Thrill of having sex in open area
@Guide4all i too love this public nudity and wild fun.. had very few times.. want to explore more. i heard abt this fun plasces near platorms and tracks, but also heard of RPF catching guys.. so confused?
anyone exp enough can msg me |
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@lucky69, did you gave the same to the bouncer or not?
How that went? |
Thrill of having sex in open area
Hi @publicfun.. All railway stations after perugalathur towards chengalpet if u get down at station and walk a little away from the platform on the track, on either sides u will find forest like area which are safe for full nude *** in open |
Thrill of having sex in open area
Any nice and safe places in Chennai to have *** in open....get fully nude? I love to get nude in open |
Thrill of having sex in open area
Guys amazing exeperice at supersonic in pune yesterday as you all it’s a music festival where all kind of people gather
Sexy music and amazing vibes, met so many hot guys....
One guy was dancing very close behind me, could feel his hard on, turned around and said why rubbing ur *** on my denim when it can be in my ***, saying I walked towards the backstage where he followed me, without wasting time I went down n gave him an head.
He was stoking my *** with the beats, he came pretty soon,
I asked him to leave n will follow, as I turned back I saw one of the bouncer standing, just a look n got the hint he wants the same...
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Watch this: https://youtu.be/FubZyQmlgqo |
Nudists in India
I am also nude at home when alone. I love it |
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Nice,, |
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Lets do it |
Being bottom is it ok to like getting dominated?
I'm a cute bottom and love to be dominated. I don't like to be abused though.
Being from a Muslim family, I guess I'm influenced by the culture I've seen while I grew up.
Strong aggressive Muslim man taking control of the family and the passive Submissive muslim wife, submitting to the desires of the man.
I love to be treated as a girl and I am still looking for a tall big man to dominate me. It makes me feel more feminine. I'm passive and shy by nature. I like a man who takes control of the relationship.
Love,
Asma |
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Yeah I wud like to be added to ...how does one go about it |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
Well ... mine is like around 4.8" Hard and just 2" when soft .... And I used to feel the same ... But then I overcame it .
The thing is, people fall in love with personality and never with *** size .. the physical contact is just an extension of admiration a person has for other person , not the other way around .
So cheer up and enjoy your life ! |
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Too erotic massage. |
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@camboy, it's less of a massage and more of a seduction....Too erotic |
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Camboy222..what a nice erotic vdo |
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https://youtu.be/pWDnd9MjYgM
This one is amazing how he massages by gentle strokes. |
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Watch it at 10:27
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Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
I just happened to read some of the comments on this forum from those disappointed with the size of their *** and it almost broke my heart to learn of the suicidal tendencies that "improper" size can lead to. My response below may give rise to some unsolicited debates, but that's not my intention. Be that as it may, I firmly believe that just like all other muscles of the human body, even man's favorite muscle can be worked on and made to grow. My *** was of average size at 5.5, and now is still of average size, although at 6". I managed to extend length and girth because I refused to believe that nothing can be done about these matters. I'm not sure that the remedy I suggest may work for everyone; it is a combination of daily massage with coconut oil and a herbal pill (I think any good natural oil should work - like mustard oil or even groundnut oil). Massage everyday for 5 minutes without fail, even if it takes over a year or two for you to see results. Do not give up. Massage downwards from the base of your *** to the tip (resist the urge to ***, because regular masturbation beyond a certain age leads to weakness in body and also of the penile muscles). The pill I was taking may be expensive, in which case look for good Indian alternatives. I took VigRx for two or three years. I'm sure there are good Ayurvedic alternatives available in India. Please note that as far as the pills go, what works for one person may not work for another. But the massage is bound to work provided you have the patience and will. Another important factor is a combination of diet and exercise. Go easy on the carbs and stress on protein, even if it's plant based. As for exercise, there are numerous home designed exercises on YouTube if you're not inclined to join a gym. And add to your exercises some good stretches or yoga asanas that strengthen your glutes and hamstrings. May I add here that a masseur that I used to have over at my place once remarked that most of his clients with big *** were bottoms, some exceeding 7 inches in *** size. So take heart my dear young men, and do not despair. It takes more than mere *** size to satisfy your partner in bed. Unless you aim to be a *** star, size does not matter. If you're top, you can use all your lovemaking skills like plenty of kissing, caressing, nipple *** and supplement your lack of size by using a dildo or a vibrator. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
regarding feeling worthless, i think it would help you a lot to find a therapist and talk through your issues. i've struggled with bouts of anxiety and depression for many years and talking to therapists and friends helped me a lot. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
also, going by some of the supposed comments on here, i really think you don't need to take advice from people who turn the discussion back to themselves and their fascination for big ***. its like, if i went on and on about only wanting a guy with a ridiculously muscular body after a guy talks about his low self esteem caused by weight issues. i mean, really you guys, talk about being insensitive.
my advice: stop engaging with men who treat *** like it's some kind of competition. there is no rule book in the world that says that bottoms have *** like (A) and tops have *** like (B). *** is idealized fantasy, nothing about it reflects real life, you need to know that. this whole notion of comparing *** sizes and feeling bad about a bottom having a bigger *** than you is unnecessary. sexual roles aren't based on these things, they are based on what makes you happiest and fulfills you the most. by that hypotheses, you can have *** with a bottom with a big *** and a top with an average/small ***. the point is to be honest and communicate in your sexual transactions and find partners who do the same. that can only start by you finding happiness in your body and mind, because it's what you have and it's what makes you special. if you're trying to tell me that only men with big sized *** are out there having ***, i can assure you, you have not had enough *** :) |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@Lips4hugepoles Your comment did make my day. About your strategy in finding out the overexaggeration of top guys and their size. Thanks for that. And no I am not into making it bigger with any artificial method. Don't wanna go to the doc and telling him "I tried to make my *** bigger and now I have a problem" |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
So in my case no, mine is a tiny one and I like it that way as it makes me admire my partner a lot more when I'm with them. Being a bottom, I've grown to having a desire of feeling feminine when with a partner in bed (otherwise I'm not effeminate type). For this, the tiny tool of mine makes me feel more special, I don't even tend to compare mine with the partner. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
And oh @kingofdesire & @tallbrown - I'm not 100% sure about whether this will work or not - but I have one contact who tries everything to increase his *** size although he is anyway over 8 inches :/
One day he sent me a video of him jerking off and his *** was looking engorged and really massive than in the previous videos he had sent me. So he said it was a *** pump he used just before sending me that video. And he is not too rich. So I am guessing its not expensive and I think it could probably help you guys too. It's a temporary thing though. But maybe you might get a few compliments for a rock solid *** and feel good :) |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
hehe i think it keeps coming to what my profile says (need 9+ inches). There are a few reasons why my profile says that:
a) I am in that phase of my *** life where i want to live that fantasy. I have only *** 9+ inches but never gone *** with one. Honestly, after I get to do it 2-3 times I am pretty sure I'll go back to just above avg sized ones. Because I know 9 inch guys often find it difficult to keep it erect, and also I know I will be in terrible pain.
b) The other reason why I keep 9 inch in my profile is to dodge the overconfident feku tops lol. I am actually open to even 7. But going by my experience, I have seen a lot of tops say they are 7 or 8 inches but when I look at them nude, they are hardly 5 inches. There is a tendency for some tops to exaggerate or incorrectly measure their ***. So by saying 9 inches i am mentally prepared to even accommodate the ones who say they are 9 but in reality might be 7 :P
Now even for a *** chooser like me, *** is not everything. Until a few months ago, I was having the best *** of my life with a guy not 9 inches. His was more around the same size as your *** @kingofdesire (approx)
The other guy I recently dated was basically just for oral *** and he was 6.5 inches (in his humble view but I found it larger). But I was in love with the sessions we had because I just found him too rugged and desi types. Tall, lean, dark and very manly with rough hands. His whole persona was very commanding (not in a disrespectful way). So my point is there is much more about your body and your vibes than just *** that triggers sexuality.
I agree with @tallnbrown about weight being easy to shed. But my point was not about how tough it is to deal with the issue. My point was, don't be too harsh on yourself and don't take what others say too seriously. Surround yourself with more positive people and you will find yourself veering away from negative thoughts. Likewise, people are easily gravitated towards a person who seems content and happy with himself. There is more to *** than *** size and there is more to life than a ***. When you get old you wouldn't want to look back and think damn why did I spend the prime of my life thinking about bottoms who were more hung than me. I know its easier said than done but its definitely not more difficult than trying to increase your *** size. Rather invest your time in something you can help rather than spending time in something u cant help.
@kingofdesire56 & @#male_fantasy - u both guys have really good sized penises. I've rarely dated tops with *** that would dwarf yours. So kingofdesire, if you are often bumping into bottoms with a bigger *** then u probably have bad luck.
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Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
Yup. That's how I go by. I just move on. I used to get depressed a lot. But then I convinced myself and moved on. I mean its just how it is. I mean I can't do anything about it so why bother thinking about it and getting depressed. Rather make use of what I have with non-superficial, non-judgemental people. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@Tallandbrown first off, i want to say that i'm sorry you feel the way you do. i do think, however, that you're not looking at this in the best way possible. i feel like you need to start by genuinely being kind to yourself. it's like you've decided that you're unloveable because systemically you've been told that only men with big *** are worthy of sexual happiness. if you've had *** with enough men, you'll know that we all struggle with things we don't like about ourselves. if you're struggling with *** size, some guy's struggling with the way he looks, another is conscious about his english, another thinks he's not worthy of love because he doesn't come from a wealthy background. you say you're good looking, what about being grateful for that? everyone feels like they're inadequate in some sense: looks, *** size, bank balance, proficiency in english. point being, you focus on the positive and move from there? why not be in spaces where you feel like you could meet men who will look beyond just measuring your *** size? rest assured, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your *** size, but you need to constantly put yourself in spaces that make you feel good. if cruising and sticking your *** out at a urinal makes you feel like *** about yourself, don't do it. it's that simple. you genuinely need to be kind to yourself and know that you are worthy, because, we all are. looking at people and judging them for the way they look and their *** size is so superficial, there are so many other ways to meet men who will like you for other aspects of your personality AND find you sexually attractive. what i'm trying to say is this: be nice to yourself. tell yourself that you are worthy. there will always be naysayers in this world: you'll always NOT be good looking enough, your *** size wont be big enough, you wont have enough money, but who cares? you need to know that despite everything, you are enough. you are loved, and you are worthy. remember that. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
Guys this is just going round in circles. What is the end point? Are you just gonna suffer with this low esteem and keep crying all day , getting depressed day after day or are you gonna just get along with it?
My guy isn't a bottom, I know him well. So buddy, the choice of your life is in your hands. You need to meet a psychiatrist to talk about your issues and get it addressed! |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
And its not just the self confidence part. Its how people think as well. I mean if I get into bed and he has a bigger package then he is thinking "Omg this guy has a small tool than me. He won't be able to satisfy me at all." You can read that on the face. Their expressions speaks it. It has happened. I mean as @Lips4hugepoles profile says "Looking for 9+ Inch", many (P.s and when I say many its like 90% of the people that you might meet) will say they want a bigger tool. I am not saying and I am not implying this in any manner that those people are sluts but that's how people's tendency goes. No offense to anyone here. Its in the nature of people to judge. Its hard, extremely hard as @Tallandbrown said our pool to find a reliable and honest partner is very limited. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
Agreed with @Tallandbrown. Its not that easy to accept the fact. I mean hypothetically if I had a 9+ inch package I wouldn't be this depressed or feeling down. As @Lips4hugepoles said there will always be someone bigger but at least I will have some amount of self confidence. I mean just because you have a bigger package doesn't mean you will be good in bed. But at least hey I can try to work on how good I am with a bigger tool. Here I am already down because I have a small size. How can I move forward into bed and work on how good I can be in bed. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@lips4hugepoles Weight is something you can always change but that's not the same with *** size. Also your weight doesn't play a role in *** but *** does whether it is gay or straight ***. Women these days are also very vocal about small *** shaming and I know a couple of friends who would make fun of their dates small penises. Even your profile says "Looking for 9+". Good for you and you can surely have preferences but stuff like these make guys like me and probably others feel worthless. Our pool to find a reliable and honest partner is very limited.
@male_fantasy Maybe the guy is more bottom. I don't know whose *** is bigger between you two or maybe none of you care because you might be just fine. My issue and low *** esteem is because my size is below average.
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Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@male_fantasy , @Lips4hugepoles Both of you have made a very good point. But still the point is different. Its not that easy when you're in the bed and you're a top and your bottom/partner is packing a bigger package than you. The self confidence withers down completely. We understand what you're trying to convey but its not as easy as it sounds. Its hards for guys like me to have the confidence that easily. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
Guys , I am just an average joe like you guys. I have had *** with a top fb for sometime now and he always wants me to top. He is good built and hot guy, top bi, and still he only wants me to top. I think it's how you make things work with you have been designed with. I asked him many times to top me, but he calls me his "alpha" .. seriously 😋!! You know that's the motivation from him. Even when someone asks me to bot, I think should I or not?? What if I can perform with what nature has designed me? So be brave, happy and enjoy what you can do! |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
Damn I didn't realise tops were so conscious about their *** Size. Honestly I think you both are placing more weightage on your sizes than most bottoms would care to.
One important tip, don't take yourselves too seriously. If you do, others around you will take it seriously too. I'm a chubby guy, and I've never really had extreme shame about my body.
I've had girls, guys, friends, sexual parrners making comments about my chubb. I take it as a funny little comment n laugh it off or maybe if it's my friend, I just give them back a little flak about their personality or body. Just maybe laugh it off or ignore. In the end, you've got to remember, you're not going to be more hung than everybody else in your area, your town, your country etc even if you're 9 inches. There's always going to be someone bigger. No point competing.
But what's unique about you as individuals is your personality. Nobody can be a better version of YOU. So stop living with a complex. Cheer up. There's more to life than the size of your ***.
If you feel bottoms are more size conscious than women are, then maybe you could switch to tinder rather than grindr. Or maybe go for bottoms who are not into it only for the size. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@Tallandbrown I think whenever you find someone who's okay with size then you don't have to feel selfish. He choose you regardless of the size. Then at that time I believe its okay to let go. But as far as the person's experience and pleasure goes, I think you and feel the same thing on a personal level. I understand your very well. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@kingpfdesires even if I find someone who is okay with my size, I’ll always feel like i am not enough for the person. I will feel selfish that I am limiting the person’s experience and pleasure due to my size. I don’t think I’ll get surgeries or take pills too but I also don’t think I can ever be in a healthy sexual relationship. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@Tallandbrown Well you don't have to go through it. If you want you can talk. There are some people out there who are in the same position as you. I am one of them. I hate my tool as it was small. As you said I was in the same scenario. I was in Ghatkopar urinal besides the station and I saw a guy's flaccid *** was bigger than my *** hard. I was too depressed as well. But I moved on. I mean if its meant to be like that then so be it. Can't do anything about it as you said. I am not going to go out of my way to eat pills cuz I have read it has severe side effects. Not gonna do surgery just so that I can have a bigger tool. I mean if someone wants to be with me regardless of the size then that would be great right. So might as well go out of your way to find that person instead of doing something else. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@kingofdesires What sucks more is that there is no safer way yet to increase *** size. Pills and oils don’t help. The surgical operation is temporary and only gives like an inch in length. Girls are so lucky that they can get implants and have any size of breasts they want. We are just stuck with our toddler ***.
And I am being honest about suicidal thoughts. This was right after I met those guys back in 2015. I was severely depressed, hated my body with passion, couldn’t stand the sight of my ***, hated my life. It was like I have this crippled *** and I can’t do anything about it because I have never experienced the kind of shame when I saw those guys *** in real life. I haven’t been with anyone ever since because I feel like my “shortcoming” make me undeserving of a partner. Then last year, my eyes somehow wandered to the guy peeing next to me at PVR(the urinal didn’t have a divider) and his flaccid size was bigger that mine hard. Depression struck me again and I got into cutting myself. I don’t do that anymore but the depressed thoughts never left me.
Sometimes I wonder if having born with a small *** is nature’s way of weeding out the weaker male. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@Tallandbrown Agree with you 100%. You just like wrote what I couldnt put in words. Somehow we are not that blessed and we can't do anything about it. Except for your suicidal tendencies(which Idk is true or being sarcastic) I am agreeing with what you said on a personal level. My *** drive has gone too. Cuz I have seen many bottom who are like a huge lot bigger and thicker than me. While I am stuck with a small one. Can't be confident at all. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@kingofdesires Couldn’t agree more with you. *** comes later but I find it difficult to accept my *** size, be confident about it and live my life. I have struggled with this thought ever since I measured myself as a teen and realised that I am not packing much. I am 27 now and even today I think about my poor *** size at least five times a day. I am so conscious about it. When I see other guys who are confident, I imagine them to be packing a lot down there. I feel like I would be so much more confident if I was at least 6”. Ever since I saw their guys’ *** in real life and how tiny mine looked compared to them, my *** drive has crawled under a rock and I am overwhelmed with shame. Even if I like someone now, I am 100% certain that I’ll be again the smaller one. I’ve had suicidal thoughts because of my small ***. I hate looking at it. I hate that it’s such a disappointment. I wish there was a way to make it bigger or I wish I could just get rid of it. But sadly, I’ll have to live with this useless unattractive piece of meat between my legs. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@Stopgap Yeah working on the "Not being bothered" part. Its just as you said a case of mind. And I am not someone to gain confidence that easily. I am not saying that I am going to go out of my way to look for ways to get bigger, its just, it might take time for me to get used to the "Shouldn't matter" point. Idk if that made any sense in what I said. |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
@king very valid point. Self confidence plays a major role in this. With what you're packing there, I wouldn't bother much! Again it's a case of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it shouldn't matter! |
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Monogamous relationship
Monogamous relationships are very simple and easy to keep alive if yours and your partner's need are clear. I have seen so many such relationships which are still flourishing even after 15years. When you seek a "top" or "bottom" instead of a date or friends, the relationship factor goes out of the picture. So if you are always h0rny and don't value true love over your lust, don't go for relationship stunts. I have seen so many bottoms who are ready to even sell their souls if they are getting a better guy(with nice body or huge black *** etc). So, understand what exactly you want, know your needs and then proceed.
And........Cheers for all of those who have that soulmate in your life. Life is very beautiful if you have someone, with whom you can trust, share everything and live as one!!! |
Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.
But if you have a bigger package it does give a certain amount of confidence. I am always worried that I won't be big enough to satisfy. I always get scared on that fact. Its just the way it is. |
Cure for Moobs (Manboobs)
Stop eating rice, eat vegetables instead with apple cider vinegar, hit the gym and drop your body fat down to 8%. Stop eating all estrogen producing foods and consider a cycle of testosterone. Saw palmetto is also helpful. |
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All the previous comments in my opinion were kind of related though. What those guys are saying is that a lot of tops used the as cumdumps. So that throws out of the window, monogamy. And it's not really exaggerated. Because a lot of bottoms are ok being treated like that. I guess it's just them voicing how tops to *** n forget which seems like a top bashing thing. |
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@Libra - Totally agree with you. That's exactly what I look for, mutual respect for each other's space and humanitarian behavior with a bit of trust. After all we are all humans and not animals. |
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@Tamarai , Yes dude , look for close friendship rather than monogamous relationship it would not lead you to disappointment. For one to one relationship to sustain we need bit of society,family support also sort of relationship like marriage which should be there. Without all of these people mingle and keep moving on which leads to sorrowness instead of happiness. |
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Lol. I think it took a turn long back. Like after the first few comments XD |
