I have been having fun with guys since 2002. Back then it was quite easy, I just had to use a different web browser to the default on my Karol and keep the history clear. Now with smartphones it is more difficult. I use grindr, WhatsApp, planet romeo and ohmojo. Most of the time I just use ohmojo because I can do private browsing with Chrome which leaves no history. All others are tricky because they mean I need either a hookup app or *** pics on my phone. By keeping my phone clean of incriminating evidence I can leave wit lying around the house with no fear, this means no suspicion which means I can play with guys more easily :)
Another tip I have is not to use emojis as they have their own history. If your wife is savvy she may want to know why your most emoji is one with love hearts when you never send her love hearts!
How do you manage your secret love life? As a married man are you a top or a bottom? What sort of guys do you prefer, masc or fem!
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puneetpanesar | Posted On Mar 15, 2018
As an unmarried bottom, married top men are such turn-ons! Love to kiss them! |
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billpotts | Posted On Mar 15, 2018
I like meeting other married men because I feel they are likely clean and it is safe for them to *** me raw and leave their *** in my ***. |
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the_real_mr | Posted On Mar 15, 2018
I love married men as they know how to satisfy a person on bed and they r matured,sensible too. Love to have with them. |
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Saiguru | Posted On Mar 16, 2018
Good one, even I also married, I avoid below 24 years old to meet before meeting them they show more attitude ask many nonsense questions after meeting them they message like a bitch.
I am vers top...
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Ashpal72 | Posted On Mar 17, 2018
I think the best way to browse this site or any other similar site is through chrome incognito. This way you will not have any browsing history. I don't know about app usage though as I don't use any app like grinder etc.
I like being with married men too, provided they are clear & like minded, of course cleanliness, hygiene etc is of top priority.
Moreover, before indulging in any kind of sexual intemicy would prefer to be friends first, understand each other & then see where the relationship can go.
So far I have seen that people who contact from this site are 99% interested only in *** & I have to turn my back on them coz I am not interested in one night stand kind of thing.
I know, married men also have the feelings which they want to explore & enjoy but due to the social reasons they are not able to do so....well I completely respect their feeling's & wish I could help them in releasing their emotions & some more....... |
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san1980 | Posted On Mar 17, 2018
Married men with unsatisfied wife or humiliating wife, can enjoy this type of ***. Also, gay guys are friendly and can share much to remove mental pressures.. |
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282549 | Posted On Mar 17, 2018
Married men sleep with gay men only because they want to! All the remaining excuses are simply pointless! As long as they treat the gay men with respect as equals on bed its okay! |
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Ashpal72 | Posted On Mar 17, 2018
Guys, one has to understand the basics, if a guy is gay or bi it's not because he is unsatisfied or humiliated by wife or female. In maximum cases marriage comes at a very later stage, by that time guy very well knows if he is gay or not. If he gets married is because of social / society/ family etc etc....& After that he becomes a bi.....now the point is if he is & if he can satisfy his wife's sexual needs & he is happy, then the option is with him to be a bi orr hetro. I think there is nothing wrong with it. And if a married guy indulges in *** with another guy it's obviously after mutual respect & consent. |
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billpotts | Posted On Mar 17, 2018
Eloquent last posting. My response was going to be shorter, cryptic and mocking:
So many stereotypes, so little time |
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282549 | Posted On Mar 17, 2018
And so much hypocrisy! |
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Ashpal72 | Posted On Mar 17, 2018
@kisser30.....sorry I didn't understand your last comment about hypocrisy....can you please be more elaborate...for better understanding...... |
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282549 | Posted On Mar 18, 2018
Ashphal72, there are double standards about married men who sleep witih other men! I was only saying that there are all kinds of people in the world and one should not judge them easilyI A married man might decide to sleep around for a lot of reasons and it is okay!
Statements like they have *** with gay men because their wives are bad on bed or are ugly iare only stupid and hypocritical! If they are having fun its their choice and one shd respect it! |
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mmmw | Posted On Mar 18, 2018
I am married and yes I use grindr, PR, ohmojo, and whatsapp. I do this because I want to. I have a phenomenal *** life with my wife. She does everything a man can ask for - role play, bj, *** *** etc.
So, why do I do this? I like to see and feel the male body once in a while. I don’t need a ***. Just the look and feel and jack off is great.
Oh, and I have a passcode for my phone so that she doesn’t open it :). I am sitting next to her while writing this.
That said, I am not an *** or a hypocrite. If she wants to sleep around, I will support it. And, if she already is doing it, good for her. |
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282549 | Posted On Mar 18, 2018
Married men are actually cool if you want a typical NSA, friends only fun! It gets a lil messy if one gets attached!
I like wat u said mmw :) and no I never referred to married men sleeping wid men as hypocrites, the hypocrite comment was for some other comment about obnoxious wives ;) |
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mmmw | Posted On Mar 18, 2018
Oh I know what you meant kisser30. My comment was not fiestas you :). It was just a general gyaan for people lol |
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283150 | Posted On Mar 19, 2018
I love married men quite a lot! They are usually very warm and very good on bed (ones I ve slept with!) And mostly they re into NSA so I like it! |
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freefun2017 | Posted On Mar 20, 2018
how easy is it to handle a dual lifestyle like this.
I mean at home acting straight and in your own private space cruise men.
I have been married for quiet some time. and noticed that over a period of time my inclination towards my wife has reduced
I have not had any major encounter with men as well. but yet, always juggling a dual personality. |
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mmmw | Posted On Mar 20, 2018
I am married for some time too. My wife has big beautiful boobs and is a great kok sucker. So, that keeps me hard any day. I am more sexual than average, I guess. I don’t fool around with guys much. |
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Dhaasoo | Posted On Mar 25, 2018
Being married it does not make me stop from getting attracted from guys. I have a good *** life at home frm my marriage but getting the joy of seeing a nude man and feeling him is completely diff world. I tried for sometime to get a good friend with whom i can open being what i am. But till now its just my fantasy.. however i enjoy *** at home now.. |
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hot_cruze_fun | Posted On Apr 23, 2018
Tendency for married men is usually to look for other married men for obvious reasons of privacy etc.. |
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billpotts | Posted On Apr 23, 2018
This married man has developed a love of northeastern men from the sister states. How do I meet them in Bangalore? |
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masterbot | Posted On Apr 24, 2018
@billpotts I too have similar tastes they are aplenty here. But be careful as the good with the bad as there quite a few who will ask for money. (Not stereotyping but make sure those wires don't get crossed) |
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285478 | Posted On May 15, 2018
I like married men quite a lot! They are good on bed generally and don't get into extreme attachment usually! Its good to have a married man riding me |
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Binature | Posted On May 15, 2018
Hi guys, for me married men are more suitable. We have a maturity that real young ones lack.
I'd like to meet with married bisexuals, speak about each other's wife's. Play with each other. |
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Amesha | Posted On Nov 9, 2019
How many married men in this group feel that they should have never married?
Respond by raising the number, ex: I am starting the thread saying 1, next one 2, next one 3, goes on...
Just to get a pulse on being gay and not happy with dual life.
Count: 1 |
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intro_vert | Posted On Dec 6, 2019
I have a friend with benefits and yes a married man. He loves his wife and bad a great *** life at home. He loves to be dominated and *** and we have steaming hot *** when we meet. We are good friends too and in the same profession. Physical intimacy between us is very casual...just like having a dinner with a buddy. |
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blackchocolatei | Posted On Jan 1, 2020
am married.*** life is good.. but love to have fun with M too...had two soft experience ...
looking fwd to meet genuine married guys for good friendship with fun |
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ChubbyKundi | Posted On Jun 15, 2021
Don't trust people who don't upload body pics or info about them. Don't trust lazy people. |
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Dombot26 | Posted On Mar 8, 2022
Many think it's straightforward with married guys but it isn't true , they want to explore more and try different things .
And you know it's safer to meet married guys as they go an extra mile to be anonymous and don't think on spending for safeties and good rooms.
Yes their number one concern is safety and anonymity , but most of the married guys are caring ( one's that I have met ) and try to spoil you. Sometimes it's not so easy for them to go with the flow in the bedroom but once they do , they are too good .
There's always an end to a relationship or a causal hookup with a married guy,so enjoy all the time with them.
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arundevpp | Posted On Jul 20, 2023
Based on the topic of this thread.. I'd like to share my experience being a married bi man.
I've been a bisexual since I was very young. I've had *** with my ex girlfriends and many guys before. I have a good Sexlife with my wife as well. I still crave for men at times and have *** with guys too when I can.
I've created a second space (multiuser) on my phone and kept passcode (no face unlock and no fingerprint) so my wife will never unlock this space/user. So I have my alternate WhatsApp, telegram, kik, blued, Twitter, reddit, mewe etc here and all stored images/vids are safe here. Both spaces/users will be like a totally different phone.
Only thing you can see shared is the call history and sms that too if you enable it. All married men or those who lives a double life can try it..
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LoveBJ | Posted On Aug 2, 2023
For me, my married life have been complicated.
Have caught my wife kissing her boyfriend and have seen used condoms in trash too sometimes.
When confronted she told it won't happen again. But want to tell her that I like men too.
How to break the news of being gay to wife is all that I think?
Any suggestions? |
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CasualFunOnly | Posted On Aug 2, 2023
@LoveBJ If you 2 do not have that kind of trust level, there's another way. Encourage her to be sexually open. Give her the "hall pass", not just with her bf but others also, casual *** n physical fun. Slowly, get into 3some with her....then, try for bisexual 3somes.
It would take time n lot of effort but may get you to a place where you could come out in open. |
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GojoJija | Posted On Aug 3, 2023
@LoveBJ,
Start watching some MMF Po*n with her to let her open for her desires , If you have ur bf you can invite him .
You can try to watch FFM videos too , check what's her interest . |
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Matured_Bott * | Posted On Aug 4, 2023
@loveBj its a tough situation.. women can changecthere thoughts any time… i have been there… so just enjoy..
I have done the same…if i am not able to give her satisfaction she is getting it else where… it gives me a good high thinking of it though.. only wish even i can join along with them.. too…
I use only ohmojo and tele.. I prefer outdoor a lot.. |
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