The phrase "love is love" is often celebrated within the queer community—and while it carries a certain poetic and powerful truth, it's important to remember that our struggle has never been solely about the right to love. Love, in its purest form, is untouchable—no law, institution, or ideology can truly take it from us.
What was denied to us was the right to express our desires—the freedom to engage in consensual ***, to form relationships, or simply exist outside of heteronormative expectations, regardless of whether love was involved. Our fight has always been against the systems, doctrines, and cultural norms that deemed our desires sinful, unnatural, or criminal.
This struggle was never just about love—it was about the right to live authentically, fully, and sexually, beyond the boundaries imposed on us. It's time we stop reducing queerness to just “love.” Because what we’ve been fighting for is much broader and more radical: the right to exist on our own terms.
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
We don't fall in love in 2020s it's mostly one sided or temporary attraction fakeness everywhere lying ghosting every moment then people having skyrocketing standards of dating
I just realised most queers deserve to end up single because they will never lower their standards |
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NotTellingyou | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
The fact that I have given my body to people in search of finding love, ending up feeling used. we all need to apologize to our bodies for not treating it right and not giving it to only people who deserve it. |
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Nisha Chudwani | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
Love or Lust 💝
If you love your heart ❤️ may got broken 💔
If you lust your heart ❤️ shaped *** 🍑 may got broken
I prefer my 🍑 rather than ❤️ |
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saramaturegay | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
me 40+ still now i never get single love in my life. For me getting a person itself very difficult |
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Ashok Kumar Blr | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
The phrase Love is Love is very absurd in my opinion.
Many people was open to relationship, but however their checklist and expectation is long as china walls.
Truly I wanted to settle down but I’m in my late 30’s and still struggle to have a date. I’m open to take on date or to go on date, but still the standard people. All speak up very nicely in Ohmojo, Grindr and PlanetRomeo profiles but they are in chat and reality they are not the person as described in profile.
This is just my experience. Please i don’t mean to
Offend anyone or this is not to mock or offend anyone directly or indirectly |
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needsugardaddy2 | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
I'm looking for good friendship love and care and long term relationship with a mature man guess 45 plus but so far whomever I have met they all are into just one night stand
I don't know why people afraid of living dual life |
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Aseem Javed | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
True love is hard to find by. It must be deeply felt by those in a relationship that they truly love each other and stand by each other at all times. When I see LGBT couples on instagram, makes me feel genuinely happy for them. They seem truly in love. |
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prat565 | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
Even finding true friend is tough these days forget about love |
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Arthit_Chowdary | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
Yeah U was correct it's all about being ourselves and not getting humiliated just because our Sexuality. |
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Ranga21 | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
Rare to find true love in our Community.
The biggest reason people break such relationships is distance.
I've seen some gay couples who are out of closet and breaking up after living together for nearly 15+ years . Just because someone had to move to another city/country you can't just break it. Probably it was not love. |
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Gaylover156 | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
Ha ha ha ha very well said guys every one ha pointed small looking great concerns and yes this days may are making a route taste and twest but does every one really stick to one partner for your self even with out seeing another when being with one this are 1 part of the Q
2nd based on their past broken heart experiences and seeing other with same quality makes them have a pinned belife which stops them
3rd problem in understing ur partner and can figure with many aspects as u can point coz boys never say or be open clearly .
4 important vevring heart of men and women
Socity , family blha blha blha points .looks ect and expections from seeing many drams dont u think
But dont u thinkif alike thinking people get together can change it |
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Gaylover156 | Posted On Jun 9, 2025
But seeing all this and leaving hope is it really a right choice ? Roses
And letting the veriables influence u with leaving ur own scent loves |
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Makeoffun | Posted On Jun 10, 2025
Lust is better than love..
Love never fulfill our fantasy or likes..
Love is handcuffed our desires
And depending on others |
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Heccer | Posted On Jun 10, 2025
Something a lot of ppl realise is that most ppl here are not gays . They are just sexually frustrated men finding ways to release it in anyways . atleast 50 percet of ppl are bisexuals or bi curious ppl |
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Dreamybott | Posted On Jun 10, 2025
@Makeoffun wrong take, lust will keep u satisfied only till u find other new guy to have fun, the moment it stops , u will realise how lust causes frustration, anger and lonliness. Start loving yourself first if u want ppl to love u. Take care of ur physical nd mental health rest will soon follow. Contrary to what u said lust binds ppl, the more u meet ppl, the more u feel satisfied due to the instant dopamine. This instant release of dopamine becomes addictive so much so that we start equating our happiness with hookups. But inhindsight it never satisfies, it fuels the hunger nd craving to find another best option. |
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Silverkok | Posted On Jun 10, 2025
I was searching for true love. Yes, my family—my brother, my wife, and my children—do love me, but their love is based on something they don’t know about me: that I’m gay. I often imagined what it would be like to stand in front of them and tell them the truth. But I couldn’t bear to imagine the consequences of that revelation.
And when they did find out, everything changed. The love in their eyes turned into disgust—something I couldn’t bear. That pain drove me to seek someone who could love me for who I truly am, someone who would still love me because I’m honest about my identity.
Now, I’m in a relationship with my beloved Heman. We truly love each other—deeply, genuinely, and unconditionally. Our relationship has grown into intimacy, but for us, *** isn't just physical—it's an expression of our love, trust, and emotional bond.
Our love has naturally led us to care deeply for one another. We never set out to "test" our love, but life itself tested us, and somewhere along the way, we realized we had passed. Today, we are each other’s everything. The idea of sharing a bed with anyone else feels wrong, almost unbearable.
To me, that is true love: when the very thought of being with someone else, while your lover is somewhere else, feels like betrayal—not just of them, but of yourself.
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blueboys * | Posted On Jun 11, 2025
Even finding true friend is tough these days forget about love... |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Jun 11, 2025
Sare ullu banate hai hawas mitane kr liye istemaal krte hain |
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tightbotboi | Posted On Jun 11, 2025
I am looking for a bf. age - no restriction. |
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TopGenX * | Posted On Jun 11, 2025
It should infact be "lust is lust". We all just need *** . A hole for our pole or vice versa. Why do we need to love anyone for our lust? Just do it and forget. We'll i know a lot of guys will get into trolling me for saying this. But come on guys, we have all been there and done that. No one here is pure and pious. So just chill and have good ***. Love is all bullshit. |
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Dev_22 | Posted On Jun 11, 2025
It's all about social stigma buddy ..... Even if people start texting you frequently , show concern or genuinely like you still get scared what if i am sharing too much with this person ...will this come to haunt me in future , is it a bad habit i should i get rid of off ... May be well never find answers ..... |
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Anirudhbottom | Posted On Jun 11, 2025
its all about bad experiences mera experience 20 bando ke saath kharab hua hainn kya guarantee hain 21st guy won't be jerk sabne jhoooth bolne mein phd kar rakhi hain vaise bhi sabko ek handsome netflix actor chahiye are fantasy se toh bahr niklo sab ke sab nobody is ready to reduce its bar |
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nostrings98 * | Posted On Jun 12, 2025
Love comes with lot of complications. Lust is simple. Just respect and communication is key. |
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Verstop4405 | Posted On Jun 12, 2025
Ended my situationship yesterday. It hurts like hell....se started off as *** buddies in 2019. My last good *** with him as last Sat n sun. He is 10 yrs older than me I'm 27. He's been a good friend to mine but I started catching up feelings in 2024 oct nov....he was not at all convinced to have a relationship with me of didn't even said any clarifications regarding love. But my feelings greatly increased for him as we *** for hrs, rounds, it was a damn situationship but I fell deeply in love. It led to overthinking and since my job is in morning 6 i literally had trouble falling in sleep. My mind didn't take this kind of love and I started feeling sick. Every damn everywhere I'm thinking Abt him in ofc, in home. He knows this but he was in a dilemma to end our situationship as the *** part was damn good...I had other flings and he too but sabe jyada enjoyment satisfaction he Banda deta tha...my heart wanted to start a new chapter with him but he didn't want anything beyond *** from him, not even outing, movies or such. I learnt Abt his neighbouring friend whom he has been since 2018 and both even shifted their respective homes from lalbagh to tilaknagar. from 2018 he's his trusted friend even shared their keys of home, investments etc. when I confronted him Abt his friend he told me yes he hangout with him daily as he's living nearby even have *** but nowadays he's always frustrated and angry and I don't meet him. I do know the fact he's lying to make sure everything is ok between us but my heart couldn't take it anymore. I became sick yesterday and I called him to end our situationship as it's greatly taking a toll on my mental health. I'm writing this with a heavy heart that I love him but now it's time to move on. Blocked him everywhere and let's see how my healing process goes
Plz don't judge me I jst wanted to get heard here. |
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vishnu732004 | Posted On Jun 14, 2025
Love is sppam. I'm like use n throw. All are temporary here |
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Rajan2409 | Posted On Jun 14, 2025
Me want good love fare friendship
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