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I think everyone of us agree that being gay or bisexual is not just about lust or sexual pleasure. Everyone might have had memorable experience with someone spl in a non sexual way. It might be with your friend, gay friends, gay partners or anyone for that sake. If you don't made let's share those experience too

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 08:50 AM

during an industrial visit to mumbai from my college, we group of around 30 classmate have booked in train..during the journey at night it was too chill and my best friend can't able to manage without bedsheet..i had one bedsheet for me..so he just volunteerly came and slept inside my bedsheet .we were hugging each other in a single birth ..it was too cool it made shivering too..the breathe of both of us were too close enough ..his legs are almost tied up with my legs..no more gaps between us...bt didn't touch his *** ...that night was so romantic.... there was no *** no lust .. i felt it as heaven! i just need that night again in my life.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 10:11 AM

My experience was with a friend at University in UK. We were housemates he was at a foreign country for the first time. We met on chat looking for room to stay in Orkut. He was younger to me n desperately looking for a place to stay during the studies. We both found a beautiful individual house just 5 mins walkable distance to the University with a great view and a most happening pub a block away. We both planned to travel together from India n used the opportunity to talk all the way in flight and know about each other. By the time we landed up in London we became close. Our friendship started that way and we got comfortable in our house with our individual rooms. We loved hanging out with each other n cooking together, shopping and it was a great company. It was Christmas break n things were getting lonely n dull n extremely cold that year lowest temp in UK was -18°c. He was New to the weather n took sometime to adjust. So we use to sit around the fireplace n chat n had hot coffee n hot chocolates he would have some beer n talk all our school n college experience. As we were talking and talking we fell asleep on the couch and out of nowhere we were hugging each other in sleep n suddenly both of us were aware of our heat in this sleep, but just ignored n continued to cuddle in our heat n hugged each other n slept in front of the fire place with snow falling out in the window. That was the best nap I have ever had so far, nothing sexual happened but that moment of heat the touch n cozy feeling bought us closer. After this incident we became much closer without any inhibitions we walked in underwear in the house, cooked in undies or just boxers on. Worked out together n so many things. Once he even spoke to me anna that day sleep was the best. We never had anything sexual the entire time, but lived the raw energy between us.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 11:37 AM

I guess everyone has atleast one friend, a best friend probably, on whom we had crush , who seemed to have reciprocated sometimes but is a straight. I have such a friend. We met on the day one of first year of college. The day we moved to hostel, I found him standing outside his room which is next to mine. We shared some small talk. And then he walked into my room and then we talked for hours - on the first day itself. He is not from my department. So we had to go to different classrooms but as soon as we reach hostel its just us. We would keep on talking through the night. He would always be in my room. I had one more roommate who was very silent about all these - till the end. Later by second year he had to move to another hostel. Then he took a room outside along with his classmates. But he would always visit and stay with me in the room. Or talk over phone for hours. Even when I go home for weekend we would talk for hours over phone. We had shared same bed for years. Cuddled. Sometimes peck on the cheek, or eyes, or rubbing the lips etc happened but nothing more. He has had girlfriends. But everybody in col knew we had some special bond. Some assumed we were into some sexual relationship. He has some hint that I am a bi. He is straight. But has shared intimate moments and has even told me once that he had a dream where we both kissed. He is very complex to understand. Anyway he is and will be one of my best friends. Now he is working in Europe. I know someday would come when we will have to talk about 'it'.

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Posted On Dec 6, 2017 - 06:35 PM

Nice topic - So many of them .....but one common thing I sense is we all seem to make the most genuine and the most unconditional friendships either in school or college as we grow older and get into the big bad world of the corporate workforce Our friendships change with the company.

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Posted On Sep 26, 2018 - 06:15 PM

I have a collegue who is a bit senior to me. Since the time I moved into this location (which happens to be a very remote one), we two made an amazing bond. Mainly because our choices match in almost everything - be it books, music, movies or hobbies. We are really close and even the physical inhibition is also very less among us. Like we've both seen each other in only underwear numerous times while on trips.
After a lot of anxiety about losing the friendship, I finally came out to him a few days back. He was silent for the whole time and that made me worried. I was almost sobbing near the end and urged him not to break the bond between us. But to my surprise, he hugged me very tightly for a long time, then planted a kiss on my forehead and told that no matter what, he will airways be with me.
I was so relaxed after that incident. About 15-20 days have passed since then and he has kept his words. I just feel super lucky to get someone like him in my life.

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Posted On Sep 26, 2018 - 07:09 PM

Not fully non sexual, but I get butterflies when my partner just rests his head on my ***, or we sleep naked together n just talk. 😢 Miss that feeling

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Posted On Sep 27, 2018 - 02:40 AM


For me too, many of such moments have come to my life... When it was much above the sexual pleasure and lust...

And I am sharing the latest one... Yester night's...

Yesterday on a gay portal, I got to meet a very nice masculine rugged guy... And when I got his call on my phone, his number flashed as Police (Thanks to TruCaller). I could now related the tag with his looks seen on a short video call.
For me, cops, force guys, athletes are like dream guys.

Anyways, cutting long story short, he came to my place in the night to stay over (as he was in Pune for some official work from a nearby city). We chit chatted, we had tea, then we had more chit chat, then we had dinner at home, then besides sharing bed and intimacy, we shared a lot about each other...

For me, it was really the moment, which fits into the scape of this thread...

Overall, a huge dream come true... Not only to sleep with a cop, but also to meet a good person.

PS: I have tried to keep the details hidden as kuch as possible. Request you also to not to ask details of the person.

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Posted On Apr 15, 2019 - 01:41 AM

I've had quite a few of such experiences both in college and at work. I tend to get very close with guys to the point that I always hang out with that guy. Mostly they were straight and they assume I'm also straight. Bike rides hugging them from behind, playfully stripping each other and bathing in falls/beach have all been awesome moments. For some reason, I like such raw fun more than sexual encounters.

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Posted On Apr 15, 2019 - 08:11 PM

Last year my friend n me had gone to Goa, we did lot of fun there ( non sexual), both were straight,we returned back to room from beach, we took bath together, one of dem have a long *** around 6.5 or 7, he has awesome, we did dance while bathing, n while dancing his *** was Swinging in all directions,dat was awesome experience...