Safe *** and BJ for Bottoms/CDs/TGs/TVs

Being a good bottom is not easy! You have to give BJ to your Top and give your *** for ***. Many Tops do not care about safety. They want their tools to be *** bare and wants to *** their partner's *** (without or without condom) using oil or baby lotion or vaseline. These days Tops are worried about HIV and wants to *** only using condom. But, they do not care a damn about their partner's health. How often have the Tops coerced you into doing *** by applying oil or baby lotion? My dear bottom friends, these practices are unsafe for your health. Come on, you have to live longer and healthier. You have to stand up and say no to certain things which the Tops ask you to do. You all invest lots of time and effort to search the internet for gay dating, etc. Spend some time to learn something about having safe fun. Tops are generally illiterate about many things. They do not have to care much. Being a bottom, it is your responsibility to take the initiative. Below are some pointers for having safe fun:

(1) Never ever give a bare BJ. Use a flavored condom. These days it is easily available in medical shops. You can lightly kiss and tease the tool of your partner using your fingers. But, no *** without the flavored condom. If you do not have money to buy it, ask your Top to purchase a packet of 3. It will only cost around 30 rupees.

(2) Never ever do *** without condom. Never ever use oil or baby lotion or vaseline for anals. Tops will force you to apply these. But, please do not apply these. These are not good for the rectum lining and will cause *** fissure or infections over the long term. Please remember that Tops have nothing to loose in the *** business. They are safe if they use just a condom. But, you are not. Invest in a jel and apply it for *** intercourse. You can use the easily available multi-purpose Lubic Gel (made in India). It will cost you less than 200 rupees (I have used Lubic). You may also use K-Y Jelly, Pjur Backddor, or Astroglide. These are a little expensive though. Use the internet to learn more about using these gels. I prefer to use water based gels, because it is easy to wash away and will not stick inside, thus reducing the chances of infection. Oil, vaseline, baby lotion etc. cannot be washed away easily. Some part of it will remain stuck inside your rectum and can cause severe infections. There are many more brands available in the market and you can know more about them in the internet. If you do not have the money to buy a jel, you will need to ask your Top to purchase it and come. Else, do not give your *** for *** ***. Or, both of you can share and buy one jel.

(3) If your Top wants you to rim him, please use a dental dam. It is easily available in many medical stores. I do not have to tell you why you need a protection for this. Licking and swallowing his balls, is your wish. If you really want to it, go ahead. But, in my opinion avoid doing such things to your Top. Also, refrain from deep tongue kissing that involves saliva.

(4) After the intercourse, have a good bath in warm water using a soap. Skin related infections will not occur if you do this.

The idea behind all this is to avoid body fluid contact as much as possible. Many infections spreads though body fluids. If you just have one partner, then all these are not applicable. These points are relevant because you have multiple partners. I agree that, you may not get the "real feel" if you use all these protection / safety. Well, the decision is up to you. Do you want to risk your health and life for a few moments of pleasure? Or do you want to have decent pleasure for a long time by maintaining good health? You decide. By the way, only in rare cases I have met literate Tops. All the other Tops that I have met, have no clue about many things though they are educated and are in a good career. Please invest time in the internet to learn about having safe fun, if you are meeting multiple partners.

All this is based on my experience being a bottom for over 10 years. I know several people who have contracted STDs (not HIV). They were not taking adequate precautions regarding safety. Did they get STDs because they were not playing it safe? Most probably, yes!

Best wishes,

Maala

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