Body Positivity
Hey! Some of us aren’t supermodels, we’re fat or short or dark skinned or maybe all of them. Some of us don’t get dates or get rejected on Grindr after sending a face pic. This thread is for people like us to find love or have casual ***. All are welcome! 🏳️🌈
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Horizon_87 | Posted On Sep 28, 2020
1.This sort of "conduct", as I would term it happens often. Do not know whom to blame. But yes, happened to me many times and now I just take it for granted. At least a YES or NO from their side would at least give us idea ki us bandey ko photo pasand aayi ya nahi. They would straight away resort to blocking and I find this abnormal. At times it also happens that photos are of somebody else and when you get to meet that guy in person woh koi aur hota hai. Abh sabh log to supermodels ya 6-10 packs waaley nahi hotein na. Ooper se woh toh kam se kam baath tak karney ko tayyaar nahi hotein. I am happy that I am not on apps like those and been over a year now.
2. Profile bhi itney complicated se hotein hain that in fact it makes you scared ki usko message karein bhi ya nahi. Itni lambi aur complicated English ki toh zaroorat bhi nahi wahaan toh. Ajeeb hai. Pehle yeh sab apps aisey nahi thay. Dating really meant more beyond fun or *** some 10-11 years ago. Everything has changed drastically.
- Regards to all and stay safe.
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Dirtyboii | Posted On Sep 28, 2020
@Horizon_87, u are right. Basic decency bhi nahi dikhate hain, ab theek hai, pasand nahi hai to, but bol to do, ke nahi yaar tum mere type ke nahi ho. par nahi, inko to normal dikhnevale bandon se baat hi nahi karni. |
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WantToSukkChoco | Posted On Sep 28, 2020
Normal height & Normal colour / skin texture is fine . But it's really shitty when they're like a stupid hippocampus buffalo and tell that they're thin etc . & When we ask for pic or video call , we obviously get pissed . But if you've given a disclaimer that your fat / bald it's fine. But if you haven't , you deserve the cheap treatment |
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giri222 | Posted On Sep 30, 2020
Even I agree people bother about looks now days |
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dingdong | Posted On Oct 2, 2020
look matters many a times..
Many come over to message and shows interest by seeing body pics.. but after seeing face, some run away without even replying a single word.. some rejects... some stops responding...
but i have come across situations some super cute guys too admire the way i am..
so, totally it depends on individuals, their likes and eyes...
no one to be blamed for this... as even we end up rejecting some guys due to some or other reason.. |
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Amar.c | Posted On Oct 2, 2020
I've been on both sides, been rejected and have rejected both men and women. Most often it's because their body/face just doesn't arouse you. Everyone has their own kinks and likings. I for one tend to like men who look very feminine and are petite because I have a fetish for crossdressers and mostly Trans people. When it comes to women I don't like women who are too short or ones that are fat, I have nothing against fat women, it just doesn't arouse me, can't force myself to get physical of I'm not attracted. It's all just based on what an individual likes. You'll eventually find someone who likes you, you are who you are and confidence is the bestaphrodisiac anyway. Everyone is entitled to chose who their partner is and that means sometimes you get rejected. That's just how it goes. |
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4frds | Posted On Nov 2, 2020
@Horizonji bhai
first interact with a person understand and then decide ,ap pehle hi milna pic pe kyu jathe ho .......bhai sab insaan hi tho hai pasand alag alag hai bus ..khush rahooo... |
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