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Submitted by Sudip33 Location: All India (All India, India)

Hi back in before era of GR n PR, i herd many men used show their interest in guys by somehow,

Like i heard,

piercing on just on Right Ear.

Piercing on left eyebrows.

Or tattoo on neck of only 3 stars.

What all thing u know ?

I herd some dress code used on Goa beaches when u wanna show u like guys discreetly.

Of course now we can show pride flag, but if someone not out then ?

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Bana999888776
Posted On Jul 21, 2021 - 08:40 PM

Pink band on right hand

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Sam22121 *
Posted On Jul 22, 2021 - 12:49 AM

Pink band??? What does it signifies???

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ToBeFreeinLyf
Posted On Jul 22, 2021 - 05:20 AM

I read somewhere that a pink band signifies a gay and a bottom. I've seen it being used in clubs and gay meets. It helps identify people and roles.

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caediumn
Posted On Jul 22, 2021 - 07:26 AM

Does anyone know where we can find these secret dress codes that are applicable here atleast in India? I'm sure I ready ages ago about different band/handkerchief combos and colours for different roles/fetishes but I can't remember where or what it was

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Sanki
Posted On Jul 22, 2021 - 07:59 AM

Wearing a pink band will unnecessary ly disclose you in general public... Some of them would even show disrespect towards you or treat you rudely in public....

Instead keep a signature of just crossing your left hand fingers to indicate or sign the other one ... If he understands the sign it's well and good.
Work is done

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Sudip33
Posted On Jul 22, 2021 - 10:16 AM

pink band is so cliche ... I personally tried to hit on a guy who made piercings on left eyebrow while I was in Gym ... and guess what it worked , we had great time in Lockerroom ... but later he said no.

And once I took a lyft from Baga to to the hotel where i was staying coz I lost my rented bike in GOA ... luckily I noticed that guy who was healthy but fair n had 3 stars on neck side . So I tried my luck .. He was rrady but he had his other friends too so we did not had fun but on bike I made some small cuddling n touching.

beore PR there was website named as guys4men, thats website used ro haave forums to discussion and in on of the forum i read these indicators .

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Ronhit
Posted On Jul 22, 2021 - 04:31 PM

Eyebrows piercing is sign of gay

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nicebutt_fly
Posted On Jul 22, 2021 - 07:14 PM

I think the appropriate title for this thread should be “Gay cruising Signals”

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blackcobra6699
Posted On Jul 23, 2021 - 10:52 AM

DO YOU KNOW THE HANKY CODE?
(the bandana being tucked in your back pocket)

Left side of the body = Top/Dominant Role
Right side of the body = Bottom/Submissive Role

Black = S&M
Dark Blue = *** ***
Light Blue = Oral ***
Brown = Scat
Green = Hustler/prostitution
Grey = Bondage
Purple = Piercing
Red = Fisting
Yellow = Watersports
Orange = Anything goes

further
Dark Green = Daddy/Boy Scene (a relative of the hustler green?)
Light Pink = Dildos (they’re often that color)
Dark Pink = Nipple Torture (might make them that color)
Fushcia = Spanking (rosy cheeks)
Rust = A Cowboy (ruddy complexion)
Khaki = Military *** (naturally)
Gold Lamé = Muscleboys (think Rocky Horror)
Mosquito Netting = Outdoor *** (that’s just being pragmatic)

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Bangalore874
Posted On Jul 23, 2021 - 12:40 PM

Dude why complicating it..
I tried this once.

Put my hand in pocket/ side pocket or back doesnt matter
Kept little finger out and pointing .. when u find a potential person keep shaking little finger looking at him .

If any person is accompanying you they wouldnt notice

you can proceed safely if both understand gesture.
Simple gestures can help more

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nayaladka
Posted On Jul 23, 2021 - 08:40 PM

The assumption is that everyone knows of these signals only then would they work. Otherwise they won't.

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ToBeFreeinLyf
Posted On Jul 24, 2021 - 03:25 AM

Yeah then in that case it probably won't. Coz I've never really come across a lot of people who knew or understood these signs, in India and abroad. Such signs were used when the world had an issue with homosexuality and we needed to communicate without disclosing to anyone about our true agenda. Nowadays, things are much more open and free, probably not everywhere but in a good number of places.

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Tapeshm
Posted On Jul 24, 2021 - 09:02 AM

Prior to GR/ PR , cruising was the best form of meeting guys in Bombay . Prominent spots used to be Bandra station West ; Gateway of India along the walls !
Boy that was real fun with eye contact and gazing at the guys crotch 😀.
On my frequent trips to India even now I prefer cruising at the same areas mentioned.
Trust me , it works !!

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Bangalore874
Posted On Jul 24, 2021 - 02:19 PM

I use these.. nevertheless.. if it would be known to everyone like through this forum these will come out as safest and easiest of them all..
I would put it up on my profile today itself..

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Parth3107
Posted On Jul 24, 2021 - 08:18 PM

Chewing my lips while gazing to their ***, Wearing low waist jeans and tight short t-shirts worked for me. And for tops, scorching or adjusting ur bulge frequently can get you attention.

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Shivamsharma
Posted On Jul 25, 2021 - 07:06 PM

@Parth3107 is right. I also do the same. I gaze at ***. First like at face then look at ***, ans keep staring for 10 sec then again look in eye for 3 sec and so on.

If he interested he will surely ask. Otherwise he will ask is there anything one my clothes. Simple and effective.

By the way I have seduced 3 straight person by using this technique.

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patilboy
Posted On Jul 26, 2021 - 03:20 AM

I havent observed so much about what the person wear and what he carries, but then its true, if the other person is also like you, then he will star at you , give some notation, like smiling or eyebrow movement. Some more action I have observed are , they will past by you and try to touch your hand palm , try touching waist, also yes grabbing the crotch.

But then, most of the time if the other person is like you , then they will try to talk and ask some question , like direction and all. People at cruising place gives looks to each other and understand. If you are new to this world you can find it difficult to understand, but as one meet more people and contacts are increased, then one can easily find the other persons interest.

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BabyAngel
Posted On Jul 29, 2021 - 05:54 AM

For being a bottom, use low hip jeans and transparent shirt or tight tee shirt...

U can unbutton the first two😝

When using low hip pant, use bright colour inner - that will attract more.


Transparent shirt worked really well for me

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Kama Raj
Posted On Jul 29, 2021 - 06:40 AM

@patilboy...yes indeed... The 'look' trick is something I recognize very well. I have met many men using this method. I keep looking in every man's eyes and when I see that 'look'. Then I give him another look and if he wants me, then I get another look from that guy. I then stand there and see what he is doing. If I find him waiting for me, then I don't waste my time and skip the boring part and ask him if he has place. Then I go with the flow.

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BabyAngel
Posted On Jul 29, 2021 - 06:59 AM

@UtkarshXXL real time incident is with myself only actually.
. When I'm traveling somewhere in the night time (sleeper) I wore a dress like that only... Extremely transparent tees and low hip pant with bright colour inners, and a mild perfume...

Two sleeper - nearby guy usually get attracted to me in most of the times with such outfit... I always ensure the first move is from them only.. they slowly make a move and the fun begins😝


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versbott000
Posted On Jul 30, 2021 - 12:33 AM

I usually gaze into the eyes of the guy ..chew my lips to show interest. Many times have git guys . Also if u live near a beach , try there also

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Nu-Man
Posted On Jul 31, 2021 - 08:07 AM

Just stare at the crotch n later their eyes

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tonguetwist
Posted On Aug 1, 2021 - 01:50 AM

Yes, eye contact is good sign to identify top or bottom, I usually, if I hv taken a liking for the guy, I look at him straight and move my hand over my crotch give rubbing, if he is equally interested he will respond with same move, some times quivering lips like licking, he then responds the same, I hv encountered in suburban train, when not much crowded

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Rajcute
Posted On Aug 1, 2021 - 05:09 AM

This happens so many times when on street. Whenever i like anyone. I first make eye contact continously without blinking. And if it is the same frm the other side then i move to the next step of straight non stop looking at the crotch. If he is intd he wil get the mesage or will feel ackward and move.