Gay Men and Money

Sugar daddy experiences maybe good or bad? Anyone here ever had one or been one? What are the real rules? How do you handle the transactional aspect without feeling cheap?

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No Picture Sydguy22 *	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 I’ve been on both sides and what I can say is being on the baby side is fun for a while but it gets emotionally exhausting. You have to put up with a lot and it’s not always instant rewards you have to spend a while getting them to trust you and building that relationships. For the daddy side most times I’ve only been doing it with escorts and have been generous with them if they’re spending at least 2 or more days with me
No Picture Hornmarathi	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 As a Sugar baby transactions been tough for me. I do have foreign partners who are generous but I can't accept it in the fear of getting flagged by my bank. I do accept amazon gift cards instead, it's quite reliable.
No Picture Ranu3332	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 Ok
prasanthkumar	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 Suger daddies can support financially ?
No Picture raunchy indian	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 Looking fwd to being a suger daddy and support financially- regularly also if we click. Am in mid 40s and looking for young top, preferably Muslim. no ***, just soft fun and mainly hanging out.
No Picture Tanny899 *	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 I always thought of something like this , I'm young 24 M from south mumbai and open for this kind of fun. Is anyone around here interested ??
No Picture _Sanjay_0_0_7_	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 I'm 22 top
No Picture Gopu62 *	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 62
No Picture Vayavya *	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 It's really frustrating when you're on a date and the other person doesn't even offer to split the bill, let alone pay for it, and just assumes you're covering everything. I've paid the full amount several times myself, and while I'm fine doing it once as a nice gesture, the least they could do is offer the next time without me having to bring it up. There was one date where the bill came to ₹1500, I paid it all, and he didn't even bother to send his half later. Nothing. Not a word. On the rare occasions when someone does pay for me, I always make sure to immediately GPay them their share, or at the very least cover the next meal/coffee, or get them a small gift or chocolate as a thank you. It's just basic decency – we're dating, not trying to use or loot each other. Yesterday also I spent almost 800-900 Rs on a date. Honestly, going 50-50 from the start is the fairest and clearest way. Not everyone can afford to treat every time, and no one should expect the other person to be a sugar daddy/mommy. It keeps things equal and respectful.
No Picture everydaygayguy *	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 @Vayavya- that is exactly how it is supposed to be.
No Picture Vayavya *	Posted On Dec 8, 2025 And one thing I’ve learned the hard way: never lend anyone cash, no matter what reason they give. Only give money if you’re 100% okay with never seeing it again. People rarely return it on time—if they return it at all. I had a horrible experience that completely ruined a years-long friendship. My best friend at the time and his then-partner bought a sofa from me for ₹6,000 and said they’d pay later. On top of that, he borrowed another ₹18,000 and didn’t return a single rupee for over a year. Whenever I needed my own money back, I literally had to beg, and he always had some lame excuse. This was someone I’d known and trusted for years. Eventually they broke up, and only then did he somehow manage to return the cash he had borrowed. But when I asked about the sofa money, he casually said, “Oh, my ex took that, ask him.” I was stunned. The sofa was still sitting in his house, yet suddenly it was my problem? I never got that ₹6,000, and our friendship was destroyed forever. The moment money enters any relationship—friendship, family, or romantic—it has the power to spoil everything. Trust me, just don’t do it.