Feeling scared or shy at cruising spots
How to behave at cruising spots to attract or to show someone that you are interested in them? I am asking it because some of us (including me) feel scared or shy at cruising spots. Reply/Post a comment
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937233 | Posted On Jan 21, 2021
Me Being a teen boy it's really very awkward even to look at someone at cruising place , have been to some cruising place and came empty handed nothing happened at all and don't be in a impression that cruising place will be full of gay people only straight guys do come and that's the thing why i m afraid of making first step
Usually I don't make any attempt to attract anyone I let others to make their step so that I will get hint u can give hint make eye contact if front person does the same then bingo go and approach them |
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bot_bitch | Posted On Jan 21, 2021
It's simple,
Whenever you're at a cruising place try to gain/maintain eye contact. Every person at a cruising spot looking for some action will be circling around the place (for example, if the cruising place is a road, straight guys not looking for any action will walk right past the place but people looking for some action will try going up and down the road looking around for someone to hookup with). Once you see someone, try making eye contact with them, do not make any specific suggestions or actions until you get an extended eye contact with them. Once you and the other person make eye contact for a long enough time, try flashing a smile or a sexy look. If you get a positive response to that as well, try getting close to them in a casual manner (like start walking parallel to them or if they're sitting down, choose a place close to them and sit there frequently making eye contact). If you get a positive response to that as well approach them and start a conversation (anything will do, like Hi, hello, etc.) After a while you can talk things out and get down to business.
But always keep in mind, do the above procedure only if you're 100% sure you want to. And always proceed with caution. |
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Sanki | Posted On Jan 22, 2021
Why don't we keep a codeword to be uttered at the crusing spot,,,,say as BHAIJAAN |
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Anonymous 2017 | Posted On Jan 22, 2021
How about color coded wrist bands on right hand ?
2 Red - Top
2 Yellow- Bottom
1 Red, 1 Yellow - Versatile
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bot_bitch | Posted On Jan 23, 2021
@smoothvers every newbie or experienced person should try Imperial cinema at least once if not multiple times. The place is a homosexual heaven for people looking for NSA fun and/or group fun. I've been there a couple of times and the place is super awesome. People there are respectful of boundaries, so if you're not interested in someone, you just let them know and they won't bother you anymore.
It's been shut since the lockdown has started but recent messages in the Imperial Cinema Ohmojo thread says that it may open up from Monday. So all of you scared or shy about cruising should make a start from that place. Go there, have some fun, get to know the feel of cruising. Basically, just go there to have fun and learn how to cruise.
Lastly, always keep your safety and hygiene in mind and always carry protection, wether you're a top or bottom, doesn't matter, always carry protection.
If you guys wanna know more about Imperial Cinema, I suggest you guys check out Imperial Cinema thread here on Ohmojo. |
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zubairk | Posted On Jan 28, 2021
Yes u can visit imperial cinema and enjoy there lots of people come to do this only my *** and *** was *** by 2 guys there when I went there lots of action was going there when lights were off in each row action was going on |
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Mayur6991 | Posted On Apr 24, 2021
interesting to find such crusing places. I huv never been at one. I once used grindr but could not show up coz of fear of getting exposed. If u guys can suggest some good places where in ppl can handle your shyness and make u feel comforrable den pls share to me |
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*** | Posted On Oct 16, 2021
@Teen_x
Whether you are young or old, taking precaution while cruising is very imperative. There are cases of guys being robbed, beaten up, videographed and blackmailed, or trapped by cops. There are some rules
1. Do not carry valuable, so no watch, expensive phones, wallets, gold chains or bracelets.
2. Carry very little cash, if you need to take an auto or taxi, just in case. keep a basic call.
3. Know the area where you are going to cruise, so in can emergency you know your escape routes to dash out
4. Be aware of your surrounding, watch how people are behaving and you will know the type.
5. Do not wear flashy clothes, keep it simple, usually black tee shirt and black shorts or pants helps u blend in dark when hooking up.
6. there are 3 types of people you will see at cruising spots- 1) Despos, who are after every *** that passes by, stay away from them ; 2) The queens, the group of gays who are regular at a spot, it is their version of central park, some of them may be hustlers, stay far far away from them. 3) random *** dude like you who is looking for quicky... he is your target... check if his your type and then show interest by staring / checking him out
7. Always remember *** is in the eyes. The eyes will tell you if they are looking for it or not.
8. Remember you are at cruising spot for one thing and one thing only to get your rocks off... you are not there to find husband, so don't discuss your life story and bore the other person. Keep it simple, *** and forget.
9. Always carry condom, whether you are a top or bottom, doesnt matter, if you are old enough to have ***, then you are old enough to buy condom at medical store.
10. No matter how hot the guy is, no condom, no ***. for 11 minutes fun, you don't want HIV and STD.
11. Keep a time tab, don't spend 2=4 hours at cruising spot . decide before hand what time you will leave if you don't find anyone. THe more time you are cruising spot, the more vulnerable you are to predators.
12 . Last , if you like the guy and want to do more, leave the spot and go to some other safe place.
13. you can keep your grindr on, so u can check out the guys @ cruising spot on the app and know lil bit more.
Happy cruising.
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