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Definition of uncle and boy - are you uncle or boy


Submitted by Rahul xv Location: All India (All India, India)

Whats the definition of uncle and boy here .how do you say if specific person is uncle or boy...

Based on age physique or look?

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OneFromJaipur
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

Nothing matters
As soon as you mention your age in online conversation or on your profile, people typecast you in uncle
An 18yr old calls a 30yr old an uncle
A 30yr old calls a 45yr old an uncle
And interestingly, even a 40yr old calls a 50yr old an uncle

So rarely people go by looks or physique... People go by number.

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lahirej469
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

generally its 18-25, above 25 to 45, and then 45 - 80, above 80 i have not really heard about 😂, but i have absolutely seen some young guys who like 60-80 year old people.

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Softage
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

Don't know about others... But, I am a 45 Yrs young boy! 👦 Love being a boy always 😂

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Rahul xv
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

I still consider myself as a college boy. Not sure why but i don't want to be considered as uncle by anyone other than people born after 2010 or 2015.

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DiscreteCruiser
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

For me, I call uncles, totally from their physical appearances. If you look old, not taking care of your physical appearances, grey hair, will be called uncle. It has never been age. Seen people above 40, looks sexy as ***. They workout, maintain themself, have healthy lifestyle etc. It never be age but mindset…..

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Suryaaryabb
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

Physical appearance can be controlled but grey hairs !!!?? 😂 @Discreatecruiser

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Hung_Twink
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

I am a boy who's into older men.

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AskMyName1
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

When someone is a teenager or in school/college—basically up to 21 or at most 23—you can call them a boy. After 23, they’re generally considered a man. But honestly, physical appearance or looks shouldn’t be the basis for what you call someone.

In community contexts, you have labels like twink, bear, daddy, etc., but in general everyday conversation, it’s better not to box people into categories.

Instead, use warm, universal terms for everyone: buddy, bhai, brother. Even older people appreciate being called brother—it makes them feel younger and more positive. A lot of people already feel they’re aging fast, so using youthful terms helps them feel better rather than old or excluded.

The goal is simple: make people feel good, make them feel young.

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Realmeetprem
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

I am 35 mature slave bottom but people judge me uncle and by physique i am like an teenager or below 25.

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Arwin
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

Mature men are attractive when they take care of their body, taking care doesn't mean chiselled muscles, abs, it just means to have nice dad body, flat stomach zero fats or less percent of fats around stomach n waist, and appropriate amount of fats around other part of the body

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Lungi_toy
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

@Discreatecruiser is absolutely correct. I have seen 28 yrs Uncles and 45 yrs boys. and grey hairys can be easily hidden by colors & full shave @askmyname point to be noted this is what i also follow.

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Hitgup
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

For me , it completely depends on physical looks and body structure.
I know someone who is 38 but still hot as ***,smart handsome, maintaining himself exceptionally and full on muscular. So he is not uncle for me even though I'm 18 and he is 38.

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Bottomwhorebong
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

Gays and their shallow outlook of the world. LOL.

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KochiBBtm32
Posted On Dec 12, 2025

Well age and looks I suppose. Boy usually refers to guys 18-25? Uncle is usually used derogatively? Refers to an older guy who's the stereotypical Indian man 40 and older I suppose? Hot older men are daddies? Lol. It's all very random and beauty is in the eye of the beholder usually.

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NeedDaddy18
Posted On Dec 13, 2025

I'm 19 now so for me anyone above 35 is uncle only 😅 i still see myself as a student teenager. and yeah i do have daddy issues not gonna lie. i like older men and the sugar dad vibe. i like being taken care of and treated like a daughter. thats just my thing 🤷‍♂️

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Storyteller_kp
Posted On Dec 13, 2025

More than 35 are uncle
Us age me Jakar straight bhi seduce ho jate easily.
L*nd and balls bhi mote mote ho jate he with lots of experience

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raju1987
Posted On Dec 13, 2025

Age should be just a number if someone likes someone they shouldnt consider age just above 18 is legal and there is no limit.

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TopGang
Posted On Dec 13, 2025

I am an uncle by age. I am uncle by look. I am an uncle by dominating nature.... I am looking for teenager to *** my rick dialy. You must. be educated boi...kinky by thoughts... And ready to obey orders like small kid.... You must be mature enough to enjoy games.... Location western line Mumbai...

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TopGenX
Posted On Dec 13, 2025

Age is just a number. Good looks is all that matters. People who know me, know me. And people who dont , I have no intentions to make then know me. If you judge by the age, then Sharukh khan and Mahesh Babu would not be so wanted.

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Muslim_bull
Posted On Dec 13, 2025

I'm 28 years old.

I identify as a daddy dom.

"Uncle" doesn't mean anything in this context. Daddy dom is more of a preference/kink

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Nikhilvirar
Posted On Dec 13, 2025

Toned body is more than enough, age is a hurdle when online crushing. If u go cruising n u have toned body no barriers 😘. Stay fit and enjoy, age is just a number.

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SHANTANUnu
Posted On Dec 14, 2025

Nowadays I am proud as uncle
Equally I am grateful to all uncles,piso,meso,tauji,grandpa,dad's friend those r made nephews for me,by the by also grateful to all teachers who seduce their students for me🙏
That's why lots of uncle lovers in this world

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Bumblebee2025de
Posted On Dec 14, 2025

I am 40 plus..had i been married at 27 now my soon would have been in his teens..so I am an uncle obviously..but gymming fitness calisthenics de ages you..it comes with the perks of being hit by young twinks, girls, complements..you feel butterflies when someone says “20s la partha mathiriye irukeengaley or 40 mathiriye therilaye”..so all lovely ppl in the 40s lets strive to some workouts daily and be trim and fit..trust me you will enjoy it once you are there..

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Vayavya
Posted On Dec 15, 2025

Well I am 36 and finally knowing myself completely. Look 30 (or so I'm told), feel 25 on weekends. Seeking someone genuine for the real stuff — coffee dates, deep talks, and everything in between
For sure I am not going to be anyone's sugar daddy. Looking forward for partnership not orphans looking for daddy's 😛

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DecentBott36
Posted On Dec 15, 2025

it's not super strict rules,..mostly based on age, but looks, physique, and the kind of dynamic you're into play a big role too. Uncle usually refers to mature/older guys..generally 40+ with that dad-type or experienced vibe, while 'boy' is for younger, slim, youthful-looking guys. I'm 35+ myself but definitely not in the uncle category yet My physique and energy are more like a 25 yr old, so hardly anyone sees me as an uncle. In fact, when I'm in the mood and dominating, it's got that wild teenage energy 😂
At the end of the day, it's all about how you feel and what vibe you give off.


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foroldertops
Posted On Dec 15, 2025

As a young sissy slutty bottom I can't get enough of manly hungry older tops making me moan

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RUHULBNEW
Posted On Dec 16, 2025

I m young slim boy need older uncle for everything enjoy

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Abhishekkkkkkkk
Posted On Dec 16, 2025

I am 29 chub. With bug assets.. calll me mommyyy or milf or anythinggg.m lookin fkr a sugardaddyy. So he can be under 25 or above my age too..

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cindrella_c
Posted On Dec 16, 2025

im uncle by age and body. i prefer young tops. in bed and *** im boy.

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Takerrr
Posted On Dec 16, 2025

Im young top boy. I prefer bottom uncles....

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CCBomb
Posted On Dec 16, 2025

😅 I am 36 but look 25! At least, thats what people tell me all the time! They Find it hard to believe that I am 36! Even if I grow a beard.. Maybe because I have a small face and a petite body.. Still it doesnt stop men or women from salivating when they see me...

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Topppp20
Posted On Dec 17, 2025

I'm 20 year old top. I don't know why i am crazy about btms above my age. I would like to an uncle mostly. Most aged btms are complaining about the don't get young tops. Well here i am looking for u guys dm once you know me you'll never be disappointed.

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Rightonein
Posted On Dec 18, 2025

My theory - if the age difference is 15+ then calling the older uncle is fine , if both of them crossed 60 then then can call themselves dada, bhai, etc..

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BlackyIshaan
Posted On Dec 18, 2025

Who gives a *** about age...every man is still 15 by their heart

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Sissyudaya
Posted On Dec 18, 2025

Im 37 i like to be called uncle when getting humiliated and abused

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Solo_Rider
Posted On Dec 19, 2025

Uncle? What's that??

I'm daddy and I don't mind getting called daddy. I'm 45. And I love boys. Boys means 18-24. That's it.

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Slimboys
Posted On Dec 19, 2025

For sexwise... I have been with gym and physical fit They lasted exactly one reel time.... Age between 20- 35.
And I also with people by there physical appearance you would consider them uncle but they lasted 1 hrs ... And then uncle turn into daddy...

For me age don't matter. But I would never go less than 20 as I don't trust yes I am 18 guys.

For me vibes matter most how passionate you are and ofcourse hygeine also matter.


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Ajaybot_chennai
Posted On Dec 20, 2025

yes age is doesnt matter. looks and physique attracts. i spread my legs for those who have stamina to make me to beg and cry.

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RAAO
Posted On Dec 20, 2025

The concept of age is a fluid paradox where one’s social identity is defined entirely by perspective rather than a fixed number. At 25, you occupy a unique "middle ground," serving as an elder "uncle" to a child while remaining a "young man" to those in their 40s. This social friction—where teens may avoid 20-somethings for being "too old" while others seek them out for their maturity—proves that "young" and "old" are subjective labels. Ultimately, how we fit into these roles depends on individual maturity, personal preferences, and internal mindset, suggesting that age is not a rigid boundary but a reflection of our own fantasies and the company we keep.
Would you like me to adapt this into a short Marathi

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Nikhilvirar
Posted On Dec 21, 2025

@RAAO well explained. Agree 100% 😘

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Adhii21
Posted On Dec 22, 2025

I'm 21 but no one like 21 boys becouse of that still we are wondering with our life with handsome uncle tool and a#s really the elder are not elders they are super hot and cool minded guys -- i not say uncles are uncles they are boys but .. age and experience is high 😚

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mat40
Posted On Dec 23, 2025

Sadly, In this generation, " ageism " has taken center stage ; No one wants to understand a person's mental age.

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Kinkking *
Posted On Dec 24, 2025

30+ is uncle for me I'm 23 ( but I like uncle more because they don't have demand list) young one has huge demand list 8 inch or gym physic etc but uncle are cool however you look or tool size and treat you good to

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surojit_bot
Posted On Dec 24, 2025

I have met both young and old (uncle type) guys. They literally have the best maturity and understanding (atleast most of them). On the other hands most of the young guys prefer physics and looks. For me depends on the situation and performance though and how much they can entertain me.

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AskMyName1
Posted On Dec 29, 2025


When someone is a teenager or in school/college—basically up to 21 or at most 23—you can call them a boy. After 23, they’re generally considered a man. But honestly, physical appearance or looks shouldn’t be the basis for what you call someone.

In community contexts, you have labels like twink, bear, daddy, etc., but in general everyday conversation, it’s better not to box people into categories.

Instead, use warm, universal terms for everyone: buddy, bhai, brother. Even older people appreciate being called brother—it makes them feel younger and more positive. A lot of people already feel they’re aging fast, so using youthful terms helps them feel better rather than old or excluded.

The goal is simple: make people feel good, make them feel young.

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Btmslave77
Posted On Jan 1, 2026

For me 45+ aged are uncles and i love to serve them

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Ameerpet02
Posted On Jan 6, 2026

I'm boy but looks like uncle age 27 really young but face cuts are like that, 😆 I don't know whether I have ot introduce myself to tops and vers as I'm young uncle or young guy so I ask them to do vc to see eachother

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Zakir290
Posted On Jan 21, 2026

it is indeed a complicated discussion. when i was in my late teens, neighbourhood kids and nieces and nephews of my peers used to call me uncle. it did sear my heart but i ignored it. when i was in my late 20s, people used to inquire which stream of CBSE board m i pursuing and it used to make me feel so flattered. well then during covid lockdown, my weight almost touched 100 kg and my self esteem went down like a house of cards does. right now in my mid 30s, i am working of myself and physically with god's blessings, i am again look much younger physically but my face does give away my age now. so, i have comfortable embraced the "uncle" label without any quarrel.

and i have not been going to gay dates since years now. last time when i went on a blind gay date, i was 29. the guy i met was so cute and kind and considerate. it was the only best date i have ever been on.

now i truly hesitate going on dates because even approaching anyone online has become tougher. the moment i tell my age, i get branded as uncle and instantly rejected.

people don't really care about their physique either. for me honestly at this stage in life, i have understood that i don't gravitate towards looks anymore. if a person is not morbidly fat, i don't mind meeting him.

but it is a slippery slope.