Open to Your Partner/Wife on your Sexuality

This thread is for married men. How many of you all have confessed to your partner/wife that you are a bisexual/bicurious/CD etc? Are they okay with you exploring your sexuality? How do you handle it?

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No Picture Aseem Javed	Posted On Apr 15, 2026 Lol.... no wife will ever accept a bisexual husband who has hots for other men or women. Depends if they are in an open marriage.
Adwait420	Posted On Apr 15, 2026 I Am Open To My Family And Society So I Am Free From My Side And I Am Very Much Proud To Be That I Am Gay I Don't Cheating Wife Infact I Told My Family That Don't Expect From Me That I Am Going To Marry A Girl Or Woman And Bring Grandson Or Granddaughter At Home Initally It Was Very Much Difficult To Accept My Parents But Slowly After 1 Year They Started Accepting Me What I Am Even My Cousin Is Also Gay He Is Also Not Ashmed Of It..
No Picture Rajeshmojo	Posted On Apr 16, 2026 @Aseem javed . U said correctly
No Picture vishal_kumar	Posted On Apr 16, 2026 Things are never so black & white. There is a huge spectrum of grey in between. I am personally aware of guys who are married and are out to their wives. Someone of them have even encouraged or have made arrangements to see to their wives satisfaction (fairness of which i respect). In some cases wives are aware, but have made peace with it, because rest all other aspects of their marriage are wonderful and they care about those more (which is also fair and individual choice). In somecase
No Picture vishal_kumar	Posted On Apr 16, 2026 In some cases wives are aware and are bitter about it and have screwed their husbands happiness (which is fair as well). In some cases according to husbands wives are completely unaware (which personally I do not buy). You always have some hunch about what sexually attracts your partner. Crux is every person's life, circumstances and obligations are different. Every choice has a cost attached (being open, being married, being married and open). Let's not paint everything, every situation in same colour. Every person has a back story.
No Picture J6.5inch	Posted On Apr 16, 2026 I know @Adwait420 he is also from Nagpur. What he had written is true.... But I am still not open with my family and I don't want to be.... Our Indian culture is all together different these things are not really accepted in our societies. I believe more guys think the way I think...
Adwait420	Posted On Apr 16, 2026 Thanks For Your Kind Words J6.5 Inch I Appreciate It
Adwait420	Posted On Apr 16, 2026 One More Thing I Want To Add Fellows Is That Tops / Pure Tops Don't Play Feelings With Pure Bottoms They Are Really Genuine Some Are Looking For Good Relationship Or Friendship Message To Tops Is That If You Are Really Bisexual And Interested In Girls Marry Them Don't Play With Your Their And Bottoms Life First True To Be Yourself And Try To Confess With Your Family It's 21st Century Damn Sure Family Will Accept You
No Picture Jac_sparow	Posted On Apr 17, 2026 Don't take risk or dare to say keep it secret only. Other wise lene ke dene ho jayenge. This all thing is taboo in Indian families though might they are into same what we doing but they don't come forward to share.
No Picture marriedcurious	Posted On Apr 17, 2026 @Jac, If you lie about your preferences to your wife you are living in hell, don't advise it to others. What's the point of life if you don't share your feelings with your partner? This is 21st century not medieval times.. The whole point of LGBT community is to be open and come out of prejudice.
No Picture Biswachat	Posted On Apr 17, 2026 What @jac_sparrow advised is always true, and practical. @marriedcurious - what you said is theoritically correct, but in life if we follow it, we will be f***ed from all sides
No Picture Dil_Bottom	Posted On Apr 17, 2026 I’m married and I have told my wife she is supportive she fingers my *** and peggs me to satisfy my needs
No Picture Jazzy_avenger	Posted On Apr 17, 2026 I have been very open about this with all my partners; my ex-wife and now my girlfriend also know about it. While they may not be very enthusiastic about participating in all of this, they don't mind that I like it because it's something that they can never satisfy. I am not drawn to other women other than the person I am with, so that's cool. In fact, my girlfriend now makes me *** on her dildo.
No Picture Jac_sparow	Posted On Apr 17, 2026 @marriedcurious that's y I said if u want to take risk u can but its not sure always it will go with u it might be against u. We are from the world where we used to go away when ram teri ganga meli scene come or doodh ka karz scene or satyam shivam sundaram. Or when this scenes arrives our mom dad used to change the channel and u says it's 21 century.
No Picture Akhshay7	Posted On Apr 18, 2026 I'm single but even after marriage I will not share my bisexuality to my wife.I confessed one of my close friend about it last year. After thae He asked me for *** with him. From last year he's using to have *** with me but I found no emotions in our friendship. He only use me when he needed and after that he even don't show any interest in me. So as per my experience no need to expose your sexual preference to anyone.
No Picture marriedcurious	Posted On Apr 18, 2026 @akshay7, I understand your point but here the person to be blammed is your *** friend who is using you. @jac_sparrow, I get your point. But acting likenot being interested in *** infront of parents is different from doing the same with your partner. Being honest with your partner and forcing your partner are two different things. My wife does not like everything I fantasize, in fact she is having aversion to a few things that are wow to me but she knows that I am into that kink. The feeling that she knows my kink itself is a big pleasure, you can share these with only your partner.
No Picture Sisyfrmknp	Posted On Apr 18, 2026 Yes she know
No Picture Phoenix_vers	Posted On Apr 18, 2026 Nope..
No Picture gayaddiction	Posted On Apr 18, 2026 My wife is fully aware of my bisexual desires and even she knows that guy with whom I had gay *** ...even she enjoyed watching me when I wear her undergarments n she even love teasing my *** hole with her fingers
No Picture Midhun_bot	Posted On Apr 19, 2026 I've relationship with married men. They'll never disclose this to their families as they call vay bottom like me to get a Bj which their wives never do. Also these family men say the unconditional obeying to their sexual needs like a slave kneeling in front of them drinking their semen and urine can't be fulfilled with their wives. So, these men will never disclose anything to their wives.
No Picture asitasit14	Posted On Apr 20, 2026 I have seen a case of my married Friend, and also heard from him about other married gay friends. His wife knows about him , in fact they are having threesome nowadays ( he has a kid also ) They both are happy. But not everyone's lucky enough. So if your partner is not accepting that thn your whole life will become hell. Take any step wisely
No Picture roy thompson	Posted On Apr 21, 2026 Yes I have informed my wife about my relationship in gay some how I conveince her an then we live like family for time
No Picture dy6969	Posted On Apr 21, 2026 I have a gf we’re in relationship from past 7yrs and she knows I’m bisexual from 5yrs she accepted me and let me have fun with guys.. I’m a sucker btw and she knows that.. sometimes she asks me get a video of me *** and we have *** watching those videos and she even kisses me so hard while the guy cummed in *** or before we meet if I *** a guy off she smells the taste of *** and kisses me
No Picture Ballsdeep2	Posted On Apr 22, 2026 I have kid of a different approach to this discussion, I am a vers bottom but I've also had sexual relationships with females, I just enjoy *** in all of its forms. However, I haven't come out to a lot of people in my life simply because there are people who looks up to me and people who find comfort, support, and safety/security in me, and these are good, kind, and overall amazing people, they just find homosexuality awkward, that's it. Since they're straight individuals they tend to not prefer homosexual relationships as openly as one would like. Keep in mind these people are not homophobic by any means, they are very open to the idea of homosexual relationships, but I have a feeling, that given my relationship with them based on the trust and emotions involved, they would view me in a very different light and colour if they found out who or what I am. That's the only thing keeping me from coming out to them. Likewise, there are people I know, who know other people who are homophobes and think homosexuality is a mental disorder and if I come out to my people and they accept me for who I am, they will in turn have to face these *** who will trouble them to no extent regarding their relation to me, the thought of which bothers me enough to not consider outing myself for the sake of their mental peace.
No Picture bilove69	Posted On Apr 24, 2026 My girlfriend is a bi too so she had no issues in accepting my bi nature. And since we both are bi, this hasn't affected our *** life too. The only promise we made to eachother, is that we'll be safe and cautious when we have homosex
No Picture Stevegay	Posted On Apr 24, 2026 Its difficult to do..probably more of a social and mental blockade...we talk about gangbang and scenarios during *** and role play and stuff...but haven't opened up about getting *** by others....
No Picture Shamu_Gupta	Posted On Apr 26, 2026 I havent told my wife, but I am sure she knows. She often calls me a Napunsak since I have a 2" ***. Also, she know that I wear her panties when she is not around. She is cool about it. Just, at times, she beats me with her belt and makes me lick her *** and ***. I dont like that. But since I am her pet, so I need to do whatever she says.
Daniel_shaman	Posted On Apr 26, 2026 @Shamu_Gupta you are living a sub's fantasy. Man I would give anything to be like that
No Picture vforall	Posted On Apr 27, 2026 @Aseem Javed agreed, in India most wife wouldn't accept/ digest it
No Picture Karthipriy	Posted On Apr 28, 2026 Hi friends..i did open talk with my wife..i like new fantasy like nudist n flashing... Even with my wife recently started n having fun.. Slowly she start doing... Note I'm not looking for bull like tat... Just for fun so who intrested in flashing n exbhist can msg..we can try in theatre, beach ,ecr like tat
No Picture Vicky Jain	Posted On May 2, 2026 It is easy to say that if one person can open up, everyone else can too. But the truth is, everyone’s life and situation are very different. Everyone has their own path, so instead of judging someone for staying quiet, we should respect their choice. In our so called Indian society, you have to be very careful before sharing the truth. Your safety depends on how open-minded the people around you are. Even with your partner, it is risky to share things unless you are 100% sure they will understand. If they don't, you might lose your biggest support system. Even your own parents might disown you or make things worst. Since the outside world is already so harsh, there is no reason to make your own home a bitter place. Staying silent is often the smartest choice to keep your home peaceful and happy. For those who feels just because someone was able to open up and were successful, think a 100 times before taking any step as the result might be opposite for you. Remember we live in the Indian society & not in any western country.
No Picture Corporate_guy23	Posted On May 2, 2026 So i have not explicitly shared it with my gf that i m bisexual but we had some dirty kinky talks about *** a dildo together, gang bang threesome cuckold etc only while sexting and *** but only as fantasy as not really into real stuffs as of now
No Picture Onlytopboy77	Posted On May 4, 2026 I’m from Mira Road, and this happened when I was coming back from a trip to Jaisalmer in mid-April. I had booked a sleeper bus from Jaipur to Mumbai. About 3 hours into the journey, I noticed this Marwari guy, probably in his late 40s. He kept trying to get attention—talking randomly, offering help, and giving some odd reactions in between. I didn’t think much of it, mainly because he was travelling with his wife. She was sitting quietly beside him, half ghunghat, keeping to herself. So I ignored everything. After 10 PM, the bus stopped for dinner. Everyone got down—to eat, freshen up, or just take a break. That guy came up to me and said the washroom queue was too long and suggested we just go somewhere open. I didn’t think too much and went along. But then things got weird. Out of nowhere, he turned toward me, looking in a way that made me uncomfortable—like really staring, biting his lips. I asked him what was wrong, and before I could even react properly, he stepped closer and crossed a line, saying something inappropriate. I didn’t create a scene, just stayed quiet, and we both went back to the bus. Later, after midnight, he came again and started hinting at stuff, asking if I was interested. I even brought up his wife, but he brushed it off like it was nothing. Since our sleeper cabins were opposite each other on the upper side, he eventually came over. What surprised me more was that it didn’t seem like his wife was unaware of anything. It felt like she knew what was going on. Anyway, the night passed like that. By morning, we reached Borivali. Before leaving, we exchanged numbers, thinking we might meet again. And yeah… we did meet later. That’s when things got even more unexpected—turns out he had his own thing going on and was actually looking for someone for his wife too. Rest of that story… maybe next time.
No Picture versbot40	Posted On May 6, 2026 I was caught having gay *** with my elder cousin by my wife after few months of our marriage. He came to visit us and stayed in next room. He was the first one with whom i started doing gay *** in my early teenage as a bottom. Late night when she was sleeping i went to his room and we were enjoying. She woke up and not found me then she came out of room and when she opened the room as we forgot to lock the door, saw me getting *** by him. She was shocked. Yelled and went back to her room. I went back to our room started talking to her. She was almost crying. Then i told her clearly that i like this way more. I know u are not satisfied with me and u have some desires too that can’t be fulfilled by me. I hugged her and kissed her and asked do u need satisfaction too while pressing her boobs. She asked how? I called my cousin inside our room and said he can satisfy you fully. She said nothing. I removed her nighty and started *** her boob while i signaled him to join. He too joined and started kissing and *** her boobs. She too started enjoying and later have great *** sessions with him and got fully satisfied first time after our marriage. I loved the cuckold session and she too enjoyed with him and me *** by him. Later started sharing her with other my old bi frineds and online friends and enjoyed *** all together. For the past few years she loves pegging me with strap on dildos.
No Picture Abhi07261	Posted On May 10, 2026 My gf got to know that I’m bisexual then she broke up with me and later called me to *** his new bf’s di*k
No Picture All4unme	Posted On May 10, 2026 @Abhi07261 may b ur gf wanted to take revenge so she called u and made u to *** his bf *** Did u go and do ??
No Picture Fat_Top_AJ *	Posted On May 13, 2026 i used to hav a mature fun mate .. we litraly mated like aprox 20 times .. before he was moving to another city he called me in d nit as he wantd to hv fun for 1 last time and we were in his bedroom nd havng som fun i got some sounds outside i was panicked and asked him who was it.. he said his wife its ok lets continue.. but am scared and force stopd him.. he den made me comfrable by caling his wife to d door nd said her to smile as i was fearng of her.. dat was a very shock to me.. after this incident i met him 3 more time even after he moved to another city
No Picture Devsharma9911	Posted On May 15, 2026 She cought my chat many time but I'm not dare to open about that
No Picture Darling baby	Posted On May 15, 2026 DevSharma, your wife caught you messaging but didn't ask you anything about this
No Picture BossTop	Posted On May 16, 2026 Me my cousin and my wife has started drinking in my bedroom and we both are first time taking drink but my cousin already drink many times. So, on that day we have started drink at After 12 night. After few minutes cousin has started touching my wife legs when we are talking then i have started another aunties discussions. So, on that time my cousin has started sexy pics of the aunties. Still they are touching legs of my wife but i can't see their touches. After 1 hours my wife in full mood. He has directly started kissing my cousin in front of me then she comes with me. After that she try to go into bathroom but not able stand properly. so, my cousin had helped her to go in bathroom. 2-3 minutes both are stay in bathroom when i watch my wife was *** his *** after then all are in very mood and we have *** my wife one by one. After then my wife has shared experience. She loves threesome and tell me find another friend and let's do same fun with him.
No Picture kunkun	Posted On May 17, 2026 Married for 3 years she doesn't know
No Picture Saikrishna	Posted On May 17, 2026 Okay.. I didn't confess to my wife yet.. but to my ex gf, I had confessed once which ended things very badly.. and that's why I don't wanna confess to my wife now
No Picture MarriedMan50	Posted On May 23, 2026 Yes, I have been a bisexual cuck and had opened up with wife about my sexuality
No Picture Incst	Posted On May 29, 2026 If your wife accepting your bottom role so thats means she is *** as hell like a whore😉 so u can try3 some aswell so she will also enjoy both of your roles😉😉
No Picture milfrider19	Posted On May 29, 2026 I recently told my wife about me being BI top. I told her that I only got *** by many guys just to quench my thirst. She is aware of my high *** drive and I get *** very easily, actually most of the time in the day i'm ***. I told her this while *** her, we used to do roleplay of lot of kind and i have also told her I will get *** by a guy infront of her many times earlier in our session. So when I told her the truth she only asked me If i did after marraige which I lied because I did not want to have any issues. I told her it was before marraige and if she likes I can get *** infront of her too, to which she was positive. As she is a cuck queen and she fantasize about me *** some girl so she agreed to me getting *** by a guy infront of her. I dont want to rush into it, will take time and then move forward and will get *** by someone infront of her.