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With many hook up sites and app, we all look for some quick ***. Now that leaves us think when was the last time did we actually flirt with a guy .. More interestingly without a no *** agenda.. Share your flirting experiences from romantic to erotic ;)

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dilse4u
Posted On Jul 24, 2018 - 10:03 AM

Very dangerous activity, you never know when and how person will react, if it's in positive manner it's like heaven, if it's in negative manner it will be hell.

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Darkstarchild
Posted On Jul 25, 2018 - 07:38 AM

Im gay.. but ive always had great flirting luck with straight bi curious men.. im not girly but can be.. and im a bottom.. but somehow only straight or bi curious guys come to me.. gay guys never really made the cut .., its so weird..

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dals
Posted On Jul 25, 2018 - 01:25 PM

Dilse 4 u -what acorrect observation
Maa chud jaati hai jab galat hathon pad jao

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Mr khan
Posted On Jul 25, 2018 - 03:04 PM

Can anyone give some tips or advice how to flirt with a guy. And is there any way by which we can no whether the guy is gay or he is interested in us.

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BarneyMao
Posted On Jul 25, 2018 - 03:21 PM

Flirting is one marvellous experience. I remember the last time I flirted, like really good was in 2016. I had gone for an exhibition *** conference. After looking at some stalls I stopped at one stall and there was no one there. I wasn't interested in the conference so I just asked who was there. At first, a man walked up but soon he sent another guy. I was about to move on when I saw this guy with a stud on his ear and nimble physique, obviously my type. So I sat down and really gave him the hardest time of his life. I flirted with him asking him his phone number. I precisely said that I want your personal number. I don't want official chat with you. This went on for about 30 minutes and finally we went into the conference room together, where he showed me his Grindr.

We are good friends still. Sometimes we laugh at how I came on to him. I slapped his tight arse when I found the time. God he freaked out.

I do miss flirting. Grindr and PR etc have made dating simpler yet have taken the thrill of the chase.

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Valentine84
Posted On Jul 25, 2018 - 08:53 PM

Flirting has always been an integral part of my gay life.. Those long chats of various topics of no importance.. The constant giggles and comments ... More the hitting the bed daily, a nice flirty chat could also keep me satisfied.. After all man is a social animal and not necessarily we look out for ***..

Best means of flirting in my view point are phone chats and video calls... From the days of SMS to the current trend of instant messaging apps, phone chat has been a great medium to flirt.. Next video calls, of course sometimes even strip episodes had happened in video calls, but blowing a butterfly kiss in the air while on a video chat .. Making funny faces, romantic looks etc.. Etc..all done over the video call are certain experiences I have had in the past and at sometimes in present too..

There are days where the calls would run for hours.. Very recently (one of my friends from ohmojo) and myself had a marathon chat for almost 8 hours on a cumulative result of the combined hours of multiple chat within a same day.

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janedon
Posted On Jul 28, 2018 - 01:37 PM

I'm never quite sure when someone is actually interested in me or they are just being friendly--
Hell--I can't evn pick out if guys are straight, Gay OR???
Anyone have some insight to share?? Jane

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Mg_123
Posted On Jul 28, 2018 - 03:13 PM

I kind of have the same issue. Cannot locate a gay guy. Gaydar not functional. Helpful guys please advise.

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BarneyMao
Posted On Jul 29, 2018 - 07:29 AM

Many of my straight friends keep asking me, how I am able to pick on the gay vibe of a guy. You actually get that vibe when you are near the person or rather it's just a feeling inside. The Gay radar can't be explained I believe. But there are always some subconscious signs.

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Sagardvg
Posted On Jul 29, 2018 - 06:54 PM

@barbeyMao
Please share some tips
M introvert n it's the biggest problem for me to talk to a stranger, also feared of rejections.
M not good at approaching ppl
Wonders happen only by talking but I find it quite difficult to talk to a stranger than how can I flirt ?
Pls share a few basic things tht we need to know

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rajron
Posted On Jul 30, 2018 - 03:20 AM

I m frequent traveller and like interacting with strangers. Trick here lies in approaching someone who you feel you can handle if flirting derails. Unfold discussions slowly and it shall sound natural. No need to rush and jump to bed. Carry yourself with lots of grace and style and needless to say you shall look pleasant. Success rate will be high. Rmmbr in todays world there are tons of closet gays, bis with whom you may flirt. Be careful as lots of this depends on how good is coordination between your gut and brain..

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dilse4u
Posted On Jul 30, 2018 - 11:21 AM

Nice suggestions, but is it that simple the way you have explained...

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Monte carlo
Posted On Aug 1, 2018 - 05:43 PM

Ok so anyone have tried to flirt with normal guys like taxi guys, courier guys, swiggy guys, uber eat guys, office staff. I m literally having fantasy to just have fun with this guys. Sometimes u find them perfect from all angles like body, hieght,etc.
Also I find some college student who are damn hot & sexy and also think of having fun with them. Even office going guys are hot.

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Harshid
Posted On Aug 4, 2018 - 04:38 AM

Start with simple conversation is the best start point of flirt.. just build the conversation slowly and half of the way you will come to know where it goes..
Recent times I did the same and got succeed as well.. he s a shop owner for small textile business ..around 28 yrs...he looks good and nice gym physique...I did visit along with my frnd..while my frnd went to trial room I started a conversation with the shop owner..I just started appreciating the way he organised the shop and collections.. we stopped in between when my frnd returns from trial room..finally that day got over with the number exchange ...further conversation started thru mobile..after a month we had a good session:-) hope u can understand what I meant.. seems he s very much new and I can easily guessed the way he react in b***..
Nice experience ..still our conversation goes interns of consoling him as he felt guilty on that day..now he s fine ..

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wingedcupid
Posted On Aug 4, 2018 - 10:11 PM

I find talking in english is a good way to flirt with many guys who are in delivery..reception etc. Most ppl like to converse in english and attempt to hang on with the conversation even if they are st8

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Elder51forboys
Posted On Aug 8, 2018 - 02:45 PM

i flirt a lot....love it
guys feel comfortable becos if my age and my straight manly mannerisms
no signs of gay or femjnism i show
i behave like a straight friend

being friendly n smiling is the biggest thing i use to flirt....

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Sagardvg
Posted On Aug 14, 2018 - 08:09 PM

it's really annoying when ur crush calls u bro
M not good at talking to people n don't get along with them
It's the biggest problem in me
Sometimes it happens tht u r attracted to someone after a point of time u won't hv any feeling like tht later
How to stop staring at good looking guys ?
I keep staring them in public or in bus or in office
Some guys hv feminine body language but are actually straight
I hv seen them in my office
Any suggestions ?


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HeadsTailsAndHo
Posted On Aug 15, 2018 - 05:13 AM

@SagarDvg
Most of your lines are true for me too.
But I don't mind being called Bro, and I also call others Bro. I use it as synonym for Buddy, Dude, Sexy, Handsome... I rarely say HI DEAR... If someone is friendly, I use HI BRO, HI BUDDY, HI SEXY, HI HANDSOME...

Now about decrease in liking... That is human nature... I remember a scene from past... I saw a hunk in my office, same floor but different part of the floor where I used to go rarely. But to check him out, I started going to that section regularly for no reasons.
Later somehow we got to know each other and started greeting each other with HI HELLO... and then my crush on him reduced to very low.

Now about staring... There is no harm in staring on someone... Just make sure, you do without being noticed.. by him or by anyone else (which is difficult). If you stare people in public area, it is very least harmful. Mostly people avoid the stares from strangers. Rarely people get aggressive when someone stare at them.
In office or in common place, if you stare someone, he will certainly come and ask u if he knows you or so.

Regarding feminine str8 guys... I have no comments. Everyone has different perception on such things.

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BarneyMao
Posted On Aug 17, 2018 - 01:24 PM

I will share an experience I had at a pub in Mumbai a month ago. This guy was the bouncer there and I really liked his body. It started with casual talk and about his place, where he lives, his family and such social talk. After a few minutes, when I was sure that he would agree to bend ;), I just started staring at his booty. This happened quite a few times, as I continued casual talk. After some time, I asked when he would get off. Getting the cue, he called his break time guy and we went off to a secluded space where ... well.... thats history. Called him to my hotel the next morning and another steamy hot session followed.

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Nandu-pandya
Posted On Sep 10, 2018 - 05:51 AM

Hv feeling for one my childhood friend and I'm childhood we do such some stuffs, he is awesome. But now I am requesting to keep relationship but he don't reply. He is reading my msgs but not blocking me and not replying me. Chasing him from last 5 years, I wrote what I feel about him. If I get him I won't need anything more, yes I love him. Even I had drunk alcohol with him I'm this period but I never force him to keep relationship. Anybody can suggest what he wants ? I m confused , he is married and have 2 kids,
Before 6 years his wife approached and told me that she has feeling for me, i talked with her for few months on msgs, one day I went to meet her at her home, but with genuineness I didn't forced her to do ***, after thn I irritated and had some arguments on our relationship, we are not in touch now but I think she shared this with her husband. But whenever iet her husband he never shown anything about that, even he met comfortably with me , i m damn confused about ths behavior,

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rainman
Posted On Sep 10, 2018 - 06:10 AM

Hi guys..
The idea of flirting with a guy can be intimidating..especially if it's your first experience..
As flirting with women a compliment can be a good ice breaker..there would be something in the guy which you liked because of which you wanted to flirt with him in the first place!!
Try being honest and try not to depend on cheesy pick up lines..it actually depends on you..pick up lines don't work for me or maybe I donno how to use them 😜😜

The most common ice breaker I use is "guess you used to work out a lot earlier..it actually shows in your posture"

P.S: I go for older men!

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relishing_love
Posted On Sep 12, 2018 - 04:24 AM

Recently met someone in a professional course. Though he's younger to me but he's mature enough in his thinking and we gel very well. He's not a localite and has come in from another city. I'm a mumbai localite. I simply can't get him off my mind. I help him in all aspects of his professional course studies and we eat/roam out but I have an urge to meet him daily. Our lectures are held during the weekend. Nothing sexual but just that I like his company. He looks hot though and has a huge girls list who are after him. I keep waiting for his messages on WhatsApp and get worried when he doesn't message. He hasn't messaged me since past 3 days and I'm already feeling low. I don't know how to avoid getting into all this. Any suggestions please?

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Varunx
Posted On Sep 12, 2018 - 05:26 PM

@ Relishing_love
Since you said he is mature enough and that you both spend lot of time together. It is probably that he might also have same feelings for you. His avoiding you for past 3 days could be for some reason that he might have realised your importance and might have fear in mind. It happens when you like someone. I would suggest gather some courage and talk to him frankly and openly. Let him know that even if his feelings are not as yours, you value his frienship nevertheless. Be brave and go for it, there is nothing to lose.

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Shriram
Posted On Sep 12, 2018 - 05:55 PM

@relishing_love same way same story happened to me while I was doing my CA course. He is now a CA and I'm just a b.com. still we meet. He gets crush on girls, he was dejected like how u were and I was also dejected. My studies spoiled.. we roamed together and even now we roam together.. I have felt possessive about him. All said and done I'm 26 and have miserably failed in my professional studies. But I'm his best friend and he is mine. Even this minute I feel like dying if he accepts me. But I've no guts to open up! Now I've quit my course and have joined some other course.. I'm trying to distant myself from him and trying to concentrate on my health and life.
My suggestion to you is, doing involve yourself in a relationship which will spoil your professional growth. As a gay, we have to lead a life which is all alone and for which we need financial independency. Make yourself financially strong, independent and then get into all these matters. At least have a job that will pay you a decent amount to take care of your parents and yourself. Then do whatever you want.

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rainman
Posted On Sep 13, 2018 - 04:46 AM

Totally disagree..being gay is not a sentence to be a martyr..

If one doesn't accept who he/she is then such thoughts come up I guess

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relishing_love
Posted On Sep 22, 2018 - 04:36 AM

Thanks guys for your comments

Our course is now over and he has travelled back to his city. I guess this will be the end of this lovely relationship :( I'm still unable to understand his feelings for me. Though he keeps calling and messaging me and taking interest in things I do in my life. He shares very little about his own though. I feel it's better to be away from him rather than feel bad about it later!! I had a similar thing when I was abroad ( with an Indian guy) but he's now married... life is really cruel and I always end up looking for love amongst the straight ones. The sad part is they too reciprocate because of the love and attention they get from me but by the time I realise the reality things are too late!!

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relishing_love
Posted On Sep 22, 2018 - 04:40 AM

The worst part is he using Tinder and showing me how these girls are ga ga over him!! So many matches on Tinder :)

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Sagardvg
Posted On Sep 22, 2018 - 07:18 PM

@ relishing_lov
U need to figure out the reason of being attracted to him
Is it *** or relationship ?
Guys share some tips on approaching a guy
How to strike a conversation with anyone ?

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relishing_love
Posted On Sep 25, 2018 - 09:54 AM

@Sagardvg

I really can't figure that out. I know he's getting close to me because he needs professional help from me. I'm happy to help him and already doing that but once that is done I'll be the lonely one. That's what scares me. As he's new to the industry he's fully dependent on me and I'm dependent on him for emotional connect :/

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Ryan13
Posted On Sep 30, 2018 - 08:59 AM

Flirting with guys can be fun if not full of thrills, not all flirts end in bed but we'll u never know. It might even start so called bromance lol , I personally prefer atleast little flirting with even random pickups, it makes them feel good and gives you a good feeling too :-).

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Sagardvg
Posted On Sep 30, 2018 - 04:56 PM

I wd lov to flirt with guys
I hv a hot colleague some times I get attracted n some times I don't but I hv crush on him
I try to avoid his presence as much as possible
I try to maintain distance
Should I talk to him ?