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Problems in Dating, Harassment, Cheating and Fraud


Submitted by [deleted] Location: Ahmedabad (Gujarat, India)

Trouble or Facing problem while dating or meeting.?

This also isn't about place but support and helping thread to prevent other guys from cheating or harassment.

Post your experiences here and also ways to be cautious and prevent bad things from happening.

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shahnavazsheikh
Posted On May 18, 2016

This is suggestion , if some straight guy ready to have *** with you, confirm that he is interested, otherwise some will ask huge amount of money, if u really want to have *** with him, ask do u take money for this??,if yes how much? Then deal.
Confirm his mobile is in his pocket and he is not doing any recording.
Better stay away person asking Money.And don't share personal mobile number with them

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Love2
Posted On Apr 21, 2018

I got fooled by a cheat recently in Baroda. I met him on Grindr chat. He said he is top about 30years old, he sghared his nude pictures and also face picture. He came to meet me, I asked him to bring condom. In my hotel rom, he became nude and asked me to kiss his boobs and *** them. I was doing but he did not have ***. He asked me to lick near his groin area. he surrounded my head with his legs. I am very careful so I had kept my wallet in bag. I later realised that when he put legs around my head and covered it, he removed money and other valuables from my bag. I checked it after he left. I lost lot of cash... Be careful with guys like this.

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shail4u143
Posted On Sep 15, 2018

Yesterday i met with one man in public loo near law garden. He was not having a vehicle and told me that he is having a place. I was feeling *** and desparately I went with him. He asked ne to stop my vehicle near one building and parked my bike.But he took away my bike's key trickily and started threatening me. I havent shown any sign of fear. And talked to him politely.
Thank god i havent carried my cell ohone and wallet with me. Even he asked ne that if i have carried any condoms or medicine and checked my pockets but i was having nothing. His intention was to blackmail me.

I have talked to him oolitely and confidently so once he was feared and let me go.

So be aware of such guys..

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Rikunj
Posted On Sep 16, 2018

Thanks shail...

Even i post in most comments, if people take u soemwhr make sure its not very silent.
2. Always i suggest carry pepper spray easily available online.

3. Shout if its a little public place very loudly, cheater may fear & run.

4. After 377 decrimilization dont get afraid of cops or someone who is giving police DHAMKI.

5. Judge people and if its law garden try play inside or amul parlour loo. Dont travel too much be confident, brave, NEVER CARRY VALUEABLES, na ya pls pepper spray.

Its very tiny bottle but very effective.


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shail4u143
Posted On Sep 17, 2018

Yes. one need to deal it with confidence.
If we will show fear to them than they will not keave us easily.

Anyway.. learnt from this experience.. even b4 in jamnagar i have faced this kind of situation with two guys. And handled that situation bravely.

So guyss.. Beware.. and if sonething happened though..
Be Brave and Be Strong.

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Adihotie18hot
Posted On Dec 26, 2023

Guys please be aware there are many fraudsters out there.
Many gangs are there at different areas in Ahmedabad
I myself have been victim twice and i have heard from my closed ones too

Places like vastral, sabarmati, gandhinagar Or any lonely places please be very very careful before meeting any person.

I would suggest to make a video call first and meet at a public place and if u feel ok then only proceed.

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Manumitz
Posted On Jan 1, 2024

Yes agree with the previous comment. These guys cheat us and like to extract money. They make you call home and try to reveal us in front of family members. There is one gang at Ghatlodiya behind the temple. Also don't rely only on video call. Sometimes they change places. It is true. I want other innocent guys not to get cheated. Lot of manipulation can happen.

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Adihotie18hot
Posted On Jan 1, 2024

Yes true very true
I myself have been in this difficult situation and u feel lost because u r alone and u can't get help or support from anyone but these guys exploit u fully.
These guys generally send fake pics, they try to avoid video calls, they will give u 100 reasons for not to do video calls, they will call u to some lonely places where public is less.
Guys please be very careful. It's for your own safety.

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chubby38
Posted On Jan 17, 2024

Adihotie18hot - i actually dont do VC or send nudes because people can record that and blackmail us. However, its always there in mind that the person meeting might be a fraud.

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Adihotie18hot
Posted On Jan 17, 2024

How will any person can blackmail us with A normal vcall ? Plus we can say that someone called nd I picked the call. That's it
We should nit to random nude vcall

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chubby38
Posted On Jan 17, 2024

they can record the VC and use it blackmail later.. based on the content of vc..