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Submitted by _rhythm_ Location: All India (All India, India)

hey guys. i m in relationship with a bi guy (who works for me). things are going very good as of now. he claims that he loves me and i love him a lot too. we had *** about 3 times till now. but he is not into *** at all neither desires much about *** me. i usually play the dominant part. now i want to know what is possibly the future of this relationship. 3/4 years down the line i feel he will marry a girl and start a family and i will be left alone. plz share your experiences in dealing with a bi guy. i am really confused about this.

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samira
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 05:17 AM

@grandios i do understand..i sometimes feel like thrw some mishap happen and like i go in missing ..family think that m dead or watever and i could b in my gay life ..instead of bi life...bt thn responsibilities and love comes infront... so u not alone....i now started taking time for myself ...take off from office or whatever i try and live 5 6 hours of my life.

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Grandios
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 09:23 AM

@samira: thanks for sharing your experience and suggestions. Really you say what I wish too, just vanish away and lead my own life. But it is easier said than done. But then responsibilities kick in and am off put.

Sometimes I feel my life is like this old Hindi song . I will try to take your advise on me time.
Na koi umang hai There is no enthusiasm in me
Na koi tarang hai There are no waves in me
Meri zindagi hai kya My life is nothing but
Ek kati patang hai A floating kite

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samira
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 10:15 AM

ya ...i also feel same .. ok here we are Frank..so wan b open here...it started with imperial when my family was not here..i got to know about imperial cinema thanx to this site for that .and after may b 2 3 years of gay *** gap i started going there ..and that feeling i realised never gone i enjoyed that a lot .well lockdown happened and all this... recently now since with responsibility i dont get much time ..so I went to one spa female to male obviously...and opened myself abt me that m gay and m girly..thy said ok .now next time i went thr wore my formals bt this time goes knot on my shirt like blouse and went thr...thn went to other spa and otber spa like that .my confidence grew...thn i started going to washroom of station change my clothes into female one come out ( obviously in evening time) and go to spa ( coz that only place if u don't get *** can get laid atlst somewhat nude ) . thnx spa people didn't say anything but accepted..this confidence grew a lot . i took off from office half day...went to a spa in girly dress ..applloed nail paints in washroom only ...thn from spa went to kamathipura.. shemale area...roamed thr...went to one kotha ..thy took me in ..that trans gav me feel of m a female and i came out .now it's like a routine types for me .not always bt i try to ..it gives me break from monotonous life....i even tried same way ..bought wig this time and roamed at bandra station near by..sion kurla...get laid with men ....bt sometimes i get depress i feel sad that why we r in middle of it

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ente_xperience
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 12:37 PM

@samira... If u doing this and u got married ?

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samira
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 01:58 PM

ya...in other part of my life.

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samira
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 02:05 PM

i got married 2 years ago befre that was single. and had to as had no other option cz f family

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Grandios
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 06:08 PM

@ente_experience: it’s very easy to say this is cheating and that is immoral. With families to take care and responsibilities to carry on, people also need some “me-time” and personal space. Unfortunately bi-s have to do this dual living to be sane and carry on

@samira: I wish I had your guts..

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Dombot26
Posted On Mar 4, 2022 - 06:46 PM

@samira I understand what you are going through , many may judge you but they don't know the balance and loneliness u face everyday . There is nothing wrong in what you are doing and you are not alone .
Most of the guys I meet are going through the same thing .
That's the state of bi married guys out there.they just need a safe place to explore their fem side or their likes and have a partner who can understand your needs and reciprocates that , I have met sub guys , cds, curious guys,couples and all they need is a safe place and no one to judge them.
It's sounds as simple as booking a room in a star hotel but if there isn't someone to appreciate you or enjoy your body or treat u like u want ,then it still feel empty .
So samira have fun and always look ahead to the beautiful things in life.

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samira
Posted On Mar 5, 2022 - 04:51 AM

it's not guts i think or correct me if am wrong...may b it's some kind of that depression ( it's only term with my studies i found out ) and supresssion of ur feelings ... which just sprung up and make us do such risk or exposure to ourselves automatically. .u just hv to b reciprocal ...earlier in college days when i was in middle of this feeling i went to massage spa so girls therapist used to b a lil hesitate in massage u until unless u ready to give some tips etc..that's other part .bt now when I go to any spa ..with my nailpaints on ...i try to ask them if thy could massage me with my thongs on...and thy give me that relax in massage without any sexual encounters with them .it works for me like medicine

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ente_xperience
Posted On Mar 5, 2022 - 05:50 AM

@grandios.. I totally understand and I know.. Bi living is not so easy with lot of depression only... Not possible to give up personal interest with family interest..


My life my rule is not applicable actually for married bi guys..

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