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When my *** started to get hard, maybe I was 13-14. I was masturbating and my skin was intact at that time. T was weird what I did but I put my erect *** in between newspaper as I was very *** and the little skin that was connected to *** came off and it was bleeding a little, quite painful and then I went to wash it off with water it hurt like hell but it become ok soon and since then my skin has been off. Whatever method you do to take off the skin, it's gonna hurt a little but it'll be alright in some time and you're good to go |
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Sasmanthu thanks for ur link
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Its just a name ... Its amazing how we are obsessed with judging each and everything and when the world judges us we want to commit suicide.
If you have decided and made up your mind to swim in the ocean of misery then so be it. Maybe you enjoy it. And there is nothin wrong in it.
Many of us are 'wired' to be miserable. That's your definition of happiness.
All the best .. I just want to send the message out to readers that being gay IS NOT depressing. And things are changing very fast. You would be surprised
by the levels of acceptance and tolerance witnessed in India. |
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Not sure if it was posted here before, saw this video while watching one of the video links posted here: Ranbir kapoor's butt
Btw this is just an awesome thread.. N mostly to the point.. Keep it up |
Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
@verstophyd,
thanks man. Kind of you to read and respond. I am really happy that someone shy and introvert found good gay friends. And my previous answer, especially the last paragraph answers why you still have them s your friends :-)
yes. I don't have much straight friends. I have a few who is in touch with me every now and then. It's very true that straight friends are much much better and loyal than gay friends.
Look at me. Typing stuff and making my hot wings from KFC feel lonely. Isn't the cruel? Here I come KFC, you are so hot. I know how it feels like to be lonely. Let me devour you and save you from misery. |
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@letfuck
what an interesting choice of profile name. So direct. Love it :-)
The word 'dear' used to be such a dear to me long back. But the word has lost it's meaning, at least to me, due to the immense use of it in gay websites. For example, gues messaging like 'dear, will you *** my *** dear? till i *** dear?'. 'dear, will you choke me with your ***?' 'dear, *** my *** hard and don't stop even if i scream my lungs out'.
OH DEAR!!! (just kidding, maybe not) :-)
And I am not gonna attack you. I truly appreciate your concern and the time you took to response to my 'essay'.
Yes, life is not so bad ONLY by God's grace. If I have to write a book or make a tv series of my journey, it will be banned and censored in India and you have to use VPN to watch my series.
I am not saying that I had only the worst experiences, there were some good ones too. But unfortunately, most people talk about the good ones here. People don't want to talk about the bad ones, which are very common in a gay man's life in India or anywhere in the world. If i am finding 1000 reasons not to come out, I wanna find 1000 more reasons not to come out. To be honest, the world is a cruel place and have always been to some of us. And there are people who says 'don't always think negative. be positive. life is a mixture of both good and bad. enjoy every moment'. While I agree with all that, some people like me are not wired that way.
By the way, I do have 2 gay best friends for many years. One of them got married to a woman and living the hell of a life every single day. He pushed his marriage till he was 31 but he got married due to family pressure and there has not been a day he didn't regret. He cried to me a lot of times and I always try my best to support him. My another gay BFF is just like me, so we fight a lot and we are always there for each other.
There is a thing with gay friends. They are friends as long as you don't sleep with them. If you sleep with them, the friendship will fade away, at least in experience.
Again, appreciate your time and good intentions lets'not'*** |
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I'm in for goa. |
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Any real shemale here for friendship ? |
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@mr_lonely_soul, well said and very well articulated. Most of your words are true and is exactly what is happening in the current day. There are exceptions to everything and so is that casein few scenarios you gave too. What i feel is, married ppl who are bi enjoy *** with their wife and since they are inclined towards guys love to meet guys too. Hence they cheat on their wife. That could be the reason why they arent happy completely after marriage. But with gays who marry coz of the family pressure, they May not be happy.
Coming to you not having frnds, i presume you dont have straight friends. But you can make some very good friends among our gay community itself. It might be difficult but isnt impossible. I am an introvert, very reserved and why guy. But I now have very good gay frnds with whom i didnt even have *** once, but we catch up every week or month at least. It might take a while to find friends of our wavelength but you GOT to try from your end too. |
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Dear lonely soul. First of all it is not so bad. Your lofe could have been much worse. Think of the transgender people. If you had to face what they do everyday I think you would have persihed long back.
If you feel so suppressed come out to the world. You have a 1000 reasons to not come out. And the instant you read this you will attack me with them. But your happiness is above all those reasons. You will face difficulty but you will be relieved.
Reach out to gay groups, counsellors and ngos in Chennai. I know of these in Mumbai but dunno about Chennai. Make gay friends throigh these avemues. You will get a lot of support and once you are with the like minded you will enjoy your life.
Yoir concern for women is laudable and i hope yoi dont marry under pressure. You and your happiness are mist important. The rest dors not matter AT ALL. |
Married men of Ohmojo: Are you happy?
I am a single, 28 year old gay guy living in Chennai. One may think that my words are good as a trash, since i am not married and I have no real-life experience of being in a marriage.
To be honest, if I say 'yes' now, I can get married in a few months from now, just like the most of you. But, I am a person who had to learn everything the hard way. I had to exchange my body for every affection, love and care I got from guys. I am not trying to get anyone's sympathy here and even if I do, that is not gonna do much for the emotional burns I have.
I've been living alone for many years now. Initially, I wanted to live alone because I could meet and have a lot of *** with many guys. Guess what? I did that for few years. And there was always a part of me that longed for a committed relationship with a guy ever since I knew that I was gay (even before i knew the term 'gay'). It's a known fact that when guys finish their college studies, they move to a big city with their friends, rent a room, stay together, find jobs, enjoy life, get married one after another and they all move on with life, wife and kids. I knew none of these were gonna happen for me
because I have 0 friends from school and college. I was always the weird , studious and shy kid in school. In college, apparently i was a very not-likable guy for some reasons i don't know yet. All i remember was being caring and helpful to others, but I don't know why nobody wanted to be in touch with me after college or maybe in their side of the story, they had some valid reasons to just discard me. But, it's okay. I have learned to accept that I am not the regular guy who gets to live the normal blissful life. The whole reason, i am blabbering about all these is for two reasons. One, when I start to write, my hands act like they have their own damn brain and they just type things directly from my heart. Second, a little background about me will be bit helpful to understand what i am about to say.
I've been on PR and other gay related forums, websites for over 10 years now. There's always this question 'I am a gay. Can I get married?' or ' I am a gay bottom. Can I get married to a girl and lead a happy life?'. I usually get irritated by seeing these questions in my early 20s. But since I am in late 20s, I can feel the pain and confusion that leads someone to post a most important question/decision of their life in a forum filled with strangers. My answer would be, yes, you can get married and even have babies. But will you be happy? *** no. During my '*** phase', I have met my own share of married guys and had 'fun'. Then something happened. There I was, lying naked with a handsome bloke at night around 10pm. His phone kept ringing for a while and he would see the screen and then mute the call. It kept happening for a while and I was a bit pissed off. If you are gonna shove your tongue down my throat, do it at peace. I asked him to answer the damn call and he did. It was a quick 3 seconds call, unlike the duration our our ***. In those 30 secs, his face reaction and his angry tone revealed that it was his wife who kept on calling him, because this guy had come out of his house saying that he will be back in some time and he had not returned to home. So his concerned wife, with newborn baby, was calling him to make sure he was okay and when he would return, while this guy was playing a chapter of 'Kamasutra' with me. I confronted him and he accepted that it was his wife and their marriage was a love marriage. For a second, my mind was filled with a lot of questions. I managed to ask him a few questions, to which he replied in an uninteresting tone. I asked him to leave, because I was feeling very bad and guilty that I was sleeping with someone's husband, whose wife was calling him at night 10pm with a lot of concern. This guy didn't leave and he asked me a very beautiful question that wanted me to say 'Yes, Prince. Take me on your horse and *** me hard, uh uh uhuhhhhhhh'. He asked me, 'since we already started having ***, could we at least complete one round and then I will leave?'. I had to force him to leave.
I know I am being judgmental here and I am very far from being a good person. But if there is something good about me, then it's my guiltiness. Whenever I do a mistake, I will feel extremely guilty. I can't move on without resolving the reason that made me feel guilty in the first place. While I understand that married men are people too, with flesh and desires, I can't agree the fact that they are secretly *** guys. The same guys might feel cheated on or betrayed, if their wives did the same. So a guy can be a straight, bi or gay and get married to a woman and 'so smart' to be unfaithful behind their wives ? All because you are a guy?
There are many days I have fallen sick and couldn't even lift my fingers. I didn't have anyone to take me to hospital, clean me up, clean up after me, or even give me some water. Each and every time I get sick, my mind plays a war with my heart about me getting married. I think ' there will be at least someone who can give a glass of water, even if she hates me'. But when I get better, I feel ashamed and disgusted of me being selfish. Girls re not innocent these days. I have some girl friends, who talk openly about *** and guys. Girls these days will easily find out if you are gay or not. Then there are a few things that might happen after that. She may torture you physically and mentally for the rest of your life or shame you in front of everyone and file for a divorce or *** other guys. In all these situations, nobody is happy. In a rare case, she may understand you and live with you accepting everything about you. But there will always be a catch or something to trade.
To all the people who ask such questions and to all the men who are saying that it's ok to get married because it worked out for you, I want to say this. JUST BECAUSE SOMETHING WORKED OUT FOR YOU, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT IT MAY WORK OUT FOR EVERYONE. I do understand that you are just sharing your life incidents and suggestions, but you will not hold the responsibility if something bad goes in someone's life who took your advice or suggestion.
I know that I may end up dying alone but I feel it's a curse to be born this way. Everyday is a drama. I am not the same person to my family, people I work with, to my friends. I have to put on a *** mask every time and I am so tired of it. I have to dance like a puppet for the strings pulled by the society. But I know I am being true to myself. I am saying Thanks to God. I am saying thanks and sorry to people from the bottom of my heart. I am trying to be honest with people. I don't want the 'real me' to die a slow painful death. People already suspect that I am gay. My parents stopped going for any wedding or functions because all the 'concerned' relatives ask about my marriage. Last time I went to my cousin's wedding and in a couple of hours, every single person I met asked me to get married soon and i am being a pardon to my family and bringing a bad name and shame to my family. What the ***? I never realized that being single in your late 20s in TN, India could be so painful. Almost all my school and college friends are married and some even have kids. Guys younger than me are married and have kids. I sued to go to my hometown every month because I love my hometown and parents. But last year, I went only thrice for the entire year. This time, I even cried my heart out to my parents not to force me into marriage and I will never be happy in a marriage. I didn't want to be born this way but I am. This is me. Just to satisfy my parents and the society, I can't ruin another human being's life in the name of marriage. Girls dream big just like us gays. I feel very sad for the guys and girls who are in these type of marriage.
I am sorry if my words were harsh, but it's the truth. We all know it. |
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I am from blore 40 versatile straight acting guy here. Shall i join to the group? OR age there any age crieterias?
Yes Goa is very sexy place but please aware about the leagal consiqencies for this kind of fun. |
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Nr1429 at indore it cost me RS 18000 as I am govt servant and it's covered under CGHS scheme only Rs13421 which is fully reimbursed...I don't know in metro cities how much it cost??? |
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Goa is good too but bali is better if u guys wanna spend a bit more and relax out side india...
Hit me up with goa plan lets fix the dates and have a good trip |
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I am interested to join |
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Let's explore. Usually South Goa ll be less crowded compared to north{Bhaga}. Guys, those who are willing to join from Bangalore do message soon. |
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I'm not a frequent visitor to Goa. Guys who travelled more can give ur suggestions |
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Hi Versbang. Which part of Goa will we shack up in? |
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I used the words "3-4 Versatile guys." What was I thinking? The discussion is open 2 all irrespective of their sexual leanings.
My sincere apologies 2 all u wonderful hot guys out there. Let's try and make this happen. |
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Great but can plan for 2 night stay instead of just on 15tg. |
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I'm planning to book the tickets for June 14th night. And return on 16th night. Guys who can make on the same weekend, do ping here |
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Im interested for Goa |
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Hi Guys. I'm from Pune. The last trip we were planning turned sour for some reasons. Would like 2 join for Goa
if we have 3-4 versatile guys. Let's try before the rains although Goa in the rains can be very sexy with the right
company. Cheap booze and great food. Versbang, can we make a start please? Any guys from Pune interested can message me. Cheers |
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Yes i am in. I am cd and can be your girl throughout the trip. Count me. |
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I'm in for banglr to goa trip |
Self Acceptance & Emotional Support
I love being a bottom and have no problem being a *** bitch to straight or top guys. How can you look down on what you are all about. Message me and let's talk any bottoms feeling depressed |
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Ankit its heartening to read your message
Good news is even on a worst case scenario this does not warrant suicide
Try talking to happy gay friends...or else write your feelings as it is in a mail to yourself. Read it after 10 days. U wud feel how silly we worry about things as time goes on |
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I need to talk to someone about the confused feelings i have. I am very depressed everytime i climax because i cant accept the fact that i am a bi. The moment i climax and c*m, I am not bi ,i am straight again. Just because of hormonal disbalance due to overmasturbation, i think i become a pure bottom boy who likes matured tops! This dual nature puts me in a big dilemma and often makes me think i am insane and brings me to the brink of suicide. I cannot believe the amount of stigma and shock ill face from my family, my friends, my cousins, my relatives if they come to know about my bi nature. I have had numerous risky encounters and great pleasure from many tops, but now its wearing off and i dont feel ANY excitement anymore , nor girls nor boys! Maybe i broke my *** hormones and they are eventually dying out? |
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One word: I would say don’t marry.
When I decided to marry I did not think at all. Even my father left us to heavenly abode and it was just me and mom. I could have decided to stay single but not sure why I did not think so. Today after 5 years when I am spiritually and humanly matured, i think it’s worst decision of my life and it’s mot like you can reverse it suddenly. Coming out of it is also not option as I have kid now. I have to live with it. But I would have been more happy if I were single. It’s not just gay aspect , the Overall repercussion of marriage has made me think like this.
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I had this and underwent surgery. After surgery, my *** looks bigger and prettier. I am also able to enjoy *** fully now. With skin covering your *** head, you miss out on a lot of fun. Surgery is really simple with rest needed up to 3 days. The head will too sensitive to handle. It will be like this for couple of days. It takes a month till the stiches dissolve and the wounds heal. After that you will be back on your humpping ways |
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@jackriley why to look for foreigners when you find beautiful transwoman in our own country. All the girls truly die to have a normal life ans family. But our f**kn society does not allow it |
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Any Bangalore planning to visit Goa? We can plan together too. Let me know |
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If Anyone is planning a short trip from Delhi let me know
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Ever convinced anyone for sex by offering favors?
This is not seducing. More like taking advantage. A handsome young man owes me a considerable amount of money. I had loaned it a few months back. He is not being able to repay it. I gave him a solution. Il reduce the debt by a certain amount for every blowjob. Ive received a few now. More to go. |
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Faced the same issue.Couldnt pull back my foreskin.As a result i could not even enjoy getting *** let alone penetrating.I decided to consult a surgeon and he said stretching exercises could help to an extent and that it would take lots and lots of time and patience but since i didnt have that hehe i decided to get circumcised.And boy,has my sexual life changed.I would definitely recommend it. |
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https://youtu.be/7W8dGX0Py-4 |
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@Naveen, not through Group. Generally I send messages on FB to the people who are in my choice. (Without knowing their orientation). If they respond I will continue chatting. But as long as they show interest till then I do normal chatting only. Hope you got it :). He is one of those guys whom I found like that.. |
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Anybody want to visit Jaipur, Ajmer or puskar. Plz msg me. I like to join. |
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Sexy and hot |
Finding love - because it's not only about sex
@kumar very nice. there are examples where two people become good friends which may or may not involve ***. it all depends on what the other is expecting out of the encounter. Real life stories like these makes it all the more clear that you can be in a loving relationship which does have to end at *** :) thanks for sharing. Did you meet the person through some FB group or something?? i would like to get more details around that. |
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Ive been to bali many times ...good place and very cool temperature and many bush spots to have fun in open ..
Iam in let me know the dates |
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S friends no posts now days ,, very eager to watch mm plz yaar upload sum links mmmmm
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Interested |
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Nice topic.. May be a hill station would be a better idea. Cold climate makes the experience more hot.. 😉😉 |
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I too had trouble pulling my foreskin back. It pained, didn't move much.... It least bothered me as I am fully bottom... But sometime back a bi forcebly *** my ***, though I didn't want anyone *** it....but he forcebly *** it and *** it so hard and good that when he finished I found that the foreskin had moved back !!!! Now a days it moves forth and back .... No pains.... Well that's what happened to me... |
Finding love - because it's not only about sex
After reading all the posts I want to share you one story. This is real and I met those people.
Recently I had chatted with one uncle over FB and we chatted for some days. Later when he visited Hyderabad I met him and we have enjoyed. He is still in touch with me. But his friend also got introduced to me over chatting through him (have not met him yet). They 2 are friends for last 34 years.
34 years ago, They both have met randomly and they liked each other and they became friends for life. Though they are seperating very far (around 250kms), they are meeting once every month or two month. Sometimes there is no chance of *** or enjoyment for them but still they love to meet by travelling all the distance. They are so close that their both families are friends now.
No one among their families know about their relationship.
I could observe that they both have a strong bondage and they can not survive without other one's company. They call each other at least 6-7 times a day.
But still they try for other guys and enjoy if there is a chance and share their experiences with each other. Though they meet many other people they set expectations to others accordingly.
They will not be seperated though they meet other people.
One person among them (whom I met) has become good friend to me and he uses to say that "only Death will seperate him with his friend".
I have no belief on love in this Gay world till the moment I meet them. But they are different and I felt very happy that Love and bonding exists here as well if both have proper understanding.. |
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I am also circumcised.... it hurts when I try to pull it back. but I dont have any problem in *** n I enjoy ***. jaisa hai waise rehne do yaar bekar ka tension kyun lena |
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Let's plan to go diu(div) |
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I am interested too |
