Being used - share your experiences
Met one top via grinder. He was M and had big ***. He was in a different district and I travelled to meet him. He invite me to a motel. He was my type. Dark mature with big cut john. We dfk fr some time. Treated me like a woman. *** my tongue ad darted my navel. Sucke d my tits. Made me. Blow hi.m multiple times and made me swallow. Also rimmed him. Once he came many times and was resting, i started kissimg him to get myself off but he told he was tired and slept and then erly morning he got wood. Made me gve him bj again and I swallowed. Th en he left. I think he cam because his wife woudt blw him |
Cheating in Gay Relationships
I want to pour my heart out. I'm in love with a guy whom I know past 6-7 years from 2019. He's vers, I'm top and we started with hookups NSA and kept going till present time. The thing is that I developed feelings for him and even confessed but he didn't said anything, Not even a No or Yes. Insecurity, jealousy and suspicion led me to discover that over a period of time he's been having actively regular *** frm over 100 peeps, whereas I really only had him, my count precisely to be 60-70 now. I'm not defining me as a saint coz I too sleep with guys besides him but the moment I truly understood that I'm in love and want him to be my life time partner something changed in me.I Even discussed our future, me coming out to my parents (he stays alone, now 2-3 years with his friends as roommates who are married and are straight) even discussed loving and living together but he's not interested. He doesn't let me go and behaves exactly as a loving bf but the moment I discuss Abt our future he goes numb. On top of that after a brief investigation Abt him I came to know Abt his regular hookups, one guy frm his locality he's in love with and even having *** after I confronted him that I know he's hooking up. I'm such in a bad state of mind because of my current situationship. I don't wanna lose him but if he continues his hookups then I can't forgive him endlessly. I'm stuck and blaming the universe that why he didn't made me straight so that I could've really found a person who's genuinely into me, will love me for eternity and will have a small family of my own in this big world. Everywhere, everytime he's always in my head. I can't stop thinking Abt him. I'm so much *** up. |
Dealing with a lonely life post 30-40
^^ Also, I'll be happy to connect with 30+ for a chat/ casual outing. I'm all in for hearing stories about what 90s/early 2000s was like for you (my favourite era :)) |
Dealing with a lonely life post 30-40
I'm approaching 30s. This thought haunts me too. But, based on what I've experienced from my elder/seenager friends, having multiple circles of people to hang out with is the key. Office colleagues, school/college friends, cousins, gay friends doesn't matter. Not everyone needs to know your sexuality and not all your circles need to know more than you want to share. That's the whole point of having different circles.
If you have your own place, invite them over for games, movies or drinks. I bet they'll be happy for a nice break away from their busy lives (presuming they have spouses and kids and parents to take care).
Also, for those asking about where they would find genuine gay friends, I suggest starting from a support group. Humsafar has one, SAAHAS is another but not sure if it's active anymore. |
What's your deepest darkest fantasy?
Age doesn’t matter. I want to be someone’s wife for a married man where he treats me better than his actual wife. I want him to cheat on her with me. That’s a wonderful feeling where a married men doesn’t go to his wife (a actual women) and be with us. 🥵♥️ |
Male sexual health and Safe Sex
If someone can tell me is there any numb tablets or cream for *** *** and whitening the private parts? |
Looking for a friend to chat
I am especially aroused by dark hairy uncut mature men who wear dark lungis. |
Looking for a friend to chat
I am looking for 35+ dark, hairy, uncut Tamil or Telugu man to regularly chat on telegram. See my profile for my telegram ID and revert. |
Cheating in Gay Relationships
I am madly in love with a married guy since few years . He is loyal to me but often I have caught him sexting others and I feel so disheartened about this . Sometime I feel is cheating there in all the relationships? What’s your thoughts? In 3 years I have caught him 4 times and have forgiven too . |
Looking for a friend to chat
@kitty22BTM
See I don't mind meeting as well. If the person is decent I would actually love to meet. I like meeting people. If they are decent. The people I usual talk to are great thirsty *** people who just want to meet you and thrust into you. What's the point of meeting them |
Looking for a friend to chat
@kingofdesire56 You are absolutely Right.. I also experience this. Everyone just pretends they are okay with chatting, but after some chats they force a meeting...... |
Wife Pegging Husband
Yess i love it too when someone rub my *** |
What's your deepest darkest fantasy?
At present I want to be *** by my landlord and his son |
Dealing with a lonely life post 30-40
I sometimes wonder if there are other people like me. Who are perpetually and forever single. I spend my life alone waiting and hoping for someone to come into mylife. I have tried everything and everywhere I have just been ending up with disappointment. |
Lonely Nights
It's disappointing that this thread is not active as much as it's needed. I usually spend mostly every day of my life alone. Don't have anyone in my life to be with. It's really disappointing and really hurtful. I wish people would just actually make some effort into connecting with someone rather than just seeking out partners for ***. |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
True
Looking for hookups but finding none
All are pic seekers |
How many of you actually have Gay friends ?
I used to talk to a few people who claimed to be gay. But then they ghosted. So I'm assuming they were just pseudo gay people. |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
Grindr since the beginning never had any dating option. It was purely for hookups |
Looking for a friend to chat
I'm like super tired of people just ghosting me after we spend like days talking and forming some bond. I would really like to talk to someone who doesn't do that. At this point I've given up hope that such a person is possible to be found. |
Wife Pegging Husband
My ex gf used to touch my ***, it felt so good and instant turn on, the orgasm after that is just too good. But never got fingered full fledged. |
How many of you actually have Gay friends ?
One of my friends is gay. Last month, I connected with a top on Grindr and he sent me his picture. It turned out to be my friend, so I just ignores his msg. I didn't know what to do then his profile disappears next day |
Male sexual health and Safe Sex
Kankrish if you did only liplock and *** not possible to get hiv. Herpes can but not a big worry. But its still good to test and collect that negative. |
Hv u ever got raped / molested by anyone, which still traumatize you?
I was 6 years old. My tenant had two sons. Those two brothers molested me for two years and left the house. I literally had no idea and the worst part is I enjoyed that. At 13 yrs due to biology alas came to know that THEY RAPED ME. At times till today I can’t sleep at night because it will all come back. Eventually, I still try to overcome it and I did somewhat. |
Wife Pegging Husband
When ur partner is pegging u try to relax ur *** and spread ur legs in doggie position and press ur chest on the bed u will feel so good in this |
Wife Pegging Husband
On this Friday night I went to a hotel in nagpur with my gf , while she was giving me the bj she was fingering my ***. Then she applied some vasaline on my *** and used the round nob of her comb to penetrate me |
Daddy issues. Uncover the secrets.
Till 10th standard i studied in a school where teachers were all female. When i moved to a new school for 11th standard for all subjects except 1 or 2, all were male teachers all almost of my fathers age and a few like younger uncles and elder brothers. This was very fascinating for me. We had a chemistry teacher, who was very tall , handsome chubby with a very smiling face always. His chubby chin was of a constant pink (He was very fair). i had a huge crush on him. At few times he used to give assignments and i would be always the 1st one to complete it, So he became close to me and one day he took me to chemistry lab and explained a few mini projects for an upcoming school exhibition during which i had a lot of time to spend with him very close. But those days i was afraid to get close to him, but i would look at him and fantasize in all possible ways. He used to wear a tight pant and so his **lge was constantly visible and he would not care about it. Whenever i look at him i would see that from long.I then went to the school after passing out to collect the final mark sheet and saw him one last time.Then years have passed and i have not seen him after that. But even now i dream of him like sleeping together and all sorts of stuff and i love him so much. |
Taking selfies and videos
I have video for flashing in public and delivery boy.. |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
Don’t mind paying for grinder but honestly it needs better scrutiny of the account, honestly should be a paid app itself lots of free fake accounts come up with no effort or absolutely no profile info ti view and the the most irritating starter Hi dear pic please , blank profiles demanding pic please ,
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Hv u ever got raped / molested by anyone, which still traumatize you?
Was doing a course in Pune in 2025 , found a guy on Grindr kinda vibed said he’ll pick me up and drive to his place , had not agreed for car fun , but stopped his car on pretext of a low tyre warning on his car screen and then started aggressively forcing me , held my head and made me *** him was left with scratch marks on my scalp , never agreed to get in. Car again better to drive or call a person over |
How many of you actually have Gay friends ?
I may have gay friends who must be pretending to be straight in this straight world. Same thing applies to me none of my friends know that I'm a gay |
Gay Travel Explorers & Gay friendly Hotels/Rentals
planning group trip next month...anyone interested ? |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
Grindr basically has paid scammers now a days and fake peoples. I hope this website will be better than that. |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
I just got 1 good friend cd bot from grindr whom I met in 2022, rest others are either paid, away, schedule not matching to meet or no place with me guys, good n matching people from grindr are so rare |
How many of you actually have Gay friends ?
I have but i don't like them actually |
New Year Resolutions - Everyone share your thoughts.
Locked my *** in chastity..finally... |
Wife Pegging Husband
Im a bi.. so told one of my hookup abt my fantasy.. n she is into such stuff fortunately.. |
How many of you actually have Gay friends ?
I've always been unlucky in friendship, none stayed or showed intrest it's always been one sided friendship so i never make the move to try with anyone unless they're intrested. |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
Yes I agree Grindr is not an easy and comfortable platform nowadays, too much ads then need to purchase membership plans to check Mail ch and Profile visits
People also jump directly to questions like.. share ur face pics, do u have place etc
I mean a proper introductory conversation is necessary |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
usually teens themselves message (lookng at the mature age) talk sweet and then say... I am paid!
yaar tuze koi paise kyu dega.... look at mirror yaar :P |
Married men - Are you ever interested in talking.
This was posted on 2nd March edit is below
Just want someone to chat with ,with whom I can talk everything which is happening ,an emotional bond ,not much into sexual thing but I need someone to talk with
Married since last 5++ years
Have great *** and stuff
But
It's like being abused ,harrassed all time always shown as if I'm nothing in this world
The amount of pain i get from my in-laws can't explain
Dint say this to anyone
Theres a loan which I took frm my wife fr business it dint work and day in and out she needs money
Besides she doesn't remove a single penny for day to day life
I feel bad about me bad mouthing here but it's just I'm way too low ryt nw
I really feel manytimes if I had the money ryt nw I would have given to her and just go get sanyas
After my parents die I'll put her name give away the house and whatever and will prolly leave everything
Get into god's path
Edit part :-
Things got worse way to worse
She abused my mom ,when she was with me and that was it ...
Told her to leave next day her parents called as there was physical abuse on both the ends
I've told them clearly go to the cops I'm fully ready
More abuse at home not mental but lil physical tore my shirt off
I left in same way till my home
I was going through so much and noone was at home
So I thought of smokingup got high downloaded gr
Some femme asked me he wants to do smokeup as well ,meet him called him home we got really High
And for first time in my life
I was with some guy making out and it was way way too wild and erotic as we were high
This dude later started avoiding me I was confused
I had a frnd frm gr
He is femme so msgd him to ask about this situation of mine
He explained well and I was so impressed by his talks
He wNted to meet me 6 months back but knew I was super straight so I was avoiding him
I told him I'll meet you we planned for weekend but gradually meet same day
I meet him out and we were talking we spoke for around 2 hrs and by leaving time I knw bots crave alt fr *** so I initiated but was just normal things naked cuddle kisses but was hot
He understood i did that jabardasti
Second day we planned to meet again at home
And we madeout had *** for 4 hrs straight
I left him on bike while riding we kissed in public as well it was late
So these all things were happening first time in my life
And he had been with many guys but he kept saying this is the first time someone's doing things like this
We started chatting talking like 24*7
It was just a week but but things got us really really very close
I did alot alot of things for him ,which he kept sayin till date noone has ever done to him
Things like feeding him in public ,getting a rose,giving gifts on 3day which turned out to his fav,giving bokeh,and mostly importantly poundring all my love to him
As while talking so much he opened up about his past which was dark
And I too opened up infront of someone like after 13 years
I was speaking my soul out
Started falling for eachother
Made plans for future ,
I never thought such things willl ever happen in my life
As I've only been with girls and shemales(paid)
I've asked him in future lets get married as well
Let's get shifted abroad have a life,I'll takecare of you
And which I was doing already
So these things take time alot of time but in our case it just happened in 5 days
He said can't give commitment after all this
And like let's stop talking
After that time is become soo sooo difficult
It's like i cried such way 14 years back for a girl who was my first love ,again going through the same thing and this thing hurts on some different very different level
Like alot of things happened don't have strength to type as well
But yaa it's life like a month back I was crying about my life which was going on
And here within a week it changed so drastically which I never imagined
Everything is temporary everyone knows
But in that moment it feels like this is it ,I'm done .
Just tryna cope up with the turmoil
The first thing right now I'm superfocused on is giving back the money of my wife getting a divorce
And then let's see wher it goes
As I'm not interested in any gender right now
Nor I'm into physical thing like soo much have happend I've taken control over lust
Just wanted a person close 😔 |
Taking selfies and videos
I enjoy watching videos of myself getting *** by lots of men.
They *** on my ***, pull their *** out, and the next guy’s *** slides right in.
I love the way I take *** from so many of them. |
Gay Orgy or group experiences
As most of u were asking what next let me conclude so the top is *** me in doggy style sometimes in air and then suddenly door bell ranged yes the bottom guy came in the top went to bathroom to clean and I opened the door bottom guy came n I suddenly make him naked n pushed him to *** me till then top guy came naked now they are kissing each other body playing I am also doing top *** nipples n bottom *** me now top stand up n bottom *** both of us n we were kissing like that we both now lay down in doggy style n top eating our *** one by one till then the another gr top came he was little different as expected I think never been a part of group so flashing light but later when we say no he got involved n get naked top body playing with him bottom *** three of us then sometimes I m going down *** two tops then comes the *** part my friend *** me in cow boy n then missionary then the gr top fuvking the bottom in doggy style, gr top I think was more interested in me looking my smooth lean gym body n wanted to double penetrat me but I said no so he went n *** other guy in doggy style he came in less than 3 4 mins damn but the other top *** me well now turns for the bottom top guy *** him in doggy style n I m fuvjing his *** full hard *** he was moaning full stroke t when he got tired a little after 10 min I gave my cute tiny *** to the top n the top can't resist within 5 mins he came had good fun then all went later I make the bottom *** my *** for 20 30mins n fucjed him hard for more 30mins giving my *** in his *** fun ended at 12 12.30 |
Encounter with people from other states
Met a cute Bengali boy on Grindr few days back. ***, he was so good in bed. Gentle at first, then suddenly turned into a total beast — deep, rhythmic strokes, perfect angle, and that dirty Bengali accent whispering filthy things in my ear. Made me moan like a *** and *** hands-free twice. Best *** I’ve had in months. Bengali boys know how to handle a bottom properly. Also their accent while *** turns me on.
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Sex and alchohal
I went to meet a top late at night. We started drinking whiskey and I got properly drunk fast. He bent me over and *** me hard and rough on the couch, slapping my *** and calling me his cheap sissy whore.Still *** and drunk, I opened Grindr while he was in the bathroom and found another top nearby. I went straight to him. Same thing — more drinks, more rough ***.That night I ended up going to 7 different tops, one after another. Each one *** me hard with a condom on while I was drunk and desperate, moaning like a total ***.By morning my hole was wrecked, legs shaking, and I was covered in marks.With a smile on my face and completely satisfied I went back to my home. It was my best decision while I was drunk.
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Wife Pegging Husband
The best orgasms are when I am being fingered deep... the small knob of prostate when massaged sends incredible shivers of pleasure thru my body.. I love it that my wife enjoys all this.. when she wears the strap-on dildo she feels her masculine energy soar and I feel my feminine energy emerge.. then she loves *** me like her bitch.. love it.. |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
@intimate_muses very true. They were the best |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
In small city, finding people on grindr is a big task... Not everyone is according to your taste and that vibe should match |
Wife Pegging Husband
Any suggestion from where to buy good quality strap dildo |
Wife Pegging Husband
Being fingered is fun |
Grindr Dating is so Frustrating in India
Yahoo chat rooms and Orkut were the best
Have never seen anything better than those two
No VC apps now with privacy |
