Hostel days are amazing..thanx for sharing your hot wonderful experience
No Picture Kish1	Posted On Sep 9, 2026 Thanks for your experience, guys. But, can we please stick to the topic. Let us know about your unique personality traits growing up.
No Picture Sanjuchubbybtm2	Posted On Sep 9, 2026 My personality traits are very girly behaviour, fluffy nipples, no hair on body, very tiny d**k, cute little balls between big thighs
No Picture Curious_B8	Posted On Sep 9, 2026 My father is a very strict guy. So I couldn't able to know how a boy should be. All I had was my mother and my sister. I don't know maybe because of that I had girly behaviour and feminine body. Due to that I've got face bullies in my teenage. They used to grope my chest which was bit large for a boy. Then I started to change my manners and doing workouts. Lost my feminine side. But still I don't know which was right. Keeping my feminine side or losing it.
No Picture Andy00	Posted On Sep 10, 2026 I was an introvert type of guy when I was young. I mean I never used to speak much I used to play sports, but then rather than playing I loved to watch muscular men, their thighs, legs, bulges, balls, etc., Later on when I went to college I was friendly with one of the guys senior to me to classes and that was the first experience I had.
No Picture maturevirgincd	Posted On Sep 11, 2026 hi i am 45 new to this all i need hairy aged man with huge *** to marry me make me cd lifeitme relation need very serious and secret
No Picture Chattyhero	Posted On Sep 11, 2026 I had all this characteristic in my teen except I was dating a girl. I had feelings for one guy as well. It was the most confusing state, thanks to some books which introduced me a term call bi.
No Picture soft_sam	Posted On Sep 11, 2026 I too was not very boyish when i grew up but neither girlish. I liked dance which was a taboo those days(I am 49 now). But when I was in school, a residential one, I was not sure to which side I was more aligned to, I was never as adventurous as other boys for sure and went well with girls as well as boys. I was not aware of much of sexuality or other side of things for long. But when I was in college i was making sure, I show more masculinity than being girlish, like being leader for many things, class rep etc though I found a secret friend with whom i used to dry hump. But this attraction for men returned even after marriage. I live bit of a versatile life now. never submissive to anyone though.
No Picture Gujjubaby	Posted On Sep 13, 2026 I was always groped by the Muslim guys in my school days, Also I was never into sports and not even today
No Picture Rajcute	Posted On Sep 20, 2026 Over the years I have grown into a very confident dynamic corporate guy. Love leading meetings trainings and travels. Love dressing into tight formals showing my good decent shape. I am not gym built but good built.