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Submitted by OnlyNSAfun Location: All India (All India, India)

It has been observed that lot of fraudsters claim to have a female partner with them and put up a post for threesome (MF finding M). They try to convince other guys that since it's female with then, he needs to book a safe for outside city and so need your contributions (monetary) about the place and food. Many single guys think this is a good opportunity for threesome so they transfer the money to the person and then the fraudster blocks the guy from online account as well as tranfer UPI apps. Recently got a news from Police that one such gang was arrested so Guys please be aware of such incidents and enjoy safe.

If anyone has experienced such cases, feel free to comment.

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Posted On Mar 3, 2023 - 06:11 AM

Golden rule to be kept in mind

The first meet to be done only in public area. Do not call the person to meet in your home/hotel or isolated place. Also do not go to the other person room/hotel as well.

Meet once in park or restaurant where you can have easy escape if you do not like person or find him suspicious.

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Posted On Mar 3, 2023 - 09:48 AM

i dont know whether my exp comes under fraud. let me tell anyway. i met a guy in a chat. tall dark broad. neither of us had place. he said his friend's place is there. he picked me up on the way and went there. it was a very small place and kind of slummy area. his friend welcomed us and we went inside. it was a single room and kitchen house. there was no electricity. only one candle was lit. the chat guy started undressing and i was amazed by his d's size and shape. i put my *** and started the service. next 45 minutes were full of hot steaming hardcore actions. his friend was watching the whole thing. when we were about to leave he asked for money. it was put like a rent. cautiously i carred only 200 rupees only. no wallet or card. i wanted to leave and gave him 100. he said that wasnt enough. i told i needed the other 100 rupee to go back home. he was about to say something and the chat guy nodded his head as if saying "dont do". he stopped. we both left. the chat guy dropped me at a place i mentioned. next day he called me and asked how was the experience. it was really fantabulous and i told him that. he asked me to recharge his mobile for data. it was for 58 rupees. i didn't know what to say and do. he asked me again. i said ok. i recharged 58 rupees data pack valid for a month.

i don't know how to describe this scenario. whether their economic situation pushed them to ask... or... they have been doing this with other guys as well. considering the ecstasy he gave, i kept him in top of the men's pyramid. but when he asked for recharge, i don't know where to keep him.

what do you think guys?

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Posted On Mar 3, 2023 - 10:34 AM

Mine also similar case a guy whom I met through some app he came over my place he got 8inch thick one. I was amazed about the size and the shape it’s just like banana in shape. He didn’t wanted to kiss but he *** my moobs and he *** me for while and he had cummed on my ***. After sometime he left my place next day he sent me message saying that send me some money or else I will come over to your place and tell your partners that we had ***. Some straight guys now a days making money through some app being as gay and having *** after that demanding for money.

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Posted On Mar 3, 2023 - 11:08 AM

same incident happened with me today. When I went to meet a person using an app blued app.When I reached the road, he said that we were going to his room but he said that go from the ground as it was shortcut for his room nd he suddenly said stop the activa in between the large empty ground and I stopped and then after suddenly 3 people came from behind us and that blued guy nd all harassing me for being G@y nd using that app even demanding money from me but I don't have any cash that time nd as well as online. One of the guy has big knife they all harassing me for being g@y and demanding money and said that if I denied than they will viral my video they also filmed with my activa nd later deleted when I transferred money to these Gunda guys.i was crying as hell. I was helpless that time I don't know what to do that time.even my salary is not credited yet but thank fully I had my savings so I had to call my brother for money transfer and have to give 2000₹ to those basterds.even ¶olice also involved in this scam as they were talking about some inspector nd they were talking about come with me to poli¢€ $tation for complaint nd all what should I do now ??

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Posted On Mar 9, 2023 - 06:45 PM

If u get such people then tell them wait I m caling police here and try calling 100 make. Don't get scared or panic. If there is a cctv in this area cops can find out such people. As someone stated here try taking help from LGBT support group

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Posted On Mar 10, 2023 - 09:44 PM

Happened to me a month back, saw a person on grindr, 1 meter away. Chatted with him and planned to meet out although he confirmed he stays in my society, I told name of a neighborhood society.
I saw him out but there was too much of crowd and confessed we stay in the same society and called him back. We spoke for more than an hour, spent good time but considered him as a friend and couldn't think up anything more.
He suggested someone for massage but never shared a no. Further he said, he will arrange massage the next day.
This never happened but he kept texting for meet up, i excused myself everytime.

In few days, he told me a long story about cash issues, his CA is not happy that he did a big transaction etc etc and he wanted 1L in cash, I straight away said no, to which he said only 10k is needed, rest he has arranged. I politely declined.

I don't know if he was fraud, but i was considering him as a good friend, it's too early to borrow money from someone who is just 2 days known to you...

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Posted On Apr 17, 2023 - 04:28 AM

Hey there, later this week I have come across a completely new approach of fraud. I came across a profile of foreigner nearby in Delhi. Received a message and we got into talking he said he'll be visiting India soon and he would like to meet and wanted to connect on whatsApp, he had shared his number, somehow I overlooked the fact that his profile was nearby only yet he was saying he is in USA, and we connected on whatsApp. He was constantly calling and messaging and asking for vc. When we did VC his video was quite blurr and seemed distorted. I called him again to verify if it was momentary issue with video, but the quality was same. Then on whatsApp call he said after finishing his work he will go to airport and book ticket to Delhi. And next day he had sent me ticket from Delllas to Bombay. And today morning he again called exactly on 9am which was scheduled time to arrive at Bombay airport. And he mentioned that there were no direct flights to Delhi so he had booked to Bombay and he'll take local flight to Delhi. But he mentioned that he is at immigration and facing issue with custom clearance and said that officer is asking to pay fee. He asked me help him out with 75000/- and he will pay me in Delhi. When I said I don't have the money he asked how much I have. I did block the number immediately.

There were few red flags since the beginning which had prevented me to fall for the trap:
1. His profile was nearby yet he was saying he is not here
2. His video was too blurry and distorted
3. He didn't ask about anything such as your preference and all and immediately got in to booking the flight
4. PDF of ticket was fake, modifications in date was clearly visible
5. Flight details were fake mentioned flight doesn't follow the route he mentioned

So it was nearly caught experience, though I still feel I have overlooked very obvious red flags in the beginning itself. But glad that I didn't fall for the trap.

I request you guys to be careful and do not carried away with fascinating profiles and overlook the red flags.

Be safe guys.

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Posted On Apr 17, 2023 - 05:20 AM

@mature lover 1 - this is really worrysome but I have observed such profiles very very regularly on GR these days.

Now a days, anybody jumping to WA chat is doubtful but especially profiles with white guys from US, I have seen this common pattern. They will say, I am deleting my ID now so we need to move to WA.

Just ignore such people and find a Desi Londa...Play a safer bet!

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Posted On Apr 17, 2023 - 05:45 AM

@mature lover1, this is the oldest trick in the book. Been going on for many years, was even written about in the papers a few years ago, some guy got scammed for lakhs.
So always good use your discretion & due diligence!

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Posted On Apr 17, 2023 - 08:39 AM

I once got a message on blued and we decided to meet. He didn't share his number and asked me to come to a place directly. After reaching there, he took me to an isolated lane and started behaving weirdly.
He said he is from crime branch, police and asked me why am I doing this. I said it's my personal choice. To which he started arguing and was indirectly asking me for money and phone numbers of my friends. When I started talking to him loudly, he warned me to lower my voice. To which I was very angry and scared as well. I somehow gathered courage and asked him to come to police station. He was in shock for a moment. I told him to ride my bike so that I can take him to police station and then decide.
He was no talking and I quickly started my bike and left that place.
Later I came to know that he did this to many guys.

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Posted On Apr 17, 2023 - 12:22 PM

U should always take a phone number and talk to people before meeting them. U can easily track their number by filing an FIR

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Posted On Apr 17, 2023 - 05:14 PM

May be I'm saved from a fraud or still in danger!!!

Few months back i happened to meet one guy on grindr in my society, i tried to act little smart and meet him outside by sharing details of a different society. But when I saw him, spoke to him, appeared to be a decent guy. We spoke for an hour's time but he wasn't my type.

We exchanged numbers and chatted for sometime. After couple of days he called me and asked to 10k urgently and would return me in cash. I said, i don't have money. He somehow managed the conversation by changing the topic.

He msgd/called couple of times but i ignored. Somehow I'm worried, this guy is single and can black mail me. All that he told me that day were lies....

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Posted On Apr 18, 2023 - 05:18 AM

I m really scared about this fraud .
In my observation
1. Avoid who wanted to meet immediately.
2. No information profile .
3. Very attractive dp .
Preference should be known friends at least in fb

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Posted On Apr 19, 2023 - 03:52 AM

never share mobile no before physically meet
first meeting at public place like crowded park
bus stand , rly waiting hall
waiting time at least 15 min so that you can watch him and hiss associate if any, this will help in ensuring some genuinely
rest is luck
I escaped twice

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Posted On May 12, 2023 - 10:38 AM

Goa is packed with *** addict fraudsters; they will pose as a descent top or bottom over the Apps such as Grindr or OM and lure you to meet them. Once you have reached a secluded location, they offer you a smoke or a joint to enjoy; you may lose consciousness after consuming it. Once you lose consciousness, they take everything off from you. Sometimes, they strip and leave their victims for fun. But that's still all right; being gang-raped is no fun. People traveling to Goa should be careful in off-season.

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Posted On Jun 20, 2023 - 12:15 AM

I want to alert everyone here. There is a Bengali guy in Kondapur location who talks very decent and genuine but he harms you by tarnishing your social image in the gay community and friends if he finds that you are not ready to act or do as per his wish.

He claims himself a good photographer and he does nude photoshoots also. He becomes friend very easily to all new guys coming to Hyderabad and later once you share your feelings and emotions, he will harm you by spreading lies like x person is HIV positive, don't meet or talk to him. He tells false about others to keep you in his control. I found out one of his lies about another boy and i confronted him. He got scared and now not meeting me. But he is now spreading rumours about me like i have STD etc. I had booked a service for grooming but the that guy is now avoiding my msgs and calls. The only reason is that Bengali chap is spreading rumours to all whom he knows and who can have connection with me.

Guys BEWARE, this guy is amongst us and he has already spread lies about few known faces of Hyderabad gay community. Now I will speak to those one by one to know the facts.

For my safety and personal reasons I will not share his identity here but many of you would have understood who this guy is. He is known to many PPL in Hyderabad community. He quite active on Facebook Group where PPL look for roommates within the community.

Stay safe and please don't trust anyone so easy.

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Posted On Jul 9, 2023 - 11:47 PM

If anyone claims they’re a couple automatically assume that they are lying because they are. 1st Rule never pay them. 2nd Rule always have the couple videocall you together. If they can’t video call you then you’re talking to an ugly guy who can’t get laid.

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Posted On Jul 18, 2023 - 05:58 PM

Guys, i have a recent experience on this and I think guys from hyd should know this. I am 32 yr old chubby guy who lives in Hyd near Golconda. Apparently few days someone msged me claiming that we spoke on blued. He was constantly in touch & we met last night. After the bj he washed himself & started demanding money. I pleaded a lot & he started acting crazy and was about to hit me. After a lot of discussion i transferred 1 k to his account & he left asking me to transfer one more 1000 next day. Tabhi ek dusra dost aaya tha mei call Kiya tho phr unhone jake road pe isko pakad ke phone kiya. I some how got the SS of transaction i did to my fraudster and shared it with my frnd. Mera dost bola ki usko tek se samjaya ainda pareshan kiye to police complaint karenge phr bhi utta tak nai aata bat bolke. I was only scared that after living for 4 yrs I don't want to become a topic due to the knew sense he will create. What do you think should I go to cops & complain ??

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Posted On Jul 20, 2023 - 11:52 AM

Guys I'd also advise against people who are impersonating others. Very recently another person I was in touch with over telegram was impersonating someone else and sending me images of other people who were NOT him and insted other people who he was probably trading with.

My advise is to only trade on media platforms that support the use of disappearing messages or prevent screen shots and/or recording Obvious rule is to avoid showing your face and get to know the person well before initiating any kind or real contact.

There are a lot of people out there that blackmaile as well using such images so caution is definitely advised. I know I may be stating the obvious here but I just wanted to share my experience and let everyone know what to be aware of.

Thanks for reading good day to all :)

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Posted On Jul 21, 2023 - 06:13 AM

Instagram is perfect place to share auto disappearing pics and no can take screenshot too. Insta Vc is best option before meeting. That's my personal choice and suggestion for you guys as well.

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