Breakup after a long term same *** relationship.

I'm creating this thread for guys to share their experiences and pain who have been in a committed long term (years) same *** relationship, living together and then dealing with the breakup of such a relationship and the experience post that.

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No Picture Cdbtminvelacher	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 I’m thinking of jumping into one. But so scared about this because it’s inevitable. We cannot prolong that relationship forever like opposite *** relationships.
No Picture shalini	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 I don't Indians are yet to accept same *** relationship i was in a relationship with someone for some 7 years i was literally his ***...i was ready to keep it secret but we had to part ways
No Picture manu69bottoms *	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 Nothing hardly goes for long term here. Many people JUST SAY they need a relationship, but justtttt disappear without a clue. There are soo many who are just shi** scared to contact on whatsapp, or even hesitate to reply back on the telegram. 99.9% here are just fantasy oriented. They just need someone to TALK and CHAT SEXX with them when they are ***, and once leak away, Nothing at alll. I desire to be in a good Gay Husband and Wife relationship. I intend to give my partner, all the pleasures, what a female may give. However, no one hardly has any sensibility and understanding at alll..Not only JUST ***, can even be good companions. But very unfortunately, MOST of the people here, are just Hippocrates and FAKE. Ofcourse, SAARE JAHAAN SE ACHHAAA, Isnt'it. Here the Good ompanionship, ***, all are limited only to words. In deeds??? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
No Picture manu69bottoms *	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 Also, There are soo many ONLY *** HUNGRY CHEAP SWINES, that they dont even go through the profile of a person, to know if they may contact them or not. They just look and the picture and start messaging up, like hungry stray dogs. We write the profile for a reason. Cheap stakes need to know, we write the profile for a reason and they need to check that first.
TopGenX	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 Relationship is bullshit. Just *** and forget. Who even wants to repeat a partner? Why stick to one dish when you can have a full buffet? I have people asking me to be in relationship with them. What people dont understand is, RELATIONSHIPS HAPPEN. Just because I look good doesn't make me a relationship man. I prefer my independence to have *** with anyone anywhere.
No Picture Realmeetprem	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 In m2m fun any long term relation never exist in india except master and slave. And if long term exist i never found any one like that.
No Picture TamaRai *	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 I think it's inevitable for a same *** relationship to end especially in India. I've had my fair share too and had to accept it because it's not practical for me to expect my man to remain unmarried or be willing to face social hostility just to take my hand. Whereas now last few years living abroad, I've seen a lot of same *** couples living together or even entering the wedding bond. But I've personally lost the will to get into serious relationship with anyone.
No Picture Dirtyboy123	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 yeah it hurts at the beginning but then you move on.
No Picture Savvyme23 *	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 I was in relationship for more then 08 years starting from age of 17 . Ofcourse we were not living togather but committed to each other with fullfillment of each other's desire . But eventually we parted ways as things went sideways . So perticularly in India , relationship in same *** is very difficult and batter to look for friends with benefits.
No Picture newfbu	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 First they told they will manage long time relationship but one time you give your every thing to him he use you intimation done and then he don't have time for us. This is black truth of this world. Very few get true love here.
No Picture Harry80	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 There is nothing called as true love ❤️, its only mutual benefit !
No Picture Jeanebad	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 I was in relationship 7 years back whom I thought was a perfect partner for me. He was from Bhadrak, Orissa, was short like 5 feet, stout build, and chubby fair looking. He was my bus travel partner at first. I remember, first time we met was in a crowded bus, where he bumped his crotch to mine, before we got going together. He made me wet as a stranger in a crowded bus. Initially I hated his company, but with time, I fell for him. We were travel buddies, meeting in weekends, beer, movies, hangout and ***. He was a dom bot and he had turned me into sub top. Although he was always annoying (used childish plays like nose boop, navel pokes), irritating (slapping my *** etc) me, touching me in public etc, I always enjoyed his company. I trusted him at whatever he did with me. But my bad luck, as our relationship lasted for two years only. He broke up as he was getting married. Ever since, he has not spoken with me and still it hurts badly. Break up happened too quickly as I was finally loving his company and had stopped dating other guys. He was bit teary too after break up, and now he has even blocked my number as well.
No Picture IlliosSun	Posted On Oct 28, 2025 I think (it's totally my opinion, and I don't care if anyone agree or not): True love isn’t even a real thing — it’s just our own insecurities and desires that we try to fulfill through another person, labeling them as our soulmate. And no one — literally no one — is ever going to fix those insecurities or behavioral patterns for us. We’re all just chasing someone who reflects the higher version of ourselves. So *** these rom-com notions of love. Be there for yourself first; only then will you be able to connect with people with pure intent and genuineness, trust me you would be self-sufficient and wound not require any one else to fullfill your needs or maybe find a partner who’s on the same wavelength, mentally and emotionally (but this time your intent would be different and so does this relationship). Try to overcome your emotional dependencies and live for purpose. This is coming straight from a lot of experience, after multiple failures.
No Picture Sydguy22	Posted On Oct 29, 2025 My Marathi friend who I was dating has cut of our relationship as he was struggling to deal with his father not supporting his sexuality and was not talking to him. He wants space but I feel really bad and want to support him. What should I do? For reference we both live in Australia and I am an Australian. He moved here five years ago from Mumbai
No Picture Pinkpanther2025	Posted On Oct 29, 2025 It will be under shell as its not fully legal in india if its allowed it can help in curbing population up to some good extent IMHO
No Picture WohGayLadka	Posted On Oct 29, 2025 There are so many complicated things involved in gay relation Too much distraction on socials. Guys trying to break you up. Partners not being open to threesome with outsiders and those complications My ex dumped me because he found me cheating while he was cheating me with his friends with benefits To deal with it I got 4 of his friends to *** me right before he returned home so that he can see it which he did woke I was moaning like a hungry whore telling them that their friend can’t breed me like them
No Picture Anirudhbottom	Posted On Oct 29, 2025 I think In your case you could have agreed for an open relationship
No Picture Juicyboo	Posted On Oct 29, 2025 i loved a guy when I was i school he was older guy he only seduced me mallu guy was staying nearby bachelor I liked and obeyed him and he too my virgin *** and he used me for 4 years unlimited storage and made me addict those was good memories
No Picture Midhun_bot	Posted On Oct 30, 2025 After joining diploma course at a distant college, my senior protected me from ragging. I was in my teens shy and girlish but no idea about gay stuff. My senior took the opportunity and asked me to be his girl partner for a duet dance program. He gave me ladies dress also for practice. While practicing in a rented room, when dancing together he used to press my nipples and buttocks which i thought he's doing for perfection. In fact i was getting ecstasy when he did that. I was not knowing he was deliberately seducing me. The relation continued for 3 years at the college.
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Oct 30, 2025 @Midhunbot same with me also become bottom to college senior roommates
No Picture Findabeach	Posted On Oct 30, 2025 Nah most of the tops are here for *** thats all they are not here for love,marriage and ***.same with me i am here only for *** i either get it from a bot or a girl i dont give a ***.
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Oct 30, 2025 @Findabeach bottom always gives better enjoy for top then girl anyday
No Picture LetsBreed	Posted On Oct 31, 2025 Guys just *** and forget, dont get in to any dramas, crying etc.
No Picture Anuj89hot	Posted On Oct 31, 2025 I was in a committed relationship for about 8 years, in those we were living together for 5 years. I think there are many of us in such relationships from what I can tell unfortunately maybe they are not on this platform to share their side.
No Picture dilse4u	Posted On Oct 31, 2025 Correct, it's a reality of life *** and forget, Ladke ladkiyo ke sath bhi yehi ker te ho to same *** person to kya chiz hai....jab dil bhar jata hai na tab ek time ke baad sab ko naya *** nai gand ya nai *** chaiye...aur ye satya bhagwan bhi nahi badal sakte....to dosti me pagal hone ki koi jarurat nahi it's real world not fairy tale...
No Picture Zion	Posted On Oct 31, 2025 Ye sab bakwas hai ki love affair in same *** bus hawas pura Krna hai koi bewkuf hai jo pyar ka naam deta hai pyar wyar kuch nhi hakikat hai aur apna kaam banta bhand me jYe Janta
No Picture Findabeach	Posted On Oct 31, 2025 @Zion exactly its that simple.
No Picture Swarup891	Posted On Nov 1, 2025 Indian guys are not that emotional for man. Everyone is *** seeker in india.. gay and bisexual here are for enjoyment, stress relief, fantasy, orgasam, lust. No one here is in depression after gay relationship break-up
No Picture Coksuker	Posted On Nov 2, 2025 Once I fall in love with a Muslim guy elder than me when I was in college. We were roommates and initially no conversation happened within us. We were 3 guys sharing one room. Suddenly one guy moved to another place without any prior information. Then at the first time me and that muslim guy started talking. He was a working guy. I was in my first year college. I used to prepare my own food. Once due to heavy rain he was unable to go to his regular dinner canteen. So I prepared food and offered him. He liked it so much and asked me if I can prepare food for him daily. He was ready to pay charges for it. But I accepted his offer without any pay. Afterwards we got close enough that we even used to watch *** together. One night we both came late at night due to rain. At that night first time we crossed every line and had casual ***. He used me as a *** toy.I was in love with him and he was also. We were treating each others like husband and wife.He always topped me like my husband. He was a married man. We lived 3 years together. When his wife was first time pregnant at that time his family forced him to stay with his wife. We both were broken heart. Finally he decided to leave me. We were in touch but after he had second baby,he started ignoring me. He stopped receiving my calls, stopped responding my messages. I completely broken. It took almost next two years to come out from this trauma. After that I met many tops but never attached with them. As per my experience Muslim men are mostly Tops and wild in bed with long-lasting stamina.
No Picture Hitgup *	Posted On Nov 2, 2025 According to me it's tough to find a gay real relationship in India. Men here wants *** mostly that too with different different guys. But then there are always exception so yeah there are few who actually want relationship but very few are lucky actually find one .
No Picture Asimas	Posted On Nov 2, 2025 @cocksuker yes you are right I am also involved with muslim college sinior roommates they are strong fucker give girl like feeling but are only for ***
No Picture lovepablo25	Posted On Nov 3, 2025 lovely guys, nice and honest expressions. Whether short or long term term relationship keeping its respectful, dignified and. enjoyable is the key. We all here need it.
No Picture newfbu	Posted On Nov 3, 2025 If both can understand then true love is also possible. If we both give my 💯% from ourside. We can both be happy together.
No Picture Tinawifey	Posted On Nov 3, 2025 I agree not to get into relationship as it’s very painful But romance with BF is very beautiful I m Tina , trans Cd bottom girl
No Picture Rahulkumarmumba	Posted On Nov 3, 2025 Bottoms, especially pure bottoms, want relationship, love and long term connection and some times exclusive relationship. Pure bottoms make too much drama. Tops just want ***, as much as they can get. If they are pure tops, they just want to *** and forget. So the possibility of relationship is only among versatiles. How long? Depends on when one of them gets bored and gets another.
No Picture Luffy_vers *	Posted On Nov 4, 2025 Was in relationship fro like 3 yrs he was like 5 yrs older then me. We were good until the marriage come up I felt like he just used me or I don't know wht to say
No Picture Dost4ever012	Posted On Nov 4, 2025 Not possible if you're looking for a monogamy. Otherwise, I have very close relationship with a person around 25 years elder than me since I was 17. Now there is another person and we are like in a close relationship since past 1 year and we are very very close. Both of them know that we are in open relationship.
No Picture Vishal_T	Posted On Nov 4, 2025 I beg to differ with some of you. Love exists even if it is in between same ***. Yes, you are right. Cheating, looking for new partners, and being adventurous is human, and it exists in straight relationships too, so putting everyone under one canopy saying that same *** relationship doesn't work is wrong. Loyalty is less because we are not bound to anything legal, example marriage. Even straight couples who choose to be in a relationship out of wedlock do the same. They change partners when they get bored. Marriages give confidence and confirmation to both the parents, gay or straight. The problem is in the society. The day people start accepting same *** relationship, many would stick to each other because they wouldn't be afraid of being themselves. Today, even if one of the partners is insecure due to family's pressure or society's, the relationship becomes sour, and both partners get affected no matter how much the other shows strength and commitment. So, it's a choice for many, like they have expressed above – to move from one to another or for the others to show courage and be with the guy. It's a choice for them. Others, sadly, have to give in to the family's and society's expectations. I was in a relationship with a straight guy. Yes, as straight as a ruler. No bi, no curious. How we ended up together that's another story. Briefly, he loved me because he saw a girl in me. That's the underlying fact. He and I were inseparable until his family got him married. He didn't have the strength to fight their conservative minds, so he gave up. Can I blame him? No. Is he suffering like I did? Yes, for sometime but he managed because he was straight. He was able to come out of the trauma in a few months. I stayed where I was.
No Picture Harry80	Posted On Nov 4, 2025 Better to fall in lobe with a *** doll than a human
No Picture blueboys	Posted On Nov 4, 2025 Break up is common in our relationship
No Picture Peta_roy	Posted On Nov 4, 2025 Hi
No Picture Varsha_sisssy_6	Posted On Nov 5, 2025 Being a sissy i know the what comes the end, even when I get started. Only matter how long it will last. Both in bed and relationships. I realised this when I am just a gay not a sissy. I had genuine feeling for a man (49). He made me sissy (not by force have to accept that) I did enjoy being with him. In the 1st s@x encounter itself i realised our thing won't last. Because once he is done he literally kicked my out of oyo which I booked for us. And said go to home . While I am almost home he called begged to come back i expect for sorry he called him because he is turned on and had 2 more rounds. Made me sleep on the floor . I don't know why am I doing this even though he is treating me this way. He is the 1st man I even lost my virgi**ity. Last i realised I lost my masculinity and self-respect too. Later many a times he kicked me out same way. But I kept going to him . Even now .