We should come up with new signal to let fellow gay people know that we are up for a hook up
This is an example … so if you are ready to Engage wear the ring and if it’s not the right time or you are with other people take the ring off
This way no one is guessing and is sure to make a move and will not lead to embarrassment
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Cruizingguy | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
Eye contact is the best signal! |
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gamebred0211 | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
Much needed |
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urfavbtm | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
This is nice idea, I like the concept pls do this asap, I was in Germany, it's common practice that LGBT guys wear earings on right ear for easy identification.
It helps to find like-minded people.
Wearing ring in middle finger is nice idea, easy to identify and we can approach too without hesitation.
Black ring in middle left finger is what I suggest.
1) It didn't bring u wanted attention.
2) Generally male wear rings in right hands in Indian culture. Hence left finger is more suitable for identification.
3) Black rings are easily available in market.
Don't confuse with left n right and much colorful stuff, as this will draw unwanted attention. Our society is too much resistant to homo people.
Stay safe. |
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Lingerie | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
@urfavbtm.... Black iron rings are generally worn in middle finger by PPL who, believe in Shani sadesati....
So be aware |
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Coksukr5000 | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
I feel the Color can’t be a common Color like black white silver gold … it has to be unique that other people won’t wear by mistake … since I have never seen anyone with a yellow ring that that I picked that colour
Lots of people accessories these days and it can’t clash with a random person wearing a ring to match his clothes
The earring was a good idea but a lot of men wear earrings these days so it’s not helpful
Can add a gesture or handshake … but it has to be unique… different and not get unwanted attention |
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gunarockstar | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
Interesting thread. But it is a little difficult to comeup with these identifications as most of the Indian men straight or not , these days are into accessories. So let's see if someone can help with 😬 |
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Funinfinite | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
Handkerchief hanging from side pocket for top and from back pocket for bottom |
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Womaninmanbody * | Posted On Mar 11, 2024
Even though gays have become legal since 2018, people still want to be discreet because deep down nobody wants to be openly seen as a guy who takes the shaft of another man in his holes. Deep down we all know about the judgement or cheap looks we are going to get not just from men but even from women if they come to know about our sexuality. Let's turn India into America when it comes to sexual liberation. Let's indulge in sexual acts in daylight in front of public shamelessly. Who cares if someone makes a video and shames us? We should not be ashamed of our sexuality. |
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*** | Posted On Mar 12, 2024
All remember, *** is in the eyes. you don't need any accessories, imagine bunch of guys with handkerchief hanging from their back pockets. All you do is look into the eyes, if they are straight or not interested, they will look away, if they are interested, they will hold the gaze more than 10-15 sec.
Also if you walk past them and they turn back to see u, it is a fair game.
Adjusting your zip has worked too. |
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Coksukr5000 | Posted On Mar 12, 2024
We’ll all this would be applicable at gay clubs and spas where everyone wants to pick some one … you will always have to make eye contact… but with a new signal … you don’t have to waste time making signal at guys not interested or even they might be gay but that moment they don’t want to engage… all this eye contact and zip adjustable will still have to happen but atleast you target the right person |
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Midhun_bot | Posted On Mar 13, 2024
Need not to be left and right hand; the ring can be worn on the middle finger of any hand by gay top and on the small finger by gay bottom. This way by choosing the smaller finger, the gay bottom can also convey his subservient nature to the gay top. |
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versmil | Posted On Mar 13, 2024
hi all, I have suggested vert long back, ring idea is very good, but, its very difficult to get such coloured rings, instead, we can wear a yellow friendship band (easily available) same left hand & right hand for each btm & top. I have already started wearing... please suggest |
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manishgl | Posted On Mar 13, 2024
Why not Rainbow bands for gay guys and Pink-violet-Blue for Bi sexual?? |
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georgy | Posted On Mar 13, 2024
yellow colour ring would not be great i feel |
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SundarDeshmukha | Posted On Mar 13, 2024
Wearing ring is a stupid idea. Several straight guys were rings in all fingers. Why do u guys always need some random guys to hookup. This is one of the reasons why societies don’t trust gay couples. Jisko jab man karta jiske bhi so jata. |
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yes_imgayndexcd | Posted On Mar 13, 2024
Still its hard if we give signal nd no bothers |
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Kristy14 | Posted On Mar 14, 2024
In the era of tech why u guys needs sign and rings. Also rhe best sign is eye contact. Eyes never lie. Have Bern successful si Nanyang tunes just by looking into the eyes of the guy |
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Coksukr5000 | Posted On Mar 14, 2024
I like the friendship band idea also … we can give it try and it’s successful then who know it can be a thing |
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Curiousblr36 | Posted On Mar 14, 2024
Can we try this?
1. Make a fist out of your left hand with the THUMB inside.
2. Stick the thumb out from inside so that it is between 2 fingers on each side(picture a *** between 2 balls)
3. Unique..but not strange. Non offensive. Easy to maintain for hours. Easy to let go if we are not interested.
4. We can add an extra layer to be more safe—if you see anyone with this hand gesture, brush your left hand across your forehead while maintaining the gesture. If the other guy responds, have fun!
It sounds primitive but simplest solutions are always more effective.
I wanna call this TBF (Thumb Between Fingers or ready To Be ***..you guys choose😜) |
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racecourse | Posted On Mar 15, 2024
Haveu guys tried bluetooth technique? It can be effective at all public places and transports too.. |
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Coksukr5000 | Posted On Mar 15, 2024
@curiousblr36 … I like this idea … simple solution are always best … we have to try it also … need real feedback |
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Curiousblr36 | Posted On Mar 15, 2024
It works only if people try it. No point in having a secret language if nobody understands it🙂 |
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Neetacd | Posted On Mar 15, 2024
Touch and eye contact works good rest depending on timing and luck |
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Kdj | Posted On Mar 16, 2024
What's wrong with the good ol eye contact, and the squishing your crotch???
It has worked for centuries, why it suddenly stopped working and you had to come up with new signals? |
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monucoooool | Posted On Mar 16, 2024
Bluetooth technique is good |
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Paciano65 | Posted On Mar 16, 2024
@Kdj blame GenZ for changing what's already been working perfectly well since Adam banged Eve |
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versmil | Posted On Mar 17, 2024
please can any one explain as to how blue tooth technique works, I still feel friendship band will work out easily with out hassle |
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sanppl63 | Posted On Mar 18, 2024
I am saying that the best idea is red button is stitched on pocket or T shirt wearing when you go outside for fun is for Top and blue for bot.. |
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Unimate | Posted On Mar 18, 2024
I think a rainbow band can be a easy sign to spot. Left side for top : right side for vers |
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Mature_bot54 | Posted On Mar 19, 2024
there are thousand of sign language prevailing in society and common places, which can be picked up by other who are behind gay community for harassing them.
also technology is not safe, you have heard person was blackmailed and looted by fake friends for money. so it is only to play safe. |
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Romesh50 | Posted On Mar 20, 2024
Ring may not be noticed at a distance. Eye contact make sense and eye to follow on zip will denote he is bottom.
Once eye contact bottom man may move his left hand on his butts /back a d top on his ***/chest
Cleat signals |
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Vers52 | Posted On Mar 21, 2024
Bluetooth technology is best. Name your mobile with top or btm or vers. |
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COCKBLOW123 | Posted On Mar 23, 2024
Yes the bluetooth idea is very good... |
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Curious0007 | Posted On Mar 24, 2024
In telegram there is people nearby option will that not work? |
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Raajiv | Posted On Mar 24, 2024
@sugarbaby
Name ur Bluetooth as ur pref_age_location_phone num. Phone num is optional
For example Bot_25_rajiv chowk_8987***
And when ever in public place keep ur Bluetooth on
Other person who is looking for guy can find u on bluetooth and if u gave phone number he will contact u
If not, the he will send pair request..
This is very old technique used about 12 yrs ago in and around Delhi metro stations and local stations at Mumbai and malls of some big cities..
Now today in era of GPS based apps like Gr, blued, telegram etc.. I wonder why people are still talking abt bluetooth technique
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Anonymous 2017 | Posted On Mar 30, 2024
Nice topic 👍🏻 I had been talking about this for long !
1) Eye Contact : Why take such efforts of staring into the eyes of even straight guys & wait for the response !? 🙄
2) Bluetooth : Disclosing all details including mobile no. is risky as it can be misused.
3) Apps like Grinder etc. : There are many who like discreet encounters. So these apps are of no use to them.
It should be simple & easily identifiable.
Instead of ring, I prefer the idea of friendship band. It's more noticeable than the ring.
Top 👉🏻 Red color band, Right hand
Bottom 👉🏻 Yellow color band, left hand.
Versatile 👉🏻 Red & Yellow color bands : 2 bands, Right hand.
Whatever be it, guys need to arrive at a concensus and start implementing asap 👍🏻
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560213 | Posted On Mar 31, 2024
Let's keep the idea of rings, buttons and colours aside for a while. Why not use this technique?
If u are interested in a guy, try stroking both your eyebrows with the middle finger and later gently rub lower part of your lip seeing him. Maybe this can make him understand that you are interested in guys. And so if he shows interest, have a small convo with him about preferences and place. If everything goes well go on with the flow else, try for a new guy |
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560213 | Posted On Mar 31, 2024
Your views and opinions are most welcomed on this new way of identification. Please feel free to share them. |
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anand84 | Posted On Apr 4, 2024
Eye contact is best |
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I<3BIG | Posted On Apr 4, 2024
Eye contact is the best.
i was driving 2 wheeler yesterday(with helmet) a guy was passing by me, he looked at me for a second and went ahead and looked at me again, i felt like he wanted me, so i speed up and ride near by him, and asked "kya hua?" and he asked me, "kaise ho?" - i felt 99% that he was into me! :D but then i have to take a turn. :(
(i think he was checking me from the behind at first) |
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adicooliyo | Posted On Apr 4, 2024
u agree eye contact and few gestures are good as a signal and if you feel bold enough you can actually walk up to that person and say hi etc.. and ask if he needs anything
like with me it has happened a bunch of times where i would simply look into the eyes, if we make frequent eye contacts that means it a signal , if not if the guy doesn't look back then NO
this might get backfired too sometimes, as the other person might approach you first and ask 'what happen', then be prepared to answer that or handle that situation |
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Parth3107 | Posted On Apr 6, 2024
Chewing lips while gazing to their ***, Wearing low waist jeans and tight short t-shirts can work for bottoms. And for tops, scorching or adjusting ur bulge frequently can get you attention. |
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Buzz15 | Posted On Apr 7, 2024
I like the handkerchief idea!
Top- front peak view
Bottom- back peak view |
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Kumar13 | Posted On Apr 11, 2024
Eye contact is best if you are B look at the bulge of the pants of men if they are T or stright they react to you. Recenly i got nice exeperience in train. I was waiting at washroom and saw two guys holding their hands and doing romance. When i saw them they increasd their romance. I stood very near to them by keeping by back to their side. One guy statred toucjlhing my back with his bulge. Since its too dark i also got tempted and did 3some romance kisses hugs smoochings |
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piccmeup | Posted On Apr 15, 2024
oh god yesterday, i visited shivaji park for some work and I saw a guy wearing grey sweatpants and he was definitely not wearing any undies....He had a big bulge hard on that was quite visible....i dont know if it was on purspose or not...but it was a good sight to see lol
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QueerTherapy | Posted On Apr 15, 2024
interesting idea ! 🤔, however, in public it's hard to have a clue, even though eyes meet. No one approaches easily.
In the West they have club going culture so color coded wrist bands were used. Nowadays apps are used to meet people.
However if anyone is making this clues, I would like a blue 💙 wrist band for us those who identify as a SIDE.
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Rishab_Bottom | Posted On Apr 20, 2024
As a bottom and slave i simply just glance at the crotch area of guys and give them strong eye contact.. although it's doesn't work everytime.. But yeah i have *** decent no. Of guys through this |
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anand84 | Posted On Apr 20, 2024
@Rishab...once worked for me...in Vellore bus stand...I was waiting for bus...and a guy oftenly glanced my crotch ..I understood his motive and just saw his eyes..he came near me and touched my tool litely then we came to an understanding. ....and booked room and *** him full core... |
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Shanthi | Posted On Apr 21, 2024
I like that too I like to wear at my left middle finger |
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_Joey_ | Posted On Apr 24, 2024
An experienced cruiser will know eye contact is the best. It's a skill to identify *** bottoms by merely glancing at them and adjusting the crotch while they're staring |
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