Tips on *** Doggy Style That Tops Often Don’t

Tips on *** Doggy Style That Tops Often Don’t Tell Bottoms

Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have *** with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their *** ;-)

SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his ***.

ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.

PUSH YOUR *** OUT. This shows the top you crave his *** in your ***. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.

PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your *** out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the *** you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.

RELAX YOUR *** SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your *** sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.

ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his *** down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ***.

REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.

COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his *** in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the *** they are ***, and seeing those *** turn a rosy color.

LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.

LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his *** up your ***.

LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE ***. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.

LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “***” OR “***.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.

SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good ***.

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No Picture rishavstoon	Posted On Jun 17, 2018 Looking for a top who can follow this with me.
No Picture gokainlove	Posted On Jun 17, 2018 U r guruji in this field
No Picture Apb	Posted On Jun 17, 2018 So cool,,,,,, informative,..😊😊
No Picture f_aholic	Posted On Jun 17, 2018 well explained.... and you forget one more thing..... moan,stammer.....i love my bottoms moans, stammer and kinda crying while getting ***. thats increases my pace and i pound hard.....
No Picture Robin robi	Posted On Jun 17, 2018 How long wil a bottom like to get fuckd on an average... How long can a top last *** a bottoms ***
No Picture Robin robi	Posted On Jun 17, 2018 i hav experienced bottom stoping aftr 3 to 4 shots...
No Picture lingraj	Posted On Jun 17, 2018 very nicely explained
No Picture abhi4579	Posted On Jun 18, 2018 Looking for one experience
No Picture dingdong	Posted On Jun 18, 2018 Muthu, that's really a great information... have noticed some of my bottoms followed these points you mentioned... and it lead to very hot session... wow..
No Picture manforsoftfun	Posted On Jun 18, 2018 I want to get *** by a top or bottom. But my *** hole is virgin and tight. I cannot enter my own finger inside. Can you please give me some tips to get ***
No Picture sambhog	Posted On Jun 18, 2018 Tops are not a different species of men. Also, no hole is so tight that one can't insert a finger. Remember, the same hole relaxes when you go the toilet in the morning. So it is mostly about your mental state. Be relaxed, find a trusting partner, lubricate well and you can take a medium sized tool easily in any hole. The bigger ones may need time and practice.
No Picture decentbottom	Posted On Jun 18, 2018 Even I never had *** experience earlier.. Looks like I should try now. Tell me one thing, are there any chances of condom getting ruptured or pulled out during such deep penetration?
No Picture 272455	Posted On Jun 19, 2018 The worst expirence , I *** a bottom in my place , I met in grinder , since mine is very thick n long tool , wen I *** him he *** on bed n my *** was layered his *** ! That wasn’t first time many times happened to me Bt last time was bad .from then I lost interest *** only .. I’m logging on aftr months now !
No Picture jackscs2005	Posted On Jun 19, 2018 Good Long list of information for bottom to enjoy!!! but i wanna share my experienced being bottom and tips for other bottoms. Whatever he said is valid just adding more tips from my end. I am bottom CD with big sexy ASSS and *** many tops of all shape and size. Hmm yes it use to pain initially but after getting regular *** now i don't feel pain and my hole is wide enough to take any Indian full size ***. (Never tried foreign ***) ;) 1. Always empty your anus before ***. Make sure you are not pooping during the ***. Always empty your stomach before ***. You can also take anima if unable to clear your anus. Or use desi trick, i.e. fill up the anus with Water and poop it out with pressure to clear it. Use toilet hose spray to fill up your anus with water and push it out. Repeat this multiple times till you anus is empty. 2. Keep your ASSS clean shaved on and around your hole. It has 2 advantages, first, top will enjoy riming it because hairs irritate licking, ***. Second, hair may cause friction during the *** and may have risk of hair pull so keep it clean. I use desi razor to clean it & always clean it before meeting. Clean it regularly. 3. Use proper lubrication for the ***. Let him eat your *** in the start. But just before he wanna go inside, put some lubrication on your hole. I use lubes if available or i prefer coconut oil becoz it has natural healing properties. Any rashes, friction will be healed by oil itself. Invite top to apply the cream / lub / oil on your ASSS hole. he will be happy to do that honor. Also ask him to apply the same on his ***. 4. Remember that natural state of hole is to keep it close and tight. So during penetration you need to guide top to go slow before it opens up for ride. Go in steps, ask him to push only *** head and take out. Later try to insert more and take out and increase the penetration. Once hole is opened then he can drive you hard. Ask top to remove if it is hurting you and give a try again. Inserting removing multiple times opens up the hole. 5. Moan creates the mood. Don't pretend but yes you can moan as you enjoy. 6. Use dildo to practice your asss. Let your ASSS used to big ***. I have 10 inch long and 1.5 inch wide dildo vibrator and use to keep it in my *** for long hours during sleep. Now naturally hole is wide enough to swallow any size ***. Hope this helps!!
No Picture billpotts	Posted On Jun 20, 2018 Oh yeah baby, all good tips for bottoms like me. Thank you sir.
AviTop28	Posted On Jun 29, 2018 Yes completely agree with all the points. If my bottom is not aware of those I always make sure to teach him. Also an enema is a must if you want to have some clean hardcore *** session (unless of course both of you are into scat).
No Picture dingdong	Posted On Jul 2, 2018 oh Jack... those are really cool tips on top of what is been presented here... yes, clean *** makes top to feel more ***... though I don't rim much... I couldn't resist few times when some of my bottoms were clean down there... I rimmed the like hell and ate their ***... they said they never had such rim before though I am not expert in it... lovely tips for hot bottoms :)
No Picture mattop	Posted On Jul 5, 2018 Hi Jack, Never use coconut oil unless you are into bareback ***. Oil ruptures the condoms
No Picture jackscs2005	Posted On Jul 6, 2018 thanks Mattop for concern!! but never faced issue with coconut oil. Though seen condom tears even with lubes. It depends on the size of *** considering my *** hole size. Never faced issue with normal size *** (6 long, 2 wide). But with bigger *** and long sessions condom tears. I have used coconut oil several times and happy to use. Kudos to Parachute!!
No Picture Lips4hugepoles	Posted On Sep 15, 2018 Pretty nice write up. I have a question. I often get pain even when my top uses cream or oil. He's very experienced so he does it gently. He opens me up with lubed fingers for few minutes and then enters slowly inch by inch. Sometimes it is manageable but last time despite everything, i couldn't take it and he was forced to *** fast. Any tips on how to lessen the pain? Especially in the deeper sections
No Picture jackscs2005	Posted On Sep 15, 2018 @Lips4hugepoles hi dude, sad to know that last *** experience was not good for you. How often you do ***? if you do it once or twice a week then it is not gonna open up. you need to play urself often with toys. You need to use plugs or vibrator or dildos. Keep them inside you and try to keep it for long like 10min, 15mins, 20 mins... increase time gradually. Slowly your hole will get use to ***. Another tip, before you meet your partner, just try to open up your hole using toy or plug. that will help you in your real meeting.
No Picture Cutewhitey	Posted On Oct 19, 2018 Also dear bots practice practice practice..... you can surely become an *** whore sooner than you think and be able to take *** of any size
No Picture mattop	Posted On Dec 14, 2018 You could also use brinjal,natural dildo closest to *** with lube to train your ***
No Picture navindiesel	Posted On Dec 15, 2018 But every top should know , they should give time for bottom to relax or make bottom to relax his sphincter muscle , instead some top will always be in hurry to penetrate there *** in bottom's ***. With that it pains like a hell, making bottom disappointed. Penetration of top should be like the bottom should love it .Be slow and calm in penetration
No Picture Lips4hugepoles	Posted On Dec 15, 2018 Ya. Usually inexperienced tops just push it in 1 thrust. If his kebab is long n thick, that's the end of any pleasure you were expecting.
No Picture Ameerbottom01	Posted On Apr 1, 2020 Better to use durex gliding jel which is silica or water based gel.. it will not tear condom.. use of coconut or other oil it will tear condom.. so please apply water based gel or silica based gel to avoid tearing of condom
No Picture love4u515	Posted On May 17, 2021 Doggy style is my favourite styles. I always like to be bet *** by someone big Lunds in this style. But my bad luck that U can't meet someone big Lunds to *** my *** hole.