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Afraid to visit partner place


Submitted by hugeboy Location: Bengaluru (Bangalore) (Karnataka, India)

Hi friends I am just afraid to visit who ever call me for their place for having *** because I am scared of getting spied and shared over internet and whatsapp because one of my friend experienced this situation his partner spied him while he was *** and blackmailed him for years saying he would share it every where and to his family and friends. What you guys think about this?

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afsal
Posted On Aug 9, 2018

Its always best not to go any ones rooms. Better get to any park or theatres to have fun. Anything could happen inside rooms. But outside you would have the control. Only you need to search for the best cruising spot.

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247628
Posted On Aug 10, 2018

Yes, I to heated like this. U need to do small analysis before process. However, lot of genuine guy are here and lot of activities going on also. Speak & understand the guys thought and where he was and how safe he is than decid to process or not. Use condoms. Its my opinion

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ruggedreb
Posted On Aug 10, 2018

Don't be afraid. He is taking advantage of your fear. I am sure that you are the person in trouble actually. The person blackmailing you is taking equal risk. If you are caught by people who you love they will not stop loving you. Mistakes happen. No one is perfect.

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dingdong
Posted On Aug 10, 2018

There are few options...
1. Don't just jump into *** with any guys.. take time, understand each other and indulge in fun..This will create a comfort zone for both guys... I know its will take time. But its better to have fun little late instead of worrying...
2. Don't be scared if anyone threatens.. They will take more advantage.. be brave and tell them you don't bother whatever happens.. After all, if they take video or pic, they will also be in it if its taken from spy cam kept far away. If its close up, only with your face, its your ignorance to allow him to take such pic. So, just little bit of careful will help..

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the_real_mr
Posted On Aug 10, 2018

Its all bullshit.All r sailing on the same boat.so who will blackmail man whom?
Even i went to others place many times and i called others to my room so never happened such nuisance ever.
I believe as long as you r good and transparent to the person u indulge for fun you will never ever get such bad situations.
It might happen but very rare not like whoever calling for fun to their home always they have such mindset...grown-up man.
Have dareness and faith so nothing will happen ever .


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jackscs2005
Posted On Aug 10, 2018

Friends, i prefer to visit partner place always because i can't meet at my place. Park and open space are risky for hardcore fun. I have met uncountable partners and always visit their place but never got cheater. yes good to take precautions. i always ask my partner to turn off mobile and laptop before starting any fun. It has 2 benefits, no disturbance during fun and no fear of getting shot on device. Yes if you don't want to share your place then you have to take little risk of visiting others place.

I would say chat guy before jumping for meeting to understand partner's need and his behavior. Happy hunting!!

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rajj31 *
Posted On Aug 12, 2018

Ya here most of the guys are good only. We just need to chat with each other before jumping into ***. Open places are high risk. Any third person can see you and filim you. Better to keep it indoors.

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miss_u
Posted On Aug 12, 2018

I agree with dingdong. Before meeting any new guy knowing him is better. Avoid moving his place on 1st meet or blindly without meeting. Meet the guy 1st and know him. Jumping into *** immediately after chat or talk not good one. Even if any caught by the guy in spy cam or whatever, scaring is not necessary because both will be in same ship. Don't even bother to such scare. Just reply do whatever you want to do.

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251812
Posted On Aug 19, 2018

Same problem fr me yesterday day I went to forum mall toilets in first floor one guy came n washing hands speaking something. Bt I'm afraid to rply since it is public place if something went wrong feeling weird

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Adirn
Posted On Oct 7, 2018

Hi everyone yesterday I chatted with one guy near to my place. We spoke each other and ready to meet. He said his address I went there directly beside his room one guy watching me while speaking with that guy. I'm afraid to go further so I came back since I'm tensed something went wrong. After 5 mins I called him n explained my situation he said no issues still I'm not in mood to do so I didn't went. That guy scolded me and saying u hurted my ego I will show what I'm something. I'm so scared n embarrassing. Really yesterday onwards I'm little bit tensed.

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f_aholic
Posted On Dec 26, 2018

i would advice this as follows
1. if you go to your partners place for the first time, make sure u dint carry valuables and have some money what is just needed
2. the moment you entery their house. bed room have a glance if he have anything suspicious like hidden camera and all. better play safe

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voogy
Posted On Aug 15, 2019

f_aholic is right and one more thing, after visiting the partner house if proceed for ***/fun do it in dark. Ask the partner to switch off the lights and have fun in dark. If he refuse to switch off the lights then there is something fishy is going on by that guy and immediately do some drama and come out of his place.