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Submitted by _rhythm_ Location: All India (All India, India)

hey guys. i m in relationship with a bi guy (who works for me). things are going very good as of now. he claims that he loves me and i love him a lot too. we had *** about 3 times till now. but he is not into *** at all neither desires much about *** me. i usually play the dominant part. now i want to know what is possibly the future of this relationship. 3/4 years down the line i feel he will marry a girl and start a family and i will be left alone. plz share your experiences in dealing with a bi guy. i am really confused about this.

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Sonu25bottom *
Posted On Nov 21, 2021 - 04:16 PM

I am relationship with guy for last 19 years....but we both are happily married and stil we meet and spend time together

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jaidesai
Posted On Nov 21, 2021 - 06:43 PM

if you date a a bi-guy, be prepared to share him with his wife. he will have his cake (wife) and eat the cream/icing (you).
i know of many bi guys and i find them good human beings (except cheating on their wives). men and women are not supposed to be biologically monogamous, but society has forced them to act responsibly/morally by the institution of marriage.
however, if he is having more than 2 loves, there could be serious problems.....aids/std/etc.

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curious_bot
Posted On Nov 21, 2021 - 08:38 PM

Never indulge into bisexual guy if you are a gay guy. You will be dumped or taken as a mistress in the relationship. He will be bored of the loose 'kitty' and your tightness will give him firmness for a few years.

Do not be a *** dump, rather be with a guy whose ambition matches yours. Well it is my opinion having noticed a dozen gay guys being dumped 'very' quickly by so called bi guys. Gay guys would cheat too, but bi guys make it an episode by putting you v/s her.

Not all would bring misery, but why to put hand in Troubled waters.

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shapeoflove
Posted On Nov 21, 2021 - 09:31 PM

@_rhythm_ If your partner really loves you then, it doesn't matter if he is bi or gay. He just loves you and that's it. And if you feel the same way towards him then, carrying that relationship forward shouldn't be an issue. And as far as *** is concerned then, its only you who can decide for yourself, if that's satisfactory or not. And also how important a role does *** play for you in the relationship?
Now, why do you feel that he would marry a girl in 3-4 years down the line and leave you? Has he said or hinted something like that to you? If he has then, he definitely doesn't love you. And if he hasn't then it may be just your fear or insecurity regarding your relationship. Btw, in any case, having a clear and meaningful discussion with your partner regarding the future of your relationship will solve out a lot of doubts. So, it's better you talk to your partner, if you are really serious but somehow insecure about your relationship. Transparency plays a major role for a successful relationship and it can only be attained through discussions rather than just jumping on some conclusion based on other's experience and your own ambiguities.
Wishing you all the best 👍

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Longtermlove
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 01:53 AM

@rhythm unless gay marriage becomes law it's hard to have life long partnership. Even with bi guys you can have long term friendship and relationship but do not expect him to stay with you forever as there is good probability he may marry a girl for family society reasons But to tell u frank there is no guarantee that gay guy will be with you forever unless there is marriage.

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_rhythm_
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 03:36 AM

thanks for your comments. i have multiple discussions with him about his future plans. he has said that he wont probably marry. but its not a commitment from him. and since I am 29 and he is only 23, talking about marriage and future plans is way too early for him. he is still in college. from my side i am very happy with him. he is a loving boyfriend and *** part is also great. but i am unsure about his feelings. although he has said many times he is perfectly happy with me. but in my heart of hearts i feel he secretly wishes to be with a woman. lets see what happens.

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Kumar_Aman
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 06:25 AM

m curious,,,,how about Bi guys already in relationship with guys but still crave for girls,,,would you as a gay allow him to seek a girl for his sexcapades ?

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Salman472
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 08:13 AM

We cannot find loyalty in todays world when coming to bi relationships

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Sanbtm *
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 08:24 AM

I totally agree with @curious_bot
U cant trust a bi guy..

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tasteme2021
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 08:51 AM

@rhythm

Same thing happened in my life , My partner was Gay , im bi ,

i was 23 he 30 when we start to date , he s pure btm , we both feel satisfied in bed but ... he can't ready to accept me as a BI

He forced me to become gay n open up to my parents , He threatened by his love ... but... i can't ... he s not ready to accept what im ...


@rhytam im telling u as ur Partner's voice - i expected the only thing from my partned is accept me what im but he s not

i just ready to be loyal for both of my partner ... I can't speak against my parents as well i can't fight with my sexuality bcz im BI not gay

Now im living with guilty concious about i gave false hope with him

while we r together i gave a false hope like "i will be with u for end" .. that guilty consious still killing me ...

so don't force him, show ur uncontional love by accept him what he is ...

thanks

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Unimate
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 11:59 AM

@_rhythm_ i suggest that you maintain a no string attached relationship. There is benefits for both but since the guy is 23 and is bisexual, once he is employed , he will get married by his family, will be forced into family life. Its better that you wake up to truth now rather feeling bad later. I don't blame bisexuals,they are designed to lead a dual life and will in 💯% probability will lead a life with a women than a man. So wake up to the harsh reality and be prepared.

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Bemonami2
Posted On Nov 22, 2021 - 05:58 PM

As I’m bi I never went into any kind of relationship on gay side of me. Homosexuality for me was NSA and I made it clear whenever I met anyone. I have cravings for girls and always wanted to settle with a girl. So, I did not give any false hope to anyone. Try not to expect a long term engagement with a bi and as @Unimate suggested, try to maintain a NSA relationship.

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ANDYfook
Posted On Nov 23, 2021 - 09:20 AM

Bi guys after a few years become gay

In india getting a decent girl is almost impossible. The best of boys/men finally give-up, his girlfriend shall become his wife, then she will open her *** larger than her ***. He shall come back to you. Women are the worst to live with. Nagging and shopping shall drive him mad.

Bi guys always become gay..... U should know how to BLOW.

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toprod
Posted On Nov 23, 2021 - 11:52 AM

i have seen few gay and bi relationships.

worst.
always possessive from both side.
bi guys play emotional cards to fool gay guys.
bi guys never spends money only gay guy do.
bi guys will ignore you whenever they want or whenever they get new partner.
get ready to get hurt.

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cindrella_c
Posted On Nov 25, 2021 - 07:10 AM

@toprod

// bi guys play emotional cards to fool gay guys.
bi guys never spends money only gay guy do.
bi guys will ignore you whenever they want or whenever they get new partner.
get ready to get hurt. //

Well said.

Use them as they use you is the best policy.

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burjuman
Posted On Nov 25, 2021 - 08:49 PM

@tasteme2021completely with you. I find it extremely hypocritical that gay guys expect everyone to accept them the way they are but they will not accept a bi guy the same way. All these talks about do not trust bi guys are complete nonsense, my experience ( I am 50 so I have seen some life), gay guys are as promiscuous if not more compared to bi/ straight guys.

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billpotts
Posted On Nov 26, 2021 - 02:40 AM

I'm bi and the biggest reason I have only *** with guys but full relationships with girls is that us guys are unfaithful. We are so *** that when we're not with our bf we're trying to hookup with other guys. It is heartbreaking to love a guy because we behave like pigs on heat. Girls are much more loyal overall.

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sameer143347
Posted On Nov 26, 2021 - 06:19 AM

I am bi and married. I have been looking for a relationship for sometime now. I feel its natural to be bi and accept it. However the issue with us is we cannot come out in open for multiple reasons. But yes we do desire someone who would understand that we are looking for something more than ***. We get *** from marriage so that is out of question. We are mostly loking for that companionship that makes us feel wanted, cherised and happy.

I would not deny that fact that many bi guy are just looking for *** but generalizing them would not be right.


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chennai_guy
Posted On Nov 26, 2021 - 07:26 AM

@curious_bot and @cindrella_c, very well said, thank you!


"Use them as they use you is the best policy."

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Viniki
Posted On Dec 7, 2021 - 03:03 AM

23 being a young age, once he finds options outside and feels independent, he will leave

So don't be too attached and go with the flow

Been in relationship for 3 years, he left without a reason

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Carnage0562
Posted On Dec 7, 2021 - 05:49 AM

If u r a bi never get serious with a gay!
Attraction doesn’t always end up in commitment!!
Eventually the bi guy will get bored and subconsciously he will never accept relationship wholeheartedly with a gay coz bi are mostly closeted and they like it that way only.
Eventually the guy will marry a girl so there is no future with a guy!
These kind of relationships do happen; very very exciting in the beginning but they fade with time or they end up very ugly!
A gay who loves u will never accept the fact that his man is having *** with a woman; he may not show it or pretend to be ok with it but in reality he will be jealous if the bi guy won’t give him time or give his share of time to a girl/wife!!
so in my opinion gay-bi relationships are largely a bubble