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Very true.. that bottom lose *** after some age because the mind gives them signal that u r bottom.. It has happened with me | Being Bottom - Do you face Prejudices?
Well said, @valentine | Being Bottom - Do you face Prejudices?
Nicely said @valentine84. Gave me some kind of comfort. | Being Bottom - Do you face Prejudices?
Let alone prejudices by others .. How many gays themselves have prejudices about bottoms ? I will be honest, yes I do had certain prejudices. Especially when it comes to ***. Cos the very first time I had *** *** a bottom, I saw him climax while my strokes were harder.. I was wondering since I am taking control of his body I am happy but how come this guy is happy .. Definitely my perception back then was quite naive, later did I realise sexuality is a spectrum..
Also a person's ability/ caliber / potential has nothing to do with his sexual orientation or for that sake his role ( read bottom)..
Another major issue which is faced by bottoms is the NON EQUALITY in the act.. Mostly bottoms are treated like a weaker ***.. I had heard some confessions from my bottom friends.. Hardly people ask them what pleasures them ? Did they enjoy the act ?
I make it a point to ask the bottoms whom I hook up with the above questions and also try to get to understand their satisfaction in the act..
Tops should understand that you can't call yourselves as a top unless you drive your bottom to the pinnacle of pleasure.. Not getting your satisfaction but satisfying your bottom makes you a good top. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Man is a twisted creature with desires unmatched..some. Are able to control it with deliberate practice. Some go on to fulfil them....
So the question is how can a happily married guy desire for men for NSA fun. Perhaps we are indeed too twisted.
Why I call it twisted because of this — men desire for men,s lund and it’s men who claim this is taboo. This inconsistency about being right or wrong is what is twisted....
So it’s all fair and if you want to play with lund despite being happily married... go ahead and be safe... it’s twisted people out there:) | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
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Here are few suggestions from a very experienced Top:
#1 Take it slow, slow, slow
Like anything, it’s really important that you don’t rush into *** before you are BOTH really, really turned on and ready. So ask him to be gentleman, take your time and DO NOT under any circumstances think it’s ok just to shove the *** in within minutes. Ask him to begin with gentle licking and touching of the area around your *** … your entire ***, not just your *** … explore your body, kiss you everywhere … taste you … listen to your breathe, listen to your sounds … you will know when he’s warming up, you will hear it and feel it in his body. Tease him.
Advice for Tops:
When you feel he’s ready to be penetrated, ask him. And when he says yes (he may already be saying yes with his body and his sound … begging you with his moaning to have you inside him) then use a finger first. Gently. There’s no point in rushing this … stop being goal-oriented and enjoy every. single. moment. with him.
#2 Use A LOT of lube
Don’t be sparse with the lube, I guarantee the more lube the better. Plenty of lubricant will allow for *** penetration to feel smoother and more pleasurable. FYI - some men get super lubed up naturally and some men don’t. There is no right and wrong when it comes to how much lube men produce. Generally though, when a man is turned on and feels connected to his lover, there's a lot a precum than usual. But this is the *** we are talking about, and it's a sensitive area, so when you think you have enough lube, add more. I recommend always having extra natural organic lube on hand (for *** in particular). Or organic coconut oil (but don’t use coconut oil with condoms). My favourite natural lubricant is YES Organic Lubricant.
#3 Relax, relax, relax
*** *** will never be pleasurable if you’re not completely relaxed in your mind and body. So, if you’re feeling super uptight and stressed, I encourage you to chill the f*ck out (in life, and in the bedroom). And when you are ready to surrender to *** ***, remember to breathe and relax the muscles around your *** and ***. Don’t stop breathing! Breathe that *** in. One. Breathe. At. A. Time.
#4 Experiment with different positions
For some reason lots of people assume that *** has to be done in doggy style … this is far from the truth. You can experience *** *** in every position possible. I recommend beginning with the you sitting on top of the man, this gives you control over how much *** you want inside you and how slow or fast you want it. Missionary is also a great position for ***. But like anything we are all so unique with what feels good sexually … so experiment with your lover and find what positions feel great for you both.
#5 Surrender to the deep erotic experience that *** has to offer
*** can be an immensely sensual and spiritual sexual experience. When a man takes another man deep inside him it can bring about an opening and a surrender that he has never experienced before. Therefore, I encourage you both to truly honor just how amazing *** *** is, and don’t ever do it if you’re not feeling ready to completely surrender to the feelings and sensations that it creates within your body, mind and soul. *** *** can be a gateway into deep sexual ecstasy,, and orgasm, open your mind to that idea and the possibilities are endless.
P.S.
1. Get an enema/douche. Again it depends on how you and your partner like it.
Some keep it an natural and some are hygiene freaks.
My personal opinion? Well let's just say i have done it all.
2. *** rimming. Hell Yes !! This is orgasmic in a whole different level.
If you haven't already, ask your top to go down on you right now !
I personally can spend hours down there pleasuring my bottom. | Being Bottom - Do you face Prejudices?
i faced it when some of the so called tops claimed that i can not satisfy a women as i am a bottom. secondly,when they got to know that i work at a good position in a good company they claimed that i dont deserve it as i m a bottom and i shd be in interior/fashion designing field. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Nikhpa, please read up again. Noone is character-assassinating the family members of Hari. We're just pointing out the possibility that their needs are exactly identical as Hari's but Hari doesn't allow them access to what he has had- Freedom to choose. We're simply calling out his double standards.
Are you out of arguments that you have to come to abuses? | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Note from Admin: This account has been banned as it also belonged to the same user. Harikr, Neerv and nikhpa. Good job for trying to make your argument seem more valid by creating multiple accounts. | Being Bottom - Do you face Prejudices?
I hate those people who only thinks of pleasing themselves. And would t even spend 2 mit doing to please their partner...
Hate those top who thinks all gay like big *** in *** and in ***.. stupid a holes | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Request everyone to be cordial and use appropriate language while responding or discussing. You can use strong language while still not be insulting.
The profile "Harikr" has been banned for using language that is completely unacceptable. Along with that the profile "Neerv" has also been deleted as it belonged to the same person (yes the website can easily track this).
Having views other than the generally acceptable views or even "wrong" is never grounds for a ban here. However if you put your points across in a manner that puts others down, you will be immediately booted out. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Rest assured Harikr, noone is passing judgements on your family's conduct or sexuality. In fact not even on your sexuality which we share.
We are only sympathising with your family members whom you won't allow what's right for you, simply because you believe they don't deserve the same space as yours. | Section 377 - Will it get repealed?
Neerv 💓 | Being Bottom - Do you face Prejudices?
Nope. Ppl are nice | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
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Too many discussions happened for this thread recently...it's good to see some healthy arguments and at the same time it's sad to see an offensive statement to few individuals..seems we are diverting the objective of this thread I guess.
A confused guy will get confused more by seeing these conversation ..pls just control your emotions and post your comments accordingly... | First time Anal - Tips?
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@CluelessHubby totally agree wit u.. happy to knw there r stil men ... married or not but who do understand true meaning of 'equality' among genders.. | Being Bottom - Do you face Prejudices?
Well I have had come across a top skank who was dictating his terms over chat
He wanted my face pic for his *** pic
Wanted to get *** and *** me
I denied his 'proposal for ***', to which He said bottoms are happy with ***, why you want romance.
Now this ugly midget sized top had this sheer audacity to look down on a person even without knowing his looks/interests
First of all, nothing should bring you down. Most self proclaimed tops are BIs and not straights. They end up *** with guys even after marriage.
Bottoms are typically called gays, which is untrue and a bit comical. There is a horde of effeminate tops who are gay, and those Bicurious/bisexual proclaiming tops who can not man down just because they feel that they can ***.
All these cuck seekers on internet media are typical losers of life who neither have money to afford a girl or a real time girl friend.
Being Bottom is a state of mind. If you find a right guy, you might definitely go verse. Well most bottoms find their erections too soft over a period of time as their psyche sends signal to the brain as per body needs.
Being bottom! Hell yeah. I am a proud one! :D | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Sorry to be plugging external links again, but this is to answer questions like would one have come out to their spouses before marriage. Well, this is an example. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Gender chauvinism should be called out.
"without even answering whether they allow it or not."
My spouse and I are equals.
The question of allowing does not arise.
Her body is under her control.
If you're gods of your wives choices and feel proud of it, you're only English speaking versions of some cavemen.
Someone needs your permission to experience what you have- sexual freedom.
You don't know if your wives are satisfied, you just believe.
Just like your wives don't know you *** around. They just believe you don't.
My story is pasted in a link way up. Reposting that link.
https://www.quora.com/Whats-something-youve-never-told-anyone/answers/86476348
We may be far from happy.
But we are transparent.
We still have mutual respect, common goals and open hearts.
You'll never come even close to understanding any of this.
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@nikhpa: My comment about sexual satisfaction was in a slightly different context, more from the perspective of the bisexual partner in the relationship. I think people don't always try out things just because they are unsatisfied. Even if one is satisfied, one could try out something, especially in the case of experimenting with ***. Which is why I said that irrespective of being satisfied or not, one could still want to pursue a same *** relationship.
For instance, in case of a bisexual man, he might be having a perfectly amazing marriage with great ***, yet he might want to pursue a NSA sexual escapade with another man. In that case it just boils down to how he wants to manage his desires or how much he wants to experiment with his sexuality and not whether he is satisfied or not. This is very much in line with the analogy you gave. | All India Discussion Threads
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@vishaldev04 - Well said. Agree with most of your comments.
However, couple of points on what you have mentioned here. // It has nothing to do with whether a partner is satisfied or not, I guess its purely about how one wishes to manage ones desires.//
Here the topic of discussion is "Are U happy". According to me, whether the partner is sexually satisfied or not plays a very important role in a happy family life. If a guy cannot satisfy the partner, certainly it will reflect in the family life one way or the other. So, I strongly believe that it is very much necessary for a happily married life.
In many cases of bisexuals, I know a few personally too, many go for this extra affair with guys more to satisfy that additional desire.
An analogy would be like this -
Guys can happily live by eating home made food, Rice Dal, chapathi etc etc. And of course a normal man will continue to live with it when he is earning normal income. However when he becomes rich enough and hear about pizza and burger, and have the capacity to buy them without impacting his daily expenditure at home, he may secretly eat them without letting his family know just to satisfy that additional desire. If he cannot eat pizza, still he can easily survive with home food. Same case with these guys too who go for additional pleasure beyond their partner. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@nikhpa and others
To clear the air, I am a bisexual man myself. I have been in long term relationships with a man and a woman at different times. I was open to both about my sexual attractions and they were fine with it. But that did not give me any liberty to act on my attractions. Hence I repeat, bisexual people have the potential to be attracted to all or both sexes. If they choose to act on all their attractions, good for them. But it is not sanctioned by one's sexual orientation. I can continue to feel attracted to other people being a homosexual or heterosexual person. But if I choose to be in a monogamous relationship I will hold my horses.
Fidelity or infidelity is not limited to one gender or sexual orientation. These are human behaviours. I don't support any 'holier than cow' arguments but nor do i buy the 'am bisexual; so' bit. | Section 377 - Will it get repealed?
Guys please.... 377 is a huge problem in India. Please dont try to push your political/religious agendas here. Sorry this is not the place for it. Stick on only to the topic. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Very interesting thread of discussion, however, there are a few misplaced comments too. My view is - how one conducts ones personal/ sexual life is ones own prerogative irrespective of the orientation - LGBTQ or straight. It has nothing to do with whether a partner is satisfied or not, I guess its purely about how one wishes to manage ones desires. Whether you do it by informing your partner or otherwise its your choice.
That said, it does raise questions about if such things amount to infidelity? If a partner (irrespective of gender or orientation) in a relationship violates the assumed emotional and sexual exclusivity then the partner is not loyal. That is the textbook definition of infidelity. But is it bad?/ Is it wrong? - Well, you are the only judge of your actions because only you know the circumstances of your life. As long as you are content and doesn't affect the contentment of your partner (because of ignorance or otherwise) it is could be okay. Like the famous saying - Innocent until proven guilty. That is the case with any affair outside of marriage.
Also, the question that some of you have been asking - 'Will you allow your partner to have an extra marital affair?', I'd like to paraphrase it - 'Would you be okay if your partner is a bisexual and indulges in a same *** relationship without your knowledge?'
Another question is - while many of you have a happy marriage, do you exercise your bisexual side because you are unsatisfied with the extent of your sexual relationship with your partner? or you feel deprived of one aspect of your sexuality? | Section 377 - Will it get repealed?
@Neerv: They didn't oppose it, they remained neutral. Huge difference. Also I think the ASG while arguing mentioned that if the judgment goes beyond 377 (which I believe it should) the government will oppose it. | First time Anal - Tips?
Exact solution is ky jell | Section 377 - Will it get repealed?
He he, see how some guys are trying to push their political agenda here pretending themselves to be so "Innocent" and acting that they do not have any political interest. :) :) :)
The governments, one after the other, which ruled for last 70+ years did nothing for abrogating 377. They always opposed abrogating it in court to keep the minorities and western priests happy. Remember that these minority groups and christian priests are always against gay freedom. They are the ones who vehemently oppose it in western countries too.
BJP did a great favor to the gay community by NOT opposing the movement to abrogate article 377 in SC. As is the case with many parties, there are both supporting and opposing factions. Now this government has taken a great step by not opposing it in court!!
Kudos to the current government!! I am sure they will continue such indirect support. And it would be dangerous for gays if the party whose leader is the son of an Italian madam who tries to play minority card and keep minority priests happy, comes into power. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Oh my God, where is this discussion heading to? Suddenly a lot of additional variables like Morality, Equality, cheating, sexual discrimination etc. etc. are added unnecessarily and made it more complex. A bunch of gays suddenly became offensive against bisexuals due to their inferiority complex of not being able to live a happily married life. Ha Ha Ha...
@Harikr, full support to U buddy, U have stated very pragmatic ways of how bisexuals can lead a happily married life. Happy to know that you and your partner have one of such kind. Keep it up. Also don't listen and take any steps to destroy that happiness listening to some dissatisfied guys here who are probably trying to put you in the same misery they are going through...... :) :) :)
As Harikr rightly described, now the topic seems to be a bunch of "pseudo feminist" guys worried about a bisexual, happily married guy, not giving the freedom to his partner to have extra affair, These gays do not seem to be bothered about their own partner not even being able to satisfy her desire. Ha Ha, They are more worried about a bisexual who can completely satisfy his partner and living a happily married life. Cut this guys.
The topic of discussion here is if the married guys are happy and many of the bisexuals are very happily married along with their partner. Most wouldn't reveal their orientation to their partner and that is not required too. If a bisexual can completely satisfy his partner, why are the pure gays worried about not disclosing the orientation to partner??? Sounds so strange...... Better to STOP questioning and talking about equality for partner and such sh*t here. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@Harik any reaons why ur nt answeing to my ques ? :) | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@sambhog, Yes, every bisexual will have a desire to have an affair with the same gender guy too. Why should someone suppress their desire if they can effectively manage both?? They are many bisexual guys who are able to manage their desires for both very effectively and live very happily. If someone cannot manage it well, better don't go for it. If anyone can, like many bisexual guys here do, just enjoy safely!! | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Hi Harikr, Like your posts and the way you are answering these pseudo feminist ( your own terms) guys like @fifty, @clueless in the group. Very well said and keep it up buddy. Ha Ha, such pseudo feminist guys are cribbing about allowing the partner to have extra affair without even answering whether they allow it or not. Like the way you suggested the solution too to them :) :) :)
Yeah, the partner of such a bi sexual guy will be always happier than such cribbing pseudo feminist guys who cannot satisfy their own partner. Still they crib for giving freedom to other bisexual's partner. Can't suppress my laughter looking at their attitude. LOL.
I agree with the statement that you need not be open with your spouse about the sexual orientation and create unnecessary issues in life. If u want to be open up with her about the same, do that before marriage and not after. How many of these cribbing pseudo secular guys have done it??? Answer this guys. :) :) :) What is the point in saying it after so many years of married life and bringing unhappiness in life? The question of allowing her to have the affair it self arise only if you reveal your orientation to her and not able to satisfy her fully. However, bisexuals are able to satisfy her completely unlike many gays and keep the family happy. Then why to create such unnecessary issues in life??? | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@fifty,Clueless, ... Ha, Ha, Wow, very happy to see that this forum has become more active and my post caused a bunch of "pseudo feminists" and "Womanizers" to come out of their comfort zone, made such a**holes pissed off and fight for the so called pseudo gender equality which they are pretending to be the gate keepers of. You guys, better read properly what I have posted. I have never suppressed any feelings of my partner and I am sure she is much happier that of most of your partners.
As I clearly said, for me, happiness of my family is more important than anything and I am keeping my family one of the happiest one in the world. The situation of allowing my partner to have extra marital affair does not even arise in my case as I am able to satisfy her completely. I know that is not the case with you and I empathize with you for the same as the fellow members of Ohmojo. So that question of the need for an extra affair it self is immaterial unlike you guys who are not able to satisfy your partners. And these cribs are coming out loudly as an attack on me due to your inferiority complex and inability of your self to satiate your partners desire. Cool buddy, don't attack me for this, especially the one who went to the extent of talking about my son-in-law :) :) :) . Anyway u r against not allowing extra marital affair for my partner and that implies that you are in favor of your partner having that. The best solution for your problem is that you share your partner with me regularly and I can certainly satisfy them to the fullest extent. Then your full issue will be resolved and she will not pester u and also your family too will be happy :) :) :)
As I have very well explained, as a person, it is my choice how I live my life and none of any dissatisfied gay's business to intrude into that. For me the most important aspect is to live happily with my family. At the same time satiate my desires too without impacting the happiness. As someone pointed, I never said I am doing any great sacrifice or anything like that. I an just a normal human being and don't need to do the sacrifice as I know how to effectively deal with the situation. Do not intrude into my family life and don't need the advise from the guys like you about how to live my life, U r neither welcome to advice me for that nor are you qualified enough for that. Chill.....
Note from Admin:Normally I would delete such a post considering some of the points made are very inappropriate suggestions. But I'm not doing it in this case as I would like everyone to see how narrow-minded, misogynistic and chauvinistic some people's opinion can be and how when faced with dearth of arguments they resort suggestions that are completely unwarranted. I am hoping some of the members will give appropriate rebuttal to this. Dear Harikr, take note, any further inappropriate suggestions from your side and your account will be banned from the website. | Section 377 - Will it get repealed?
I don't know a lot about politics, but if BJP have a second rule, then it's a doom for gays. They are nationalists, and definitely homosexuality offends them as it is a culture from abroad, not India. As far as 2019 goes, BJP looks set to win as it has got good support and reliable leaders. Guess gays will have suffer more in future. Better to enjoy now and then give up these habbits. | First time Anal - Tips?
But cucumbers will not vibrate | First time Anal - Tips?
why do u need to waste the money on dildos...the problem with it is even if u buy it where will u hide it anf someone in family sees it it becomes very embrassing...so according to me the best substitute for didlos is buy a cucumber and use it it works same as didlos...but plz follow some precaution...never insert the cucumber without washing it properly and to be on safer side put on a condom on the cucumber in the similar way as u put condom in ur *** the reason i m saying to put on condom is coz cucumber being a vegitable the chances are if u start insrting it vigrously in and out in *** motion the cucumber can break inside so better put the condom over to b on safer side | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Well this post seems totally *** up now :p....
I am a married guy too ...have stopped goofing around since a long-time..it all depends how satisfied you are with your partner mentally and physically....you don't allow or command one's beliefs...what is normal for you or your perception of nothing being wrong in it might not be true for your partner every step you take whether *** around or anything else just have a sane mind and question yourself first...Just keep it simple | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
However, Harikr did me a favour by breaking a stereotype of men with homosexual tendencies being more sensitive towards women.
Shudder to think what treatment the womenfolk of certain households must be receiving- not even talking of matters in the bed. Hope you do not wish for a son-in-law like yourself, (if there's a daughter here.)
I'm normally not so personal and vicious, but Harikr, your articulation here has disgusted me to the core. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@Harikr bro..there is nothing wrong in having sexual pleasure outside marriage. but if u have a mindset to not allow ur wife .. then u also have no rights to enjoy in first place.... say if ur not caught but u catch ur wife enjoying with other man? what would u do? wud u stop her or let her enjoy and u also enjoy ur way? coz she also stil maybe taking care of family i ngood way.. then why u have to stop her? and how u say she doesnot need as u satisfy her in allways..?? if u satisfy her , then u also r satisfied right? but ur having *** outside often? and hw come u as man can have lot of desires and ur wife cannot? she also is human.. if u have itch.. she also or any woman fr that matter may have right? | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Harikr, I had a hearty laugh while reading your latest post.
I have called you an MCP based on what you have stated here - i.e. you are free to have a sexual relationship outside marriage, but not your wife. You have substantiated my reasoning in the second paragraph of your post.
You are using such words as family bonds and happiness, but it is based on secrecy and cheating. Aren't complete trust in your partner part of your family value system? You are saying that the moment the veil of secrecy is teared off, the happiness will disappeared. This is precisely what me and others have been writing about. Your wife does not know that you are cheating on her, but you do know. So if you are treating your wife as equal, then your mind should be telling you that you have been betraying her. (To understand women's desires and feelings,I will suggest you to watch "lust stories" on netflix)
The word sacrifice has been used by someone, describing as many opportunities of gay *** encounters lost...The true sacrifice would have been to be completely loyal to your wife (as loyal as you expect her to be towards you) and forgetting your homosexual instincts.
I need not reply to the questions and comments about me, but here I am. I am not at all interested in women, hence I have chosen to remain single. Going by your previous posts, I guess you will interpret it as my inability to satisfy women sexually . But then, that will make you homophobe.
There are many guys like me who refuse to marry in spite of societal pressure, and I am happy to say our tribe is growing.
I do not have any issue with bisexuals enjoying both ways, but the only thing they should keep in mind is, if you are entering the contract of marriage, then your behaviour is no different from those married men, who have extramarital affairs, with other women. It's funny to call it a right to satisfy your homosexual urge after getting married.
Spmebody has compared bi-men keeping their sexuality secret from wife with all gay men keeping it out from their parents and relatives.
To them, I will say there is a difference between your relationship with other relatives/parents and wife.
Again, your post had reference only to ***, and I know for some people only that matters. But there are people for whom being homosexual means loving a man and not just having *** with a man. I don;t expect everyone to be like that, or even understand that, even many straight marriages are based on sexual relationships. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
HariKr,
If you don't need her permission to carry flings or surf here, why would she need your permission either?
Assuming she has unfulfilled heterosexual or homosexual desires, doesn't she deserve to find her channel like you did?
You talk of 'not allowing' someone else to decide what to do with their bodies speaks a lot.
She too has only one life, what's the problem if she exercised her choice like you do? What's fair for the guy, should be for the girl too! | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
You can do whatever you want with your lives. But please don't use the alibi of 'bisexual' to describe your extra marital affairs. Infidelity is not limited to any gender or sexual orientation. But if you try to prove to yourself or to others that you are sleeping with men only because you do not want to 'suppress' your sexual attraction toward men then I am sorry I will call it out. But if you choose to embrace all your desires and act on them, my best wishes to you.
:) | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@Harikr, Very well said and cannot agree with you more.... Excellent reply for certain people who are prejudiced and biased against bisexuals. I don't know why this sudden spurt of morality and some gays think that all bisexuals are immoral and they are all so called "Harishchandras".
Avoid such divide guys. The topic here is "Are married Guys Happy Here" and many are indeed happy including me. And many seem to be unhappy too. Most of the bisexuals are commenting that they are happy in their life and I don't know why many gays are desperately trying to prove that bisexuals married life is pathetic and unhappy. There are happily and unhappily married guys in all categories and please stop stereotyping. Also stop talking about morality and woman's right and all here.
As Harikr rightly said, None here is against their partner's happiness and all married guys try to keep their family happy. Happiness of the family is more important than being "Truthful" and confessing everything like a 'fool'. At the same time, no need to suppress these feelings as long as U can enjoy this short life happily and safely without harming anyone else. Balance the life, enjoy and live it happily!!
Also no pint in crying that I am "unhappily" married, find practical ways to solve it and live happily!! | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
I have never been married but have friends who have married out of pressure and the response is mixed. Some of them are enjoying their married life albeit the *** (Bottoms basically) but there are some who have just given up and carry on just for the sale of the society aka log kya kahenge.
Frankly I believe it is how you can juggle through responsibilities that come with the social institution of marriage and understanding the intrinsic nature if marriage. | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@fifty, If I read your post clearly, I understand that it is your complex (inferiority) that makes U call me MCP. I don't want to enter too much into your personal life to excavate the reason for that complex, none of my business :( :( Thats all how I look into what you are saying here.
As I have very clearly said, I do have a very happy satisfied married life and my wife too has which is obvious from the happiness that prevails in our family. For me that happiness is most important than becoming a "Harishchandra" and publicizing about my sexual orientation to the world. If I have to conceal certain aspects of my personal characteristic for that happiness, so be it. If, in your view it is because I am an MSP, I don't give a rat's *** to what U say.
Coming to the question of equality, I certainly would not allow my spouse to have an extra marital affair and I strongly believe that she would not need it too (probably unlike yours, I am not sure) as I am able to satisfy her in all aspects including in bed. For that matter, I strongly believe that I can satisfy any normal woman in the world in bed. And of course I do not and will not allow the partner to have an extra marital affair the same way as she does not allow me to have it. That is the strong establishment and bonding called family. The moment either of us come to know anything like that exists, that would be probably end of a happy family life. Now as I clearly said, the affairs I have with others, if at all I have, is done in utmost secrecy to satiate my desire which I cannot tell her and I don't want to tell either. And that is because, to me who is just a normal human being with desires and feelings, very clearly, happiness of my family is of utmost importance rather than being a "Harishchandra". So I certainly hide my Bisexual side from her and I never feel anything being wrong with it at all. And again, I know how to manage this life happily and perfectly, I don't care whatever others say about this being immoral blah... blah.... Hope I have made it very clear now. And of course, this is the case of probably 99% of the guys here about having the affair though many people just write about equality and some craps like that.....
Also , why R u not able to answer my questions and just come back with questions after question for which I am clearly giving you retort and U r conveniently avoiding the questions to you. Why are u so much prejudiced against bisexuals? We live the best life and we will continue to live it, thats none of your business to be bothered about. Don't be envious about it dude.... Stop talking against bisexual like a womanizer or a pseudo feminist. By calling me as an MSP, you have proven your self to be a "Pseudo Womanizer". :) :) :) | Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
Gulfisaforever and fifty are not understanding the point.
As I said we have only one life to enjoy peacefully. You can call it double standard but if you can keep everyone happy why not?.
we do not go sleeping around with everyone. Many times we have to let go many opportunities and that is what I meant by Sacrifices.
If any one, husband or wife betrays and gets caught then marriage will break. Being bi we do not expect our wife to accept our reality. Hence we do not come in open.
We are doing exactly what many gays are doing. All gays who are in closet are caring for their relations with parents uncle aunts cousins and hence they are in closet. Caring is not being coward. So why blame each other.
This post is about Are bi people happy in marriage. And answer is yes. If we are okay to pay price to keep our happiness its our choice.
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