Breakup after a long term same *** relationship.

I'm creating this thread for guys to share their experiences and pain who have been in a committed long term (years) same *** relationship, living together and then dealing with the breakup of such a relationship and the experience post that.

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No Picture maturelonelygay	Posted On Nov 13, 2025 for me getting a person itself difficult how we will go next level relationship is dream in my life everyone won't get everything in life people seen age and physical appearance mature gay feel is very difficult in the world!!
No Picture Broken_jelly	Posted On Nov 13, 2025 I have been in relationship samesex for 16 years, now we have been seperated after so many times of cheating , so I can't be in that relationship as a one of the options for moral support and sexual dump. So I got separated from that relationship but still love him as a person , I blocked him after that I slipped into deep depression and tried therapy and some God &support of my family members i came out . But still have panic attacks and pain in my heart . But I will over come those with my strong will . I don't need money only one love . I want to become a good wife for one good husband.
No Picture Jazzy5	Posted On Nov 15, 2025 With a guy for long years sweet time some bad phases not a relationship but best friend always with some fun but recently he passed away a loss I won't be able to recover anytime soon
No Picture Rajendr	Posted On Nov 29, 2025 I am pure bottom if top need any top for long term relationship then then I will.reqdy become wife
ThirstResponder	Posted On Nov 29, 2025 I’ve been in a couple of relationships before, and of course it hurts when things end. That’s natural. But I’ve realised something over time: love is a bit overrated, not because it’s bad, but because the way we romanticize it is shaped too much by movies, songs, and popular culture. Reality is very different. You can’t walk into a relationship expecting someone to live up to those dreamy, unrealistic standards. And honestly, crying over someone who cheated on you doesn’t make sense anymore. It says more about them than about you. At this point, I feel it’s healthier to either stay single or be in an open relationship especially if looks, attraction, and sexual satisfaction matter a lot to you. What’s important is being honest with yourself about what you want. If you get swept away by feelings and expect the same intensity back, it’s not really your fault but it is where we get hurt the most. The truth is, in the time we’re living in, expectations need to be realistic and grounded, not shaped by fantasy.
No Picture Sunaina_bottom	Posted On Dec 9, 2025 Im looking for teen pure Girlish bottom for relationship from or nearby vijayawada, Andhra Pradesh.
No Picture blueboys	Posted On Dec 17, 2025 I'm looking real relationship
No Picture Hairychubbysumo	Posted On Dec 19, 2025 We met during the lockdown, at a time when the world felt paused and lonely. What began as casual conversations slowly turned into something more intense. For six months, we spent a lot of time together. We laughed, shared meals, went out whenever we could, and often met at my place. There was closeness, warmth, and intimacy. For a while, it felt easy and joyful. Somewhere along the way, I became emotionally attached. I wanted more than just moments; I wanted continuity, reassurance, and a relationship. But he wasn’t looking for that. Every time I brought up the idea of being together seriously, he would pull back. I learned, gradually and painfully, that we were not on the same page. Later, I discovered that he was interested in other men as well. He was active on dating apps, chatting with many people, meeting others, and keeping large parts of his life hidden from me. He was extremely secretive. That secrecy hurt more than anything else. It broke my heart because I had been open, honest, and emotionally invested. At one point, I even told him that it was okay if he wanted to see other people, as long as he stayed in my life too. Looking back, I realize that I was compromising myself out of fear of losing him. But even then, he remained distant and guarded. He wanted freedom without accountability, closeness without commitment. Eventually, I let him go—completely. I told myself: fine, he wants other men, fine, he desires different things, fine, we cannot be together. I tried to accept it all and walk away with dignity. And we drifted apart.
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