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Submitted by wingedcupid Location: All India (All India, India)

These days the demarcation between tops bottoms switch are fluid.

However there are quite a few guys who are definitive bottoms and seek tops for fun. Not even vers.

Have you had instances where a fellow sister turned up for *** claiming to be top?

Share your experiences.

Ps: I love co-bots and sisters very much, no disrespect intended

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 07:04 AM

I am top, but was *** one day and the nearest guy turned out to have place. But he claimed he was top, usually I don't go for it. But was too ***, decided to *** off. Went there, guy was hot, smooches, body romance happened. But somehow he suddenly started behaving like a bot. *** me, and since I usually carry condoms in my bag, I finally *** him. Had an amazing session. After few days again his profile popped with new name, but with his position saying ' vers bottom'. Either he was a bot and hired it, or I just changed his preferences altogether. It happens sometimes, no big deal.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 07:16 AM

Yes Not a big deal for top meeting a bottom in top disguise
Otherway gives disappointment at least to me

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 07:39 AM

Hi visited my friend one Day as he had his good top friends coming - Myself a ver guy - went there in order to get *** as he said 2 of his freinds are with Big n Thick lunds - well as we started to have fun - one of them started to *** my sexy hard *** dry and then the other guy also started to act as if he wanted to get *** - well he was a virgin I guess as it was a bit difficult to penetrate him - But it was fun to have 2 bottoms ( known as tops ) to *** n get suked - Now we meet often my self as a TOP

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 08:38 AM

well, m vers top , but donno why, i always get attracted towards Top only but when it comes to s#x, i do not get F#ck#d or even fingered, love getting rimmed though. and when for su^king i always prefer 69 not one way and i have screwed many bot guy's ***. not sure if its my preference, but because of this i do not get many good partners

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 09:24 AM

I am a top for very long time. I wanna try as a bottom now atleast once.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 09:34 AM

I was been top for few months bt one day tried to being a bottom accidentally n trust me I enjoyed being a bottom.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 11:46 AM

As i mentioned in another post
It's all fluid
Hence, the term spectrum is used to describe sexual orientation.
It is capable of changing from time to time.
Infact, it is also possible that you stop liking Gay *** and start enjoying Straight *** only .. think about it if it makes sense.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 11:59 AM

Chembur...i second that...there can be incompatible tastes too, as a bottom I have strong desire to meet manly men for *** but gets disapppointed if we could only do lesbianic (if thats a word) ***. I was eager to listen to ppl's exp on the lighter vein as some may be bottom-in-denials..

@Shruthi0089.. Lol u know what, i have topped quiet a few..not just vanilla top but dominant top....all the worlds a stage and we are merely actors...buhahaha

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 02:24 PM

The point is to enjoy ***. What do the labels matter if you get more pleasure as a bottom.or top or versatile ?

This obsession to show off as a top has a mysoginist thought to it. Why is it so terrible to be a bottom ? I feel bottoms are stronger than tops. They are able to bear the pain. I have tried many times but I can't handle the pain. So tops should stop thinking that it is more masculine to be a top. If u r really a man then try bottoming. You will know what it is.

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Posted On Oct 20, 2020 - 02:59 PM

I am flattered by the attention i receive from tops..straight men etc. I dont widely see any qualms about being bottom. This is only to listen to (hilarious) experiences you may have encountered with person of incompatible preferences.

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Posted On Oct 21, 2020 - 07:33 PM

I think it is just part of one underatanding their sexual identity. Initially everyone thinks they are straight. Once the curiosity takes control, they think I am straight but I am just looking for a BJ or a hole to f ck. Once they get more comfortable, then comes I am versatile. In grndr nowadays people have began mentioning they are ver-top or ver-bttm...and then finally when they accept their true sexual orientation, they have the courage to say they are true bottoms.
I am not saying everyone goes through this, because there truly are tops in this world and truly bottoms but I habe seen this happen far too often and juat believe that it is part of normal acceptance process for some.

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Posted On Oct 22, 2020 - 09:14 AM

Met a 25 year old man who claimed to be top ...but went straight down on his knees when we took a shower and *** my ***..after the shower had dinner and when i mounted on him and put my *** between his *** cheeks and *** ...he enjoyed ...he still claims to be a TOP

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Posted On Oct 22, 2020 - 11:03 AM

In this thread what i understand many are thinking if someone sucks a ***, he is not a top. Me being a veratile top, i love to ***, get *** and *** *** of my partner. Not sure why many think it's not right for a top to *** ***.

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Posted On Oct 22, 2020 - 11:10 AM

I'm openly a pure slutty *** swallowing bottom so it annoys me when someone fakes being a top so they can get in my bed and try and get me to be the top. Not cool.

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Posted On Oct 22, 2020 - 02:35 PM

I have only ever been a top. I've never had a thought to bottom ever.

I've found a lot of my *** partners - particularly pure bottoms - were really quite strong-minded and knew exactly what they wanted. They were often very much in control even when I was 'in charge' of the session.

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Posted On Oct 22, 2020 - 11:07 PM

Hell yeah. My first date on pr almost did that to me. Before meeting we chatted on phone n sms and he was all pure testosterone, bragging about his 9 inch *** and all. When I met it, it started pretty well, we are in the middle of this really hot session where I'm fulfilling my fantasy for the first time off *** a big black ***, and suddenly this guy loses all his manliness and starts grabbing my *** n trying to put it between his bum. It took such a sudden u-turn from him showing off his big *** with his hands on my head, to him strutting around like a bottom shaking his booty. Maybe it was the beer, god knows. He transformed back to a ruthless top in a few minutes and gave me the pounding of my life.

Best *** I had but with a few weird memories

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Posted On Oct 23, 2020 - 01:22 AM

@Behance11 why is that sad? Stereotyping is sad but not that.

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Posted On Oct 23, 2020 - 03:13 AM

i am a top.. but i am mentioned in my profile vers.. i am intrested to be bottom for mature only.. caring and romantic in bed make me a bottom for them.

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Posted On Oct 23, 2020 - 05:49 AM

We judge others for stereotyping and here we are doing the same...What should I call it Irony or Hypocrisy...lol😁

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Posted On Oct 23, 2020 - 10:06 AM

Pretty sensible thread..
I'm actually a top and love to get *** and all.. But in recent days I met a bottom who gave me rimjob from then have an urge to be a bottom...to get to know how it feels
I want to experience how it feels to get ***
I would try to open my *** for some sweet nd caring *** soon..I'm waiting for a suitable partner
I think it's all about pleasure and freedom to enjoy whatever u want..I don't think anything is permanent we might like being a top now and a bottom after somedays and I think it's quite common

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Posted On Oct 24, 2020 - 06:49 AM

Every man have a women in them they just need to explore it in a comfertable environment and once she came out than we realise ohhh what i am and what i need.

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Posted On Oct 24, 2020 - 04:22 PM

I also agree with you... Specially when a male starts bitching and gossiping about others...

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Posted On Oct 24, 2020 - 05:33 PM

i have never bottomed. and i always dreamed of *** someone. i believe i am not a bottom since i don't want to be *** or even fingered. but meanwhile i am very attracted to manly hairy mature men. i am very attracted to thick dark uncut ***. i want to *** and *** ***. but this doesn't mean i am a bottom. right?

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Posted On Oct 24, 2020 - 05:37 PM

It might be a good initiation and sign of getting into being bottom.

Slowly and steadily your mind and body will be dragged into bottom (sissy) world.

This is totally my personal opinion.

Please do not be judgmental.

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Posted On Oct 24, 2020 - 06:19 PM

but i don't have any thought about beeing bottom. I can't even finger myself as it hurts and i really did not like the feeling.

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Posted On Oct 24, 2020 - 09:13 PM

I am a bottom and its getting harder to find tops any more. I use to go over to a guy couple and they would both *** me and that was great but then they moved away. I got to meet a new guy and we *** regularly for a few years but he to moved away. There is the male half of a couple me and my girl friend play with him and his wife but me and him have both *** my girl friend and me and him have met up and I *** him hard and he would *** me but after the Flu crap he has not been around. Its been a year since we have seen him. I have been looking for a regular top guy but no luck.

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Posted On Oct 25, 2020 - 07:00 AM

I have a friend near by in arakere, he claims as top and want threesome with bottom. My self and him two tops. I don't judge him for being girlish , but dont be top just because of Ego. Anyway, its their life their wish.

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Posted On Oct 25, 2020 - 10:16 AM

Though I am basically bottom and like to take deepthroat, have my moobs pressed and *** and take ***, I still desire to be a top. Don't think this is abnormal. There can be so many desires present in a single person.

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Posted On Oct 25, 2020 - 02:15 PM

Top bottom vers - now vers top and vers bottom - it all boils down to *** - satisfying your lust - so long as both the partners or a group have satisfying *** how does it matter - when you are without clothes passion takes over and then you do what your heart desires - body *** *** or get *** - if what happens is consensual and if it provides sexual pleasure - so be it!
Once it happened - I was with one bottom and one so called top - the bottom had planned a threesome - after a long foreplay with the bottom we got down to getting physical - the bottom *** my tool and then I *** him - the bottom then went to *** the other top - he refused to be *** and pleaded with me to *** him - well I *** him 2 hrs later - it was an unexpected double whammy for me - and that top was more physically stronger than me - I was satisfied he too was - he is out of town and pleads me often to visit him and *** him - but travel 6 hrs one way for a *** - I hooked up with that bottom 3 times after that - now lost contact - possibly have changed his number - *** is *** - top bottom vers are all just subjective

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Posted On Oct 25, 2020 - 03:26 PM

It's a typical conception of Indians.
So called tops or hypocrite tops r boring.
Once I meet a guy in hotel ,he is lye down on bed as naked .He said do whatever u like,i reply I don't *** with dead body,left immediately.
Another i meet a body builder in Bhubaneswar.i do play body play and gave him rimming ,den *** him.
He enjoy a lot,but request me not to say anyone bcoz in his place ,he known as a top.
Basically u must know how to enjoy *** or ur session.
So called top they don't know how to do *** and they r very snobbish .
Top shld b behave like a man as man treats women.
Change ur Orthodox mentality.

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Posted On Oct 27, 2020 - 02:20 AM

Many folks have a mentality that choosing to be top means they get to be straight. They choose not to *** and just drill into an *** but in reality, a top is a personality who has a responsibility to pleasure his partner/bottom. He should ensure that his bottom is well Seducted and satisfied sexually. No rule states that too cannot ***. Top is just a version who initiates in the sexual act and then plays well.

@wannabe tops guys do change your perception. Being top don't make you straight rather dnt keep you straight. Either you are Bisexual or gay and you have to accept it.

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Posted On Oct 30, 2020 - 01:29 AM

Its been more than 10 yrs I have been njoying gay *** as top... But 1 yr back I met 1 married guy who claimed to be bottom. We met two time initially hugs, kisses he *** my tool ,though he wanted to but due to pain avoided *** ***. Now this guy at our 4th meet requested for a blow job.... and respecting his request I did it but had lots of hesitation.... Now it has become regular with mutual blow jobs.... As we both plan for various fantasy, recently we both started cumming in each others ***... He enjoyed it and swallowed my whole ***. Even he allowed me *** his *** atleast 5 times, but with pain.... Now he has requested to *** my butt in next meet... I am actually confused where m I going.....
I am respecting his needs, but am I stepping down to which I am not?

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Posted On Oct 30, 2020 - 01:41 AM


If you are not comfortable or don't enjoy to *** your partner *** or getting *** then don't do it.

*** is to enjoy and get satisfied. Not to get into a mess of discomfort and regrets.

If you are not comfortable, just discuss with your partner and come to a mutual agreement.

If you don't like something then you don't like something. There shouldn't be beating around bushes in ***.

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Posted On Oct 30, 2020 - 01:43 AM

You are not stepping down.
If you like it, do it and enjoy it.
Be safe. Take precautions always.

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Posted On Oct 30, 2020 - 07:20 AM

@Supermeo, please do whatever you are comfortable with, else you might loose respect and that might tarnish your relation with your partner. And like others mentioned, *** is a mutual enjoyment act and not one sides.

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Posted On Oct 31, 2020 - 06:47 PM

Last year or so, I arranged a 4some at my place.
There were two bots and a vers top, and me.
The vers top fckd both of the bots, then when the bots left, the vers top stayed at my place and got fckd by me 3 to 4 times in the night.

After a week, this vers guy stayed at my place on a weekend and again we did multiple rounds of fkng. We also called other tops (one at a time) at my place and he got fckd by all of those, one after other. Then I realised he was a power-bot *** vers (who fcks also sometimes).

Later, some other day, 3 of the original 4some met again, ie me, the vers top guy and one of the bots.
In front of the bot, I tried to fk this power-bot *** vers guy, and surprisingly he started resisting. Later he told me that he did not want to get fckd in front of other bots.

I wondered, what the hell... U got fckd by me whole weekend... You called other tops and got fckd like a whore... But u feel bad, being fckd in front of other bot?

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Posted On Nov 1, 2020 - 10:51 AM

@nsfw13152, are tops not supposed to have early ejaculation? I really have no idea and so asking. But as per my understanding, ones ejaculation duration should not decide whether one is top or bottom, it is just ones desire what role one wants to play that decides whether one is top or bottom.

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Posted On Nov 1, 2020 - 10:54 AM

Sangam_m agreed but some people are top because of their ego. For example I have heard tops saying mai kabhi kisi ka muh me nai lunga ya gand nai marwaunga. It's like an interior thing that bottoms do.

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Posted On Nov 1, 2020 - 05:40 PM

99% of Indian tops are *** desperate boys who can't get a girl and hence want to use bottoms for an easy quick release. They have no respect for bottoms and consider themselves alpha or macho. They won't be able to satisfy a bottom like me. They just have weird gross fetishes like *** and *** fetish. That's all. Indian men are generally either fat chubby or completely malnourished. Like there's no middle ground at all. Smart muscular strong tops can be found in *** videos only.

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Posted On Nov 1, 2020 - 06:07 PM

@Lustybitch... I absolutely disagree with you...May be you have had a bad experience...but as far as I know indian men are so wild nd so sexy...nd they are they best guys to show ultimate pleasure

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Posted On Nov 2, 2020 - 11:22 AM

@nalasopara_26 Male sexuality n sexual roles r a lot more fluid than most of us are willing to acknowledge. While most of d times, dese aspects r more or less steady (gay, bi, straight, top, bottom, vers), a person can swing between dese depending on certain situations or phases in life. After all dese r labels n as humans v love labels. Love n *** need not b confined to rigid boundaries for any individual. As dey say, do watever u wish to as long as u don't harm anyone

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Posted On Nov 3, 2020 - 07:09 AM

I don't know what this obsession is with labels and actions. The comments here read like a balance sheet. Tops for bottoms, and versatile, *** and ***, etc. What happened to sensuality and pleasure? We are so obsessed with our egos and satisfaction that we forget the most satisfying and explosive part about *** - Using all five senses to pleasure each other and exploring all parts of the body that can give immense pleasure. Apart from the sexual organs, our whole body has nerve endings that feel and enjoy touch. There are so many erotic zones from head to toe which when pleasured in many ways, can take us to heaven and back. And *** should be like flow. Two bodies flowing into one another seeking pleasure instead of focusing on cumming is what it should be about. And once in that zone, we can allow everything to happen without wasting time on labels and egos.

This is how I like to have *** and believe me, I have made my partner's minds explode. I have left many in a wasted trance state and have myself been there. I think that is what we should aim for. After all, we are sexual beings and our bodies were made to dive deep into pleasure. If you feel so too, want to flow with me in the deep river of pleasure then ping me. Let's orgasm for hours and not seconds.

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Posted On Nov 15, 2020 - 12:42 PM

I started my journey with the so called lebel of being a top. It was fun . Occasional meets, when in session the bots would just slop my tool in turning my dried wood into lively fresh meat. There were many occasions I was being *** for hours. The better the sucker the later I would ***. Now on one occasion I met a partner whom I invited at my place. He intended to me more of a versatile top. Myself also engaged with him for a good 69. But after sometime we were bored and wanted to try something new. I told him to hump me up. Slowly I wished to take it to another level and asked him to enter me. Since he had quite a smaller tool the experiment failed. Similarly on one occasion I invited to guys to my hotel room. One was a pro bitch having a wide range of experience while the other guy was a new entrant in this world. Infact it was his first. It was very funny how he shied openin g his brief and repeatedly requesting to go back. Eventually he left without much exercises. I had a wonderful throat *** session with the oro bitch thereafter. He shared how he loved getting teared up by police in police line. Now to this day each morning I get up in a world where I wish *** lined up to drain in my throat like Nile of dry Sudan. Over the time I feel rimming is the best way to express our wilderness. Many attempt to make it clean before going for it. However I feel the real taste and real smell shouldn't be missed. Blowing air into hole for a fresh breeze and turning the locked gateway into buttery cheese pie that would ensure a perfect medieval romance. Sharing the heads of long rod with another *** looking straight into the eyes of the Greek god is also a dream that must be cherished by us all irrespective of the lebels associated of top bottom versatile and further on..

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Posted On Nov 25, 2020 - 01:00 AM

Hello, I to recognize myself as a top but sometimes the curiosity overcome me and I recognize myself as a bottom. Even now with no experience I call myself a top but that pleasure you received being a bottom, that’s amazing, and that is what I need. After reading this thread I understood that people are not fixed to one. They orient themself from top to bottom and vise-verca.

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Posted On Nov 26, 2020 - 12:52 PM

Reading all these comments really make me feel hopeless about Indian LGBTQ society. All I see is is toxic masculinity in these comments. We have a long way to go, and I wish for a day when everyone can get out of their narrow minded approaches towards sexuality. Shocked to see such boxification of tops and bots lols. Yall need to meet some fem twinks who will *** you hard better than any hairy hyper masculine guy can ever do. Decriminalisation to go gayi par bekaar ideas Abhi bhi hai?

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Posted On Nov 26, 2020 - 01:17 PM

Lack of information and education leads to strange misconceptions and prejudice. Also, societal patriarchal norms dictate one's attitudes about *** and intimacy. Sadly it restricts the ability to completely enjoy pleasure. In this whole mess of labels so many men lose out on pleasures that need them to forego compartments and definitions.

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Posted On Nov 26, 2020 - 02:48 PM


I am sure you and every user here can contribute to removing any knowledge gaps.

Sharing knowledge will help remove misconceptions.

Meeting fem twinks who will *** harder than hyper musculine men is not a solution :(

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Posted On Feb 11, 2021 - 12:50 PM

GAY *** IS GAY ***