Back to Cruising Spots Submit a Cruising Spot

Lonely Nights

Submitted by JustBluue Location: All India (All India, India)

I know many of us feels so lonely specially in nights.

What's your feeling about. What do you do in such nights when no one is with you. Share whatever things come into your mind. How to grab good thinking and how do you ignore.nqgatibe thoughts. ?

Reply/Post a comment


Displaying 51 to 83 of 83 comments.
Previous comments: 1 2

No Picture kiran1951	Posted On Dec 19, 2023 CluelessHubby, you are wondeful.

No Picture Desidesirex	Posted On Dec 19, 2023 Hmm lonely nights. Sometimes it happens with me I wake up in the middle of the night 2-3am around. I live alone at the time I just wanted to be curdle by someone. One time this happens and I was so *** that I invited gr guy to my place. That was awesome. I do 1 hrs of exercise and I sleep early around 10. When I wake up in middle that time hurt a lot. The cool side of bed and silence in room kills me. Sometimes I wish can connect with people who are feeling the same.

No Picture Dreamy	Posted On Dec 19, 2023 My mind races to the forbidden valley of desperation and depression at the same time... Desperation due to my body's desires for physical connection and depression due to my mind's desire for something more and it's really hard to explain what is that something more.... In these kind of nights I just go on internet and start looking for random strangers to talk to ... And when I finally find someone to talk (voice call) to, even though my intent purely stays "explicit" but something just changes and my desperation just goes away and I start enjoying talking about life.. listening to them and literally hours go by like this, one night I started to talking to this one guy and we hung up the call at 4 in the morning ... So yea.. it's kinda weird ik but maybe this is the key to the answer for my lonely nights

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Dec 22, 2023 @Desidesirex Same here dear.. waking in the middle of the night is very common.. loneliness in addiction with hornyness makes things ultra difficult!! I have always been nudist when home and alone (no parents around).. i stay nude in home as possible.. specially when drunk and high..

No Picture Desidesirex	Posted On Dec 23, 2023 @Roykhannaa I live alone too. But sometimes it too much. I try to busy myself with work n other activities but some night it over my head

No Picture Desidesirex	Posted On Dec 23, 2023 The reason is also that in gay community in India no body is interested in friendship and I have no one around to discuss gay issues and talk even minor issues,query. I know there a lot of us here married,single are in same boat but not interested in friendship and even bring community together. Hope 🙏 my message reaches to right person 💕 Guys don't always try to search partner just try to search person to whom u can comfortably talk

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Dec 24, 2023 @Desidesirex I agree with completely.. I have posted an Ad on locanto app for 'experienced/in experienced top/bottom BF'. Where i have posted to that i am looking for a decent sophisticated boy friend who is trust worthy, to whom i can talk share everything, who can make me feel good and same i can do to him. To connect first emotionally and then physically. But as u said.. i never found one. I am a curious bottom and searching for such person from a very very long time!

No Picture needsugardaddy2	Posted On Dec 25, 2023 @Roykhannaa. Posting an add on Locanto won't help. It's India and Indian society is very conservative. It's hard to find genuine guys even in metros and big cities. @Desidesirex.... Yes living alone is difficult. We keep ourselves busy in our work but at night we tend to become lonely. I never look for one night stand though. @Roykhannaa @Desidesirex I'm always into older men like 45 + or even 50+ mature guys. Irrespective of their physical appearance. The masculine the better but I'm never into younger guys or guys of my age. I always want a partner, a good friend where I can be myself to him and likwise. Where both of us can spend sometime, leaving behind the mundane life. Relugar meeting whenever both of us have time. And this friendhsip should interfere in each other's personal or professional life. One need to understand like men who are homosexual live dual life. They are married and have kids , some are unmarried but they are out in the society. Rare you would find someone who is out. And I guess it's hard to find such guy. Days are passing by, nights are lonely. I wish I could have such mature friend in my life.

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Dec 25, 2023 @needsugardaddy2 Yes thats true.. what you said.. also what you looking for is something what similar to my interests too.. we have secret life and socially open life.. both are different.. we need some in our secret life maintaining discretion and we to that someone too.. Its difficult.. but if found one, it will be dream come true!!.. hope to find that someone! Im 35yr old .. if yes u feel i am someone you were looking for.. please dm and lets find something for our lonely nights and days !

No Picture MatureMumbai	Posted On Dec 25, 2023 Hi So nice to read that there are genuine guys looking for serious friends for LTR and not just one time F&F. @Roykhannaa @needsugardaddy @Nexus_00 @Desidesirex Nice to read your views But sadly all are from either Pune, Delhi, Hyderabad, Varanasi None from Mumbai I am from Mumbai, mature friendly age 62 years looking for a close friendly partner to meet talk date go out. But sadly with No Place. And all here who I come across stop chat only after the first question Do You have Place.. Say No and end to all the friendly compatibility and all. Long distance does not help much. But yes if connected well it is desirable too. Any one like to get in touch do message me Merry Christmas Compliments of the season And wish you all a Happy 2024

No Picture indiantg	Posted On Dec 29, 2023 Maut Ka Ek Din Mauyyan Hai Neend Kyun Raat Bhar Nahi Aati I am normally sleep at 3 or 4 am I tried my best to sleep.. Kuch Khawab Adhurey hai jo soney nahin dete.

No Picture LoveU2	Posted On Dec 29, 2023 ये भी कोई जीना हैं, ये भी कोई जीना हैं ये भी कोई मरना यारा सीली सीली बिरहा के रात का जलना ओ यारा सीली सीली, डोला सीली सीली

No Picture Rohan126	Posted On Jan 16, 2024 Watched His Story Why preet left in ending. Men the gay series endings scares me Why most of the gays try to find new in everything. Is it a kind of dopamine to be with a man for a certain time then find another one. He said their relationship does not challenges so the love faded without challenges. Is it a game that problems give excitement. What's the role of attachment then and if this is how relationship works then how straight couple manage to live together for whole life Don't everyone feel scared in that case. How do everyone will find partner then. Or is it like switching after 2-3 years. Can't even imagine it. I think relationship is not just about se, Se plays a small part in it. it's more about feelings, emotions, care for each other, warmness, little things like When when someone is at low point another act as support, when I or he came back from office After work and you hug another person and man you will comfort, that the feeling of home, you don't feel lonely. Sorry guys, just wanted to vent out some feelings, It's just that after watching series, it freaked me out.

No Picture rogerasyd	Posted On Jan 16, 2024 His story ending is just that.....a story. The writer is trying to portray the guy leaving his wife as someone doing bad and karma eventually catches up with him i.e. he is also left alone in the end. See the movie called 'arth' by Mahesh Bhatt, that also is on similar lines on straight relationship.

No Picture Sammie26	Posted On Jan 29, 2024 Lonilness is very bad things, it's very hard to spend time when you're alone. And specially when you don't have any frnd and family.

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Jan 29, 2024 @Sammie26 i agree.. but also having everyone and not having what we need is also kind of lonliness !! A touch of someone we urge for.. that our body needs !! A man to fulfill our openings, our emotions, our need, our hunger, our lust!! Isn't it

No Picture Bigpeni_Versati	Posted On Jan 30, 2024 What I feel regarding Lonely Nights for homosexuals is even companiyon ( other than homosex guy) presence it will not give pleasure because our feeling on tuch of any other homosex man body and his warm touch gives more pleasure.

No Picture Sammie26	Posted On Feb 5, 2024 I really feel very bad on every weekend. Monday to Friday busy at work with office colleagues but it's very to paas time on weekends for me. What can I do to keep busy my self...

No Picture Womaninmanbody	Posted On Feb 17, 2024 On lonely nights I just * myself to sleep by watching all kinds of . Most of the I watch revolves around some one getting force , humiliated or degraded like some object. In all the cases i fantasize being the bitch, bottom, shemale, sissy or the woman that gets mercilessly by rough powerful men. I want a real top or a real beastly man to just * me the way I want to be ***.

No Picture i99426994 *	Posted On Feb 23, 2024 Btw I'm not alone tonight. My new BF is fast asleep after a two hrs foreplay and a bj from me. He was so sleepy that he wasn't able to wear clothes. He is now asleep by my side. I can hear his light sounds of snoring. Tonight I saw the heaven in his arms. OMG his liplock is too awsome and Many many times OMG. I can't forget this night in my lifetime. And I pray O God bless him.

No Picture i99426994 *	Posted On Feb 23, 2024 Love You Ohmojo k, for I could meet him through your forum.

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Feb 25, 2024 Living a lonely life is far worse than just nights. Having a complete sexless intimacyless zero physical action loveless complete lonely life is kind of killing me!!

No Picture Needfriend45	Posted On Mar 1, 2024 Whole life lonely but that is better than wrong company

No Picture Sammie26	Posted On Mar 1, 2024 @needfriend45 100% agreed

No Picture ***	Posted On Mar 8, 2024 I think Just Bluue's original intend of starting this thread though about loneliness, is about intimacy. I believe when people say they feel lonely, they are looking for connection and intimacy. When the guys who are commenting about how they go on prowl for * are essentially saying that they for physical connect. But does it really addresses the intimacy question? You can be physical with someone but not intimate. All the * viewing and masturbation is temporary adjustment and does not really resolve anything. For men it is easy to compartmentalize * and emotions. You can have , orgasm, and ejaculation without feeling vulnerable or intimate. Again feeling lonely is not just gay phenomenon, it is a human phenomenon. Even married men and gay couples feel lonely, if they are not connected with their partners. People who acknowledge they are lonely understand that and acknowledge that they are gotta be vulnerable, because intimacy demands vulnerability. You gotta have power to be bare yourself emotionally in front of someone to be intimate. It is perfectly ok be feel lonely sometimes, especially if there is a life event, achievement or accomplishment that you want to share with someone. However, if this feeling of loneliness is persistent, then it is onset of depression. Acknowledge it and address it. People sometimes get so desperate for intimacy or life partner, that they make wrong choices and become victims and are exploited more. Develop close friendship or bonds, have a circle of friends, or people around that you can rely on. Someone to hang out, go out, party, or just chill at home. Having a ** buddy is not a bad idea either. No strings attached or non-committal relationship are great. They can be both physical and emotional anchors. Be prepared to get hurt if one of you develop feelings for another and they are not reciprocated. Sometimes people also forget that being Alone and Lonely are 2 different things. Acknowledge which category you are really in.

No Picture OfHoOf	Posted On Mar 8, 2024 I'm 30 unmarried. Craving companionship but not interested in commitments. Very * yet romantic. Well that depends on the mood if it is just rough * or something like foreplay - cuddles - * - cuddle - climax - spoon and sleep. I don't know. It's confusing. Just whiling away my time. I have a lot of hobbies and a decent profession. I also have some sparks of ambition. But rest aside. I spend most of my nights watching ts * and edgeing. Then after going through the entire profile of one ts pornstar, I'll view their videos on reddit and ***. Then go to sleep. Get up next morning, go to work come back, go to bed and repeat the same over and over again, day in and day out. Am I lonely or just bored?

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Mar 9, 2024 @OfHoOf you are just lonely mate, as of most of us have almost similar stories. The best way to come out of this loneliness is to meet someone who is fun, trustworthy and can understand where we stand and wht we expect and can give with discreetness. But sadly its very difficult in this country i feel since trust is something like a gamble if works then great or else creates new problems. Being alone, horney and frustrated is already a problem and if someone untrusted comes in picture and creates new problems leads to forever loneliness. I have been bi from my early age, but never found anyone trustful!! Loneliness doesnt go by having alone time and masturbations, it just delays with no satisfaction!! Im myself fed up of it!!

No Picture ***	Posted On Mar 9, 2024 Isnt it ironic, there are 2 pages worth of comments on loneliness and the remedies, but how many reached out to the fellow commentor for connection? We all (including yours truly) put of messages about need for connection, building camaraderie, meaningful conversations and friendships, but it all dies down the posting a comment.

No Picture Roykhannaa	Posted On Mar 9, 2024 @*** you seem to only post sarcastic comments.. have observed it .. wbu wht do u do other than this??

No Picture Amanrockx	Posted On Mar 9, 2024 तन्हा राते अक्सर ले आती है यादे,,, या आवारगी,,, मगर मेरी आवारगी ने ही,,,रातो को अक्सर तन्हा कर डाला, ,, ❤️❤️❤️

No Picture ***	Posted On Mar 10, 2024 @Roy, an exception is not a rule. Glad you found many good ones! Keep it up. Worrying about you will be the last thing on my "to do". Cheers!!

No Picture jaidesai69	Posted On Mar 11, 2024 @***: i fully agree with you. people venting their frustrations of LONELINESS to others in the same boat. WHY NOT CONNECT to these others on the same boat, instead of fishing in the deep ocean?

No Picture Alternateguy1 *	Posted On Mar 21, 2024 When the moon is shining, the darkness is dispelled, loneliness takes over. I, Rarely With a backpack containing, water bottles, tissues, cucumbers and my tiny vibrator, i visit outdoor spaces at night, more of wilderness for solo fun. Under the open is a turn on surrounded by trees and bushes i really go dirty. I put on * in mobile phone while rolling a joint, get naked, stroking and S@#t, play with it, tease, smell it gently lick it, play my nipples, , finger , use vibrator on nipples, end up eating the cucumber until I ** in the turd lying in front. (Then, clean up thoroughly)

Previous comments: 1 2

Guys Online Now | Free Gay Personals in United States | Start Dating Now!

Lonely Nights