Gef09's profile

SINGLES ONLY - No "Open Relationships", cheaters or "hook-up"/ "encounter seekers".

I'm a relationship oriented guy. I love my friends, I love my family...and I'm very close to all of them. Love to cook and have get-togethers at my house. I'm definitely a people person. I even host a backyard film festival on Saturday Nights during the summer months that's now in its eighth season. I also coordinate the neighborhood block party. Reminds me of when I was a kid in Brooklyn :-)

I have a great house and i'm just looking the the guy that might help make it a home But one step at a time. Maybe coffee or a drink?

I'm an open book. Ask me anything me you'd like to know. Drop me a line and we'll take it from there.

Intellect and humor are a huge turn on. Be smart. Be Funny. Feisty is fun. Queenie, not so much. LOL!!! Good grammar is sexy. Don't write as if you're texting. And turn off the caps! No need to yell.

But if you're that AND cook?...step to the front, please.

Being somewhat local helps. Love MAY conquer a lot, but I've done long distance that requires air travel and it worked out but after my partner died .

If you've gotten this far...well then.... Drop me a line and we'll take it from there!

OH..and my photos here do span some time. However...My main shot is never older than a couple of months at most.

FOR THE RECORD: I am very happy at this point in my life. I am not looking for anyone because I'm lonely or needy. I'm at that point where I'm happy with who I am, with my life, my friends, and my family. That's not a cop-out either. I'm in NO RUSH. If some one comes along and it's right, that's wonderful. If not, I'll be ok, too. :-)

For the OTHER record: If your profile starts off with info on you being a TOP or a BOTTOM, i don't think we're a match. To me, there are SO many other things that are much more important than THAT when it comes to life

Looking For:
Friendship, Long Term Relationship