Sugar daddy experiences maybe good or bad? Anyone here ever had one or been one? What are the real rules? How do you handle the transactional aspect without feeling cheap?
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Sydguy22 | Posted On Dec 8, 2025
I’ve been on both sides and what I can say is being on the baby side is fun for a while but it gets emotionally exhausting. You have to put up with a lot and it’s not always instant rewards you have to spend a while getting them to trust you and building that relationships. For the daddy side most times I’ve only been doing it with escorts and have been generous with them if they’re spending at least 2 or more days with me |
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Vayavya | Posted On Dec 8, 2025
It's really frustrating when you're on a date and the other person doesn't even offer to split the bill, let alone pay for it, and just assumes you're covering everything. I've paid the full amount several times myself, and while I'm fine doing it once as a nice gesture, the least they could do is offer the next time without me having to bring it up.
There was one date where the bill came to ₹1500, I paid it all, and he didn't even bother to send his half later. Nothing. Not a word.
On the rare occasions when someone does pay for me, I always make sure to immediately GPay them their share, or at the very least cover the next meal/coffee, or get them a small gift or chocolate as a thank you. It's just basic decency – we're dating, not trying to use or loot each other.
Yesterday also I spent almost 800-900 Rs on a date.
Honestly, going 50-50 from the start is the fairest and clearest way. Not everyone can afford to treat every time, and no one should expect the other person to be a sugar daddy/mommy. It keeps things equal and respectful. |
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everydaygayguy | Posted On Dec 8, 2025
@Vayavya- that is exactly how it is supposed to be. |
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Vayavya | Posted On Dec 8, 2025
And one thing I’ve learned the hard way: never lend anyone cash, no matter what reason they give. Only give money if you’re 100% okay with never seeing it again. People rarely return it on time—if they return it at all.
I had a horrible experience that completely ruined a years-long friendship. My best friend at the time and his then-partner bought a sofa from me for ₹6,000 and said they’d pay later. On top of that, he borrowed another ₹18,000 and didn’t return a single rupee for over a year. Whenever I needed my own money back, I literally had to beg, and he always had some lame excuse. This was someone I’d known and trusted for years.
Eventually they broke up, and only then did he somehow manage to return the cash he had borrowed. But when I asked about the sofa money, he casually said, “Oh, my ex took that, ask him.” I was stunned. The sofa was still sitting in his house, yet suddenly it was my problem? I never got that ₹6,000, and our friendship was destroyed forever.
The moment money enters any relationship—friendship, family, or romantic—it has the power to spoil everything. Trust me, just don’t do it.
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Zoyan_ali | Posted On Dec 9, 2025
@Vayavya- I totally understand your point but buddy your should have some pointers in life
●1- If you are so calculative or expect the person to share or contribute plz be clear before going out or taking out someone
●2- if you did and the other person doesn't offer or contribute so avoid going out with him next time.
●3- No matter what but other than Your
1- Parents
2- Wife
3- Childrens
Never ever lend money to anyone not even your siblings & if you give then put that in mind that it's a charity never expect it back..
This is not a platform to discuss all this
So plz stop crying no one is going to help you in this things here |
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Pearbodyboy | Posted On Dec 9, 2025
Very well said, Zoyan! |
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Vayavya | Posted On Dec 9, 2025
No not crying jus sharing old experiences n it is a platform to share. |
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DecentBott36 | Posted On Dec 9, 2025
I’m very upfront from the start: “TTMM – tera tu mera, mai.” Everything 50-50, no exceptions.
Because I’m not desperate and I make that clear, the pure money-hunters usually vanish before even saying hi.. If someone is genuinely talented or in a temporary rough patch and actually needs a hand, that’s a different story. I once helped a sharp engineering guy cover part of his college fees. great connection – he paid me back the day he got his first pay after placement. That felt good, zero weird vibes.Other than that, I’ve never done the classic “sugar daddy” thing.
(Although… looking for a sugar baby now just kidding!)
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afzal_khan1986 * | Posted On Dec 9, 2025
Jaise age bolo 30+ by default "Sugar Daddy" bolenge.. but it's really not good... It's like pros***tuting.... If we like someone we Definitely spend considering their student life but should not be asked... Not only that even 25+ ask for money.. ridiculous... |
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Roysideguy | Posted On Dec 9, 2025
@decentbott36 u are absolutely right.. also nice of u helping the guy.. good deed man! |
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ANDYfook | Posted On Dec 11, 2025
Been a sugar daddy for almost 9 years now. It's been a tough life. But we do meet genuine boys. Younger boys usually need money. It's a win-win situation for both.
Personally I have met some very good guys.... Yet we r in touch.....
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MylifemyWish | Posted On Dec 11, 2025
If anyone asks for money or any kind favours they r only for that money n favour not for love or even lust on u , or worse they use u sexualy n even loot money.. they r disgusting disguised shameless gigolos who don't identify themselves as gigolos but they *** money n peace out of the innocent some psy knowingly n some guys come from miserable family where they have never seen money n they come enjoy with others GIVING back is never in there plan or intention slowly they vanish n worse is worse they play victim card we r money minded n no value for there frendship.. so thumb rule NEVER EVER LEND MONEY , IF LENT JUST FORGET AS ITS COMPLETELY BSD DEBT. |
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Sevenday | Posted On Dec 11, 2025
I understand. .it happens..sometimes u meet gd ppl and sometimes u meet bad ppl..
For some it is bad experience and for some there will be gd experience. .
Thats how life goes on.. |
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Siddhant | Posted On Dec 14, 2025
My experience has been mixed. Initially, I used to mind that people lied about their situations when asking for money. I am also generally very empathetic as a person, so I fell for these excuses and helped them out, and it pained me later to know that they lied. I cut ties with them after that. Slowly, I adjusted my thinking and now whenever I give people money, I don’t have any expectations out of them to return or otherwise. I just see it as a good deed I am doing to help someone. Even if they lie, at least I am mentally at peace. |
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Mature Man 294 | Posted On Dec 16, 2025
I am a mature man who is into just twinks. So for me paying to get what I want has become common. I aint willing to settle down on my fetishes If you call them that!!
On these dating and cruising apps some of these boys act like radhe maa all pure and pious and when they come to know about me i.e. a mature man they suddenly turn paid.
I have no qualms on paying but be upfront about it. I sometimes believe its easy money for these guys. They are getting paid for there raging hormones. Mazaa bhi aur paisa bhi !! and the worst are the pure twink paid tops - Who are just looking for a hole to ***. Ladki to mili nahin isliye find men to *** and get paid for it.
I also believe If I am paying I set the rules of engagement not the other person. Free mein to consider karna padta hai . Paise bhi lo aur natak bhi karo aise kaise chalega ??
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Aksray | Posted On Dec 17, 2025
Only desperate people look for such lifestyle. One because he's past his prime age and the other to make a quick buck with no effort.
It's time to go
SUGAR-FREE DADDY
The term "sugar free daddy", a playful or ironic expression, related to the concept of a "sugar daddy" but with a focus on avoiding the traditional financial aspects of such a relationship
BE YOUR OWN SUGAR DADDY
This is a popular expression that means being financially independent and not relying on anyone else for support. The "sugar free" part might suggest a rejection of traditional power dynamics and a focus on self-reliance.
REJECTION OF SUGAR DADDY LIFESTYLE
A sarcastic or ironic way of saying that one doesn't need a sugar daddy because they are self-sufficient and don't engage in sugar relationships.
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raunchy indian | Posted On Dec 18, 2025
I don't mind being a sugar daddy and financially sponsoring guys- saves the effort of trying to impress and get into a relationship. With being in the mid 40s, reasonably fit and good looking and financially reasonably OK, what's the harm in letting a youngster enjoy? Am looking for such youngsters and then regular sponsorship if its a mutual fit. And before anyone says I should go for rent men, this is not just *** alone but company at a nice restaurant or cinema before fun if at all any. |
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LetsBreed | Posted On Dec 19, 2025
@Vayavya: Exactly you are so true?
@Everyone who supports and who depends on others to pay,
Listen - Why do? and on what basis only one person has to pay in a date? is he ur best friend? Is he known to you from many years? is he your relative? NO there is not even 0.1 Genuine reason.
Its always 50 50 if not dont keep money things in Date, just sit in a public park and get lost |
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Topintown | Posted On Dec 19, 2025
When i was 21. I had one guy who visit from london, every month to meet me. He paid me 5k just to spend a day with him no *** just cuddling Just hanging out. I thought he was straight untill he told me he had a indian boyfriend who lost his life due to hiv complications. He is also positive thats why he never asked to sleep with him even he is on meds now. The reason why he met me because i remind him of his ex.
I felt bad and stoped taking money after that,
now he comes 6 to 7 months. We are still frnds. I love to hangout with him.
So not all relationships are bad, i got frnd for life |
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Hairychubbysumo | Posted On Dec 19, 2025
Going Dutch is the best thing ...i feel its better to tell it before the date ..that "hey lets go dutch ... im paying mine ..you pay yours ..you need to pay yours... or lets split the bill ..before hand ... real men will understand it ... if they dont .. they we know what to do ...it saves time and many things is what i feel. |
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Pixie | Posted On Dec 19, 2025
Sugar Daddy has a very negative connotation, usually referring to prostitution or whoring; however, according to my years of personal experience as a sugar daddy,
I think the relationship between a sugar daddy and sugar baby is not that of a whore and a client but rather a relationship of mutual understanding of needs: a mutual exchange of *** and
money or gifts. When I am traveling in India, in Grindr, I advertise as " Sugar Daddy looking for fun" I get overwhelming response from young boys, mind you these boys are not whores or prostitute,
they are students or young boys in need of money for various reasons. The boys who advertise themselves on rentmen, mintboys or jock2go are escorts; it's not that I can't afford these boys,
these boys are too professionals and *** with them are too mechanical. Therefore, I prefer sugar boys. In India, not all boys are sugar boys, I have met many, many sugarless boys who like to have
*** with older men or uncles and they don't ask for money and many have refused to accept money. Some do ask for gifts like sneakers, ear buds, smart phones and so on but not money.
Conventionally, whoever invites a person for a date has to pay for dinner & drinks hence, I pay for the date and I also don't mind paying taxi fares for the boys. As you see I consider sugar boys as
a friend who I can have *** with.
This is the very reason I visit India quite often to meet dark & spicy sugar boys or sugarless boys.
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karan88664455 | Posted On Dec 20, 2025
to be frank i dont want to be suger daddy where sugger daddy fools himself by thinking that the suger baby loves him
I want to hire bottom staff with everything communicated proprly
and keep them on job and take services
clear no fooling each other |
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Pratikku | Posted On Dec 20, 2025
@Pixie, I'm glad that you analysed the reasons for boys asking money. Many people don't understand that well off person never demand money for ***. It's poverty which compel them to do so. I liked that you have empathy for these unfortunate people 😊.
May your all fantasies be fulfilled in India. Regards.
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rahulpp0 | Posted On Dec 21, 2025
well thats the general terms of the relation if u dont want to do that dont do just stop crying
if u want a teen guy too f u or f him u goota give somethin to make him do that
btw i m that teen guy heh if anyone is intreested for stuff like that may dm be decent and i prefer married people dm for more detailss |
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Siddhant | Posted On Dec 21, 2025
Love the perspectives. Keep them coming. Sugar dad here looking for my sugar babe. |
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sundardeshmukh6 | Posted On Dec 21, 2025
Its simple, if you invite someone on date. You should sponsor or before hand mention its TTMM (as we do with our friends)
Regarding this sugar daddy & baby thing is somehow similar to “gold digger” in heterosexuals.
Daddy & baby , publicly accept you are in relationship. Give them gifts and do whatever you want. (As men- women do in relationships).
If money involved ONLY for ***, then for sure it’s prostitution. Name whatever you want to but technically by definition it’s prostitution.
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AskMyName1 | Posted On Dec 29, 2025
I've been with someone, but it was mostly for emotional reasons.Nothing sexual , so it was actually , good I was a good friend of them |
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Raj8ih * | Posted On Jan 28, 2026
I am from Hyderabad
With 8.1 inch and VIRGIN A Ss
Looking do R.I.C.H suger dads
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