28 above and still unmarried

One is expected to get married once he/she attains 25 or above in our society or community. Depending on the community, culture you live in there are different pressures levied on it. I'm not from the North so my culture and tradition is different from here in the North. The age for marriage is dynamic in my culture and not much pressure from family, friends etc. I've been in the North for a couple of years now and noticed that people rush for marriage once they're 25. It looks like they have this pressure of you have to get married before 25 or 27. When they're aware of me still unmarried they would act shocked and concerned and would suggest me the obvious suggestion. Almost 98% people at my work place above 25 are married and they would ask me when am I getting married. Ask me reasons to why I'm still unmarried at this age. I would explain them that it is very normal for us to be late or early. One guy at my workplace had experienced of working once in my state and he knows how things are different from here and he would helped me explaining lol. I understand there are differences in beliefs, customs, thinking, perceptions but when you live in a place or society which is very different from yours you feel awkward and embarassed at the same time haha.

How do you guys manage and live your life unbothered when there are necessary pressures or concerns even at your workplace. Forget about your friends and families haha.

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No Picture Ballsdeep2	Posted On Oct 4, 2025 I'm 30+ right now and unmarried. Anytime someone asks me when I'm getting married I ask them will they sponsor my life of I can't do so, the discussion ends so quickly it's hilarious. 😂😅🤣 The point I'm trying to make is, in today's world one can't be too sure of the future, living one's own life and taking care of oneself is difficult in itself, and people want to throw a whole another family into it just because it's "time/age for marriage" is an absolutely absurd excuse to do so.
No Picture Dirtyboy123	Posted On Oct 4, 2025 I'm 33 unmarred I think I can't do which I should do after marriage so I skipped married life
No Picture anonymous1995	Posted On Oct 4, 2025 I'm 29 unmarried. But I wish to marry someday if I ever find a loving guy! But that seems far fetched and distant dream! Still hopeful!
Raj_ex *	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I'm over 33 and unmarried 😂
No Picture Romance469	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 Variety of places and various types feel all are different from one another.. only close builds up on pleasure and desire beyond with gender in current generation.. I feel it. What ever other do..? It matter to whoever observe it.. I knew its behaviour or growth culture and place and with many other matter or theories on human I feel most of them forget one to one humanity living culture or habits from or in ancient people.. Please excuse me but harsh but truthful
No Picture Mastanadeewana	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I m single.. at times it just gets difficult to explain why I m when i don't look bad, have stable work and good back ground.
Sim2sam	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I'm 40 unmarried Enjoying life like this
No Picture Anirudhbottom	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I know one 40+ unmarried gay uncle he works in an ngo his life is decent with no financial burden and a family too he do hookups unfortunately he regret he doesn't have anyone to love he is avg looking like me gay lookism culture actually haunts everyone especially the left over avg gays
No Picture Anirudhbottom	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 That's why I got it why they do arranged marriage and keep on going to these spas and using grindr and live double life
No Picture Smartboy040 *	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I am unmarried looks decent stable background enjoying life anything. Awesome *** life too, a few close str8 frnds who r always there available for me and doesn't know about my double life though
No Picture 69anonymous	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 i met a person on GR he was 28 he was unmarried that time recently he got married but still he is very much active on gr and enjoining his married life too
No Picture blueboys	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I'm 34 unmarried....My friends of the same age are married, have children and families...I've got a life where I can't get married..Life is lonely
No Picture the_nude_poet	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I’m 33, unmarried. Parents tried to marry me off but I can’t marry someone who isn’t aware of this side of my life. So single and happily sleeping around lol!
No Picture Amitamy1	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 I am 45 unmarried
No Picture anjaan_rahi	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 32 unmarried
No Picture OfHoOf	Posted On Oct 5, 2025 31, single, no place, vers, chub, anywhere in Bengaluru, mutual fun, ok with trans/cd/shemale also, cannot host, casual fun, nothing serious, ok with regular nsa meet up, prefer no strings attached for sake of fun DM if interested to have fun
No Picture Unimate	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 I am single too. I too initially felt marriage as an part of life and looked forward to it. But later when I started living independently, I realised that I was more comfortable living this way. Yeah ofcourse, parents, society and even the guys i interact here or other platforms do ask if I a married!! Lead a happy life, make your bucket list, do what you like, travel and see places and guys🤪. Just one opportunity given and not sure if we would get another one in our next birth!!! Enjoy, play safe and live safe!!!
No Picture Chubguy	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 Im 29 started hormones to be more feminine. Im single and live dating guys and uncles. Majorly dominant men.
No Picture naughtymanushya	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 I got married at almost 30 years and believe me, it's my biggest and only major regret!! Do not, I repeat, do not marry until and unless you find someone really compatible! Being in a terrible marriage can single handedly destroy you mentally! So, all you unmarried folks, beware and tread with great caution! If you're lucky enough to find someone with even 50-70% compatibility, consider yourself blessed! :)
No Picture Chubbybottom04 *	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 34 and unmarried... The idea of marriage is scary specially if you are gay/bisexual. However living in India and being in the closet will never give you the love you expect from gay partner. I am not into instant hook ups and being an introvert it only makes more difficult to approach ppl for *** or even friendship for that matter.Looking at marriage these days I am happy that I am unmarried however when I look around to find no one loneliness does strikes hard.😐
No Picture everydaygayguy	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 @the_nude_poet and @Unimate- agreed!!!!
No Picture bimsandy2033	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 I am 40+ and unmarried….i think that ship has sailed for me…
No Picture PureBot27	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 I am 31 gay single never been in relationship and now I feel lonely
No Picture shirmilime	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 hijabi, 25, unamarried, pune here.
No Picture Romance469	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 @nanaughtymanushya, I could feel your feeling l, but as now your married with another soul life.. Initial it regret the matter and suitation.. I feel @ 1 time will get happy returns in some other turns Still if you're not happy and regerat no change.. Any way you have these lines make yourself happy Make sure, you should get caught/ shock by these both fellow.. Balance both like and enjoy or enjoy one side if regert marriage life, discuss with the partner.. resolve the matter. Come out from matter.. imp*** pls don't make your life messy My go thru some more other' suitation in other Life Then tahe right dissension which will not blame from other to you .
No Picture R_yanaava	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 I knw a lot of young guys married for family pressure, having multiple affairs outside marital life, because they have to compromise in married life. But I also feel it's also kind of selfish to think I got wife and a stable life waiting for me at home, so no matter what I do outside it, it's freedom and adventures and thrill. But idk and can't speak for every one.
No Picture Bokbokum	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 40, unmarried, never been in a relationship, Philophobic, loner, no job, no parents, financially stable, introvert, teetotaller, non-smoker, atheist. At this age i long for a partner who would understand me and vice-versa. It's difficult to come across a person of my age with the same qualities. Guys half my age want to be in a relationship, which i find difficult. Whats the solution? Am I doomed for life ?
No Picture adicooliyo	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 i believe term marriage is overrated in our society, as long as you are happy no matter what your age and status is, thats what matters, one need to connect with a partner who is compatible, respectful and compassionate, it doesnt have to turn into marriage. Some would say marriage is ultimate thing, and some would say its a mistake etc.. to each their own, you wont know until you do it, every body is different, everybody's priorities are different at different times. in west, married people are in open relationship, what does it mean, nothing, they are together just for societal stature, yet still finding happiness outside of their marriage and it mostly sexual and experimental, so play together some solo, but no one is putting a moral compass there.
No Picture Pinkpanther2025	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 Lonliness lage toh whatsapp pe meta ai se bakchodi karlo🤣🤣 Biwi ajakl bf bana rahi h fir b akele rahoge pese bhi jayenge fir kyu sochre ho itna
No Picture Verspcmc69	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 M 40. Divorced. Vers.
No Picture BottominDelhi36	Posted On Oct 6, 2025 Me 39 unmarried gay bottom, so don't want to get married
No Picture Unimate	Posted On Oct 7, 2025 @bimsandy2033, there is always time to explore and find someone. It's never too late. We just get carried away with looks ( a gay curse, I guess!) appearance and not look at other qualities of a person. We set expectations and find it difficult to accept others !
No Picture boldartist	Posted On Oct 7, 2025 I m 35 and un married happy with my own life
No Picture rajron	Posted On Oct 7, 2025 Well upper middle class; it's okay not be married at all for both genders. Considering individual carrier ambitions, divorce and other issues associates with opposite *** marriages, Ppl have started accepting reality of being happy and unmarried. So.no big issues if you can stay happy without girl in your life or stay alone
No Picture Zion	Posted On Oct 7, 2025 After sometime we will forget about marriages becouse boys are intrested in boys and enjoying themselves without any burden and hesitation free free free . boys are available on social media without any charges. So marriage will be curse in our society ....
No Picture urskeshava007	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 When a Gay friend ask me - Shadi kab karoge I tell him - Kyun mere biwi se ishq karoge 🙃 When a Normal friend ask me - shadi kab karoge I tell him - tumhara haalat dekh karne ki iccha khatam
No Picture Midhun_bot	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 While studying in college, a senior in the hostel forced me to gay relationship and i realised that my body nature is different. For the first time i understood why my feelings are not the same as the boys around me. That realisation of the woman within me blocked all hopes of marriage.. I'm now 49 and still happily unmarried as I've three regular gay tops who find occasional meeting when their families are away.
No Picture manu69bottoms	Posted On Oct 8, 2025 There is hardly anyone i found, who really want to be with ONE partner. Everyone says, they want to be in a relationship like a couple, but just after masturbating or meeting once, disappear. *** can be developed over time,, and so can relationship. I really want to be with a loving person, who really needs a companionship in life,, and even like my partner being possessive and lusty. hardly anyone with patience and Integrity
No Picture Sébastien *	Posted On Oct 9, 2025 I am 41 and never married... While I used to feel this will be difficult as my friends get married and I don't, but it has been years since they got married and life is going fine for me... I am confident I can live my life like this - though I would still look for a gay life partner...
No Picture Yosh70998	Posted On Oct 9, 2025 28 is vital age to marry
No Picture Raja7860 *	Posted On Oct 10, 2025 I am 28 unmarried looking for a sexual partner mature to understand me.
No Picture Raja7860 *	Posted On Oct 10, 2025 I am from Kolkata West Bengal