Some have boyfriends or girlfriends or some are married but they want to explore outside of their marriage/relationship. They are not or can't be in an open relationship for whatsoever reason. It is so hard to find guys on the gay dating apps like grindr.
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Notsureanymore | Posted On Apr 3, 2024
Yes , I agree with this but in a country like India may men are scared to do so as they be caught or whatsoever reasons . But finding a good , compassionate , loving boy or a man here is truly difficult. But what turns on most men are mostly *** or a muscular body with a an adorable face. It's good to explore and to know many people as this world isn't subjected only to their partner/spouse itself as long as it's not serious it's fine and not serious . I've said what's I have felt :) |
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naninaku | Posted On Apr 3, 2024
True that, every one looking for (muscular+Handsome face+awesome ***) this combo is little difficult to get in apps. For a good friend + this relation one must compromise on the combo. For eg: i dont need a muscular man, may be i need a handsome face and an *** to drill or rim and make love long |
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BiCurious27 | Posted On Apr 3, 2024
True that. I have personally felt that too.
Very difficult to find a hookup here for fun and friendship.
Some people even ask face pics first.
I have few encounters from this app. But you can't get constant companion for fun and friendship at 40+ age |
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ChubbyNeptune | Posted On Apr 3, 2024
True. Chubby ppl are often blocked |
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Shashwat | Posted On Apr 3, 2024
Yes. But majorly, we are discreet for whatever reason and want to meet same person |
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akstib | Posted On Apr 4, 2024
It's good to meet different people for those who are just looking for fun |
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vikram | Posted On Apr 5, 2024
Few say that apps like Grindr are not good and safe.
One shoud be cautious.
Why?
Without these apps how to locate a guy?
Kindly clarify guys |
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Buzz15 | Posted On Apr 7, 2024
Interesting thread |
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MylifemyWish | Posted On Apr 7, 2024
It's 95% people want exactly tailored partner, frend worse JD for a NSA HOOKUP of one night stand also exactly what they want, mutual sharing n fun is far , all they want is to get what they want , irony is even Paid commercial boys choose there client and rates are fixed accordingly..
And common it's all not possible without apps like PR GR BL ...BUT ...AAGAIN All must be in there safety zone for social, financial and health reasons...who to trust , how much to share leaving hypocrisy but being broad mindedly treat other fellow men as we expect us to be treated ...
Let's LIVE and LETS LIVE |
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CasualFunOnly | Posted On Apr 14, 2024
interesting topic
Even I don't use any apps, due to discretion
Very difficult to find NSA hook ups to explore the other side |
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Wolfpack69 | Posted On Apr 15, 2024
Interesting thread guys.. so far I have not been able to go beyond the customary pic exchange on these apps. |
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OfHoOf | Posted On Apr 18, 2024
Most people don't even open up about themselves... How can there be any chemistry if I don't know your physics and you don't understand my biology?
They don't want to talk and understand about what they want in bed before getting in one. They just want to ***. What happened to making love? What happened to gearing up, slowing down and ramping up again? |
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Wolfpack69 | Posted On Apr 18, 2024
@OfhoOf, well said.. with no P,C or B, you end up getting the M(math) wrong :) |
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Wantmylips * | Posted On Apr 26, 2024
Well its always a taboo even though there is so much happening society doesnt want to accept it and makes guys feel that they are sick that is the reason most of us want to be discreet |
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raj_1987 * | Posted On Apr 26, 2024
What this group of *** rabbits does not understand is Married/Commited guy who is looking for some extra fun does not mean that they are not happy in their current relationship.
The guy just want to explore some naughty side of his. This rabbit genrations wants everything super fast, Meet, Greet, *** and bye bye.
Thats not how it works in all the case.
People like me also exist who want a stable relation for fun with out limits.
Frankly speaking if you are looking for fun with out boundary you need a person whom you can trust.
We do not want STI, it will not only effect us it will effect our partner as well. Hence, trust is must and this hoppers does not under stand that.
And how can you trust some one on app, you will share your pic and after that opp person will block you and will be sharing your pic to other just for fun shake - It has happend with me few times. Hence, I have decided no sharing pic meet personally and go ahead.
You go on a date with girl first, than meet, than talk and after few weeks or may be days you guys go to bed. Why the same culture is not followed here in this world.
Well if anyone who agree with my thoughts please from me a message atleast I will get a new friend if things does not work out. |
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Wantmylips * | Posted On Apr 29, 2024
Well we should take an initiative to have events and get togethers for like minded people who want to be discreet and try and meet up after connecting here and take it forward |
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Wantmylips * | Posted On Apr 29, 2024
I also feel that exchanging pics is a waste of time best way forward is to meet up casually over a coffee then as most of us have a problem about hosting then when ever either of us has a place we can have fun. otherwise too its good to stay connected and wait for an opportunity.
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Wolfpack69 | Posted On Apr 29, 2024
good idea,@wantmylips 👍 |
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raj_1987 * | Posted On Apr 29, 2024
Many number of folks have contacted me and have agreed with my views. Thank you all.
@Wantmylips, your idea is very good however, the only problem is keeping everyone on the same track is super difficult. However, we can try to have something like group walking, or running or bike ride etc etc.
I am open to all options. How about a meeting at open area like lal bagh for walk and than move towards MTR for breakfast and later who ever is comfortable with each other can move ahead. This was all can meet each other, since the motive is fixed there wont be any chances of hoppers to take swing. |
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Wantmylips * | Posted On Apr 30, 2024
See many of us think alike but the lack of taking an initiative hasn't taken us anywhere and first a casual meet will pave a way for other exciting opportunities. Maybe if one of us has a place free for a weekend we can post here and get together and have fun and explore new horizons. I am saying this from experience as was a part of a group of guys who loved to get nude there was no *** involved but was very exhilarating experience. |
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Wantmylips * | Posted On Apr 30, 2024
I totally agree with @raj_1987 i follow the same thing no pics if a guy is really interested in having fun then he has to meet right so meet casually at first and if you like what you see go ahead otheriwise we can go our ways. |
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New_boy | Posted On May 2, 2024
Super interesting thread guys. Being a married guy, secrecy is super important in country like ours. The point is not to meet once and forget. Its more on the bond and friendship along with fun. Would love to meet like minded people and create a safe environment where exploring different things becomes hassle free |
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Wantmylips * | Posted On May 2, 2024
I agree with New boys comment it should be a good friendship too and not a wham bam Thankyou types. |
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