'Love is Love' but was it ever just about Love?
The phrase "love is love" is often celebrated within the queer community—and while it carries a certain poetic and powerful truth, it's important to remember that our struggle has never been solely about the right to love. Love, in its purest form, is untouchable—no law, institution, or ideology can truly take it from us.
What was denied to us was the right to express our desires—the freedom to engage in consensual ***, to form relationships, or simply exist outside of heteronormative expectations, regardless of whether love was involved. Our fight has always been against the systems, doctrines, and cultural norms that deemed our desires sinful, unnatural, or criminal.
This struggle was never just about love—it was about the right to live authentically, fully, and sexually, beyond the boundaries imposed on us. It's time we stop reducing queerness to just “love.” Because what we’ve been fighting for is much broader and more radical: the right to exist on our own terms.
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Yosh70998 | Posted On Oct 8, 2025
*** is everything |
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Cutie_btm29 | Posted On Oct 9, 2025
Love is love, we often say that but is it? Let's explore. In Our Community the one's who have confidence don't have a loyal partner. One's we love are scared either to come out or Vice versa. People live to talk to 100 people same time. Some people even if they wanna stay for one are ditched first then later realise when it's too late. I myself tried devoting for someone whole period he talked to 20 more people not did sexual anything but talked. Suddenly I heard he is getting married n it happened now he realised it was only me out of all those people who actually cared now he talks to me. But I've lost the feeling I still love him but from a far n not that strong. Nor do I have someone to. My only desire is to be with someone who is ready to hold me, my hand my waist n look in my eyes. I admire him he admires me. We should fight agree to disagree but never give up on eachother. Bring transparent loyal loving each other. At 29 being side or btm not sure m still virgin I do regret it sometimes my need is not Money or Controlling someone or just one sided. M earning well I guess for myself n my family. I've said it to family not gonna marry a girl. I do wish to see how it feels to get Loved. I have given myself so bad that it's hurts knowing my love was maybe wasted. My ex never ever touched me calling himself asexual. It does makes me question my choices but it just happened I didn't meant to love him as I always wished a Tall guy I am just 5'3 freaking 5'3 I want maybe 5'10 n above but I feel for what ? 5'4 again who didn't cared for 4 yrs n now when he cares it's weird. He is married i don't want it. So love is not that Easy to say Love is Love especially in Community it's Damn difficult I mean I don't know m loosing hopes. N yes avg look matters atleast m not asking a prince charming a fit guy with good income hard working like me. Taller than me can give me piggy rides can cook with me. Whom I can feed n who is so in love with me that I don't need to look anyone around. Who makes me fall for him like it's cindrella and her Prince. No doubt not all days are romantic but having someone in Community is Rare. |
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Top20S | Posted On Oct 10, 2025
I agree with @cutie_btm29 ,even i ve similar experience when i was in my early 20s i started getting feeling for the side guy i met on gr. We were together for 2yrs but the day i confessed my feeling he started to disappear i thought it was my mistake to confess my feelings, n finally we got separated no call no sms nothing
Fast forward to present, ig approx. six months ago i met another side guy frim gr. We became friends very quickly and things were going very good we use to do sexy chat , flirtatious talk, call, get outside for walk and chit chat about here n there things but one day he said that he loves me.....And instead of being happy i was afraid i was afraid that is my past is about to repeat once again? i dont have any more strength for that now....slowly slowly i understood that when someone confess there feeling to other why the other person starts to disappear. I am afraid of this guy .he is in his early 20s they are curious they don't understand the meaning of love what if once i fall in love with him and he starts to disappear what if i never get that feeling for him,what if i found someone better in the future after being with him, i might leave in the same pain that once my ex leaved me. Eventhough i am doing same now by disappearing its all because of my confusion n my past experiences....Idk what to do better then disappearing...i feel guilty for him ,but i need to be cautious this, i wish to contact him, I want to talk him but I dont want to repeat same miskate by getting things fast. Idk will he be able to understand that i dont love him now but i want to explore with him.
So Yes real Love is not that easy task....I heard somewhere that the first love happens to one person in his early 20s is real, unrefined, immature, crude or say raw .....if both the partner grows up and stays this can be the most happiest relationship , but its very rare that the both of them will fall for each other at same time it only happens by God's grace...which i have passed (basically failed) So i just wanna use my mind this time
so finally i conclude here that if you love someone stay for them as long as u can and staying doesn't means staying my compromising with self esteem there is small thin line between self respect and egoistic pride so be careful to drop ur pride but not self respect.
However explore, n tips for those who are in there teenage or early 20s don't confess your feeling unless u are 101% sure that other person has a strength to hold u even after declining ur heart Because iske baad jo tumhari halat hogi na voh tum imagine bhi kar sakte ho abhi....ask to the one who is experienced and it's better to Padhai wadai karo IAS yas bano ye kya time hai Pyar Vyar karne ka😂 although it happens ik its not ur fault.
Happy Cruising n best of luck!
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