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attitude of most guys on dating apps stinks


i am on xyz app n hv seen tht the attitude of most guys there stinks

1) most guys say they r top or pure top . still when conversation moves ahead...they want to see *** pics.. how funny

2) Most guys start off with asking pics.......arre naa jaan naa pehchan.. mai tera mehamaan.. i mean dont guys hv manners to intro themselves

3) Tympass guys..only there to ask n see pics of face n *** n fantasise... dont hv guts to come out n meet

4) blank profiles.. shows their blank mind

5) chat is limited to age, pic, likes location...whatever you talk... ghoom fir ke question always wl be pic pic pic..... how mentally retarded or of limited mental resources

6) Some claim to be very gud looking in their profile.. how funny.. tht opposite person wl decide..

7) same profile.... just change DP n see how many msgs u get... noone bothers to read profile

as far my experience goes.. many wud not like to develop frndship with gays becos of some really limiting characteristics that gays exhibit.

no offence to anyone intended.. only my personal opinion out of experience

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Franky80133
Posted On May 30, 2021

Cant expect everyone to be matured enough, most of them are there just for fun, wanna screw a bubbly butt..... the reality is totally different... people wont get it

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ruggedreb
Posted On May 31, 2021

Well said elders. Cannot agree with you more.

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BangaloreDiarie
Posted On May 31, 2021

Yep attitude is among every age group...since I'm very much attracted to elderly guys and when I reach out to them they are either looking for model kind of guys or they are desperate *** seekers...I could hardly find anyone who like to hangout or share some quality time..when talking about youngsters I have seen all money minded dudes who wants to have luxurious life...when talking about people who are in age group 30-40 they want commitment or they want instant *** with a personality who looks like a hero..again all this is my personal experience it may be different for other's

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Ud90
Posted On May 31, 2021

It's been a year since here...not able build a relationship with someone who has patient for it... desperate and full doubt full people..
Hope for best..

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Monstar29
Posted On May 31, 2021

I like elderly people (30 to 50)
Have met few who were very sweet and genuine.. Also have had bad experience. It's just numbers game. You'll find good n sweet ones.. I'm not supporting the young ones nor elder ones... I personally don't like to meet any one under 25. But there are some people who are mature by 20 and some are still not mature reaching 46..

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Manjuns16
Posted On May 31, 2021

Completely agree with point no 3. TIME PASS guys. They just want to collect pics that's it.
It's not about any perticular / age group, it's in general.
First of all they don't know what they are and what they want.

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Its me da
Posted On May 31, 2021

Its very difficult to chat and share our feelings over there, if i tell can we chat? Next they will ask pic plz, what the hell, y no one care abt frndship and feelings

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Monstar29
Posted On May 31, 2021

@its_me_da I'm pretty sure you might have asked it too at some point...

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mahesh11
Posted On May 31, 2021

Well said. I too have same feelings. Because many guys in first conversation ask pic, not even other details. When we say we are interested in meeting, they say they dont have place and not interested to meet and many other reasons for not meeting.

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Skyfall21
Posted On May 31, 2021

dating but most of them are looking for ***.
One more thing, it’s good to either not put a dp or put your dp but there are many fake people who put someone else pic as theirs, disgusting liars.

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Love2
Posted On May 31, 2021

and so many write on their profile that do not message me without face picture but they never post their own picture.

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deepdesire69
Posted On Jun 1, 2021

yes, this title suits many participants especially who are so called "PURE TOPS". they behave like kings, roman or Greek gods !! one top approached me and while chatting i expressed him to have his bottom shaved but he said it is better i only should shave it and it will be thrilling. i agreed. further he said it is fair to *** a bottom at his bedroom and despite we initially agreed to have a OYO room rented, i agreed. on the day of our meet and mate he said he cannot arrange for food and it will be fine if his bottom i.e. me prepare food for him. i agreed. that day night we are supposed to meet and mate, afternoon he called up and said, i should dress up as CD which stimulates him. i agreed but asked him to bring some lingerie. he said no and i agreed to buy and get ready for our firstnight. i asked him to bring some sweets / chocolates / fruits he agreed and lastly he said as he is coming from office he cannot buy anything including the blade which he expected me to shave his bottom !! in the evening at 06.00 he called up and said, i have to pick him up from his office due to locked down everywhere !! i disconnected him and blocked his phone. he just want to appear as a special character in the bedroom show and vanish !!!! how selfish and centrist he is ?? BETTER TO AVOID SUCH ROUGHS

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Horizon_87
Posted On Jun 1, 2021

They will never read the contents of the profile and still come up with those questions. Sometimes I feel that it is my mistake. I usually refrain from blocking and do not use any abusive language. I am a bottom but then I am always ready for a conversation and *** by bj or oral stuff with another bottom person and I have no problem at all and I tell them this very thing upfront to which no answer pops up. "TOPS" mahashay toh so many T&C : "Only outer romance, no kissing, no touching , no giving bj etc.(only like to receive one)".. I am like what is even this. Is this some installment or add-on package? question myself. But had been a girl for example in this place, then these proclaimed tops would do it all with her, without any hesitation. What is even s*x without smooching? Same questions : HRU, PLC, LIKS, U FRM- limited to these 4-5 phrases. Even if I am interested there is no point. Another area of focus is that on the app with a yellow mask or blue spiral globe, they would bother you so much by asking photographs when they themselves have a fully blank thumbnail. Seeing all this for so many years now and used to it. Since this topic was pulled up on this forum so I felt lie sharing my views.

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Elder51forboys
Posted On Jun 1, 2021

There are many guys who r straight but cannot find a girl or are rejected by girls due to their character n attitudes.
many such guys land up on such gay dating apps just for release. My advice is just ognore such guys.
why?
becos they wud be Deadwood in bed.. just lying n expecting themselves to be getting all the enjoyment n satisfaction without participation.



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Pundaregan7
Posted On Jun 2, 2021

Each individual interests varies we should respect without any Prejudgement based on messages alone. We also have deviant interests as they are. try to coexist.

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Justanewface
Posted On Jun 3, 2021

@akkulraja85 that was a very bad experience.

I knew a guy with whom I used to have oral *** frequently, and he was good person he would kiss my stomach and leg and give me oral. Then we would do 69 and then I would finish him in my ***.

Recently he has been doing this I am too tensed to do anything you finish me off.
I was like what do you think I am but since we knew eachother for yrs I finished him off. This kept happening many times so I started to avoid him

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ChubbyKundi
Posted On Jun 3, 2021

They don't start with their introduction, but they want to know about others information.

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rargo
Posted On Jun 4, 2021

Developing good friendship and understanding each other likes is more important before meeting anyone is really important part ...some people try to skip this entirely and get disappointed...it's a shame

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bangalorebivers
Posted On Jun 6, 2021

No kissing folks are the worst !
They should just kill themselves and die - I mean they are a burden to society - "I just need any hole, I will *** you like animal, no emotions, no feelings , no kiss " etc., mother*fckers , Want to just beat them when I hear these.

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Cdrani
Posted On Jun 7, 2021

Pure tops..... 🀣🀣🀣
I hate this word nd that type men
A perfect men can make his bottom also happy in bed with lot of romance, fun nd more
*** is just end or climax of fun,
But some people think *** means ***
People still need to improve their gay *** levels as per may thinking πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

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dingdong
Posted On Jun 7, 2021

well said @Cdrani. me being top.. i hate to hear the word pure top... its the term introduced by someone who doesnt want to do anything except *** a hole or getting ***. I dont know whats pure in it. *** is something be enjoyable by both parties on bed. Pleasure to be shared and exchanged and make sure that the partner is satisfied than self. This would make sure the session would be memorable and pleasureful...

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deepdesire69
Posted On Jun 12, 2021

i wanted to share an experience with you all : one guy was chatting with me on ohmojo itself since 8-10 days and we decided to meet yesterday morning. after sharing our photos, numbers and all we had long chat for a very long time and on the spot of meet, he reached before 5-10 minutes and he wanted to see and confirm i am the same person who had a chat with him. me being fair, good looking and being a versatile, he said he is well built, dark and he is also a versatile and even after coming to our meeting point he disguised himself and gave me wrong identity and his selfish intention was, he wanted to see me first and if he does not like me, without any information he can move away ! but in one car's glass i could see he attending and talking to me. i disconnected the call for confirmation and again called him up and the moment he said "hello" i got confirmed that he is the same guy. he was so dark, fat, baldy and nasty !! but he wanted to see and like me before we meet and mate. it is ok, if we dont like mutually we can just have a coffee and say bye bye......anyway we are not going to have either a court marriage or a temple wedding to live permanently and most of Gays does not meet second time at all !! after that i switched off my mobile and went back to my home. truly these gay cruising is becoming un-healthy gradually as i read some of the risks, threats, commercial demands, photo demands...and so on. guys, please exercise caution before you go to or invite some one to their or your home. WISH YOU ALL A VERY HAPPY HUNTING

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Elder51forboys
Posted On Jun 12, 2021

yes.. these apps hv ruined all the fun of yester years... when we did not hv apps or mobikes
cruising in parks was so much fruitful
eg.. mariyappapalya park, ulsoor lake, lalbaug,

now only nttf park remains

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ToBeFreeinLyf
Posted On Jul 4, 2021

Thank you for saying this. I'm facing the exact same thing on Grindr to be particular.

Guys don't talk. If they do, all they say is 'age, location, milo'. Or some idiots just randomly send out photos of their shlong. As if bottoms would just wanna get down on their knees and worship every shlong we come across.

General opinion I've come across. CD = ***. If you're a CD on a dating app you're considered a *** I'm sorry but that's the reality I've faced.

Begging. I don't see the point of some people begging for a photo once you've said you're not interested.

Please guys, don't send out photos to random people. Don't meet people randomly. Lots of cheats and fakes. Make sure the person on the other side is legitimate before you involve with them.

Be safe and have fun responsibly:)

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deepdesire69
Posted On Jul 4, 2021

one thing which is generally felt here is, all those pure - tops who are exhibiting their XL, XXL *** pictures - all most all are either home-less, No place for *** or unable to even arrange a place for romance/*** kind of people. seems to be maximum tops here are poor, below poverty line and houseless. But is it true? surely not, they just want to visit bottom/versatile's place, without any strings attached, without any expenses, without any commitment and not even either kissing them or touching, just want to dump their *** and run-away without even return and see once after their "OWN-SATISFACTION" most of them will neither relate with those once met bottom/versatile nor even to talk to them over the phone. as these bottoms. CDs, sissys, versatiles are faminine and full of emotions and feelings, the tops are afraid that these people should not be emotionally attached to them and follow and meet them at their address, if they were invited for the ***/romance and hence, like they keep their g/fs away, they would like to keep all these partners away, ignorant and neglected to some extent. we are not made still to accept the truth, i know this may hurt someone and i know many will attempt to bounce back.....good luck...i am here to respond to you....and waiting

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Juggu99
Posted On Jul 13, 2021

Excellent lines........ Now a days chat starts with age, likes, preference and ends with no place for that asking pics, am int in frndship so many false news at the v tell no place then they won't respond.

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Elder51forboys
Posted On Jul 20, 2021

most guys are on gay apps only becos
1) they cant get a girlfriend
2) if they get they cant afford the girlfriend
3) the cannot keep the girlfriend consistently interested in them

so the easiest way is to get on a gay app n enjoy ***.. no matter whether its gay ***

also most of the guys on such apps r dumb to the core
cant keep a conversation going to get someone interested in them
its like they just dont hv mental resources

some r jobless n gay apps r for money making
throw 1000 bucks and a so called pure top wl get on his knes or bend over to show his backside

phew
how boring these apps hv become